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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My last boyfriend dropped dead suddenly one day 9 years ago, i have never got over this. I know i need to move on but dont know how to, i think that men fancy me but only to find out that they dont want to know, even if they are single, i dont class my self as attractive and are over weight but have gone from 20 stone to 13 stone, a new guy has started in the room up stairs in my office, i do fancy him, and have found out by chance is that he is single, my co worker not knowing that i fancy him is trying to get him together with another person who works with her in her office, i have thought about hinting to her that i like him, but dont want her to tell him directly or get somebody else to tell him that i like him incase he finds out that i fancy him only to find out that he has taking offence in me taking an interest in him and would feel very embarrassed about this, as soon he is moving down into my office, i dont think i could face working with him if he found out that i like him and he does not feel the same way about me, i have tried finding somebody to love but haved tried everything, my working hours are very unsociable and cant go out anywhere in case i am rejected by men that i try to talk too, i dont know how i am going to talk to him on a working level as i am very shy and just dont know what to say to people and worry if i talk to people that they dont want to listen to what i say, people tell me that i will meet that special person someday, but dont know how.Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): firstly you need to build your confidence to let someone love u! so focus on yourself and take a challengee! tell ur coworker u fancy them, whats the worse that can happen?? your only going to have the 'what if's' buggin u x all the best x
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