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writes:Okay so me and my best friend of 3 years messed around and i feel like my feelings for him have sky rocketed but he still acts the same like if nothing changed for him! He'll be like hey bestie and its just weird for me now, I don't regret messing around with him cause i love him but should i just keep my feelings in and act like nothing happened or tell him?
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reader, axs678 +, writes (6 January 2011):
Omg well this sounds like me and my emo self in real life this is ckmeing from he other sex with the same thing but dr me I deal the same fricin way so I say yes tell him
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 hi
typically girls have sex because they love and guys have sex - because they want sex! and apparently us women can't separate the two but men can but you know what? i think that is a very sweeping generalisation and i think it varies on the two individuals concerned. so, it could well be that the sex has switched you onto love mode but not affected him in the same way (if he is the 'typical' man). i would see what happens, still be as friendly as always but show him with your body language that there is now 'something else going on' if you know what i mean?! be a bit more touchy feely with him and look at him longingly sometimes, basically, don't blurt out your feelings to him, but don't try to hide them either!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Well if he is your best mate like you say he is then you should be able to tell him, i know you are probably scared of being rejected and it being awkward but honestly is always the best policy.
Just tell him you want to talk to him and explain to him how you have been feeling. Tell him you only want to be honest with him and you want to know how he feels. Goodluck.
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