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*iss Misunderstood
writes:This is kind of an odd question.. but my boyfriend of about 2 years and I as we began to become alot closer to one another, we started making out laying down on his futon/bed type thing.It all started because a months after we had begun dating, I began visiting him at his house, and when he'd get upset because of something that was bothering him he would lay face down on his futon so I couldn't see his face.. and it really bothered me, so eventually I just climbed onto the bed type thing with him and hugged him and comforted him in the best way that I could, and he looked up and me and before we knew it, we were on top of one another making out, with our bodies rubbing against each other, etc.. after that every time I would come to visit him he would smile, and lay down with his arms stretched out wanting me to come lay with him.. and goodness.. how could I resist? He's just so amazing. :)However lately he's been worrying that what we've been doing might be dangerous.. because even though we would never do anything with our clothes off (at least until we're married), sometimes there will be a wet spot on his pants where some stuff went through. It's never visible on my own pants though and has never once went through them, but we both sort of worry about it.. Is it possible for me to become pregnant doing such things? I did some research and most of what I found lead me to believe that it wasn't very likely at all, but I just thought I would ask on here to get some other peoples' opinions as well.Thankyou in advance to all that post answers to my question. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Miss Misunderstood +, writes (7 January 2011):
Miss Misunderstood is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou very much for all your responses. I'll be sure to tell him the next time I visit him. :) You guys rock, thanks once again.
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reader, ivanichiaynus  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 You are safe. Sperm cannot penetrate clothing; what you saw was seminal fluid and that is unimportant.
Provided you keep your clothes on, you can get as excited and carried away as you like, as long as he is happy to deal with the mess in his underwear!
Ivan.
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reader, SnowStorm51 +, writes (5 January 2011):
As long as you both have clothes on and you don't have a wet spot from him soaking through your clothes too, you should be perfectly fine. Even if it did soak through your clothes too, it is extremely unlikely that you might get pregnant from it. Sperm are good little swimmers, but they usually aren't THAT good. :P
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reader, chaoscutiek +, writes (5 January 2011):
You need to have intercourse to get pregnant. You have no need to worry if you both have clothes on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): it's not likely to get pregnant that way, no. If something does leak out, just make sure it doesn't actually touch your private areas without your clothes on. then there is like no chance at all.
Now in another way it might be dangerous because it will leave you two wanting more, and in such a compromising position it is very easy to get carried away and do things without your clothes on. But I am sure you know that, just reminding you. It was much harder for me to stop once we became familiar with each other but we had gotten naked without having sex before we did have sex. So you are probably doing good to stay clothed at least.
Smart people you two sound like, I wish you much happiness in your future!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Naa, Your safe...
I highly doubt he had an orgasm, which would release alot of stuff, its just pre-cum, released when a guy gets hard.
The odds getting pregnant from that are VERRRY slim, but the odds of getting pregnant from that THROUGH clothes, are zero.
Some aunts might say its "physically possible" but It's really not, your four layers of clothing in between you will stop any sort of thing from happening
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