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In a relationship of 3 years and now I like another girl. What can I do?

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Question - (5 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2011)
A male Suriname age 36-40, *audub writes:

Hi. I am in a relationship for over 3 years now. I stay at my girlfriend's house, with her mom, aunt and grandma. I could just have stayed at my own house, but I have chosen to stay with her, because she felt uncomfortable at my house.

For the past year it looked like our relationship went down hill. We have a lot of discussions and fights (mostly about her being jealous and stuff)and she always wants me to think that she's right and I'm wrong. Since I've been with my girlfriend I worked at her dads company. I got a promotion January 1, 2011 as Operations Manager of one of his companies.

Now there is another girls who I met 3-4 months ago who really likes me a lot. I like her to. 3-4 days ago I met her at the bar. We talked and danced a bit and after a while she kissed me (french kiss). Today I wanted to go over at her house (she lives with her mom) to talk about this. But I chickened out. I was afraid of breaking her heart and her not talking to me anymore. So we just talked about stuff and than she kissed me again.

I don't know what to do. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Or should I tell the other girl that I have a girlfriend? Because I don't think she's aware of me having a girlfriend. Or is there another option?

I'm really stuck here :(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):

I think you should be honest with your girlfriend.

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