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26-29,
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writes:Right there is this guy at school that is the year above me and I have never spoken to him before but I always see him on the bus . I think he is really good looking and seems to have a good personality from what I've seen. My mate text this lad Josh that I like and said to him my mate from on the bus fancies you her names lizzie and then he text her back saying yeah she's hot :) x . And hen she shown me the text she sent just too make sure . I mean I would really like to go out with this guy but I've never spoken to him and wouldn't know how to because he's always around his mates and I can't really ask him to come over to me on his own cuz that would be weird as he doesn't know me . What should I do ? Should I try get my mate to introduce us or see if he says anything to me in the time to come ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): dear gal first you should start off by saying hi to the guy then try to make the hi into how ya doin and then and longer converstations dont let you mate introduce you all do it yourself.then if you and this guy become closer if you're allowed to go on dates yhe movie roller skating ice skating bowling.but rule number one is never ask a guy out or tell him you like him he will use this to his advantage and take you for advantage but if hes shy thats the only time you ask him out.
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reader, Sandro  +, writes (5 January 2011):
I feel you on this one. I know that as a dude it's always awkward going up to girls when they're with friends. I would suggest one of two things. The first is just go up to him and his friends and hang with them and socialize with them until an opportunity comes for you to talk to him individually. The second thing you could do is just ask your friend to text him and tell him to meet you somewhere one on one. The rest is up to you. Good luck, hope this was helpful:)
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