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writes:There is this guy at school that I've liked for awhile now, everytime we cross paths (no classes together right now) we smiles and says "Hi (my name!)" What should I think about this? What should I do now? I'm a senior, and I really don't want to loose him, I don't know him really really well, but I want to! I'm pretty shy at first, I just need that break through moment, but need some advice! Not just "talk to him" cause I know that much... It's hard too though because he's usually always with all of his friends! How can I tell if he's at all interested in me?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Well if you both dont know each other well then its hard to tell if he is interested or not in you. Its a good start that he says hello to you when he sees you but am afraid the only thing you can do is talk to him. Its the only way you will ever know. Why dont you try and get a group of your friends together for a night out to the cinema it will give you a great excuse to talk to him. Next time you see him tell him you and your friends are going to the cinema and ask him if him and his friends would like to join you'se. At least that way it will take the pressure of you a bit and hopefully you will get chatting to him.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 You hardly know him and he says Hi.. (your name) every time you pass. Sounds like he is wanting to be friendly with you. I'll bet he is just as shy. Isn't there a friend who could break the ice for you and ask him if he's got a girlfriend or if he's interested in anyone. other wise you could drop him a note, or find out if he's on fb, that's a good way to move forward if he adds you to his friends etc.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (5 January 2011):
 hi
:) at the risk of being boring and telling you what you already know.. am gonna say "talk to him!" he must be interested if he is 1 smiling 2 saying hi 3 using your name! seriously i think using your name makes a difference. is this all he's saying though? does he ever say hi how are you? or make any conversation at all? and what do you say to him when he says hi? do you just say it back or do you say anything more? can you not feel confident,knowing as you surely must do that HE LIKES YOU or can you not just ignore the fact that think he's hot and just talk to him like you would talk to any other person?
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