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writes:I don't suppose this is relationship per se but it's just something I've been pondering and can't answer it myself!Well I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we've been making out and stuff but things are starting to get a bit more heated... I've never had much experience with boys before so I've never actually gotten to the nudity stage... what I'm wondering is (forgive me if it's a stupid question), if it gets to that stage, what should I do about the old down there hair?! I know everyone probably like different "amounts" or whatever but I'm just wondering what people think is the norm? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): iv only had one sexual partner my bf of two years and he has only ever had me, which i supose makes it a little easier, but before we first got that far i was so worried to what he expected it to look like, somany people like different things so dnt no if he liked bushy, little bit or bare tho im wary of guys who like it totally clean sort of child like but turns out he didnt really take itinto consideration i do trim so its neat but he was too exited to care about hair
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): i wouldnt shave. i have known some men to feel weird if youre fully shaven as it makes you look young. I would go for the trim until you know his preferences. but seriously dont worry about it. before my first time i thought it was a much bigger deal that it actually is too.
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reader, Jessypj +, writes (5 January 2011):
Don't shave it, it's awful. Trimming is a nice compromise between bushy and shaven I think
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 It's become very popular to shave completely, but that itches a lot and you'll battle ingrown hairs. (Get used to shaving every day as part of showering if you choose this.) Otherwise, just keep it tidy and trimmed back to limit the bush. (And remember that your guy should be expected to "manscape" too. Huge bushes are a bad thing for either gender.) This makes oral easier and shows off more of that lovely sight. Individual preferences vary though,so find what makes you feel sexy and comfortable and stick with that. Better to be fuzzy and confident than bald and feeling silly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): I feel your question is going to get the most responses by men who feel strongly against it.
The motto I follow is just keep it landscaped.
I'm a woman but there are plenty of men who don't really care so long as it's not coming down your legs.
I've also encountered men who don't like the shaving and prefer a neat bush to a 3 o'clock shadow and ingrown hairs. ESPECIALLY the ingrown hairs.
If you do decide to remove it, get laser or electrolysis, DON'T SHAVE.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 There is no norm. As for completely shaving it, the dutch playboy editor has said in an interview that they prefer a bit of fur. It helps the shots, pure naked privates ain't all that hot else Playboy would be the medical journal.
There will some boys so raised on porn that they cannot deal with any hair anywhere on a woman. But what this is ultimately about is what you want. What style suits you. Because it says something about you. And remember this, non-plucked eye brows are the norm now. Used to be thin lines, now bushy is the style. Pick your own style, the one you want to live with and if he doesn't, then he doesn't suit your style.
Would you shave your head for a guy? Then why should the pussy be any different?
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reader, faenon  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 The norm is what ever you yourself are comfortable with to be honest for if he is that deeply into you the nether regions hairstyle isn't going to be a issue with him. Some girls prefer keeping a airstrip ala mostly shaven along the inner thigh and trimmed along the top others fully shaven/waxed and others still full hair, but again it's what you're comfortable with.
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reader, Itsjustflirting +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Shave it. All of it. He will thank you. Any more than a tiny strip of hair down there is NOT sexy, a huge turn off, and has been gone since the 80's. If I was with a girl and she had a "bush", I wouldn't even begin to perform oral. Maybe even less than that.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (5 January 2011):
In my area at least, with girls in their early 20's the norm is either completely shaven, or mostly shaven with some remaining hair up above which is typically trimmed. Leaving it in a natural, completely untrimmed state would definitely be against the norm.
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