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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I am in love since eight years with my former teacher. She is married, I left my boyfriend, I can't help loving her. I am not able to fall in love with any other person. She is now my mentor and instead of working I spend my time daydreaming about her. I would tell her, but I think to the consequences and I stop. And I am still waiting for her understanding what's going on. Help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Thanks, but it is not easy. I think she waits me to act first, since I am younger. She asked me several times if I preferred women to men, she tried to know a lot about my private life. I always denied everything, and she got closer and closer, and this has been a torture to me. I neglected my bf, my studies, everything. Now I feel exhausted but I feel as I can't leave without this person, is part of my life.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): As human being she could have been in the same trouble as you, and decided before you did to quit. And you should be happy: she wants you to have your life and wanted to stay on touch with you, without any sexual or romantic intercourse, providing working life opportunities to you.
So, you're lucky, go back to your boyfriend and stop complaining. It's so easy.
Best of luck
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reader, StillLoving +, writes (5 January 2011):
Sorry, I think you really don't want to understand.
She perfectly knows how you feel about her, and she definitely doesn't want any romantic implication on your relationship. You should be professional, and try to accept her denial. That's it.
It is so simple that you don't want to see it.
Wake up!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Thanks. Jonas, I know. It's what I keep saying to myself since I met her. The problem is that I desire her. And I am not able to hint or sound. Better, when I tried, the result was she said me that we shouldn't work together anymore. You're right. That's me, I still love her.
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