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writes:Should my friend Jill be ignoring me because I called her out for slapping me in the face? It was new years eve, a friends house, according to her It was my "stupid little comments about everything" that gave her the idea to slap me in front of a guy I want to like me. I flipped out on her because this wasn't the first time she has slapped me in the face during our friendship. The first few times she hit me I made sure she knew it wasn't okay w/ me(that was like 3 yrs ago) She has slapped me in school completely at random to my embarrassment. So I flipped out on her, told her that we've talked about slapping me before and she knew it. But didnt even say anything. So we finished the game to watch the ball drop and she wasnt even phased by what she had done..she didnt care. She was laughing and having a good time watching the ball drop with all the other kids while I sat in the back of the room confused..Is the friendship over? I need advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, African Violet.  +, writes (6 January 2011):
U seem like a nice person n u dont deserve 2 have such a wicked friend.To me,she's ur 'frenemy',a person who hates u but pretends 2 like u.My honest advice:STAY AWAY FROM HER!Make new friends n forget abt her b'cos she obviously doesnt give a damn abt u or ur feelings.Who knows-next time she might decide 2 push u off a building-then u'll regonise what a 'very great' friend she is.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 If it's not over, it should be , and you should make sure it's over . For good.
What kind of a "friend " is one who hits you ?! - repeatedly ,so we can't even say it was a totally exceptional ,random thing .And, apparently, she does not even understand or care that what she did was absolutely wrong.
Give her a wide birth. With a friend like that, you don't need enemies !
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 you should leave her and not be friends. she doesnt respect you at all. you told her you did not like the slapping and she obviously does it because she can and get away with it. stand up for yourself and do not tolerate this behaviour. i wouldnt be in her company if she can not control herself and stick to your rules! good luck aphex xx
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