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I cant tell if she wants me to ask her out again or if she just wants to be friends!

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Question - (10 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I need some opinions or advice: asked her out several times. First time she had a boyfriend, 2nd time after they broke up, third time she said she wasn't ready for a new relationship. We are long distance now, but when I catch her online she always responds to my questions so I can't tell if she's waiting for me to ask her out again or just being nice knowing I have no intention of wanting to be just friends.

When we chat it usually lasts an hour and I've learned many things you ask on the first few dates already, but we are currently long distance so I can't see body language.

Honestly I just wish she would ignore me or tell me to piss off because the more I find out, the more attracted I am.

Thoughts?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011):

That's what I thought, too bad. I did get her out with a group recently though. Anyway I guess I will wait for the post valentines day blues and try one last time just in case. Back to the hunt!

Thanks for the replies

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

Keep it casual and light. Go on with your life. Don't ask her out. Let that be her decision and if she does accept or reject based on where you're at with interest in her or other girls at the time. Just don't set out fancying her only again. It 's her turn to show interest.

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