A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my baby been together for a minute now I so n love wit him he thinks I'm having an affair wit someone else but he don't trust or believe anything I say I'm been honest to him I never would cheat on him cause I wouldn't want him to cheat on me my understanding if someone in love wit u they will try to work things out. If he don't believe me or what I say of course he gone think what he want to think I jus need and answer for I can work things out and people be honest to me
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (10 January 2011):
hi
when he accuses you can he at least follow it up with a REASON for why he thinks it? maybe it is something you are doing that makes him think it or maybe he is just insecure? can you be a bit more specific? coz could be loads of reasons behind his behaviour so until you get to the root of that, its no good just telling him over and over that you won't cheat, coz he's not listening is he?
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (10 January 2011):
There is a possibilty of two reasons why he is being like this. Either he has cheated on you and now he is taking it out on you and thinking that you are going to do the same to him or else he is a very in secure person and no matter what you say to him he aint going to believe you, there is nothing you can do he needs to sort it out himself. Tell him if he keeps accusing you of things then he either needs to get help or else you are going to leave him as you cant live like this. Advice him to go and see a councellor. goodluck.
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