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writes:I have been considered anal sex with my husband. I always said I would NEVER EVER do it!However, I have recently gone through a situation that I actually recently posted about, where I became very close with my brother in law (bil) and he introduced me to the idea of how amazing anal sex is. He enjoys it and we have NOT done it together, nothing like that. But we are extremely close and I have heard from my sister in law as well that it is a different kind of stimulation and sensation. My husband is not forcing anal on me nor does he care if it doesn't happen; he said he would definitely do it if I wanted to. But I am unsure of it still but still interested!!Any tips? Suggestions? Warnings? Thank You!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYa I don't believe I am at the point of being relaxed enough to do it. May be that day will come but it hasn't arrived.
I do appreciate ALL the helpful information though!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): Me and my girlfriend have anal sex all the time, it's just soo important u take it very very slow and use lube the first time, it's tighter than the pussy so gives an amazing feeling, just go for it
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Take it slow, get lubricated a lot, and just do it as a spur of the moment when/if you feel ready and RELAXED. You need to be completely relaxed for his penis to be able to enter.
I also think it could be a good idea if you at first just have a few rounds of anal stimulation, such as him rubbing up against you there without trying to enter. Or touch you close to the anal hole with his fingers during sex, to see if you actually like being stimulated there.
Use a condom if you want to have anal sex. It's just more hygienic if you understand. However it's not something you have to use, it's just if you want a "cleaner" feeling. Also, after rubbing up against your anal your man should NOT get in contact with your vagina unless he's cleaned up.
Taken from kidshealth.org: "Some of the bacteria that cause UTIs normally live in your intestines. Each time you have a bowel movement (poop), some of these bacteria come out of your body. If they aren't wiped away properly, they stay on your skin. In girls, this means they can grow near the opening of the urethra because their urethras are closer to where they wipe. From there, bacteria can get inside the urethra, causing irritation to the urethra. This is called urethritis " http://kidshealth.org/kid/ill_injure/sick/uti.html
Pee after having had sex, no matter what kind. That also helps prevent UTI's.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Ok well if it is something you would like to try then go for it, just remember that it can be stopped at anytime if you dont like it and dont be afraid to tell your husband that you want to stop.
Just ask your husband to go slow and enter in to you a little bit at a time until you get the feel of it. All women are different some like it and some dont. Just get him to go gentle and maybe use a little lube to make the area wet.
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