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writes:I want the honest truth (even if it hurts)My friend had a friend who she wanted to hook up with someone, she had showed him a picture of me and he was interested. He added me on facebook and we began talking, and then texting. We had to wait about 3 weeks before we could meet because he went away for christmas to see family and I went away for new year. We both seemed eager to meet and talked about it constantly.We met up saturday night and went out for dinner and then drinks. To me the night went well, we ended with a kiss and he said he'd text me tommorow. I've heard nothing. He's been online, hes updated his fb status etc so I know he's fine, but he's made no contact. I take it he didn't like me?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 January 2011):
 You've got a 3-5 day window for him to contact you starting the day after the first date. If he calls, texts, Facebooks, emails, whatever..that he had a great time last night and would like to do it again this Saturday blah, blah. Then yes, of course he's interested. However, if you receive no form of contact in that timeline then he's not interested.
Now, you could always do the nonchalant "Hey" text, so he's reminded that the next move is his. But if he's into you, do you think it's going to slip his mind to call you? No.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Ok it doesnt mean for sure that he doesnt like you it could be just the fact that sometimes guys get carried away with other things and forget that they have made a promise to text someone. Why dont you give him a text and ask him how he is and see what he says. If he replies and everything seems fine dont mention the fact that he didnt text when he said he would just forget about it and you will soon see in time if he is interested or not.
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