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writes:I haven't had sex yet and i'm a guy, what does sex feel like for the first time? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): I agree with angelDlite. You have to make sure you're wet enough. Else it'll hurt when your lover starts pounding you.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (10 January 2011):
 :) sorry, didn't read it properly! didn't realise your a guy! take no notice of my previous post!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (10 January 2011):
 If you intend to have a long term loving relationship then you will get through this okay. Can take a while to adapt to someone else and what they want. If you are embarking on one night stands, or just something casual then you may be expected to be a sex God, now there's some pressure. It's always best to get to know a girl first and don't jump in at the deep end.
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reader, Mindylou10  +, writes (10 January 2011):
You probably won't last that long before ejaculating but with time you will be able to last longer. It will be very pleasurable for you. It will feel warm and tight. If your going to have sex with a girl thats also a virgin be careful sex will be painful for her the first time. The first time you have sex it's weird to be humping someone because your not used to being in that situation but it's natural everyone does it. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): My boyfriend and I have just started, and he said that it didn't hurt, but with the condom on it felt really different. He said it was still very enjoyable.
If and when you do it, if you do start to feel uncomfortable you can use lubricants to help, or buy lubricated condoms (just be careful because some lubes can affect the condoms).
Overall, it's just down to personal preference. Some people enjoy it more than others, and some people don't like it at all. You'll just have to wait and see.
Just make sure you're ready and don't get pushed into anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): um, hes a guy so i dont think he will become wet.
for you as a man, it should be pleasurable and nothing to worry about.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 It's way too incredible to describe IF you're with the right person. If you're with the wrong person or doing it for the wrong reasons it can be a guilt-riden bad experience. Hold off until you meet the right girl. Even then you might want to wait a year or so to be sure.But I suspect your question is more carnal in nature, ergo, it's warm and very etheral.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (10 January 2011):
hi
its uncomfortable, so just make sure its with someone who cares enough about you to be gentle and take it slow, just while you get used to it. also make sure you feel wet enough before he enters, that will make it easier
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