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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My best male friend’s wife has been cheating on him for years. I have not said anything because I don't want to get in the middle of it with them. I have remained friends with his wife up until she accused me of messing around with her husband just recently. I am truly hurt by her accusations. Just because she is able to cheat on her husband and feel totally comfortable with it doesn't mean I would. She has smeared my name all over town because of her own indiscretion. I would never or have never messed around with her husband. We have been friends since we were like 12 years old and we are in our late 30's now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): Luckhot-My male friend doesn't want to know. I think he knows in his heart but he doesn't want to hear it.
the phoenic- I am not married.
Penyial- He has tried to clear my name which makes it worse.
aunt honesty- I am doing my best to stay clear of the whole situation because the last thing I want is to be in the middle of thier relationship.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 I understand that you dont want to be the one to tell him the truth about his wife but now you are caught in the middle anyway because she has involved you. I dont think you should tell her husband as she may twist your words and make it look like you are lying because you want him so just be careful.
I think the best thing to do is to stay clear from this woman and try not to let it get to you what other people think. Most people may probably already know what she is like and wont believe her anyway. Just point out to her husband that she is spreading these rumours and that it is not fair on you.
Goodluck.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Talk to her husband and ask him to clear your name. If she doesnt leave you alone, threaten to tell her husband of her past affairs, that should quieten her down.
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reader, Luckshot  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 It might pay to sit your male friend down and have a serious talk with him about whats been going on. Point him in the right diresction so he can see for himself what's been happening.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (10 January 2011):
if you have evidince about her cheating let her know that you well blow the situation against her if she didnt stop harrasing you
and if she didnt stop or threatned you in any way
do what you watned her about with outany hezitation
be aware that she might be after your husband and she is using this trick to blame you for what she is doing
to keep you buisy from concentrating
finally this sort of sick people dont deserve empathy
because she well use your kindness and good well against you and you well regret being kind to her
Good Luck
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