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writes:Hi, my boyfriend is attending college hours from where I live and plays baseball. My spring break happens to fall on the week of his birthday so I am going to go up. I told him I couldnt come for his birthday but I will be there the next week. But instead I am surprising him. I am going to make "secret admirer" notes and leave him to trick him. I need more ideas. Please help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe does have a sense of humor and yes I am going to tell him it was me. My friend also thought it was a good idea seeing as he has no clue I am coming early.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 Find out where he is going out for his birthday and make sure you're there wearing a cracking outfit and a wig, making you unrecognisable, he'll love that!!!
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reader, cat lady +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Well, you need to come back and tell us what kind of trick you want to play. Do you want to send those notes as a true admirer, showing honest affection and then confess it was you? Or, do you just feel like having some fun with him to play a prank?
Nothing wrong with pranks, and it is as well to find out now if Boyfriend has a sense of humor. Believe me, there are few things worse than being in a relationship with someone who takes himself and everything else too seriously. Life is too hard for people like that and they stay depressed about it - and they drag you down with them.
If you decide on having some fun, tell us something about your boyfriend's nationality background, if you know it. I know we Americans are all sorts of things and we still show in our looks those bloodlines. That will help me compose for you a real kicker. I've done a lot of these and let some of my friends wait months to find out I was behind it.
If you just want a real love-note, I suggest a perusal of love poems to give you ideas. Guessing from your direct, open kind of expression, perhaps the Russian, Yevgeny Yevtushenko. He wrote a poem called Colors that I read as a young girl and never forgot. He's not hard to find; I am almost certain your local library will have some of him. Then read Fireflies by Rabindranath Tagore. I never forgot those either. They are short, like haiku.
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