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writes:HELP...how can i train my mind not to have feelings for a girl just for her looks? Reply to this Question
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reader, BillyM +, writes (11 January 2011):
 Sit down and talk with them and get to know them for WHO they are. Because there are some very beautiful women out there who the world calls ugly because they are not what the world calls beautiful. Because they are judged by what they look like on the outside.
I've also met some women who by their outer appearance look beautiful, they were very mean, rude, and cruel. I asked a girl out back in H.S. who I thought was very beautiful, she told me straight to my face, that she would never go out with a fat slob like me. Now I may be fat, but I am not a slob. I take care of myself. But I found that by her attitude, she was very ugly.
Get to know someone by their personality and attitude.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 Just wait. When a good-looking woman treats you like dirt, then you'll learn to see more than a woman's looks :-).
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 It will take some work but every time that you see a girl who you like think try to think of all the reasons you like her and find her attractive. If you know her and it's only looks then you can tell yourself over and over again till it clicks. If it is someone you don't know than it is fine to go based on looks then if you want to then get to know her.
Tell your self often with girls that if all you are interested in is her looks and nothing else that the relationship would not be good and eventually your mind will do it on its own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): uve answered it yourself, try and program ur mind against looking at girls just for her look.. u seemd to see it an issue then try and tackle it..self control..
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