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How do we get through the awkward silences?

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Question - (10 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend can talk for hours but then sometimes can't talk at all. Can u please give me advice on how to stay away from acward scilences. Please don't give me corny answers like the news and the weather and all that green shit. We in the 9th grade. Pleeeassse help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

You don't always have to be talking. Sometimes talking too much can really be annoying. If you guys are comfortable with each other than a little silence won't hurt, just give him a big smile to assure him is alright. Or u guys can talk about any hobby, sports, school activities, gossips, places u want to go or been to, movies. Just don't talk about too girlie stuff, you'll scare him. Good luck!

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A female reader, Princess Aunty Mauritius +, writes (10 January 2011):

well i think Your case is a bit similar to mine. After talking about most of the things you just duno what you should pick up now.

then we would be in a romantic mood..Like we would say that hey am kissing you like zis like zat and end up in sex..but when you talk to her about it. talk passionately not like it sounds like lust..

You can also try being together in the bathroom

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

When I was your age we would play 20 questions(go back and forth asking questions), watch a movie together( as in a movie we both owned and start it at the same time) and three way called until we had 4-6 people on the phone which can be fun and sometimes annoying. Hope this helps!

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