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writes:Ok so my question is a bit apart. But please go through it.To start with, I've got a cousin of mine whom have been giving signs that he is interested into me lately but am not really sure if this is the case. I have also seek help from this site to know whether he really likes me, but its like i got 50% yes and 50% no. so that's has left me still confuse.Ok so first let me jot down the points that might say he is interested with me and please tell me guys what your opinion about these.1. When i was grandma's place he spent at least 1 hour talking to me all alone. He is the type of guy that get bored quickly unless he is with his like peer groups.2. On my birthday he was the first one to wish me.3. All my cousin contributed together and gifted me a gift for that day including him as well. In addition to that, he gave me a special gift whom no one knows about it.4. He chatted regularly with me whenever am online.5. He would give me emo which suggest kiss and wink.6. He very often call me sweatheart, honey and so on.guys can you tell me what he really meant by these points.Now it so happened that i log in on facebook via his mobile phone just recently. And after a few days i've noticed that some of the guy of my facebook account has been blocked (which i have not blocked for sure). And its of those guys who message me earlier saying they are interested in me.So could it be that my password has been saved on his mobile and he is using my account by preventing these guys to get into contact with me?
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reader, faenon  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 It definitely sounds like he has hijacked your FB account after using his phone this isn't normal behaviour sounds like your cousin has a few screws loose who is he to delete your mails from friends? I'd suggest steering clear of being alone with this cousin too often and changing your FB password to avoid the problem happening again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): yes by god 100 percent guaranteed interested
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Sounds to me like he could be interested in you, or he could just be getting to know you as a cousin. its hard to tell just from these signs, as they could easily be taken as signs that he is just a nice guy who is being polite to you as you are family. if this is really bothering you, do you have a close friend or even family member with whom you could confide in? that way you can make sure they are there when your cousin is there and they can see what they think. If not, bite the bullet and ask your cousin directly. Approach him and see what he has to say. Explain that you are getting mixed signals. Tell him how it makes you feel. uneasy? confused? upset? angry? remember at the end of the day this is your cousin, its family. approach the situation light heartedly. the worst thing you want to do is offend him. good luck!
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