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writes:I met a girl roughly a year+ ago, shes best friends with my best friends girlfriend. We were always around each other at outings. I instantly fell for her, I followed by always trying to ask her out, to try to get to know her more but she would always say no. Finally just a couple months ago she gave me the time or day, we dated for 2 solid months and she told me she always had a thing for me but told me but she didn't take me serious from what she heard about me (i'm girl crazy). She eventually out of the blue told me that she "was not feelings it" and ended me cold turkey shortly be4 thanksgiving. Her reason was that I treated her like a friend,and it did not feel romantic. We were around each other 2 times after that and we kissed both times. I just came back from a ski trip that she attended and we kissed again......but she told me we should stop, because she did not want to lead me or her on. I still feel something between us. Should I fight for her?What do i do????
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (10 January 2011):
 It doesn't sound like you ever let her know how you really felt after the break up. I can't say what is going through her head and why she is so back and forth. But what I would do is say that you would like to try again and you like her etc. If she says no then let it go and move on.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 It sounds to me like this woman thinks you are a womaniser and she is scared of getting to close to you in case she gets her. Obviously someone has told her you are not the commitment type and to be careful of you.
Be honest with her tell her how you feel and then leave it up to her. Goodluck.
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