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writes:hello,i just wanna know what does it mean when the girls dont moan while making love ? i know this girl and we are f*** buddies. but when we have sex she doesnt moan or like scream or something, i mean if she was really enjoyin it or feeling it then basically she wouldnt come back to me for sex but its just a bit frustratin that she doesnt moan,im not a BIG guy if you know what i mean , im pretty average , its really annoying that she doesnt act like she loves it or something ? what do u guys think about it ? do girls sometimes act like that \? does she enjoy ir for real ?!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 She probably is enjoying it :) I think it depends on the person and your relationship and the feelings between you two whether she (and you) moan or not.
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reader, Mindylou10  +, writes (10 January 2011):
Some girls are really embarrassed to make noises. Especially if sex is new to her or just intimated by intimate situations. Most girls fake noises to make things more comfortable for this very reason. I would bet she is just embarrassed to let loose around you. Any foreplay at all? Girls have to be warmed up before they can orgasm, most say 20 minutes of foreplay before sex will achieve an orgasm. Try doggie style that always makes me loud. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): nah, everyone is different. It can be a case of what she is just like, if she is shy, and whether she is in a "loud mood"
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 hi
everybody is different regarding moaning, i love a noisy man :) but have been with some that don't make a sound when they come! as you are only f-buddies, maybe she's not likely to feel as intimate and close to you as she would to a committed boyfriend and that makes a big difference to a woman's enjoyment. there are loads of posts on here from women with FBs or FWBs and quite a common theme seems to be that the women allow the fuckbuddy-ship to carry on in the hope that the man will one day realise that he wants to commit and love her, just a thought, might be totally wrong; but does she show any signs of wanting more emotionally than what you are giving or does she seem perfectly happy with your arrangement? there is nothing less sexy than having sex with a man that you know/think is using you
xx
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reader, foxy7727 +, writes (10 January 2011):
 I know u wanted a male opinion but I thought id tell you my thoughts. Personaly I'm not very loud in bed. If the man is vocal somtimes I join in but I still enjoy the sex w my fwb even though I don't moan a lot or screem. Some people do and some don't it just depends on who your partner is. But no just cause she doesn't screem doent mean she's not enjoying it.
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reader, Dash8  +, writes (10 January 2011):
Hello! So moaning doesn't have to be the only indication of enjoying sex. I know sometimes when I go quiet during sex, I am enjoying it.
Are there other things she does? Do her toes curl up? Is she holding onto the pillow tightly? Holding onto you? Biting her lip?
Some women aren't as expressive verbally but may have physical expressions that show her enjoyment.
You can always ask her about it....may be it's not a position that is most stimulating for her. May be trying different positions or speeds - i.e. start off inserting slowly, then rapidly with deep thrusts (doesn't matter your size, you can always do a few deep thrusts), throw her legs up in the air, or flip her over for doggy style...most women moan at that position!!!
You need to just ask her what she likes if you're doubting what you're doing is pleasuring her!!!
Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): IMO, she's probably not as into is as you are - she might be thinking about other things or your are just not hitting the right spots, try talking to her, find out what she likes and what she doesn't like.
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reader, faenon  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 You've watched far too much porn by sounds of things where false vocals are always a must not every woman is vocal in their pleasure of making of love it can be damn annoying too specially if your trying to be quiet and not wake the kids up lmao if your worried ask her if she enjoys it with you she's either going to lie or be honest about it lol but just dont go jumpin in the deep end with a expectation that all women are vocally loud with it.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (10 January 2011):
Well it could be a case that she's not enjoying it or it could be the exact opposite.
The problem is that everyone is different. Some people are really quiet and some are really noisy and of course there are those in between.
I don't think you should judge their satisfaction level by the amount of noise she makes.
Just focus on making her orgasm.
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