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I like my girlfriend's "natural scent". Is that weird?

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Question - (10 January 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've noticed that I really like how my girlfriend smells. And I'm not talking perfume or deodorant, I mean her natural body scent. Like for instance when she's all sweaty after one of her soccer games I think she just smells amazingly sexy and feminine. I also love how she smells 'down there' when I'm giving her oral, and I often fantasize about eating her out right after a soccer game, but haven't done so yet as she'll always shower before we get busy lol and I haven't told her about this.

I'm interested in answers from girls in particular, how would you feel if your guy told you he likes your sweaty smell lol, to freaky or weirdly hot? I don't know.

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A male reader, LovelessAct1 United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

Don't worry about it; its simple biology and psychology. People are supposed to be sweaty during sex, so our sweat naturally releases pheromones that attract the opposite sex. Its when that sweat dries or is there too long that it actually becomes an odor.

I'm not one for unnatural smells either. Sometimes light perfumes are fine by me on a woman, but I think an overtone of it can become distracting and mess with the receptors in your senses. Don't worry, its meant to attract the male sex, and some just happen to be more attracted to it than others just like some men are more attracted to breasts than others.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

Illithid agony auntTotally normal. The pheromones are powerful things and you and she "have chemistry" in a very real sense. I hope she understands it's a compliment and not gross.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

I guess it's not unusual.

A boyfriend once specifically asked me "don't shower the day before" when we were planning what day to meet up. He said the smell of sweat turned him on and he would want to have sex specifically at times when I sometimes felt gross. I always thought it was a little strange at the time, but I got into it eventually.

Maybe you are just turned on by smell.

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A female reader, Molly9945 United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

I like how my boyfriend smells after he has been working more than when he's just out of the shower, so I don't thinks it's all too crazy. Maybe a bit odd, but nothing that's freaky I think :)

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A female reader, AtroubledOne United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2011):

I think it's not wierd!

Scientificly we search for our exact genetic opposite and we find that person through our nose, therefore you liking your girlfrind's natural scent is a very good thing!

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A female reader, No watered down advice here! United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

No watered down advice here! agony auntI don’t think its “WEIRD” most women don’t have that strong musty body odor, after playing sports like men and some men prefer to have that natural body scent. Those scents we give off during sex (Oral, in this case) are called: Pheromones which are chemical signals or hormones released by humans and animals that affect our behavior. So…I can see that driving you #MAD! PHEROMONES, suppose to do just that! LOL! However, women tend love men that smell GOOD! I’ve know plenty of men with this fetish.

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A female reader, bella.mia Canada +, writes (10 January 2011):

I would think thats extremly as I like to get dirty during sex.. Sex doesn't have to be all clean and proper.. Its beautiful to smell someone real smells because it strips away the outer shell of them with all the makeup and hair done well and whatnot..

I think you should tell your girlfriend. I think she will be happy to know that you aren;t superficial like some guys who want their girl perfect when they get down and busy.

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