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writes:I met several or more months back, a charming fun freak in the sheets just hang out guy. He is married has been for 14 years and has a son. He has been denied sex from his partner for sometime now and one thing was how great we got along when we hung out and how incredible the sex is, best ever expireienced with me and him he says? I and him have spent acceptional time together and body language speaks. we feel I feel, he strikes me as he doesnt or cannt read him investenment #1 reason to stay but me Im confunsed met one perfect for me that I cant touch but cant get him to open up. I cant break away from him and we seem to get closer everytime or is it just a party does he really love his wife, does he care for me love maybe is that possible what to do I dont know need some advice and real truth. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to all who replyed, I m hoping to get out of this without to many scars!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): key word: married!!!!!
i dont know what else you need?! he is married you are a side chick! respect yourself woman! dont be his side chick.
go get a man that is single to make your own ... dont get one that is already taken! i dont understand why women put themselves in dumb situations like that
RESPECT YOURSELF!!!
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reader, xanthic +, writes (10 January 2011):
 If he was truly so unhappy in his marriage, he wouldn't be married any more. Instead, he fed you a sob story and is using that to have his cake and eat it too. He's using you, period. If he truly loved you he not only wouldn't cheat with you while still married, but would have left his wife by now to be with you and only you. Instead, he prefers to keep you around as a mistress because that's what's convenient for him. You're not demanding more from him, what incentive does he have to change this arrangement?
On the other hand, you're just as guilty. You knew he was married and indulged yourself anyway, thinking you could change his mind by giving him all of yourself for only half of him, or maybe even less. Is this how little you think of yourself, only deserving half of his attention and to be hidden in the background as his dirty little secret? You allowed yourself to fall for him, rather than do the right thing and step away. You're both responsible for this mess.
End it, move on, and find someone single and unattached. Don't let yourself be reduced to a convenience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): Why don't you ask him this directly?
However, be prepared to hear that no - he will not leave his wife.
Strong body language, great sex and chemistry you can find more often than not (especially for men who can have amazing sex with anything that moves). Getting along well isn't a big deal either - he might have a laid back personality and gets along well with everyone.
Now, someone to love, to want to have children with and to keep as a companion for life is something else. Much more difficult to find.
Ask him which category you fit in.
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