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writes:I want to do something nice for my Sug but i dont have any funds. I know she knows i love her but i want to do something sweet for her to show i think about her non-stop..what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sophyah +, writes (13 January 2011):
Sophyah is verified as being by the original poster of the question accually ms annonymous so true because i know you dont need money..but i have such a lack of confidence because i am a student not employed and she a lisenced massage theorpist ad is like ugh..i feel worthless..but all your ideas are so cute and i cant wait to try each and evryones idea out...hey cat lady we should be pals your funny im going to add you as a matter of factly...
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reader, cat lady +, writes (11 January 2011):
 Nice to see you're still talking to us, Sophya!
Thanks for the compliment. A forthright person like yourself deserves nothing less than straight talking. "In spite of what??" I am certainly of 'mature age' or as they used to say, 'of a certain age...' but you never asked me about my own youth, did you? he he he
Love is love, girl. Sure, you'll encounter some narrow-mindedness; you probably already have, but IMO people who'd concern themselves about what you're doing in private don't have much of a life themselves, do they?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): omg you dont need money to show love or thought their are a hundred things you can do........ get sticky notes and write everything you love about her and cover her car with them ! make her a hamburger and put a catsup heart on it or heart shaped pancakes in bed ( use a cookie cutter ) paint her a pictuer , make her a list of the things you would do if you were rich (it is the thought that counts ) take a walk and hold hands , make her lunch for work just cuz , kiss her for no reason .........if you love her so much and she loves you back money will be something of no comparisin to your love actions speak soooo much louder than words bought stuff means nothing its always the thought behind it so ship the cash and just use the thought you will be better than if you had the cash ......if she realy loves you for who you are the $ will never mean any thing to her good luck guy...from a girl who loves her guy for what he is and not what he has ...the way it should be !!!!!!!
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reader, Sophyah +, writes (11 January 2011):
Sophyah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMisfit thats sooo sweet and cute sounds like im making a love jar lol
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reader, Sophyah +, writes (10 January 2011):
Sophyah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyon all your ideas are well accounted for and appreciated..btw Cat Lady i love your blunt upfrontness dispite your knowledge of me ;).
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reader, missyfit +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Hey there,
I just gave my boyfriend a 6 month anniversary gift and it's cheap but i mudt warn you. it is very tedious and time consuming to do. Since you always think about her nonstop, you must have reasons why you love her. here's what i did. i bought a jar only $1.99 at michael's (this is called a love jar) and i filled it 183 reasons why i love my bf (183 days of being together, i know cheesey but it's cute :) ) you can do 100 or what ever you like. you put each reason on one piece of letter and put it in a jar. You can decorate the jar and give it to your love. That's just an idea. :)
Good luck!
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reader, Sophyah +, writes (10 January 2011):
Sophyah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDearest Dorothy,
Thats all brillant ideas accually...i can not believe i didnt thing of it! I love the walk idea..you know..acually as i was reading it i was talking to her..and she thought the walk was very cute and she agreed 100% and i want to thank the awesome dorothy for the creative idea :) much respect
Sophyah :)
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reader, cat lady +, writes (10 January 2011):
Since you love her, you must know by now some things she likes and you should provide us a list. It's winter, so flowers from friendly neighbors are unavailable........can you cook, girl? You should. How do you two expect to feed yourselves? Youtube is a lot of help there, if you haven't found that out by now. Make her a nice pastry - it doesn't have to be a difficult one but you must make it yourself. Do a Google search for a poem (short as in a haiku or firefly will do) using the keywords 'thinking of you every day,' 'always on my mind,' things like that, and then write it out and stick it on top of your pastry creation.
Again in winter, nuts and citrus are easy to find. Perhaps something with almonds and oranges.......youtube is your friend and you can have much fun learning that way. Even I still like to do that and I'm much older. Pick recipes from countries you know she's interested in.
I just used this google search and got many interesting prospects for you: love poems 'think of you all the time...'
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (10 January 2011):
Hi there. You could buy a nice greeting card - a blank one inside - then write in it, telling her how you think about her and feel about her. In your own words.
Perhaps you could go for a long walk together along a nice beach at sunset, that's pretty romantic.
Walk along the wet sand, right next to where the waves break onshore.
You can talk as you walk - about life, interests, anything at all. It's a great way to really get to know each other better, and in a very relaxed peaceful setting.
Showing her you care, doesn't have to cost one single cent.
Just as long as you always treat her well and with respect, she will already know that you care about her. Always be sincere in everything you do and say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): Write a poem to her expressing how you feel about her and why you feel the way you do for her.
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