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anonymous
writes:hello. I have a very complicated situation on my hands, but i'll make the story short. Me and my girlfriend of a year just broke up for an unknown reason, seeing as she was the one who did it. This relationship had been in my control almost this entire time. I was a terrible person to her. I cheated, dumped her for no reason, talked down to her, you name it. And now that she finally couldnt take it, she decided to break up. Am I just a victim of bad karma? To this day she still texts me and wants to hang out and tells me she loves me, wants to sex. Then i hear about her out hanging with her former x boyfriend. Insecurity is key in bringing me down in a relationship. She plays all sorts of mind games, the ones i thought i had played like a true playa. Anyways my main question is, what should i do about this relationship?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 hi
she is giving you a taste of your own medicine. she may be teaching you a lesson, in the hope that it makes you realise how awful you have been, when she is sure that you have learned your lesson she may wish to get back with you, hoping that you are now emotionally educated enough to give her what she needs from you. OR she may be doing it because she has well and truly had enough of you, and totally lost respect for you but instead of merely letting you go, she is playing a game with you first. if you don't like being played like this i suggest end your contact with her and learn from the experience, and i mean REALLY learn so that when you meet someone new, you will know what it means to 'treat them how you would wish to be treated'
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): well the thing is, this girl is pretty evil. yet she shows signs that she isn't. she'll hang out with guys, get me to know about it in some fashion, judge if i am jealous or not, and then go by my actions and act according to them. no jealousy= a plead for mercy. Jealousy and she rubs it in my face. Look, i know by now good and well that i should be over her. she isnt well liked in the town, she was my for lack of a better word, bitch for about 10 months, why am i suffering from the pain of this breakup still?
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reader, petina1 +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Sounds like she is getting her own back. She has certainly lost all respect for you and now she is using you, because she can. You both need to forget about each other and move on or you will be in a relationship in competition mode.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): You treat her badly,she dumped you (good for her!) but now she needs to cut all contact from you. Do you really like being that man? an abusive boyfriend? that what you sound like and were too her.
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