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*helsealouiise1
writes:I had two sexual partners on the same night. I was at a party and one was my boyfriend but the other happened because I was drunk, now I'm pregnant. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): I thought they can do a test to see who the father is. I think they can use anything such as clothes etc. Anyways I would for sure look into that and then if it's the boyfriend, maybe things will work out. If it's the other guy, well then I guess you have a number of choices. You could try and keep things with the bf but that is highly unlikely. You could dump the bf, and go with the other guy and hope things will work out with him. Obviously you have a 3rd choice which is to stay with neither of them and that may be what you end up doing. You must find out who the father is though. For the baby. For your sanity. For child support.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 First things first: whatever happens after this, you have to learn to think straight and not do stupid things. Sorry for the S-word, but I don't think there is a better way to describe what happened. I believe that you should face that basic fact. Sleeping with both guys was not exactly a smart thing to do.
I suppose you've already been to a clinic and they have told you about the pregnancy and your health status. So I suppose this thing happened, say, two months ago.
You've got a lot of explaining to do. None of the guys will be kind to you. I'm sorry, but both will choose to think that the other guy is responsible. They knew what they were risking when they slept with you, and Drunk Lover took advantage of the booze, but this is the hard fact.
I suppose this is old history for Drunk Lover. He will hate the idea of having a child with you.
Boyfriend will hate you, too, because you cheated on him the same night. Your relationship is very likely to be over after you tell your boyfriend this.
You have to think long and hard what you will do from now on. Please assume that you will be alone with the baby.
Sorry.
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