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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Shaving down there...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)... (38 words)

Should I come clean? or live with the guilt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - i was out one night with some friends and i got really drunk and i didnt really know what i was doing. i ended up having sex with this boy but i have a boyfriend who ive been with for over a year now and i love and care for him, so should i come clean? or just live with the ... (67 words)

Caught him with a man! I don't know how I can trust him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My name is Thelma. My boyfriend and I met a few years ago, we were friends for months before we ended up dating. We've been dating for over 2 years. He and I have never had sex, as of right now I am almost 26 and he was 2 years older than me. We never really talked in depth ... (747 words)

Should I love this man who is 30 years older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok hi everyone im just so confused at the moment i feel in love with an american man over the internet he is sweet funny and kind and has always said the right thing he offered to take me and my baby which i am expecting at moment he has told me a number of times that he will ... (106 words)

Girlfriend is still hurting after sex !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend were both virgin's but after 8 months of being together decided to have sex for the first time. I've read in articles that sex can hurt first time for her but we have had sex numerous times now and she is still hurting through it. Can anyone give me advic... (66 words)

Ignoring me all over again!! what gives??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I was with my ex for 8 months. We lived together, both had our own kids, the works. I was madly in love with him as I thought he was as well. Well we had a huge fight and he ended up moving out. I called/texted/emailed him almost daily. It was bad!! He was completely ... (264 words)

Is it bad for a woman to date someone 3 years younger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old, fixing to be 21 in a few weeks.. and I really like this guy who is 17 years old. He can act pretty mature for his age but i'm not sure what others would think? Is it bad for a girl to date someone who is 3 years younger? ... (54 words)

Over 65 and my wife no longer wants sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age - My wife has no more interest in sex. When I ask her what the problem is? She just says that she has lost all interest in sex. My question is, If I have sex with another woman would that be cheating? P.S. We are both over 65.... (47 words)

I'm upset how my friend disciplined her children, wondering if I should call children's services?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It’s a bit of a strange one this but the yesterday my friend walloped her two children right in front of me, now I’m wondering whether to call children’s’ services. She’s got two girls, one 11 and other 13. She’s a single mom and each can be a bit of a handful on their own and ... (391 words)

I'm thinking he does not fancy me anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner has always been very attentive to me. Just lately though I have noticed him checking out women who are half my age. It makes me feel so inadequate + i feel very angry + jealous. I have not felt like this before in our relationship - as i (used) to think i was ... (94 words)

Confused Attractions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I told a girl that I liked her. She rejected me. We became close friends and my feelings died down. However she came back to me months later and said that she has feelings for me now, but she is confused as to whether she does or not. Are her feelings just borne of me liking ... (57 words)

How can I get him back? I miss him a lot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf broke a week ago and we were together for 2 years! Im heartbroken to say the least. When we broke up he said he hopes before summer is over we can get some lunch together. but why? and we didnt talk until I texted him three days ago just saying hi and asking how he ... (479 words)

Do you think every guy deserves a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i was just wondering do you think every guy deserves a second chance? In the begning of are relationship i told my bf if he ever cheats on me its over. (i was cheated on before by me ex and i kept giving him chances over and over and i dont wanna go through that again) And ... (140 words)

I need some advice as to how to rectify this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I like. I played soccer with his sister, and his mom was my soccer coach. We've known each other for about five years (that's how long I was on the team), however, we've never really spoken much on account of both of us being kind of shy. Well, I have gotten ... (417 words)

Is there a future for us? or is he just trying to wean himself off me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Not Sure what to think , We had been dating for almost three years when we broke up 3.5 weeks ago. He had decided he wasn't ready for a commitment, one because he was in major debt and two because at 36 had to move back home with his parents in order to pay his debt off. He... (300 words)

My coach makes me feel uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I know there are lots of questions on here about his sort of thing but I have no parents or siblings and my guardian is barley home so I have no one to ask but you :) I have this weird feeling about my soccer coach. I know I am not as good of a player as anot... (276 words)

I'm grossed out over a guy I kissed before summer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so here's the deal...I have a boyfriend right? we dated for like 2 weeks then school ended and it was summer. before summer began we went to a party together and ended having our first kiss. During these two months of summer i've been missing him sooo much. and i couldnt ... (136 words)

Help with man in denial

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have dated a man that is in denial. I love him with all of my heart and want to him to be happy. He has in past fallen into drug addiction and much of it relates to his denial. Recently he decided that church could cure him of both his addictions and being gay. I know that ... (228 words)

Should I forgive my ex for sleeping with someone then wanting me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone: I am in a tough position and need some helpful advice. My boyfriend of 2.5 years recently broke about 7 weeks ago. He broke up with me because we were fighting a lot and neither of us were very happy at the time. But we both still loved each other. So ... (310 words)

How do I ask this boy for his msn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi how do i ask a boy in my class i dont really talk to for his msn! u need a exuest . should i ask the people he hangs about with who are my friends ? and how do if i do , what should i say please help thanks xx... (54 words)

Feeling used and betrayed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, A long time ago there was a guy in my life, and we liked each other, but he had a long term long distance girlfriend, and I was leaving town to go to uni and to escape a violent family. So, we came close, but never actually made anything happen. Anyway, we recently ... (427 words)

How can I tell my parents I'm gay without them getting upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Gays, I'm a gay teen and I've been thinking about coming out to my home family a lot lateley but it's not easy with two sisters waiting to meet my first girlfriend and my mum is a homophobe and it would disgust her and as my fathers only son I'm the only one to carry the... (171 words)

I want to have sex with my boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i fancy my manager at work, hes 10 years older than me, hes married though, we flirt alot and when we go out for drinks we get quite touchy feeling, i know he wont leave his wife, and i wouldnt want him to but i really want to have sex with him i think its just because i k... (134 words)

Is he serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My current boyfriend is 16 years old, and I'm 19. He's mature for his age (for the most part) and is extremely romantic and sweet. I love him to death. We met in person this summer after talking online (he lives in Ireland and I'm in the US), and we really hit it off great. ... (143 words)

Insecure girlfriend, need help fast!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating with this girl for 6-months now. I can feel our affection is growing day by day. However, she has some insecurity issues. She is 28, and I'm 24, she was divorced a year ago (kind of lost faith in men). Yesterday we went to the dog beach, had a bust and we... (195 words)

Told him how I feel now he is acting different

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im quite confused about how my friend now feels about me. I have 2 questions here so please help me to figure out both points :) I always thought he did have feelings for me but we both seemed shy, he never spoke to me like he did anyone else. One morning afew weeks ago i... (457 words)

What is it with my bf texting but not calling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do some guys just not like calling? My boyfriend seems to only like texting and we only talk on the phone every few days. If I call him then he does answer or call me back but i just find it a bit strange. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? ... (56 words)

Advice on going into a new church

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age - Ok I come from like a Baptist family. I just recently found out I have Catholic roots, and I have never been to a Catholic church before. And I just wonder what ladies will think of me if I goto a Catholic church? Will they be turned off or something like that? I am wanting to ... (73 words)

I don't have a job! what should I tell people at my brothers wedding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I have been invited for a night out in a group for my friend's birthday, and i am also going to my brother's wedding soon, but i feel embarrassed because i dont have a job and i know that people usually ask what you do for a living. I know i could lie ... (200 words)

How can you tell if someone truly loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, my question is how can you tell if some one truly loves you? In the past with my ex's i used to love them and i thought they loved me to but at the end i found out they were just useing me and trying to get in my pants. Now iv been dateing my bf sence the begining of ... (91 words)

I've never been so sure about something in my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very complicated situation, and I would love some feedback, especially from a guy. This is a very long, complex story, but I'm going to try to sum it up as quickly as possible, while still getting important details across. I'm from a very small town where everyone... (663 words)

Having trouble getting into the dating scene!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age - I put forward a question here awile back and received excellent suggestions/opinions/advice. I thought I'd do it again. I'm a 55-year old male. For whatever reason, I've inherited the "youthful gene". No complaints about that. When people guess my age they're usually ... (284 words)

Advice for sensitive guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi my names dave 22 and i am a sensitive guy. I met a girl jenny 19 on a drunkern night out 4 months ago, wasnt really looking for anything but ended up in bed with her that night. we carried on meeting at hers watching dvd's and having intercourse, going out for drinks. She's ... (385 words)

He didn't want to be my boyfriend he just wanted me for sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been talking to this guy for about 3-4 mon.. i thought that he wanted to be in a relationship with me... he brought up the whole i really want a girlfriend and i really like you etc.. so i said ok we can give it a try... when we first started dating we did a lot of ... (219 words)

Why Does My Family Hate Me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Why does my family hate me? Me and my mother dont have a relationship at all. We dont talk about anything serious and she doesnt like it when I talk a lot and sometimes tells me to shut uo or to go away or go somewhere else. My older sister hates me as well. She can get violent ... (206 words)

Am I being a bad boy?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age - Ok, I am back at Hooters. I enjoy the hell out of it. K, I am single, yet I have been talking to one or two chicks over the last few monthes.Yet that is all it is, just talking. Hey, way I look at it, why not enjoy life while I am single, cuz, if I ever do get married, I am ... (256 words)

14, he's 17, what can we do that isn't against the law?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - just a question i am 14 and i like this 17 year old and he like me and if we did get together what am i acctually allowed to do with him without it being against the law ??? ( i know not sex ) thanx :)... (47 words)

After 3 years I still haven't moved on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know why i cant get over him, its been three years now since i separarted from my boyfriend of 5 years. i broke the relationship because apparently he was cheating on me.....not only cheating on me, but impregnanting the girls and forcing them to arbort the children... (309 words)

Does she really like me or is she just trying not to be attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - so me and this girl like each other but don't show it up easily though she is much younger than me i am just waiting for her to give me a hint that she is willing to talk to me ,as i get close to her she kinda get nervous n looks down or pretend i m not there and she never ... (289 words)

If a man views porn, is that sufficient reason for a woman to break off the engagment?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age - Here is my situtation. I am 60 yrs old, of Italian heritage, and my now ex-fiancee is 54 and of Korean heritage. I am a widower; she has been divorced for 6+ years. I say this to put things into perspective. I am retired and a very successful banker. I met her 3 yea... (592 words)

I get nervous on dates and my mind goes blank

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My conversation always dries up in social settings-dates, with groups of friends... I get nervous on dates and my mind goes blank. With groups of friends, I used to be a bit of a chatterbox with my friends when I was a teenager, but I was depressed for 5 years and ... (131 words)

I like this guy but he is not over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so ive started talking to this guy online about 4 months ago, thats when he his gf broek up with him, they had been together for 3 years and he still really loves her, but he knows he's never going to get back with her, and he's now started dating again, he said he's ... (200 words)

Is it an addiction? or is he using that as an excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i have found out my boyfriend of 12 months has joined a firting website to chat to other girls i have had a look and it seems more like a sex site, iv confronted him and he said he was waiting to tel me but knew i would see it on his phone bill, hes really imbarrised ... (161 words)

My best friend is gay and I love him and want to tell him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friend. How could I not be? He is always there for me and we do everything together. We have stuck together for a very long time, and I believe he feels the same. One issue; he's gay. Since I am his female "fag hag" (as he calls it), I feel th... (176 words)

How often do you get a "spark" when dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm wondering what you think about my question... Basically, I had great sexual chemistry with my first proper boyfriend, when I was 16. We were together 3 years, and the spark never died, but we grew apart. The spark with my next bf was even more amazing. We were ... (167 words)

Is it ok to have sex with your cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok I am 15 and my cousin is 16 we aren't really close she started comming down for the summer 3 years ago and I hadn't seen her since we were like 5. A couple times we got in to a couple of sexual positions where we could have done it. The first was when s... (527 words)

In love with my 24 year old English teacher

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, im very confused and depressed, i have fallen in love with my 24 year old english teacher who also teaches math coaches football and baseball this happened when i was in grade 10 i just cant get over him, ive never been in love before im 19 years old and its ... (185 words)

I want to do PORN!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to do porn, but i come from a religious family and i dont want to disgrace them but its something that ive really tooken an interest to, i have the confidence and body to do it, and i have this really bad sex addiction which seems quite unhealthy for a female.. what... (61 words)

Should I keep in contact with this guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have a problem which is starting to take over my life and I know that it really shouldn’t. Ill try and explain things to that you understand, as a lot has happened to me over the last 6 months. Ok, here goes…I started talking to a guy on Facebook (who added me).... (512 words)

Good parent bad parent dilemma

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age - How can I deal with bad parent or good parent dilemma? I have 2 drug addict children. I mean they are adults now, but my children. But ,I have a terrible painful issue. I worry everyday, they might die, my life is pure suffering. We tried to bring up this kids right, we never... (212 words)

Is porn just mental cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I understand that porn isn't technically cheating. But I feel like my boyfriend may have a slight obsession with it. He looks at it every day of the week, maybe only 5 or 6 days some weeks, but for the most part, he does it every day. We are in a long distance relationship, but ... (517 words)

He's hitting on me he has a g/f and now I don't think I can trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - A male friend of mine who i've known for a while had been very flirtatious towards me so, as he has a girlfriend, i told him to knock it off, he said he didn't mean and would never cheat on his girlfriend. So, anyway he invited me out for a drink as friends to, in his words, ... (146 words)

Do I move and make a go of it or do I let him go even though I think I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im a gay guy who lives in america but i have a boyfriend in the uk i care about him a lot and we talk every day he addmited to me yesterday that he had fluirted with a couple guys but nothing else has happend and i accepted that the thing is he would like me to move to the ... (158 words)

I cheated and he did too but he's lying about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years but for two of them he has been incarcerated, while he was away i had an affair and stupidly told him about it. he chose to forgive me and recently returned home. most of the time everything is fine but every now and then he suddenly ... (140 words)

Boyfriend buys jewelerry and expenisive gifts for his married woman friend...is this appropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a dilemma ... I have been dating someone online for 5 months ... he is early 30s, I am late 30s. Neither of us has ever been married; in fact, he has never been in a serious relationship longer than 5 weeks due to many violent episodes involving women when he was a ... (1653 words)

Cheated on my boyfriend...don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've cheated on my boyfriend and now I just don't know what to do. I'm beside myself with guilt, and feel so upset and disapppointed with myself, and above all, scared. I can't eat, I can't sleep; I'm physically sick because of what I have done. I know if I tell him it'll break ... (152 words)

Cowgirls first rodeo....any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi new b/f really likes me to go on top but i always feel awkward in this position as i don't know what movements will turn him on,does it have to be hard and fast,how can i feel more comfortable on top,really want to get it right...any tips?... (50 words)

Has anyone had a relationship work out w/ an age difference of 10+ yrs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does everyone say that a relationship with a huge age difference will never work? I have been dating Greg for 6 months, I will be 20 next month and he is 32. EVERY ONE always says that he is only in it for the sex yet our relationship is NOT by any means based on sex. We ... (127 words)

We sleep together but I'm not ready for sex....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, he is super sweet, nice and amazing. The only problem with our relationship is that we haven't yet had sex. We are both virgins. I am totally not ready for sex yet, I'm only 18! He's 18 too but he is ready for it. I know nothing ... (206 words)

Does he like me or was he just comforting and looking after me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello i need some advice. After a night out last week i wasnt feeling to well, self inflicted i admit. I was walking down with two friends, one of which i usually walk part way home anyway. I wasnt feeling to good at all and walking home i was just leaning on him(which i do ... (489 words)

We're both shy and it's creating a problem! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... ok i have a slight problem, me and my boyfriend are both really shy.. before we started dating we could talk to each other really easily but after he asked me out we dont have much 2 talk about because we are both shy around the people we like, I like him alot and he ... (75 words)

Long distance confusion...any help would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted together) 1)-I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years.We get along great , told each other things ect...But , the thing is when he goes shopping he mentions it's with a girl then when he's got homework from uni... (441 words)

Did I overreact about my boyfriend's drinking?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very staunchly against drinking and doing drugs. To make a long story short, I am the only sober person in my family. I'm proud of that. Alcoholism runs in my family, and I hate how people change when they get drunk. I hate how people make stupid choices when they drink, ... (322 words)

Decisions about my education are bothering me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i didnt get the grades i needed for college and i knew i wouldnt get my course. over 70,00o have applied here at home to got to college and to help me get my course i filled out a disablity form to aid me in getting my desired course. i got offered another course today which is ... (118 words)

We freeze up and don't know how to talk to eachother in person!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hello all. i have a beautiful, smart funny and sexy girlfriend and i couldn't be happier its just when we meet up in real life we sometimes freeze. we find it hard to communicate to one another when together but online we chat for hours. i don't know why its happening but we... (85 words)

If I swim will it get all the left over sperm out of me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm just very curious. I just had sex with my bf few weeks ago.A day after having sex, i went swimming for hours.Can this actually helps to wash away those sperm left inside me? ... (35 words)

He can't choose between me and his gf! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i ve been with this guy for the past 1 year....he s got a girl friend but he tells me i m the best and he cant choose he's messed up....i ve been giving him chances but yet he tells me i'm pushing him. he s done alot of stuff/ things for me n he care s about me but i dont kn... (230 words)

Not sure if I want to marry him now! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i've been with my bf for 5 years and although i love him the fear of getting closer to marriage kinda scares me. It's so weird b/c marriage is all i used to think about with him..during our 2nd and 3rd year dating were were looking at rings for fun and i couldn't wait to ... (232 words)

He used the line "it's not you it's me" what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf about two months ago I meet someone else took the risk we dated and everything was so weird he would never call me all we did was txt in the begging he would always wanna hang out with me come to my house and stuff but yet no sex,ok then things started ... (148 words)

My daughter does PORN!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have found out in the last year that my daughter is a pornstar and before that worked as a escort, i am finding this hard to deal with as she does not care whom it affects in her life, i have just lost my relationship over what she does, my partner has a young daughter and ... (238 words)

Should I go to a long time friends party or go to my other friends home town?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about meeting up with my friends. One of my friends is having a night out for her birthday on 4th September, bu ti havent seen her for a few years, and there will be a lot of people there that i dont know, and i feel shy in situations where i dont know ... (357 words)

Teen boys, are they all shallow?

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23 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, Everyone always says that teenagers make a really big deal of romance and that they have a really immature view of love. I think this is true of some teenagers but not of everyone. Sometimes I do feel though that teenage boys are really shallow in the sense that they can... (117 words)

How do I sow my wild oats?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - most of the people who sow their wild oats are happy because they know what its out there and even though they claim they changed their ways they are still happy for doing some experimenting. well, i need tips on how to sow my wild oats because every man i meet has sew his and ... (100 words)

He lives with his ex-sister-in-law, it disgusts me a lot!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. well i have a serious problem and i need urgent advice. okay this is my story! i met a guy five months back , when i met him he told me that he has a daughter , i accepted it because it doesnt sound bad to me plus i love him, some weeks ago i found out that he ... (220 words)

Why won't he leave?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age - My husband is pleasantly nice, but has nothing to say to me, he is flirty to younger women and yet he denies it if i comfront him... He says I am crazy!!! We both after 20 years of marraige got verbally abusive, for me its for attention, according to him, he is always right...... (149 words)

My married friend is having an affair!!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive just found out that my friend is having a affair with a single guy. She says that they have no love in the marriage and he provides litle support when she needs it. She doesnt want to separate since this would be her second divorce. In addition, they rarely have sex. She ... (119 words)

13 and may have missed a period......I'm so scared of being pregnant!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so im 13 and me and my boyfriend had sex,we used the take out method and now theres only 1 week of august left and i still havent had my period.I dont want to tell my mom that me and my boyfriend did anything but i did tell her i think i missed a period.Im scared to death ... (129 words)

Will this girl ever be able to end this unhealthy relationship for good?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine who is in a possessive relationship with a guy for 5 years. There have been many break ups in her relationship but then she patched back. She tells me he controls her and she got slapped by him once in the past. She tells me she has went through a lot of ... (174 words)

Should I listen to reason or heart?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This could probably be a little long since the situation I got myself into is kind of complicated but I’ll try my best to explain and I appreciate you taking the time to read and reply. I am 26 and bisexual. I have had relationships with men and women, however have nev... (809 words)

My boyfriend is controlling me, even to the point where he gets annoyed if I spend my own money!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend tries to control everything i do. I have been working full time in my career as a conference coordinator for about 5 months now, and i have been told i will be promoted at 6 months. For the past 4 years i have had to use public transport because i could not afford ... (225 words)

My boyfriend's ex is still part of the family, how do I deal with this?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am recently reunited with my high school sweetheart from 30 years ago and he says that things are headed toward marriage for us. He and I both say that we've never been happier. We have a long-distance relationship at this point. I am divorced and have two children, but he ... (267 words)

How can I get my ex to stop contacting me?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi aunts and uncles. my ex boyfriend is sending me notes through mail all the time because he has no other way to contact me. we broke up 2 years and a half ago. obviously i am in a relationship now with a wonderful guy so there is so damn way i would go back with him. i am not ... (151 words)

Was he only acting this way to get me into bed?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I could really do with a few questions answering, as I'm driving myself crazy and getting really upset. I'm 18 and upto a month ago, I'd not kissed a guy, had a proper boyfriend and obviously hadn't had sex. This used to frustrate me every single day because I just felt so d... (1185 words)

She wants to lose her virginity to me but I'm not sure if I want to spend the rest of my life with her because of her past!

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello im with this girl i know through internet..we been together for 2 years but we still havent met since we live far away. anyway i know everything about her and her past is actually haunting me..she didnt do much but just the idea that some others guys touched her all over... (194 words)

I don't think he likes me as much as I like him!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. At the beginning of our relationship he was constantly saying how amazing I was and complimenting me, I found it a bit much at times as i had not long come out of a 4 year relationship and i didnt just want to say the same things back to ... (150 words)

Not sure what to make of this guy.....

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I have a quick question for you all and would love your opinion. There is this guy at the local pub where myself and some friends hang out a few nights a week after work. He has introduced himself to us and sits with us and has a drink sometimes. He is fine ta... (180 words)

Does it sound like this married man wants to be with me, despite all the upset that has gone on?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age - I've been involved with a married man for over 2 years, he calls and txts me 3-4 times every day. I'm seperated from my husband due to abusive relationship. My estranged husband has confronted this married man multiple times and has also informed his wife, she doesn't believe ... (97 words)

My boyfriend went back to his ex while I was pregnant, but now he wants to come back to me! Should I give him another chance?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 3 months pregnant with my boyfriend who i've not been with for long. I became in love with him very quick and even though my family was shocked at me being pregnant at 18 they became happy and excited. Just last week i found out he was meeting his ex girlfriend behind my ... (150 words)

What's wrong with me? Why do I feel this way?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so trapped and alone. I don't know what to do anymore. I know I'm only 17 and I know alot of young teenagers feel like this, which is comforting to an extent, but I don't know when I'm not ever going to feel like this. I feel so clostraphobic in the town where I live, an... (223 words)

Is this labour, signs of labour or just a hormonal woman unprepared?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pregnant and i'm 2 weeks from my due date, but feeling a wee bit funny. I'm experiencing period like symtoms without the cramps .... a bit like a leaky tap without the leaking. I feel like i could start my period, i know, not going to but that's how i feel however i don't ... (188 words)

How am I supposed to deal with this?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Whenever I try and say something honestly to my partner, they get upset immediately and get in a mood with me. How am I supposed to deal with this?... (29 words)

I feel like I have a teenage son not a husband! What should I do?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at a loss of what to do Ive been with my husband for almost 11 years and married for 6. He has been smoking cannabis about 3 joints a day everyday for the last about 4 months.I have found porn on the computer related to anal sex and latex. I havent let him know that i ... (130 words)

My partner is having "family" outings with his ex wife and child...

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner and i have been together 4 years now. we dont live together as its been a very tough relationship and i have insecurity issues etc. he says he wants to and will when i become more secure etc. anyway ive just found out via his 16 yr old daughter that everytime h... (224 words)

How can I break my unhealthy addiction to a bad relationship, but good sex?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I wonder if you could give me some advice please!! I have just finished with my BF of three months, who was treating me in a horrible way, and was very controlling for the last six weeks. I finally broke it off about a week or so again after a number of times of ... (232 words)

He cried when he ejaculated! Is this normal?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have just started a new relationship and slept together for the first time although we didnt have sex just foreplay . i just wondered if it was normal for a man to cry whilst ejeculating never had this happen before ... (41 words)

I don't want to seem interested in him in front of my friend and her brother!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys! ok, i just met this guy who is my age (15) the other day. he is my friend's little brother's friend. we all went to hang somewhere and the whole time he was flirting with me. he was trying to pull moves but i didnt want 2 seem interested in front of my friend and his. ... (97 words)

Why would my girlfriend add my ex on Facebook?

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23 August 2010 (M)

- hi just a quick question, i have just accidently checked my GF's facebook (i thought i had left myself logged in then relised after that it wasnt mine) but she has added my ex who i have a child to and.. the other night she said that my ex had sent a friend request but this is ... (151 words)

Why don't I feel pleasure when I have sex?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive had sex more then 10 times but i dont feel pleasure in it. ive never orgasmed and im always soooo relaxed. his penis is big and im always in the mood but i just for some reason dont feel pleasure when i have sex with a guy. someone helppp? ... (52 words)

I have had my period twice this month and both have been light, why is this?

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23 August 2010 (F) age 26-29 - Hi :) Ive had my periods twice this month, and the 2 times ive had them, its been REALLY light and i dont know why :S can you please help me ? Thanks ... (37 words)

I am grateful for my mum's support but she is too controlling!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't really know where to start...!!! Im 24 living abroad with my Mum where she supports me in a particular sport. She is very good provides me with everything I need and its all very very expensive. for this I am really greatful to her. But I do feel shes controlling my ... (686 words)

For the men: What clothing and attitude turns you on?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - guys...this ones for you what clothing and attitude turns you on personally? i just want opinions. even if the chick hates what she looks like..if she dresses right and does the 'right things' does that mean you'll still get turned on? ... (45 words)

How can I be sure if I have had an orgasm?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when your masturbating how do you know you've had an orgasm? and how can you have an orgasm? what do you do to get a really good one. i need help. ive had sex heaps and ive never had an orgasm and ive masterbated but im not sure if at the end i really orgasmed or it was ... (62 words)

Why do I like older guys?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - help. i like older guys. but not as old as like 40 just younger then that. im not sure if its because of my recent relationship just ending and im so upset about it still even though it was 3 months ago but i just love flirting with them and i love it when guys call out and ... (93 words)

Jealousy complex: please help me!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, I'm using my cell phone for this and this is my first time using this site..im looking forward to your help. I think I have a complete jealousy complex. but the thing is, do I have one for a reason? f.t.b.: me and my guy have been dating for 4 years. many ... (168 words)

I don't love my girlfriend but she is falling for me more and more, how do I tell her I just want to be friends without breaking her heart?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have dated my girlfriend for about 10 months now as my first serious relationship, but I don't feel like I love her. I don't see any other girls as attractive at the moment but everytime we meet she just falls for me more and more. I just don't know how to become "just fri... (109 words)

Why am I so insecure about my boyfriend's friends?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know why I am becoming increasingly sensitive with my boyfriend friends. He is someone who has a lot of friends and sometimes when I am out with him, there will be a lot of people who will call him and even sms him. And when there is girl sms him he will reply very fast ... (69 words)

I messed up with my friend this weekend! What should I say to him?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i can't beleive this weekend and how badly i messed up. i'm 16, male, and wondered in the past if i might be bi or gay although i've dated girls. my parents were out of town so i asked a friend if he wanted to stay over and party with me. he's my age and we've known each ... (247 words)

Is he afraid of commitment, and is there any way to recover this situation?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, Hi, I am still being confused about the situation. About the European guy who said "I love you" but never introduce anyone in his life to me....over 2 years. One day, he sent me criticism email without any sign. He said "I am TOO old, I am terrible "far... (710 words)

Turned into a wuss with my girlfriend, so I dumped her. Now I want her back, what do I do?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I madly love my girlfriend. We had an amazing and vibrant story together... at least the first months. She is a super hot babe, 10++, A class, a great spirit and a stunning beauty. I got her because I was a wild stallion then, a H2G super male. At the top of my "social statu... (334 words)

Girlfriend won't touch me!

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months and everythings good very serious. But I give her oral a lot which she asks for! Which I don't mind doing it for her I love to pleasure her but she's always askin for it and hinting but when it comes my time which in 9 months ... (113 words)

My boyfriend is only happy when I eat but it makes me sad when I have to eat!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and have trouble eating! I think i am pudgy! my boyfriend tells me all the time that he loves how i look, and that im not pudgy, and anytime i see like family now, they always tell me that i look like i've gotten skinnier, and my sister is even saying that i look like ... (357 words)

She is in a never ending cycle with her ex and dragging me into it...

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble here. I fell in love. Yea one of those. I've had a very bad history in life. My first love died in a car accident. I lost it stopped dating then started searching for the same feelings I had before and ended up hurt in every way possible. Including being ... (438 words)

Confused with my first love! please help

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so I am 19 yes old I have been with a guy who is my first love, we were together for 2 years like he is the first guy I ever kissed. we had met when I was sixteen and he was fifteen, he will be eighteen this September bit like we broke up maybe a month ago and for a while we ... (238 words)

Is it good or bad that my friend said I am all he has right now?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend told me that He really doesn't want to lose me and that i'm ALL he has right now. Is that a good thing? Or bad?... (29 words)

My dad is going to get this boy in trouble because he sent me a dirty message!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am So Worried. I went out with my Family today. And i was texting this boy we were having a NORMAL conversation. And my dad had to look at something. And he sent me a dirty message so my dad got mad. But luckly not at me! But at my friend. And said he's going to call his dad. ... (135 words)

How do I stop masturbating so much?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was 12 I began masturbating to prove to one of my friends that I actually could do it without any shame. I would do it every night. Now I am almost 15 and I am having an extremely difficult time dealing with it. I masturbate all the time and I'm not ashamed, but I want ... (102 words)

Is a 6 inch penis big enough?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im almost 18, and i have a penis that is 6 inches, is that big enough for girls?... (18 words)

Wife watching porn instead of having sex

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im having a problem with my wife. About a year ago she started watching porn just every now and then to spice things up. After a few months it came to having to watch it every time we had sex so she would be in the mood. then just a few months ago, we rarely had sex, and... (429 words)

Do guys really care about breast size?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have very small breast... I wear a thick push-up bra and layers of clothing over my chest to cover up the small size. And this has worked out fine for me until my boyfriend became touchy with my breasts. I started to feel very self-concous about their size. I was wondering if ... (135 words)

Is there any reason he may become uncomfortable around me all of a sudden?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this one guy friend where our relationship is really strained. When we talk we both talk a lot actually he usually goes on longer than me it's just that he barely ever actually answer the phone unless I say something is wrong or if i'm upset with him. If it was... (300 words)

How do I know if I have had an orgasm?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, im a 16 year old girl and i have been dating this guy for like 3 years and we have recently started getting intimate, how do i know if i have had an orgasim is there some signs i should look for?... (43 words)

Should I lose weight for my boyfriend?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am totally in love with my boyfriend, and i know he loves me. Never would i doubt that but... I dont know if im pretty enough for him. I'm worried about my weight. I am 5'3" and weigh 106lbs. I'm not even what some people would consider chubby. I'm only worried because he is ... (99 words)

I wanna be happy

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - oh my goodness i just want to scream i am so unhappy,cant stand my kids my husband bothers me to no end i have thought of everything from having an affair leaving and never looking back,then the guilt hits so i stay,i am 40 and husband is 55 he has health issues as do i but i ... (113 words)

When should I start panicking?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I just started having sex with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago (He's the first person, I've had sex with...I was a virgin) and I started birth control three months ago (I've been on them in the past to regulate my period). I've had unprotected sex (We've been tested) a few ... (200 words)

Did he mean it, or was he just being polite, what do you think?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a first date today...it went pretty well, lasted about 5 hours, and there were a few opportunities for him to cut it shorter if he had wanted to. We ended the date with drinks at a bar a block from my apartment and it started pouring on the walk back home. Though it ... (195 words)

Short girl, Tall guy, How can I get him to notice me?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MODS NOTE: The title you'd like has already been used, so I changed it slightly so I could post question for you. Hi. My name is J. Anyway, I have an interesting question: I am 5-foot-3 and there is this guy I like that is 6-foot-5. My question is how do I catch his eye and ... (74 words)

I'm afraid to look at my genitalia,

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23 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I am too scared to look at my genitals. I dont know why but I am. I was in the shower and looked for just a second, and it was kinda red, what does this mean? I also want to wear tampons but dont know where to put it? How can I get over this fear and be able to wear tampons? ... (62 words)

Why can't she see he's not good for her and I'm better for her?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - so i met this girl back in early october, 2009, she was with another dude at the time but then broke up with him, we were getting really close and all, she was my best friend and i was hers, after she broke up with that dudes we got really close, and she knew that i wanted to ... (187 words)

Am I a bad friend for getting this type of attention?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The majority of my girl friends have boyfriends, when we get together and go out or go on a trip as one big group we have a good time. Lately 2 of my friends and myself have noticed that some of the boyfriends (not all at once/sametime) but always complement me on how I dress/... (166 words)

I don't want lust controlling my life, How can I stop masterbating

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MODS NOTE: Apologies to the OP, but your chosen title has already been used, So I had to tweak it a little to make it accepted. I'm addicted to masturbation but it feels wrong and I don't want my lust to continue to control my life. How can I stop?... (52 words)

My boyfriend raped me!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. I am 20 years old. I have always been committed to abstaining from sex til marriage - not "everything but", I mean really abstaining from sexual activity. The furthest I went with my first boyfriend was us both taking off our shirts, and even that fel... (312 words)

Porn makes me physically sick, how can I tell my b/f?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well iv never watched porn before but my boyfriend wanted me to try it cause he thinks i would like it. When i watched it it made me throw up i was grossed out by it. Should i tell him i watched and it made me throw up? Is that normal to have that response to porn? Or ... (95 words)

Am I just too big for her?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, so me and my girl had sex for the first time this weekend. And I have a question concerning her... I myself have quite a large penis. (i am not being boastful, but factual) And after much foreplay and such, entering into her is still a painful process on her part, I expe... (189 words)

I never told him I loved him, now I've lost him.

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MODS NOTE: I've removed a few bits as it was TMI, and not relevant to the question. So about 3 years ago, this guy(who's younger than me by 2 yrs) moved in right next door. Since the first day we met, we became great friends. Since the past year we got a bit closer 2 each oth... (365 words)

Will it ever be more than just sex?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in an unhappy marriage for 20 years. Have 5 kids so it isn't easy to leave. I had been starting to seriously think about divorcing while I am still relatively young and could find true love/happiness when something happened that made things even more difficult. I was ... (440 words)

How do I fix the impossible?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. We love each other so much. But I dont really feel a connection with him anymore. This is because its impossible to have a converstation with. Just sitting around and having a converstation is like playing the a two ... (158 words)

I want to go down on him, but I can't for some reason

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to go down on my boyfriend for the first time but everytime i try i get nervous and chicken out. i want to do it for him because hes gone down on me beofre. is there any method or something i can use to make it easier for me. besides drinking alcohol or something... (56 words)

The two loves of my teen life

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i stupid? i was in a relationship for a few months with this boy, and i completely fell head over heals for him. this was all new for me because i had never truely believed in love.well after about 5 months i decided it was time to prove to him i loved him(i hope you ... (254 words)

Is he interested or just joking with me?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - he calls me baby and says my name with his surname all the time, he flirts alot. he just helped me get out of a really bad relationship with my ex (ive known him for some time now and he one of those friends where i always look for when i have a problem which i need help with) ... (122 words)

My boyfriend is not doing a very good job at staying in contact!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend isn't doing a very good job of keeping in touch with me besides texting after he went to college. How should I let him know we need to try something better?... (33 words)

Is he mad at me or did he just lose interest?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so long story short i was texting this guy who everyone said liked me and wanted to go out with me, and he did ask me out. about a month ago i got my phone taken away. this guy and i texted a lot. and i mean a lot. practically every day. but since i got my phone taken away i ... (236 words)

Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?

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23 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and didn't even try again for a ... (689 words)

Has he stopped making an effort because he already has me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ive been with my partner for over two years and we are now engaged problem is i have a security issue. My partner tells me im the only one for him but sometimes i dont feel like it. Before he propsed to me he told his mate the reason why he was proposing was i was so ... (206 words)

Police wife, I am considering divorce!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Police wife. I am considering divorce. His job is killing our marriage. We work opposite schedules. Did I mention we are newly weds? Only two months. I lived with him a year-and-half before married, and he was with a different department and worked much better schedule except ... (198 words)

Why can't I let my ex go? should I give this new guy a shot, or do I leave both of them alone?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my boyfriend of a year and a half 2 months ago because we live in different countries and the distance/trust was becoming too hard to handle. We had a good relationship, but we never trusted each other because of the distance and therefore constantly argued. He ... (304 words)

Friendship starters!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I am back in my country after a 2 years break. In that other country I was,I made tons of friends and had the time of my life. Now that I'm back,I am facing a lot of difficulties.One of those is New Friendships. I'm a really energetic,spontaneous pe... (338 words)

Younger sister is disrespectful

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,so I am 20 and I have a younger sister who is 18. When we were kids,we used to get along really well,until I fell in love with someone I met online when I was like 15.Since then,I felt she started losing respect for me.When I was 17 I left the country to go to college ... (363 words)

My husband is destroying my possesions out of anger

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23 August 2010 (F)

age - I am very troubled, Over the last five years I have found my clothes and other possesions either slashed or damaged. They were fine when I hung them up or used them last. I belive it to be my husband who is wrongly angry with me as he believes I cheated on him. I have never ... (227 words)

My baby's father left because of my mom!

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I'm a 22 year old with a 4 month old son. I recently split up with the father of 3 years (we split up 5 times within those years) but we kept trying at our relationship because the only problem we had was my family didn't like him. He managed to stick it out ... (182 words)

Should I start to wear make-up or do I just forget about it?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Not sure how to word this question...basically I'm 16 and I've never worn make-up. Does that mean it's too late to start? I have no knowledge of how to apply make-up the right way. I know that if I one day decide to suddenly start wearing it, people at school are going to ... (131 words)

Is it normal for a husband to not want to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age - Helo. Is it normal for a husband not to want to have sex at all? last time had sew was like three weeks ago after he woke up and caught me masturbating! that was like a month after i forced myself on him. Going on more than 4 years. We have very good relationship otherwise. ... (91 words)

Is it so wrong to have sex with my 33 year old nephew?

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23 August 2010 (F)

age - my nephew is 33 and we had sex together and we dont regret it It started out with cell text and I went to the state were he lived and got to know each other we did not grow up together but we had sex and had fun in joying our company and I'm going to go see him again this year ... (76 words)

He was looking for a fling, but I can't get him off my mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F)

age - Hi, Went to a conference in Hawaii and met another professional who lives in another country. We really hit it off in just 3-4 days and spent a lot of time together. I felt we connected at a deep level. Very aggressive about wanting to have sex and I had to very firmly say no. ... (110 words)