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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Madly in love with him but he is ignoring my texts and phonecalls! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello , i have a problem , i know this guy he was a really good friend and we got along really good he is 3 and a half years older than me, he asked me to go out with him and i said yes we werent getting along so he broke it off with me , so about 6 months later we got in touch... (201 words)

Is Internet hook up with older guy safe?!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age - [Mod Note: OP's own title] Hi, I'm 17 and from the uk. I've known a guy for a year and a half off the Internet. He is older than me (46) and I'm going to meet him soon, he's driving up to where I live and were meeting in a hotel. My friend knows and I'm going to text her with... (78 words)

I have been in love with this woman for over 30 years but she wont see me until I am divorced!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age - Hi I am married with grown kids they are from 26 to 30 and I am still in love with my first love for over 30 years, and i contact her a few time but she would see me but not until I am divorced what do I do I going crazy! Help Im at my end... (57 words)

How can I stop feeling so sad all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ahh i am really down at the moment. have you ever felt really low? how did it get better? I hate my job, but i just started it recently, so i feel i will let the team down if i quit now. And that won't look good on my cv either. I have no boyfriend. and have never had a ... (225 words)

In love with a married man. Know it's wrong but don't know what to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Oh help me! I met a man online in January. We hit it off right away. We can talk easily, we laugh, etc... A couple of weeks into it I guessed he was married. He said he couldnt lie and that he was - unhappily. He tells me they only have sex only 3-4 times a year. He told... (226 words)

When I open myself to girls, they seem to lose interest. Why is that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys and gals, I have one question; Why do women lose interest when you really open up. Im having this experience very often lately. At first im just joking around with girls, teasing them a bit and so forth, but when thing start moving toward a more serious path, and ... (139 words)

Which of these 2 older men should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m 18 and i like 2 older guys one 24 other 28. One i,ve not seen in 2 years and one i see near everyweek. I know for definate guy number 2 likes me. ya see Guy number one we,ll call James(28) is a sweet and caring guy who is a strong believer in god. And Guy number 2 Dave(24) ... (272 words)

Do people truely ever get over their first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm just wondering about whether people have really gotten over their "first loves." I am 19 now and in university and am generally quite happy. However, I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, nearly a year ago and even though I have made some progress of moving on, I ... (141 words)

What steps should I take to find out if my boyfriend had sex with his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i find out if my boyfriend had sex with his ex? One saturday me and him argued about some girls on his friends list online, he got mad and decided to ignore me all night. Three days later his ex arrives just to tell me that she spend the night and they had sex and etc. ... (63 words)

In love with childhood friend and don't think I can ever tell him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, i don't know what to do, i've been in love with this boy all my life since i was a young child and i know that is hard to believe because a lot of people think you can't be in love until your older, not able to experience the full emotion but i really am The t... (225 words)

Is it to soon to dorp the 'L' word?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it too soon to tell somebody you have feelings for them after 2 months of being together?? I'm not sure whether I am in 'love' I'm guessing it takes longer than 2 months to totally know a person and love that person but I know I have feelings door this guy but am too scared ... (80 words)

Because of my height I look more like 17 than 14! Should I just wait for everyone to catch up with me before I start dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay here is my problem. I'm 14 almost 15 and 5' 10" and I'm taller than almost all of my year mates, except the guy I like, who is 6' 2". My friends hate him. His friends aren't so keen on me either. I look like I'm more 17 than 14. To the point where older guys are tryin... (171 words)

User's title How do I ask for a third?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note = OP's own title] I need a little help. My Girlfriend and I recently decided to try and have a threesome. We both agreed that one of my high school friends (female) should be the third party. My question is, how do I go about asking my friend, who is now in colle... (64 words)

How long do couples usually date before moving in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How long do couples usually date before moving in together? I was dating this guy and we were in a long distance relationship. We had only met about twice in person and he was saying to me that I could move in with him and he would pay my bills for me while I looked for a job ... (276 words)

I slept with my cousin and we're having trouble distancing ourselves. Is that really so bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 19yr old guy and i've had sex with my 20yr old cousin (and took her virginity). She has always been a tomboy all the way through her childhood and only ever wore a dress once when she was a bridesmaid. We'd always been dead good mates, but after a family do, we went ... (172 words)

Why do I not enjoy foreplay? I mean, I don't care that we're not having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Hey all, I've got a little bit of a problem; it's about me and my girlfriend, we do everything apart from sex and I don't feel like I'm missing anything (we've both agreed on no sex for personal reasons). When we do stuff, I never really enjoy it, and if I... (228 words)

Am I having mental orgasms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - [OP original title] I am only 13 and I have never had sex, and dont plan on it until I find someone I am in love with. But of course, being a teenager I think about sex a lot. Whenever I fantasize, it feels like my uterus [or another female body part inside me] is kinda fall... (121 words)

He "disappeared" while in Haiti! I'm worried sick. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months. things have been going quite well with us. he takes me on dates,he heips me with some if my bills,treats me like a lady. he is haitian and im african american.he is in the us army. he took a 30 day leave to go see his ... (168 words)

I want him to text me without asking him to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Well, there's this guy in my class that comes over at my desk everyday and we talk. And he told me to text him yesterday and so I did after I got home from school, and we talked for a while and then I texted him something and then he stopped texting, and then... (269 words)

He called his ex, but he says if I keep accusing him of cheating, he'll dump me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i went through my boyfriends phone the other day when he wasnt by me and i saw that he talked to this girl on the phone. but see she's just not any girl! she's his exgf. and it was the night he totally ignored me because he got drunk (he wasnt talking to me so i was like ok ... (364 words)

I have a crush on my neighbor. Can I add him as a friend on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i need to know whether this is the right thing to do or not.. i really like my neighbour, alot! i have for a long time, the problem is, he's married. I understand this and know that nothing can come from but just a silly little crush. I recently just added his wife o... (134 words)

Should I tell him about the texts I think are from his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] Hi there, So I have had a very tumultuous relationship and subsequent friendship with this guy for 2 years. Recently, with the wonderful advice from the good people on DC I have decided to just walk away. For the past little bit I have been igno... (354 words)

I want to take it to the next step, but everything clenches up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for awhile, and I really want to take the next step with him, but I;m a virgin. Every time we start, I tighten up and i mean i know its going to hurt to try. It always ends up with him not being able to enter. I really want to relax, but I guess I ... (77 words)

I love her, but she doesn't want to date me. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a teenager and a boarder which means I live in the school. My situation is very complex but I would simplify it in here. I started to love a girl in my year a year ago during summer holiday and she is my first love. And I asked her out 5 months later on Christmas and it... (252 words)

I think she gave me herpes, but she's mad at ME! Am I in the wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl a couple of months ago who was emigrating half the way round the world shortly after. We became intimate and although she always stopped short of having full sex there was penetration digitally and some genital contact. She then emigrated and we've kept in touch. ... (731 words)

Should I tell my sister I saw her husband with a hooker?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age - I picked up a hooker and took her to a motel. When we were done I was taking here back to where I picked her up. A door opened just a couple doors down as I passed by with her and it was my brother in law with a hooker of his own. He just looked at me very surprised but ... (266 words)

Can't choose between two lovely guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma...I am equally in love with two men.Liam and Shane....I have been with Liam for the last four years and thinks have been good.Shane,however,is in love with me and i love him too...we talk for long stints of time talking about being together and our feelings for ... (214 words)

He's changed, but always talks me out of breaking up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my boyfriend wen i was 13. weve been together ever since with alot of breakups which didnt even last an hour. since he's come back from a boys holiday hes been acting really different.. its an effort to get him to even kiss me on the lips.. he never really texts me back ... (230 words)

He has a girlfriend, but does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy who my friend says like me. he stares at me everytime i go into the shop he works in, and it is sort of constant staring. he always smiles at me and comes over to talk to me and seems happy when he is talking with me and happy to see me. he asked how old i was ... (340 words)

My son listens to us have sex! Now I'm labeled a bad person.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My son who is 13 is always hanging around my bedroom door when my friend and I are intimate. We close and lock the door for privacy but he stands there and listens. He then went and told my mom what he heard and now I am labeled as a bad person. He does not like my friend ... (86 words)

I was taken advantage of so I dumped my boyfriend. Not sure if he's moved on or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - about four months ago i was at a party and got drunk and my boyfriends friend took advantage of me and had sex with me but never 'popped my cherry', i never told my boyfriend because my friends told me it was for the best that i dont, my mind was full of guilt so i dumped him - ... (113 words)

Rough relationship and hitting below the belt. Is this doomed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so confused. I am with a man who I have been in love with for years. We had a short fling 7 years ago when we were both split form our spouses. He went back to her and tried to make it work, had a third child and then they eventually split up. She dumped him after he ... (323 words)

I am being overcome by retro-jealousy, please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope someone can offer some words as I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment. I suffer from retroactive jealousy and I have for the past year been working on it. Its a conscious effort and an ongoing process but sometimes, like today it can get too overwhelming for me to deal ... (359 words)

Seeking an OCD/Sexual Insecurity Therapist in New York CIty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - {Mod Note - OP's own title] I am looking for a therapist in Manhattan or Brooklyn who specializes in OCD and Sexual Insecurity. Can anyone make any recommendations?... (29 words)

He can't seem to let her go and uses her to hurt me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whether I'm looking for advice or just looking for a way to vent. This must be the fourth time I've written on here about the same subject, but it's wearing me thinner and thinner and I'm at my wit's end. My boyfriend and I have been together now for over a year ... (1527 words)

How can I get over the pain of this break up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - hi everyone, i need help. i miss my ex so much. i did a mistake by calling him the other day. he tried to be nice, but i was and still hurting for the fact that now he thinks of me as a friend (actually more like an acquaintance) like we were b4 we got together. to me, ... (361 words)

What's the best way to ask a girl if she's interested in casual sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is there a proper way to ask a woman you meet if she is interested in casual sex? I know there are many ways, and simply asking over the phone "Hey, do want to just sleep together?" Would not be acceptable. So if you experienced and mature men and women could give me some adv... (108 words)

We got back together and he's gone cold and unloving, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all,I wonder if you could throw some light on my situation. I have been seeing a nice guy for coming up to three months now. Anyway , we had quite a bad fall out four or five weeks back which was mostly my doing, and now we have kind of got back together.He still seems a ... (279 words)

Is her preference for married men and casual attitude towards affairs a red flag?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has been with predominantly married men in her past. All of her relationships prior to me were FWB. The guy she lost her virginity to was married, the next was single, but she did him while she was still with the first. The third was separated. The fourth was ... (227 words)

I'm so confused, is he cheating/has he cheated on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have been with my partner for Two years, and its been great and i have never loved someone so much in my life. we are now expecting our first child together im currently 7 months pregnant with a baby boy. we have also just moved in together and have a nice new flat, i thought ... (321 words)

We had broken up, but she still considers it cheating, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - me and my fiance, recently broke up and I moved to another town, i went out with another girl while I would visit my fiance thinking we could work it out. we have since reconsiled but she refuses to admit that we were broke up even though we lived in seperate apartmen... (113 words)

I love her but she says she's not ready to say it yet, what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i have been dating this girl for a few months and im convinced that i love her even though im still kinda young. I told her and she said that shes not ready to admit that she loves me yet because its a big deal, she did say that she likes me more than she has liked ... (68 words)

I love him but he flirts with other girls, can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am absolutely in love with an idiot and i don't know what to do. I don't want to dump him because i know i cant live without him but i think it would be better for me if i did leave him. but i cant. I think he takes me for granted. he gets off with me happily and that, but ... (102 words)

Are there are any men left that won't just use me for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I find a boyfriend? Iv only slept with two people and they weren't even my boyfriends, they got what they wanted and left me. Iv been used twice now and just want a boyfriend who'll want me for me, not just my body. Are there any men like that anymore... (52 words)

Should you tell your friend private info even if it risks violating their personal business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have some private info that my best friend might very much appreciate knowing. Out of respect for her and our friendship I want to tell her, but my concern is that if I do, it runs the risk of me being involved/knowing too much about her personal business. In the name of ... (61 words)

Boyfriend thinks my breasts are too big, is he right to ask for a reduction?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I'm going out with my boyfriend 10 months and everything going well except for in the bedroom. He prefers women with smaller breasts and I've become very conscious that my 32f breasts must be a turn off to him. I used to love having my breasts touched etc during sex but my ... (82 words)

Boyfriend flirting and lying about it, what is he doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a comitted ldr...i and my bf are together since one year and one month... my problem is that he has made a friend in girl in facebook and i feel that my bf is trying to flirt with her. i checked his mailbox and found that he was asking the girl about her address ... (154 words)

Will she ever like me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello I have found a amazing girl that I met through school and have been speaking to her for a year, we get on really well and can always make eachother laugh, I realised I had feeling for her around 8 months ago and told her 2 months later,she does not feel the same way ... (181 words)

Can a cheat ever be trusted?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I suspect I’m setting myself up for something of a beating here, but such is life.... To sum up the situation, some time over the next couple of months I will be leaving my wife. There are numerous good reasons for this, her lack of support, and her continuously undermin... (409 words)

Does our age difference make this wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 34. We met on the Internet, but met at the mall to go see a movie where there were alot of people. At first I thought all he wanted from me was sex, but i was wrong he treats me right, doesn't pressure me to do anything but we do talk about sex, and ... (144 words)

My friend is setting me up with a guy, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm not sure if my friend is trying to set me up with this guy or not, lol, although she said she isnt, and i'm not sure how to respond to this email she sent to me today. She said " I will let you know about going to the cinema, i am seeing my boyfriend at the weekend and ... (325 words)

Older boyfriend's fetish is all he wants to talk about.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just started dating a man who is a lot older than I am (20 years). He has told me that he has a "golden shower" fetish. I'm okay with it, don't understand it, but ok with it. The only thing is now it seems that's the only thing he wants to talk about. How do I let him ... (86 words)

Can this relationship with my married boss work?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right so apparently this is a "common" thing. Being in love with a married man. I %100 believe he loves me too. To further complicate the situation he is my boss. I've worked day and night with this man 6days a week for 4years. Also his wife. They own it. We all hang out in our ... (210 words)

Do u think that I should continue talking to my ex even though its obvious my boyfriend is my choice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend have been talking and friends. He called me one time a couple weeks ago. Every time I try and talk like friends he always says he misses me. I really don’t believe he does miss me because he would try to win me back. He really hurt me and I can never ... (187 words)

How am I supposed to find a girl in a male dominated industry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know they say don't look for a girlfriend but how am I suppose to find a girlfriend when I'm in a male dominated industry like engineering. I'm 22 and have one year left at uni so I'm still young and I recognise the problem (and also I'm not dating a girl because I hate being ... (203 words)

I am wondering about anyone elses experience about having a baby with someone they love but are not "in love with"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (?) - Hi I'm 31. My live in boyfriend of a year and half and I broke up and he moved out 4 weeks ago because as much as we wanted the same things in life our values are very different. After a death scare 3 years ago I am one to enjoy as much in life as I can now (not partying but ... (424 words)

My girlfriend and I hardly ever see each other but she says she still loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I do not understand my girl any longer. we live in the same neighborhood we don't really see each other in person. we only talk on phone. anytime we meet and I ask if she truly luvs me the response is always yes. Should I quit the relationship? ... (54 words)

Does semen volume impress the ladies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts, All the questions about penis size and female squirters got me wondering about another "size" related topic that many men obsess over...semen volume. But I wanted a womans take on it. Men are sometimes obsessed with producing a voluminous ejaculation. Th... (297 words)

My friends say I should tell a guy how I feel about him, but I don't know

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have liked this guy for about 6 months now im only in high school but i think im in love because hes all i think about i really love him everyone says i would have a chance with him but i dnt think so. I don't know what to do because im a really quiet person and everytime hes ... (96 words)

I've got stong feelings for this guy but he's using me for sex...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - few months ago ive been seeing a guy who i have strong feelings for but he's been using me for sex, and i told him i want more than this. its very hard to get a smile from him he wont have a normal convo, he's very disrespectful, why does he hate me so much?? he told me he ... (172 words)

I've lost both my bf and my fling - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i started seeing my friends housemate......i knew i needed to stop seeing him, some how i got too comfortable and we continued seeing eachother. i promised myself no feelings involved, but i dont knw how......i am now madly in luv with him. i broke up with my boyfriend to be ... (96 words)

Confused and hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and very mature for my age, last year i was in a relationship for about 2 months with a fella who was 21 at that time. we broke up as he got back with his ex girlfriend and we havent spoke since to recently until about a month and a half ago we started chatting and then ... (123 words)

We're both very insecure and its really affecting our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Might seem like a pathetic problem but I’m worried. I been with my boyf 6 mnths and really love him. He was in a longterm relationship that ended a few months before we met. They drifted apart. He is 32 and I am 26. I’m a very insecure person as is he, which is why we are pr... (320 words)

I like my oldest step brother but my mum told me not to fool around with him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm getting 2 step brothers and I'm sorta starting to like the oldest one, B.he's the same age as me and about a month ago he wanted to fool around but I stopped it cause my mom had a chat with me saying it was wrong to fool around with each other and do things that weren't bro ... (162 words)

My partner would not go into a restaurant because he saw his ex wife's car was there, does this mean he is not over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 2 years and I were about to go into a restaurant/bar when he saw his ex wife's car in parking lot and didn't want to go in! I was mad bc it seemed like he was afraid or embarrassed to have her meet me. She is in a relationship and was probably with her new man. ... (103 words)

The scary 'age gap"......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I'm currently in love with a girl that is 17 years old, and i'm 25 years old. I've known her for almost a year now, and i'm still madly in love with her. When we met, she was still dating someone else, but she told me that she wants to be with me. Okay, so finally... (125 words)

What is the right path for us to take to help mend our marriage after the affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age - PLease someone help me ...advise me please...i hurt so bad... I want my husband to give me absolute honest detailed clear picture of what he was doing talking on cell phone,emailings text messaging exchanging pictures with some women in secret for 5 months till I caught i... (1007 words)

Was I not a virgin because I didnt bleed when I had sex for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i want to ask that when i had sex with my boyfriend first time then i was not bleed. But that was first time i involved in the procedure so i want to know was i not a virgin? Please help me because this thing has completly disturbed my life... (51 words)

Did he just pretend for 3 years that he loved me?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - id been with my bf for 3 yrs and he showed me affection.love and cares,, also to my family...can you tell me if a man can just pretend for 3 yrs that he really love me? his breaking up with me on the phone because i add some of his realatives on my facebook wherein his mom aske... (155 words)

We moved too fast and now he just wants to be friends, will anything come of this relationship now?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy and we hit it off and we really emotionally connected but defianetly moved too fast. The end result was that he freaked himself out by moving so fast and said that he wants to be friends and doesn't want to lose me as a friend. The kicker is that he actually ... (184 words)

My boyfriend never opened up to me....

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend went out for 14 months then we broke up but while we were together he would never tell me how he's feeling or if something was wrong with him, I couldn't even ask how was he becuz he would hate me asking. The thing about it is that he can tell another girl ... (83 words)

How to fall in love with my husband again?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How to fall in love with my husband again? We've been married for 5 years, and we have 3.5 y.o. daughter. About 2 years ago, I've met a guy on my friend's b-day party. All sudden I started to have feeling for him, so did he. We would chat online a lot, meet for a lunch once a w... (450 words)

My boyfriend doesn't buy me anything!

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend almost never buys me anything, he got me this bracelet that he got downtown it have cost him like about ten bucks and for valentines day he got me a bunch of stuff from jewlery box where evrything is a dollar but he also got me flowers but he didnt get me anything ... (106 words)

He suddenly stopped texting me! Should I move on?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so My birthday was a couple days ago, and my cousin and his cousin came to my party, everything was really good my birthday was great then my cousin said his cousin likes me and no we are not remotely related what so ever, and s I messaged him on fb saying thanks for ... (214 words)

How do I get out this mess with minimal damage?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A while ago I wrote on here about an annoying colleague who liked to cause drama at work and was difficult to get on with. I got some fantastic replies which hit the nail on the head about her being insecure and selfish. The good news is she has left!! But has got a job cl... (233 words)

Should I give him a chance even though he is very immature?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend who is really nice and sweet and at the same time very immature. Thing is i think i like him but im not sure and i want to be with someone who is more mature and doesnt curse so much!! Dyou think he will change? i guess what im trying to ask is if i shou... (86 words)

Should I believe him and try to work things out?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend. It hurts a lot and I miss him too. He thinks I cheated on him and after that he completely changed with me. I tried to tell him I'd never cheat on him and even tried to prove it. He always said he believed me but then he'd bring it up again. I ... (246 words)

How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had sex twice now..and he keeps worrying about how he hasn't popped my cherry and that hes doing something wrong. Is he doing something wrong? How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed? And if he's doing something wrong, which i don't think ... (62 words)

There's a chance I could be pregnant to my 18 year old cousin, but he already has a pregnant girlfriend!

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help when i was 13 i lost my virginity to my cousin i know what you are thinkin EWWW GROSS!! but i dont wanna hear it! well now im 14 and my cousin is 18 now and we still have sex once in a while and we use a comdom but im scared because i think i could be pregnant but ... (147 words)

My ex boyfriend told me he wants me to die! What should I do?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf just broke up. and he plays a tough guy roll like he's over me. But i know he isnt. We've been talking a lot now. and even tried to get back together, but now, he's saying he dont wanna hear, or see me and that he wants me to die. I love him so much, but ... (83 words)

I am against pre-marital sex but I am super horny! How can I control my urges?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im fourteen and a virgin and i dont belive in pre marital sex. i have a boyfriend who i have actually been with since were were 11 and now im a freshman. . the issue with my no pre martial sex thing is that im like super super horny and im worried i might go too far with my ... (106 words)

Is my teacher interested in me? And will he still be thinking of me even though its been a few months?

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 years old and ive always been into older men. i hope that i dont sound crazy. i was in acting class and my acting teacher stared at me and gave me this sexy smile like he wanted me. when he told us told do an certain exercise he put his arms around my waist to guide me to ... (158 words)

Is it normal to masturbate so much?

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so i am 15 now and gonna be a sophmore in highschool and i masturbate quite often usualy 1-2 times a day if i can and during the school year not so much so that causes me to get really horny and a lot of the times (usualy once every other day) i go to the bathroom and have a ... (73 words)

She gets mad at me if she thinks there is anything going on with another girl, yet she is the one that is engaged!

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am madly in love with a girl. She is perfect in every way. We're really good friends and spend a lot of time together. The only problem is that shes engaged and she says she doesnt wanna break it off with him until shes sure we'll work out. She tells me that shes falling in ... (152 words)

True love? Or just a phase?

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well i want some advice on this please and i hve a question as well. My girlfriend and i have been together for over 13 months. We love each other to an extreme that makes my heart feel like it's going to explode. She feels the same i know she does. We tell each other we ... (90 words)

Casual sex, is it just a phase?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In the last 3 months i've slept with 16 men and there's no true sign of my sex life slowing any. Lately i've been sleeping with guys, taking names, and sending them on their way. I dont want a relationship and love disgusts me (i used to love love) plus I cant stand one ... (191 words)

Been talking to a guy for eight days and it already feels like he's the one...am I crazy?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I'm not inlove but it sure feels like it. I've been talking to this dude for about 8 days now. We've never met before and we plan on meeting when I get back. I feel like he's the "one". I know it may sound weird, and I'm young and blah blah blah..but this so isn't me ... (242 words)

I'm done 'having meaningless fun' but just so worried that when I'm faced with the next guy - I won't refuse!

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive hooked up with prob 10 + guys in my lifetime, but never had sex with them...I had sex ONCE with a guy (that i didnt know well) and never had it again....after having sex i realized that I had lost my self respect and that even making out with a guy i barely knew was wrong ... (294 words)

Is there any hope for me? I feel like I'm never going to get over this heartbreak

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just don't know what's wrong with me anymore. Almost 5 years ago, I had (still have) a unrequited crush on a girl. Now, not just any girl. She was different. After getting to know her, I thought about her all the time. Everytime I saw her, she made me feel invicible. Every... (254 words)

Can you be in love with two ppl at the same time?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair with the same man for 9 years. He and his wife are both physicians and have a certain "appearance/status" to uphold in their community . I had his baby when we had been together for 6 years. His wife found out and forbid him to talk to me anymore. So, ... (211 words)

Is this just the end of infatuation or really true love?

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this true love? Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, but just recently we broke up. I felt sick and she said that she cried a lot. I know I want her back, but I have the feeling that I should let her go and live her life and let me live mine. I also hope ... (100 words)

I just want good sex like I used to have!

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) my boyfriend and I have only been together for about 5 months and things were obviously great in the begining.. but not as much anymore. I don't tell him this yet but I do love him. Things are starting to seem a little complicated now tho.. before I got with this boy... (181 words)

Our relationship doesn't seem as strong as it used to be... why is this?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and we are almost always long distance because of college. I can't tell if I still love him or just don't want to be alone. When he used to visit we would be all over each other, but now I don't always feel in the mood ... (83 words)

What should I tell my brother?

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10 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up awhile ago. We were together for a few years. I am in my mid twenties. My parents know because i was really upset. For some reason, rather than tell my brother who lives close by i have just pretended everything is the same and we are still together. ... (227 words)

Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse than anything i've noticed with pre... (195 words)

He thinks I'm cheating with my ex but I'm not! How can I convince him?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm a 21 year old female. I have a boyfriend that I love a lot ! We've been together for 4 years now and he thinks I'm cheating on him with my ex!! He doesn't like when I talk to guys, and I don't like when he talks to girls either! He does it all the time and says they're ... (262 words)

I'm afraid of being alone forever!

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10 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I know im only 13, but im afraid of being alone forever. I havent had a father in my life since my parents got divorced when I was 6. I dont have any brothers, so I dont know whats it like to be around men. My mom says that all men are pigs and that if they havent cheated on ... (178 words)

How can I gain my boyfriend's trust back?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and 4 of those months he has been in work release. I lied to him about how many times I talked to this guy. I've never cheated on him nor hung out with another guy. I truly love this man with all my heart and I need some advice on h... (246 words)

My ex... or Robert???

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Ex and I had separated, around two months ago, and then came along Robert. For some reason I kept on calling my Ex just to check up. I love my current Bf, but for some reason I feel as though I am still in love with my Ex. I feel guilt flowing through my mind. Honestly I ... (135 words)

Should I test again???

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello i could really use some smart advice right about now. My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex(were both clean and std free!) ;but the next day i think i got my period it was very light to the point where it didn''t even take up one pad? I had unprotected sex a week before ... (100 words)

Not a game of finders keepers, I want my son back...

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been hapily married for 11 years, or at least that's what i would like to have thought. 2 years ago, my wife started a job just to up-abit our money; we have an 8 year old son, and wanted to spend a good holiday with him. her job was cleaning offices at night from around ... (495 words)

We're teenagers and we really want to have a baby!

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi :) My boyfriend and I realllyyyyy want a baby!! We've been trying for about 2 months and it doesn't seem to work. Everyone says I'm too young for a baby, but I know this is what we want. I love my boyfriend to death, and we want a baby and a family together. We are... (83 words)

I didn't realize how much time he spent on pornography until just recently

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a healthy relationship of almost 4 years. I have never been the type of girl to complain about pornography, I in fact enjoy watching it myself and have encouraged the openness and sharing of it in our relationship. He has always tried to hide it from me ... (481 words)

I introduced a woman into our marriage and now my husband is in love with her!

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10 August 2010 (F)

age - I'v been married to my husband for 15 yrs. Of those 15yrs we have had very few arguments. I thought that we had a good and happy marriage. Our sex has always been strong until a few yrs ago it started to get stale. I had befriended a woman 10 yrs ago,My husband and I would ... (224 words)

He doesn't want to be friends with me any more...

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i'm having some boy trouble. So this boy and I used to be good friends. I've always had a crush on him and he's always been there for me. On the last day of school he even kissed me, even though he reassured me that we're only friends. Well ever since this summer things ... (158 words)

Why does my man treat me like this?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my by of three years is confusin the hell outta me. He proposed when we'd been together two months. I moved into his place let mine out. Then he changed. . Rumours of him cheating, calls on his phone, whispering comin from downstairs. Whenever i questioned i was called a freak ... (343 words)

How can I tell my friends and family we're trying again?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I split with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago, but I cant move on. I still love him, i still feel something for him and i cant see my future without him. We've spoke for the past 2 days about trying again, he said im the only one he wants and i trust him enough to believe him. We ... (152 words)

Is your first love is the strongest love and could that love last forever?

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, 3 and a half years ago I fell in love with this amazing girl, see ment the world to me but there was a big age differance at the time :( she was 13 I was 21, we was only friends and I didn't know I loved her until I lost contact with her (her dad got the wrong idea and s... (240 words)

Should we part ways...?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old and my boyfriend is 38 years of age. I met him when i was 17. He used to live in london but he recently (5 months ago) moved to Berlin, Germany due to his job. Obviously my family and freinds dont know anything about him, and his dont either. He has two kids, an ... (187 words)

How do I get him to do more and how do I spice up this relationship?

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10 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for nearly 4 years and we get along really well and have a lot in common. The problem is, even though I love him very much, I've found myself getting increasingly bored with him. I am a social person and thrive on action and going places and ... (229 words)

What's worse? To break up or to be broken up with?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here is the senario: Two people who have been dating for about 2 years. they have in a happy relationship or so they thought. they love and care a great deal for each other. Partner #1 feels that it's a dead end relationship though. Despite there being no infidelities or ... (157 words)

Is my cum normal???

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a man 22~25yo. It seems like that i feel horny everyday. Is that ok if i just masturbate everyday? If i do so, does that effect to my sexual life later on? I mean my sperm will be weaker then i cant get girl pregnant? And also my cum doesnt look white like milk. Whats ... (99 words)

How do I end this without destroying him?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a tricky situation and would really like some advice. I'm a 26 year old lesbian but I'm married to a man and have one child. When I met my husband, I really did fall head over heels in love with him, despite having known I am gay for several years (although not 'out'). ... (494 words)

Feeling stuck in a too good relationship

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I find myself questioning my relationship more and more, and I don’t know what I should do: take things slower? Call it off completely? Stay with him? I feel as though most people who write in with a “should I stay or leave my partner” question already know the answer inside ... (1460 words)

Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know?

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know? I have been in online dating chat rooms. and all the guys want to talk about is sex. It makes me feel uncomfortable since the guy is a stranger. If anyone knows the answer to this burning question, please respond.... (54 words)

Does she just want attention and nothing else?

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10 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do u know if a girl likes you how long should u wait to ask her out? How do u handle guys flirting with her when ur not dating yet? I met this 13 year old girl about 2 weeks ago through her friend wich I dated for a day then we both realized we didn't belong together and I ... (422 words)

I give guys my number but they never call... why???

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10 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a very frustrated young woman. I have given my number to numerous men who never bother to call. In person, they seem very interested in me, but the moment I give out my number; I never get called. I want desperatlely to be in a casual relationship, but cannot get past the ... (63 words)