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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Transitioning from Best Friends (13 years) to Dating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - While I have always felt an attraction to my best friend, we have never really considered the possibility of him and I being more than friends. See, we've been best friends for 13 years now and have the same small circle of friends, which include his brother and sister-in-law. ... (1574 words)

I want to stop hurting and move on but I don't know how! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am being so silly and need some help on how to finally get over my ex, please. We broke up a year ago. We'd been together 9 years, lived together for 5 years until I found out he was cheating on me with a woman from work. So we split up, he moved to a different town, ... (520 words)

Do you think men can change or do you think cheaters will always be cheaters?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 years and have been living together for 8 years. I moved out real young at the age of 17. Everything was going with well with he and I until and we talked about having kids and a couple of months later I was pregnant. Well 2 months into ... (315 words)

My girlfriend is a workaholic, please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now, and have known her for 5. And I am pretty positive now that she is a workaholic. She always told me that she had a weird work schedule, saying sometimes she would have to work late at night or at odd hours, and I... (661 words)

Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been married to a woman who I love very much for 4 years now and have been with her for almost 7 years. Before we hooked up, I was in two consecutive homosexual relationships. She knew and even supported me at that time, and we were good friends. I thought I was bisexual, ... (124 words)

Boyfriend is ignoring me... why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i need an advice, i think my boyfriend is ignoring me. In the past, he dissapear for over one month, but he appear and told me he was very sorry for it, that he really missed me and he know he did bad, because he found he was getting emotional with me and he got scared. I ... (532 words)

Should I wait for my husband to do his time in prison?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 6 years. Hes been in prison for the past 2 years. I am struggling with whether i should go out on my own or stay here waiting for him. He was not always the nicest guy he called me and my kids names and he hit me a few times which is what landed ... (158 words)

The perfect man...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you were to build the perfect man, how big would you make his penis? Me? 7" and thick enough that my fingers don't touch when gripping it. Oh yeah. Circumcision is a must for anything going in MY mouth. What do you all think?... (47 words)

Don't understand these feelings...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the past 4 years. I really love her, and we are both certain that we are going to get married someday in the near future (I've been planning to propose in the next few months). My dilemma is that in the past couple of months, ... (150 words)

His ex is still in his life and it's really getting to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now; but his ex keeps popping into our lives every so often. Now usually i wouldn't hav a prob with this but the thing that ticks me off, is that she never pays attention to me wen I'm around!! she ignores me and constantly ... (236 words)

I need a woman by Saturday!!! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age - Dear cupid, I've got to go to my older brother's wedding on Saturday just can't get woman to go with me. If I can't get a girlfriend by Saturday I won't get to go to my older brother's wedding. I'm very shy with women and I've tried everything to get one.... (52 words)

Why should I raise HIS children while he does time in prison???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a squeeze. I've been married for 6 months to my boyfriend of 3 years. We have had continuous issues with his infidelity and disloyalty and I don't trust him. Recently he was sentenced to a minimum of 5 years in prison. When he was picked up by the police I ... (166 words)

Not been shown attention from husband, now met a guy who HAS shown me attention... do I pursue this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am married and my husband treats me ok. Yeah he loves go with his friends to the bar but so do I. We are an ok couple but he just never really pays me attention anymore. I can cook his favortie meal but never receive thanks. I literally do everything for him. I wash clothes, ... (286 words)

I wanna stay but have suspicions something is going on... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my biyfriend for over a year and a half and about 6 months ago he moved away so we were in a long distance relationship , since summer started i moved out here with him , im only sixteen going into grade 12 and my mommy told me i can stay if i find a job to pay ... (277 words)

My boyfriend is extremely passive and it gets me frustrated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need a suggestion... So I have my ordinary/daily/every-day problem with my quiet boyfriend. Lately, though, he is trying hard to "contribute", so I interpret it as a sign of "I really want to make this relationship work, but I don't know what to say/do". I find ... (474 words)

Mum wants to die, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum is very ill. She has a wide range of multiple illnesses and is in alot of pain. The illnesses include: Emphysema and COPD Chronic Heart Disease Chronic Kidney Disease Cerebral Vascular Disease Fybromyalgia and Arthiritis From this as anyone who knows about ... (200 words)

Should I talk to him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, my ex boyfriend broke up with me, for another girl. I was REALLY into him, and he was really a good guy. A REALLY good guy. But after he saw that other girl he turned into such a douche bag! I was really upset, still am very heartbroken but im not as furious with him ... (148 words)

Do we have a chance of getting back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so lost and confused. my boyfriend of only 3 months and i know its not long but we just clicked it was amazing. he broke up with me but that same day we talked it out and got back together. well it happened again but what im confused about is that the days before he ... (178 words)

Does this make me a homewrecker???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my bf in college and he seemed like a very nice guy. We started talking a lot and we really liked each other. He asked me to be his gf and i said yes. But soon after i got a call from this girl telling me that he was married and that he has a son with her. when i ... (278 words)

I don't want to get hurt and need to kind of get out before things get really complicated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy I work with (it began in May). However, I am definitely at the place where I just kind of want to end things. It started off with him kind of being distant but of course being just the right amount of ... (514 words)

Should I suggest we go on a weekend trip? Or would that be going overboard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf's birthday is in 3 weeks and he lives 2 hours away. I got him a small gift already and planned to spend about $40. Well, I'm moving out of my apartment and into my dorm the week before his birthday, but he said he still would like to come up to see me for his birthday... (296 words)

I want her to love me... not say that I'm boring!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, right to cut a long story short, I was needy / clingy, she got mad, we nearly split, we sorted it out and now have sorted some "ground rules" no texting 100 times a day, no constantly telling her I love her, couple of days ago she says that our convo is boring and we ... (221 words)

How to ask him out on a date...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have started going out with someone, i think he has never had a girlfriend so i dont know how to ask him on a date never mind even kiss him (although i wouldnt mind it) please help me :)... (43 words)

Slowly going crazy with guilt!!!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP Title* This is a bit of a mess. I recently married my boyfriend (now husband) of 8 years. We are so happy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Ever since we got engaged I have been thinking about a mistake I made in the first 3 weeks of our relationship, wh... (301 words)

Urge to pee when we get intimate...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so every single time my bf has fingered me, and he starts to go faster, I really need to pee. I stop him and go to the toilet but then feel like it again. I haven't orgasmed when he has fingered me - but is this peeing sensation the lead up to an orgasm? Is th... (77 words)

Boyfriend and his female friend at the cinema... and I don't like it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and been with boyfriend for almost a year. He spends a lot of time with his female best friend and I know it's innocent but they went to the cinema together alone, and I got upset when my boyfriend mentioned it to me. He was annoyed I made such a big deal even though I ... (102 words)

Help to find a summer romance.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so im going away in just under 2 weeks, not abroad just to another part in england. im going with my mum and friend, but me and my friend will be going off by ourselves, to have a bit more fun, i want to find a summer romance. nothing serious, i just want a summer fling. Im ... (150 words)

Girlfriend still friends with Ex boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So basically here is this weird situation. I have been together with this girl for 4 months. 6 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend because of his cheating and says that she has no feelings for him, would never sleep with him etc. Yet i notice they still talk so a month ... (200 words)

Boyfriend sex issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we have the worst sex life I have ever had in a relationship. I love him more than anything and hope we get married someday. We have talked about a future together and are planning to move into together, but I am worried I ... (645 words)

How do I initiate something sexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 15 and the other day I was wondering how I could broach the subject of doing something sexual with my boyfriend, not sex, something like oral. He's not very outgoing usually but when it comes to touching me or vice versa he's very confident and open. So, I'm not sc... (121 words)

He's completely flaked on our plans and even though he's still nice to me he's being a little weird...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm freaking frustrated. I've been dating this guy for a month and 1/2. He calls daily/every other day (2x sometimes). He doesnt have a car or his own place. We saw each other a lot but i stopped goin as much cos it got expensive (he lives 35 min away). The calls slowed down ... (660 words)

Help!!! I'm getting feelings for my boss!!!

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a really good relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years but lately i have been getting feelings for my boss! i have no idea as he is so not my type and i know nothing could ever happen due to the fact that he is my boss and also he doesn't have time for a relationship ... (178 words)

My new look is making my husband so insecure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my husband is intimidated by me. We have been married for over 22 years. He lost his good paying job 2 years ago. The place he worked for closed up and left the US. He had worked there for almost 25 yrs. Now he has a much harder job that doesn't pay nearly as well, bu... (249 words)

Where are all the real women???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was what is called a player in my early 20's. Now I am 36 and a single Father to my amazing 5 yr old boy. I haven't dated since his mom left 5 years ago. I tried a couple of times but it seems like games. Most women are not interested once they find out I have full custody of ... (141 words)

His jealousy is tearing us apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've only been with my boyfriend for around 9 or 10 months. He has a slight problem with jealousy, I can recall plenty of times he's gotten really upset about my past relationships and hook ups (which I've hardly had any of either) and a few weeks ago he dum... (328 words)

New girl, horrible anxiety

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I really need help here. I've known this girl through somebody else for a couple months, never really talked too much or hung out. now she's moved into another place near me and we've been hanging out. So I like her and I'm pretty sure she likes me. My problem is that I ... (130 words)

Why am I still having these feelings for my ex when I'm happy with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I even feel awful saying this but... I have a new boyfriend who I really care about, he's a great guy and I have really strong feelings for him, everything between us is fine and I don't understand why even though I have moved on I am jealous of my ex boyfriend of two years and ... (112 words)

I revealed something very personal about our relationship and he found out and broke things off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me an my partner have not long broke up, we have a 3 month old baby together and i love him so so much, i really want him back. The reason we broke up is because i told his cousin's girlfriend that he was pressurising me to have sex not long after i gave birth to my baby girl. ... (118 words)

We still have feelings for each other and are still in contact even although we split up. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age - I have a very confusing situation at the moment. Long story so here goes. I had an affair with someone for just over a year. We were both married and had young children. We both fell desperately in love. I couldn't carry on with my wife so I left. Not to be with the other w... (416 words)

Is there a part of him that regrets breaking things off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out with this guy for 8 years. He was very loving, but he split up with me. Days later he was with someone else. They've been together about 18 months now. I'm over it although I still care for him as a person. Thing is, I am moving on, and I would like him to move... (217 words)

Love lost in a storm of shame.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! I've never been one to have a strong sex drive but recently, like the last year or so, the libido really kicked in. I was engaged but he didn't have much interest in warming up those sheets more than once a month. You see where this is going. I cheated on my fi... (306 words)

I am seriously stuck between a rock and a hard place right now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and I really do love him! I am just worried about the fact that he isn't ready to settle down and may never be! We have had our ups and downs just like any relationship ever does! He actually just got homem from being gone ... (343 words)

Bad cramps...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 17 years old and for the past 2 months, i have been getting constant cramping in my abdomen, just below my belly button right down to my bikini line. i was on birth control for 3 months then stopped, because it made me very moody. i am sexually active, and these cramps ... (101 words)

This isn't the way she should be acting after her father's death.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupiders, I really need help on this one. My neighbor who became a little sister to me is only fithteen and in Febuary her father past away. Now before this she was a sweet spoiled little girl, and she was very misunderstood. Her father did a lot of perscription dru... (373 words)

Is there a way to turn resentment into joy when it comes to every day life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is there a way to turn resentment into joy when it comes to every day life? There is no spark in my relationship and instead of fighting all the time and getting frustrated about chores, bills, or other day-to-day necessities of life, there must be a way to be happy with ea... (69 words)

Does it matter if someone you love has had too many partners?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

- If you meet somone and you then develop feelings for them and then love them, will it not matter to you if they've had too many partners or hardly any at all. No matter what age (be it 20, 30 or 40)? Just asking out of curiosity as I'm not the most experienced so I would li... (117 words)

Is there any way of making a name for yourself in the job market without a degree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is not a question on relationships but I am still looking for some advice/guidance from the older working generation! I'm currently 2 years into a 4 year course studying Mathematics at Edinburgh University. Before this my CV was building up to be really good, I got all ... (306 words)

My girlfriend says she wants a break

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months + and today she told me she is losing feeling for me and she wants a break. She says she doesn't want to lose me and that she still loves me. She says she needs a break because we talk every day. What should I do? I ... (88 words)

Date for the first time - what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, just a quick question. I'm meeting this guy for the first time tomorrow and I have NO idea what to do. I don't know what to talk about - we've been texting a lot already so I know we do have quite a lot in common already but still - and I don't know how to act. I've ... (110 words)

I might actually act soon on my crush... but it's my best friend's boyfriend!!! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people! I feel ashamed, its ridiculous but yes, i have a crush on my girl's bf! The worst thing is that he knows it and he always turns me on deliberately. He says that he loves his girlfriend and thats true but he also tells me that he wants to kiss me and touch me and ... (104 words)

How to handle her insecurities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age - I am dating a woman who had intercourse with a man for 8 years, who she continues to represent as one of her best friends. They sometimes went to live sex clubs together. She tells me that she just did it for the sex, until he decided to date a another woman. Aparently, they ... (267 words)

I'm not in a very good place at the moment and need your help guys...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age - Dear Agony Aunt Please can you help. I am 54 years of age as is my husband. Recently I have noticed that he has been visiting porn sites on the internet most mornings and evenings. Is this normal for a man of his age? Our sex life hasn't been brilliant lately - I think ... (680 words)

Is my girlfriend just the sluttiest girl on the planet???

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2846 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Do girls ever like "having a train pulled on them?". My girlfriend has had a very lurid sexual past, as have all her close friends. She unveiled all this to me soon after we had said, "I love you.". I have been dealing with some jealousy/maybe a tinge of disgust at times. ... (352 words)

My wife has a new sexual fetish. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife likes me to lick her bum. This seems weird to me, and i am not sure i like it. I do it. This is hard to explain, but she seems to get off on dominating me. She says stuff like, "You like it when i F your face, don't you" or "lick that ass" She does this by sta... (189 words)

Ladies, what's the big deal with making the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

3 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Hey Guys, I've been posting on this site for a while now and there's something that's been bothering me, something that I just can't figure out. Why are women so afraid of, adverse to or just straight up against making the first move? I see a lot of questions from w... (289 words)

Sex toys for males?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I'm a 18 year old guy and I love masturbating. I'm not obsessed with it, I only do it 3-5 times a day, but it's not like I can't stop if I wanted to or that I'm doing it in public. I want to get a male sex toy, but I can't because I'm still living with my... (148 words)

Am I overreacting for getting annoyed at my boyfriend texting his ex at 2am in the morning?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have an issue I would like some advice with... I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have found he often texts other girls... only girls that are friends but one of which he has slept with in the past... nothing serious just a one night stand... she is ... (206 words)

Boyfriend can get too rough in the bed sometimes...I need advice!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, i've been dating my BF for almost 3 years now and we have a good, trusting relationship. Sex is satisfying for me, but he seems to want to be violent during sex. Now don't think i mean rough, because i don't mind a bit of rough now and again, but he can get very ... (150 words)

Am I wasting my time? We just started dating again....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm confused and frustrated. My guy and I got back together 8 months ago after being apart six months. I am wanting more of a commitment from him . All he says when I press the issue is I want that to just not yet . When I say you knew what I wanted when you came after me ... (209 words)

How can I convince him I wasn't 'checking up' on him or 'stalking' him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a man for a while now and things have begun to get very important. We've talked about finance, living together, he even met my parents the other week. Yesterday I messed up totally. I went to supermarket and on the way back I thought I'd drive around to the ... (273 words)

Should I just blank him completely and get on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so this isn't much of a big dilemma. I'll tell you the story from the beginning. I fell in love with this amazing guy, Who I thought was actually a genuine person; He was really sweet, nice, funny and understanding, But It was all too good to be true I suppose. He dumped... (371 words)

I suspect my partner is having an affair but he says I am being silly! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am a 45 year old woman. i have been with my 48 year old partner for 24 years. we are both tattooists and have our own business. last dec my partner started acting strangely ie he started going out every fri and sat night (and one night midweek) till after midnite (he says ... (140 words)

Is there anything I can do to stop feeling like I'm replacing my ex with my new guy...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Urh, I have a feeling this could go on a while. Where to start... Lol :') Well me and a boy went out for nearly two years, we broke up in February. He was abusive and really hurt me numerous times and cheated on me more times than I can remember. So most of you will thin... (299 words)

How do I deal with jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

- How do I deal with jealousy of people talking to my friends or change this? I get jealous when other people talk to my friends as they have their attention. I was never like this when I was at high school because I only had a few friends and we all stayed together. It's... (257 words)

After the abortion I am feeling depressed but I cant talk to my partner about this.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i had abortion 6 weeks ago i know it was for the best because i got a 6 month old baby and i got 2 older kids but i just feel so depressed, one min i want to cry the next im lashing out i cant talk to my oher half about this cus he think i want an argument.... (60 words)

Can you be sympathetic to a person who has not been able to fully experience their sexuality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This question may seem long and convoluted but there is an underlying unity I can absolutely assure you if you just take the time to read between the lines and try to see how things might look from my perspective. I hope you can see when a disagreement arises out of semantic ... (1377 words)

Is it my boyfriend's or the other guys baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Could really need some help please, im pregnant 7weeks i had sex with another guy a week before my period and the rest of the time with my bf so how do i know its my bf? its on the 22 july i did it with the other guy and found out today im 7weeks pregnant because my period is ... (72 words)

Is there still hope for us? How can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well a week ago my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (16) because I hurt him really badly. I didnt cheat on him but I did have a few drinks and ended up all over another guy. We had a big fight then and he told me that I broke his heart and that he will never trust me again. ... (212 words)

Feelings for my step-cousin.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is it wrong to fancy my 3rd step cousin???... (9 words)

Why have I had 2 periods in one month?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, just need some advice re menstrual cycle. I've always had really irregular periods, as in 2 or 3 months, never the same amount of time between them. anyway i started taking vitex tablets (supposed to help regulate periods) and tried them for about 3 months but didnt... (167 words)

My partner wont pay a penny towards our family, yet he takes our loans and gives the money to his mother!

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 8 months pregnant with our first child but also have a little girl from a previous relationship who lives with us. My partner and I have been together for 5 years and he just hasnt contributed to the household bills, ever. I have spoken to him at length time and time ... (167 words)

My ex has totally messed up my head, should I see a doctor?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey people, This is going to be the last time i post something on this because i think my head is going? My ex totally messed me about, lied to me, messed me totally about. one week she wanted me, the next didnt then when it all came to a end she told me she hated me, i was a ... (173 words)

I'm struggling to cope with my partner's depression....

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26, he's 27 and we've been together almost 2 years. Basically, he's suffering from severe depression, and I'm having difficulty coping with the situation. He's just been made redundant from the 2nd job in 6 months, and it's just exacerbated his depression. He'... (417 words)

Should I tell him about all the problems I feel are in our relationship?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in love with my friend, that i meet year 2007, but before we dont have any afair, coz we only friends, and i got broke up that time, but he likes me a lot, and last year 2010 we meet again in the phillippines, i never thought that i will fall in love with him, same he is, ... (432 words)

Who's the Daddy?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Morning everybody well i have something to ask im 7weeks pregnant and very happy about it but something is bothering me , well you see me and my husband have regular sex but then we tryed something else for 1 day i had sex with someone else i was very drunk and he came inside ... (212 words)

A girl online isn't returning my messages. Was it something I said?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been talking to a girl on an online dating website. We seemed to be getting along okay, but she has stopped responding to my messages. I know that she's been online and it says that she has read my messages, but she isn't replying to me anymore. I can't think what I've ... (108 words)

I can't seem to make anybody really interested in me...

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3 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I am 18 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm very open about everything, and I always say whatever I think. I value people for being different, though sometimes I feel I have an impatient and rushed personality. Maybe that's why I can't get any guys to like me with ... (486 words)

My best friend has been locked up and no-one can visit him! How can I get through this?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need some help on how to get through this! this is my story it might not sound sad but for me sometimes i feel like dying just when i go back to this. well i went on vacations to las vegas for two weeks and at that time when people called me i didnt anwser i only ... (224 words)

What is important love or sex?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP's own title] I love my bf so much and we have a blast together but when it comes down to sex he has a hard time satisfying me. He always ends up finishing before i do.What should i do?i dont want to leave him but like every woman i want to feel satisfied.Is love a big enou... (72 words)

I think I am in love with him but my parents have forbidden us to see each other! How do I cope?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm 16. I met this guy this past school year, which was my freshman year of highschool and his senior year. We became pretty good friends. I ended up falling for him. Too bad he's 18. He finally admitted that he has feelings for me, this summer. My parents do not ... (91 words)

It burns when I pee!

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey , this is a very embarassing question for me and yet i can't go to the doctor, bec, i don't know if he or she will find out that i'm not a virgin , so my problem is that my thing burns like hell and i can't pee, bec, it burns even more and for some weird reason there is... (71 words)

She thinks I'm too protective...

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I got in a huge fight. We've been going out for over a year. She really wants to go to this dance thing, where guys and girls are grindin' up on each other. I told how I felt about it and she started cussing me out, yelling, saying that I was TOO protecti... (108 words)

We are having problems after only being together for a month! Is he showing signs of being possessive?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together for a month now.In that month we had so many arguments because sometimes i dont call him or cause i cant go out sometimes or just because i didnt call him when i went out with my mom. Is he showing signs of being a possesive guy?Should i be ... (71 words)

Is it normal to not want to experience any feelings at all?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I went through a very bad period in my life almost a year ago and experienced a lot of intense emotional pain and the feeling of causing someone else intense pain. At one point, I became overwhelmed to the point of not being able to get out of bed. The thought of fe... (187 words)

Feel threatened by husband's friend; working in the same office. Found incriminating texts on his phone. Are they more than friends?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 yr old woman married for the last 2.5 years. My husband is great friends with this another woman whom he knows since before he met me. I would call this woman M in the rest of the email. 'M' and my husband 'A' used to work together in a company in 2004. MY husband and ... (618 words)

My boyfriend's ex who is the mother of his children is becoming a problem in our relationship, what should I do?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do if it bugs me if my boyfriends ex which is also the mother of his two children calls and texts non stop everyday even while I'm with him? and she knows it and she calls and says he needs to come and get the kids now and that if he doesn't that she's going to put ... (139 words)

We really want to keep the baby but my 14 year old girlfriend's mum wont let us, what is the best thing for us to do?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 year old boy. my gf is 14 and she is pregnant. her mom found out and she is trying to say we cant keep it. she is saying that we eather have to adopt the baby to her mom, adopt it out or we have to have a abortion... we dont want to do any of them.her mom doesnt want her ... (106 words)

Should I confront my mum over her new boyfriend?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been put in an awkward position over my mum's new boyfriend, and I'm not sure whether to confront mum over it. I'm 26 and mum is 55 and my dad died 4 years ago. Mum and dad were married since they were 19 and my mum spent a long time grieving for my dad. My unc... (826 words)

Boyfriend is HIV positive and we want children, so which man do I choose to be the father of my child?

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3 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend is HIV positive and we both want children...but i dont want to do it medically so i have to decide whether i want my ex or his friend who is married to get me pregnant. i weighed the options but i'm still confused...who do i choose? my ex doesnt want another man ... (59 words)

Met a married man - he asked for space while he divorced his wife. Now he's distanced himself from me.

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a wonderful man 1 year ago. He is married with 3 children. During the past year we became close friends and I learnt that him and his wife were living together for the children and that they were no longer intimate and unhappy. Over time our friendship developed but ... (318 words)

Why do I get a tingly feeling all over my body just before I have an orgasm?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok im a guy and wen i masturbate right as as im about to have an orgasm i get this tingly feeling all over my body.....why is that...is it good or bad.......... (32 words)

My husband won't stop to talking to his lover

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3 August 2010 (F)

age - My husband finally admitted that he had a fair with female partner who owns a company in overseas.( They have been working on the project for last 5 years. The fair just started it several months ago when he was in business trip in overseas) I was hurt and very depressed for ... (183 words)

Is it normal to hate being at this school because I feel it is the reason for splitting us up?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Any kind of advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated.... I just graduated high school and decided to go out of state. Right after I chose to go out of state I met a wonderful guy... He was someone I truly fell in love with. We dated for a while and well, one day we... (147 words)

I like this guy but I'm shy! Tips, please.

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is guy up my street who i really like, but we dont go to the same school. I really want to talk to him the most we have said to each other is hi and bye my mom says he likes me too but im not sure. I need help im to shy to talk to him please help!... (60 words)

Fiance seems to love porn more than me. Any other guys out there who do that?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I honestly don't know what to do. I am engaged to a 28 yr old man that i have been with for almost 2 years now. When we first got together we had sex alot. But now i ask him to make love to me and he says he's too tired or something else. If i'm lucky we have sex only ... (236 words)

How do I tell my mum I am pregnant at 13 by a 17 year old guy?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I am 13 and pregnant. :| My boyfriend is 17. I want to keep the baby. But, my parents would never allow it. How do I tell my parents I am pregnant. I know automatically my mom would call me a slut. I just found out today. But, I was thinking maybe putting the pregn... (76 words)

Is it ok to have phone sex with a friend before marriage?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 28 year old girl, not married. Recently one of old friend told me about the sex process, since then I get aroused and started fantasing about sex when I am alone. He also told me about masturbation, so when ever I am alone, I call him or he calls me and I blindly ... (174 words)

Wait for what I want or settle for the guys who want me?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old girl and i have never had a boyfriend but i would love to have one. There are a few guys that i know are interested in me but none of them are the kind of guy i am attracted to. But my question is, should i continue waiting until someone i truly li... (94 words)

Why do some girls act this way?

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3 August 2010 (F) - this is more complaining than anything else..its an observation i have made..i have some friends with boyfriends who i would say are the type you would have really absolutely and positvely nothing to worry about..and the thought wouldn't even cross your mind about them doing ... (318 words)

Is it weird that we've never discussed our financial situation?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was talking to my mom the other day and she says to me that it's strange that although I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year I don't know much about his finances, salary etc. I've never wanted to know or asked, and he hasn't asked me about mine either. We don't... (143 words)

If he doesn't want her anymore, why is he going back?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex had been together 12yrs, i was 16 and he was 27.... im now 28 and hes 39, we have 4 children together but in feb we boke up, it was ment to be just a break, to clear our heads... but i found out he was seeing an old flame from when he was 17, we live in london and ... (311 words)

What does 'Trust' mean to you?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Would someone tell me what you think "Trust" means in a marriage? What do you think both partners should be bringing to the table? I just want to see if I am normal?... (33 words)

Should I stay with my moody girlfriend?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend of 7 months and my head has been so twisted the last 1.5 months about what to do... Some times I could see me being with her but the next day I want to end it all. She is very moody and gets poutty when something disappoints her, I am very sarcastic and ... (127 words)

I left it too late and now he won't talk to me

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My crush Ian has stayed up all nigh texting me , talking to me on myspace and facebook but I feel like we haven't talked in forever. We always flirt and hangout and he's like my big brother except I like him. He is always talking to me and I play hard to get and it always works ... (149 words)

I don't trust the mother of his kids

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad if it pisses me off that my boyfriend has kids and still has to see his ex? I'm not jelous and I do trust him I just don't trust her and I really don't like her.... (39 words)

He pushed me too far and I hit him

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I hit my boyfriend in the nose and made it bleed last night after catching him at a club dancing with some woman, what do i do now? We have a history which has been filled with lies, cheating, arguing, but never has he been physically abusive to me. He does make me feel ins... (391 words)

Was he just using me for sex while travelling?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so about 3 weeks ago, I met a guy through a friend of a friend. He's Polish, grew up in France, and is going to music school in Amsterdam. We hit if off at the very beginning, and hung out a few times. He did many sweet things to make me think he was hanging out with me ... (329 words)

What age do most people lose their virginity?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am curious as to what age most people lose their virginity. All my friends have had sex, and I was wondering what age most people began having sex.... (30 words)

How do you cope with being alone?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you cope with being alone? I hate it. I have never been in a relationship, never had a boyfriend, never had sex. Is there some magic formula for dealing with the lonliness and watching everyone else move forward with their lives, marriage, children, love, happiness.... (95 words)

Having trouble deciding whether to settle down with him.

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a teenager and I normally don't take my relationships to seriously. The last relationship I was in lasted for about two and a half months. Unfortunatly I got really attatched to him!!! On the fourth of July he told me that his parents were making him break up with me. Well ... (215 words)

How can you know if love will last?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can u tell me what love means to u I'm so confused I don't really know. I know I don't love the guy that I'm with now and I'm a bit dissapointed cuz I thought I loved him I always wanted to be with him I felt something everytime we kissed it just felt so right but now I don't ... (124 words)

Should I kiss my girlfriend?

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3 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been out for a just over a month now and my friends keep saying i should kiss her. one day me and a few of my friends and her and a few of her friends went to the cinema, and after she got off the train on the way home two of my friends started ... (210 words)

Overwhelmed with feelings, is this more than a crush?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. How do I tell if what I'm feeling is a crush or something more? Since about two years I've grown closer to someone who was at school with me. I really like him but I don't understand what I'm feeling. I've never felt remotely attracted to anyone before and when I first... (178 words)

I'm worried that we are going to a place I don't want to go!

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend so much. I feel like we are falling apart. We have been together for a little over a year. We broke up awhile ago for about 5 or 6 months but we were still seeing each other. He used to be so crazy about me, except now since we've got officially back ... (175 words)

How much patience do you dole out in a relationship before you become a doormat?

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3 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping folks can give me some perspective on my current relationship. I feel like I'm at a cross roads personally, and I don't know what to do. If I was to reduce it to a question, it would be: "Do I invest more energy in this relationship, or do I move on?" I have be... (719 words)