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writes:I dont know why i cant get over him, its been three years now since i separarted from my boyfriend of 5 years.i broke the relationship because apparently he was cheating on me.....not only cheating on me, but impregnanting the girls and forcing them to arbort the children...without even providing them with any money for hospital bills..... i was hurt,and out of the fear of dying of some sexually transmitted disease like HIV,,,, (by the way...that disease is my worst fear,,,sice it has killed like 30 memmbers of my family and i swore never to die of that disease)...i finally decided to let go ...even when i loved him soooo much...ever since my life has been a downhill battle.. i cant seem to do anything right,though am swimming, it seems to me like am drowning.but thats not what is confusing me right now,,,,coz i always live in hope that something great is going to happen in my life soonhowever ,wat is bothering and stressing me is how i feel... i cant seeem to get over him,how ever much i try... when i see him with his current galfriend(she is very beautiful by the way,,, with a nce body and all that stuff...more so she is my COUSIN OF SORTS....he is that BOLD)....even when i try as hard as not to feel anything, i still hurt, i keep pocking on his face book status just to see what his all about... he has moved on, and i want to move on, but i have totally failed....i have moved to another town, stopped commmunication,got into other relationships....but his always on my mind everyday of my life....even howeva much i have prayed that i move on....what do i do????????????/...
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 August 2010):
 You were dating the devil. He cheated on you and got these chicks pregnant with his child then forced them to have an abortion, what a piece of crap!! And you still think about him after what he's done to you? This guy doesn't even deserve to walk this earth and breathe the same air as you and I. He's nothing but a waste of space, let me say karma is a bitch and he will get his for what he's done to you and those other girls. So 3 years later you're still dwelling on this poor excuse for a man, ways to get over a break-up: you've had other relationships, I would advise against relationships instead try casual dating, go out with your friends for girls night out, take up a new hobby you've always wanted to try. immerse yourself in schoolwork, or take on extra hours at work, watch a sappy film with a gallon of your favorite ice cream cry yours eyes out till you can't cry anymore, go to church find your inner faith (I've heard that does help), going to the gym slapping on headphones blasting an angry song and get thinking about what he's done to you everything negative then just start running on that treadmill, and lastly there are support groups out there for break-up and divorce google it to find one near you. There's options and outlets I hope you try some if not all the suggestions I gave you. You can do it!
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