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writes: ok so long story short i was texting this guy who everyone said liked me and wanted to go out with me, and he did ask me out. about a month ago i got my phone taken away. this guy and i texted a lot. and i mean a lot. practically every day. but since i got my phone taken away i havent gotten the chance to text him back. ive seen him a couple of times in the last week because hes my neighbor but i didnt want to explain it to him because i was around little kids who i was babysitting and i knew they would tell their mom who would then tell my parents who forbade me to speak to this guy. and when i saw him he ignored me, and i havent gotten a second chance to speak with him and explain this minor dilemma. so now im afraid hes mad at me, which would make things awkward anytime id see him because he lives right across the street from me. and we go to the same school. also i dont know if i should explain this all to him because i saw on his facebook status that he was married to some other girl in my grade. so is he mad? did he just lose interest? should i talk to him about it? im not sure what to do....
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reader, southernsky21 +, writes (23 August 2010):
If he is that insecure, LEAVE HIM ALONE. Too much future drama.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): if you really like this guy, I suggest that you talk to him and explain what happened. If he is not interested, then its his loss. Be grown up about it and civil, and if he is mature enough himself, he will understand.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (23 August 2010):
Don't let him know you saw his facebook page.
Since he lives across the street,try to run into him. Be friendly and tell him briefly the story about your phone,then tell him you need to go to the store. Ask him if he wants to come with you. If he says yes,thats a good sign. Talk normally. If he gives you an excuse and say he can't come,be nice and say bye.
Don't do anything else.
Wait for his move.
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