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anonymous
writes:My husband is pleasantly nice, but has nothing to say to me, he is flirty to younger women and yet he denies it if i comfront him... He says I am crazy!!!We both after 20 years of marraige got verbally abusive, for me its for attention, according to him, he is always right....and yet, it always seems to be my fault...he has money and holds it over my head, we have not slept together for 1 year, he tells me its my fault...i don't do things his way...I know this is no life i am older, but i do have feelings, it hurts me mentally and i want to have a afair out of spite so i won't have one.... I want to leave and yet i am afraid, what is he waiting for....he is silent all the time.....why won't he leave?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Hello
Till now has he cheated on you? or only you think that he flirts. In my view you have blown the issue out of proportion at home and this has deteriorated the relationship.
You should avoid fighting, unless you are not 100 % sure of any thing. I know i have been victim of my wife's suspicion for 7 years that i have affair which was completely un true. it pains and kills the attachment unnecessarily. It is quite common for wife to suspect the husbands for affair and some time they bring in only to win arguments.
what is the cause of no sex for 1 year only you know. But i would say that try to experiment some things like
1) Do not curse him for having flirts
2) have good env at home, it will improve.. who knows
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 August 2010):
He wont' leave because his life is made. He flirts as he likes, and you stay. He treats you badly, and you stay. I'm sure you run around after him and I'm sure you're a good wife. So he stays. A man won't leave if he has creature comforts and control. This is a bad marriage, and you do deserve more. If you don't step up and take the chance and leave, he'll always be like this and your own life will slip away. He won't leave. So you need to take the step and go yourself. The good news is that you're married, so you can take a nice chunk of that money he cruelly hangs over your head and start over somewhere else.
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