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writes:hey, so me and my girl had sex for the first time this weekend. And I have a question concerning her...I myself have quite a large penis. (i am not being boastful, but factual)And after much foreplay and such, entering into her is still a painful process on her part, I expected this the first time since she has not had a partner for quite some time, but after a few days, it is still a long arduous process to enter into her, and then a longer process still of having sex, since it takes some odd 20 min to enter her and then so on, till she can get used to me so we can continue.Is there an explanation for this? i thought she would stretch out so that this wouldn't be a problem? and could it be a problem with my girth, or with her not stretching??and yes, she is relaxed and not tensing, and I can (with time) work 3 fingers into her. thank youzgeek
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reader, E-brake +, writes (23 August 2010):
I've been there on more than one occasion! They say the vagina can stretch to accomodate the penis naturally but, that doesn't mean its not gonna hurt. You best bet is to use Lube all the way thru foreplay and get it EVERYWHERE in anbd around her vagina!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): If it seems to be an issue then lube, lube, lube, lube. KY Jelly is easy to find...walmart and any drugstore has it...also KY makes all kinds of oils as well as lubes.
I have found baby oil gel to be nice, but it will stain your sheets, while KY Jelly is water soluble.
She may be tight but I'm pretty positive that your penis isnt bigger than a newborn baby, and i know that a vagina can stretch to accomodate the birthing process. So the key is time and lube. :) mal
good luck!!!!!!
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