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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: hi new b/f really likes me to go on top but i always feel awkward in this position as i don't know what movements will turn him on,does it have to be hard and fast,how can i feel more comfortable on top,really want to get it right...any tips? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): Caring Guy you are wrong: "The point about this position is that you get to do ANYTHING you want" my husband has told me a number of times when i am doing it wrong. Apparently there is a technique involved. I am going to learn from Maimine.
To the OP, trust me, there is a technique to this. Dirtball is on the mark!
-LoveGirl
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female
reader, Miamine +, writes (23 August 2010):
"Rolling, rolling, rolling, keep them wagons rolling, keep them wheels a turning.. RAWHIDE!!!..... Giddy up, saddle up, hit the horse, toss the hay, RAWHIDE, RAWHIDE, RAWHIDE!!!!!" Miamine sings)
http://www.sexinfo101.com/cowgirlpositions.shtml
"She'll be riding down the mountain when she comes, she be riding on a mountain when she comes, she'll be riding on that mountain, riding on that mountain, riding on that mountain till she comes..." (Miamine toasts marshmallows to go with campfire song)
mmmm... yep, think the singing will help, you can use my words.. it will give you the correct rhythm you need to get into the swing.. If you need the tune, then update your post and I'll try to find the links on Youtube...
(Miamine tosses hat in air.. and goes off to find a studhorse)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 August 2010):
Do whatever feels best for you. Really, guys are pretty easy to please. For the most part (to quote the movie "clerks") "Insert some place close, preferably moist, thrust, repeat."
Personally, I like when she is on her knees while on top of me. Less in and out thrust and more using her hips to move me around inside of her. A combination can also be pretty amazing.
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male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 August 2010):
From a male point of view, the best part about this position is that the woman is totally in charge. It's not about what HE wants, it's about what you want to take from him. So, you do exactly as you want to and what you feel comfortable with. If you want it hard and fast, then do it like that. If you want it slow, then do that. If you want to tease him, then do that. The point about this position is that you get to do ANYTHING you want. And when he sees you doing what you want and taking from him, he'll enjoy every second. I promise that. Have fun!
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