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writes: Why does my family hate me? Me and my mother dont have a relationship at all. We dont talk about anything serious and she doesnt like it when I talk a lot and sometimes tells me to shut uo or to go away or go somewhere else. My older sister hates me as well. She can get violent and has pushed me before. She cusses me out and once even called me fucking ugly,which really hurt because I already feel badly about myself and shes way prettier than I am. She comes in my room and makes a mess and doesnt bother to clean it up. She doesnt respect me at all. My other older sister doesnt live with us so I dont talk to her much at all anymore, which is the same way it was before she left. My dad left when I was young and I dont see him anymore and its awkard when I do. I dont have any friends at school, im the weird and ugly one in my class. And I just want to know is there this certain vibe that im giving off that makes people act this way towards me? What can I do to change this? Thanx
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 Low self esteem lack of confidence is a weakness others can sense... if people realize your weak they will exploit that and take advantage of you.I always say even if your a minnow think like a shark..and people will fear your bite even if you cant open your mouth that far.
start standing up for your self people never tell me to shut up twice because my fist is clinched to tightly around there tongue for them to say anything else... you gotta demand respect in this world your not gonna get it handed to you on a silver platter you gotta fight for it.
start practicing when some one steps out of their face with you dont back down from them all scared rip em a new one.. life will be hard to live as punk.. your family probably doesnt hate you, you havnt given them a reason to im sure.. they just blatantly disrespect you... because you allow them to.. lock your door so your sis cant come in your room.. when your mom tells you to shut up tell her shes not going to talk to you like that yeah shell probably hit you or something but think about it like this if she knows shes gonna have to fight with you everytime she disrepects you she will think twice about what she says to you.
you gotta take your life in your own hands.. Guess you could ask God for some help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): You can’t choose your family but you can choose your friends.
Im 30 now my brother is 23 when we were kids despite the age gap we used to fight all the time I remember him pinching me until he shook and him having a smug face behind my mum when i got told off. I also remember annoying him stealing the tv remote me and my friend singing james bond themes in his face.
siblings annoy each other all the time this is part of growing up im sure you do some annoying bit and bobs to your sister xx.
As for the friends thing I sympathize my best friend was in another class when i was in school and although I had friends in my class i often ended up sitting at my desk on my own...there were two to a desk.
things change school is an awkward time and im sure a lot of your class mates feel the same way as you do.
it isn’t quantity of friends it the quality.
Concentrate on your future and try to make up with your sister typically the longer relationships we will ever have will be with our siblings
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