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writes:So I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months and everythings good very serious. But I give her oral a lot which she asks for! Which I don't mind doing it for her I love to pleasure her but she's always askin for it and hinting but when it comes my time which in 9 months I've got oral maybe twice! It is to the point she dont even reach down for mine no touching at all. I love this girl but it makes it feel like she's not attracted to me at all how do I go about talking to her? I don't even get as much as foreplay???
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): Everytime you see her, make sure you're freshly washed all over. A shower is best. Don't spray anything down there, otherwise it will smell/taste bad time she gets around to it.
When you're with her, do the 69, with her on top, or laying on your sides. That way, she won't feel pressured in anyway that you're going be as forcefull as maybe you are during sex.
Also, ask her if it's ok that you go all the way or not. And tell her that either way is fine. Don't hold her head while she's down on you, let her be in full control of what's happening. So if she doesn't feel she's going to gag, at least she knows she can pull away if need be.
Also, stop going down on her as much. Only go down on her, when she starts to touch you there again. She'll start to put two and two together.
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reader, TalonZurfluh  +, writes (23 August 2010):
Tell her how you feel. or even better, ask her to 69. then you both get what you want.
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