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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm feelings uncomfortable in my own home! why wont he leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner has a tendancy when we argue to be really verbal to me. after coming back from a holiday we hardly spoke in the car which we were in for 8 hours! it drove me mental and ended up in an argument. the next thing i know he was in my face constantly calling me an fing ... (310 words)

I'm going to miss spending time with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this girl which I met whilst we had other partners and broke up with them for each other. I feel that she is the one and am beginning to fall in love and i think she feels the same way. At the moment she lives in the next city so im used to a long distance re... (228 words)

I want to kiss my bestfriend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best (girl) friend and I are extremely close. We talk about everything. I absolutely love her in a best friend way...but the problem is that I think she loves me in a different way. When we hug she pushes her boobs up against me and I can feel them on my chest...then when I ... (170 words)

Is it wrong not to tell anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im am 15 years old and started doing stuff with my boyfriend but hes 13 is it wrong because i choose not to tell anyone incase it is? :/... (30 words)

We are not wanted together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy and i are really in love but the problem is we arent wanted together my many people. We have liked each other for a while, and he is in the wrong kind of group thanks to his parents who show no interest in him or his problems what-so-ever, and his cousin who is also 14 ... (241 words)

Should I follow my head or heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my 20's and have been going out with my boyfriend for the last 3 years.. we have a relationship where we can argue and he would only have to look at me and i would crack and start laughing.. we do have a good time together but for the past 6-7 months hes been differnt i ... (219 words)

Do all girls smell fishy down there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im having a very embarassing unusual probelm. my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years, so he is the only person iv slept with since.. during our relationship or before it, iv never smelt bad down there ever. and now all of a sudden the past like month and a half ... (221 words)

I can't open up and be comfortable around him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 4 months now. ive always been really shy and one of those people who needs to warm up to people before actually being comfortable and myself around them. the thing is, usually after 4 months, im comfortable, but with ... (132 words)

We broke up and now he misses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ji everyone...i wrote a question the other day about how bad i was feeling because i have a relationship for three years and the last two months i was having and affair and all of the sudden this other men tells me that he couldnt keep seeing me on the down low and that he need ... (364 words)

My childrens father is a jerk! its stressing me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My kids father is a jackass, I have two kids by him one is four and the other is one....The amount of stress and drama this guy has brought in to my life is ridiculous and for the past 2 years I have been trying to get rid of him. I believe in children having there dads around ... (474 words)

Should I shave my pubic hair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im a 14 year old boy and i was wondering if i should shave my pubic hair as im not shore and embaresed to ask my girlfriend... (28 words)

It's just not working for us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Just some quick advice. Me and my boyfriend were friends for two years before we got together. We got on well together, but these days it still feels as though we are just destined to be friends. He never understands that sometimes I need some space, and is constantly askin... (224 words)

Whats a good time to stop breast feeding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i was just curious about whats the oldest the baby should be when you stop breast feeding it? I read some where that you continue to do it till they dont want it any more but what if they still want it like when there two? Thanks.... (48 words)

What to do when a friend turns on you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So,this friend that I have,we've known each other since we were kids.We've had a rocky relationship at times,but have considered each other best friends.I've told her stuff that I've never told anyone else,and have trusted her completely. A few weeks ago we had a minor argument... (234 words)

Is this type of guy a creep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need desperate help i fell in love with a american man who goes for elections i tought by him having this backround that he would be a good guy yet everyone is saying those sort of men are creeps is this true ??? ps im 19 he is 49 ... (50 words)

What gives him the right to be jelous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (?) age 51-59 - i was with my guy for 5 years. good times and bad times. we always broke up and got back together. last time within a few days he met a girl he knew from college. he`s been with her for 4 months now. within a week he said he loved her. okay, but why is he niggling me and ... (145 words)

I havn't met his family or friends yet, is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Same guy as my first question...I have met his mother and father, but briefly when I go to his house sometimes. It's been a little over 4 months and I've never met any of his friends. I've never even got invited to all the parties he goes to with his friends that he tells me ... (75 words)

How do I proceed with this new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old guy whose life has been like a soap opera. I was trying to get back together with a woman who dumped me when I started getting close with someone else. This other woman (age 24) told me if I was smarter, I would forget the ex and focus in on someone who was ... (247 words)

I am having no luck getting g spot stimulation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, please read this ALL before answering because I want to actually get an answer to the question I am asking and I dont want to be told things I already know! (sorry about the essay and the TMI lol!) Thanks.... I am 25 and haven't found my g spot and nor has anyo... (349 words)

Why does she want two lives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is holding back she seems to want ... (130 words)

Lost hope

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts i'm a male living with no hope in my life any more, i feel like i will never be normal again. i feeling sick with chest pains,always constapated,skin colour darkened by the unknown sickness i have, low sex drive and have lost toomuch weight.at first i thought ... (186 words)

I think my boyfriend is lying to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Its been two weeks since i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend. Hes a really sweet guy and he seems really nice the only problem is that i think he already has a girlfriend and i think hes lying to me about not having one. he never calls me he never texts me or ... (100 words)

My boyfriends ex is not being a good mother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriends 5 year old daughter goes to her moms every weekend, and in the year that this order has been in place this woman got kicked out of her home and 6 male friends homes so every weekend we don't know where she is staying or what she will see! I'm very upset ... (133 words)

Should I help pay for my new stepdaughter's college?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age - I am a male in the USA in my 40's. I plan on getting married again in a few months. I have 2 young sons age 9 and 6. I pay support for them and see them 3 times a week. One child likes my GF the other one does not. She also does not get along with my exwife and my friends ... (148 words)

I feel like I want to be single!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im am so confused! i have a boyfriend of 2 years yet i feel like i want to be single! i like attension of other men and going out partying with my friends and he likes to stay in n just see his friends.. am i being selfish? or should i just i just bare with it in the ... (77 words)

My best friend told me she doesn't want to be my friend anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well I had a best friend for 2 years. This yearwe got into a lot of fights this year. She has anxiety problems and can't deal with stress. So the end of this year she told me to come to her house. So I was like sure no problem. I didn't think it'll be something wrong. So I went ... (159 words)

In love with much older man over the internet! Will people laugh?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i am in love with a man over the internet he is so funny sweet and kind he has done alot of work on polling for elections and ive seen him on a tape why he should be elected meaning he isnt a creep he has a good backround etc but my only problem is the fact he is 50 ... (80 words)

What is her motive behind the question she asked?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - After knowing each other plutonically for more than a year, my girlfriend and I have become intimately involved and have lived together now for a month and a half. Things are wonderful, but I was a bit taken aback when she suddenly asked me how many lovers I've had in my life. ... (63 words)

Help my girlfriend wants space after 3 years, yet she says she still loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Sup guys well this is the situation after 3 yrs out of the blue she says she needs space to hang with hr family more we have seen each other every day from 1 minute a day to the whole day, ive treated her like a angel and she knows that she got nothing bad to say about me ad ... (597 words)

We broke up and now were back together, it does not feel the same!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 years now. We love eachother very much but recently broke up and got back together. since we got back together i feel like it hasnt been the same. i dont know how to feel... sometimes i feel like we are just holding on ... (167 words)

She is gone, what do I do? it hurts

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I just wanted to ask for some advice im 22 now and the girl im about to talk about is 20 now we met when she was 17 and i was 19 long distance relationship she was in seattle and i lived in chicago we went through the long distance relationship thing but it so... (1664 words)

Is this a text breakup?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age - Breakup line or not " I think I better take a break for awhile"... (14 words)

How do I fix this if he won't talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i was in a serious relationship with this guy and he dumped me because of his interfiering twin sister who has called multiple problems in our relationship but we always got through them, so this time she told him i was using him and he dumped me because he didnt wawnt his ... (313 words)

Chest hair removal... how do you deal with the itching?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I just need a bit of advice. My new partner doesnt like my hairy chest (just the chest!!). So I used some hair clippers and trimmed it all to practically zero...bare chest for the 1st time since puberty. I quiet like it..so does she BTW. Only prob is..after ... (140 words)

I felt something was wrong so I looked at his phone, he does not know this, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - recently my husband went on a trip with the boys. which he often does. I have always had great trust in our relationship. He called and texted everyday to check in. Upon returned, he asked if the washing machine was empty while he was still in the doorway because he said ... (198 words)

46 year old man and never had a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age - I am 46 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I have always been too shy to approach a woman for a date. I did have issues with my build in the teenage years. Being tall and thin, I became very shy and awkward in social situations. The jobs I've done have always been ... (124 words)

I've never kissed anyone, But I really want too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! well, i've never kissed anyone but i really want to soon. how do you get someone to kiss you? im 15 and i'm a girl. a lot of guys like me but im not aloud to date until im 17. my parents are very protective and i cannot change that. i cant go to the movies with guy friends, ... (83 words)

I'm attracted to older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I could really use some advice and guidance. I don't know what is wrong with me. It seems since I've been about fourteen or so, I have been attracted to older men. This attraction for older men keeps intensifying as I get older. My friends have boyfriends our age (17 and 18) ... (227 words)

My weird fantasy...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have got this fantasy that I want to kiss a girl (I'm a girl too). I'm not a lesbian and I'm not bi. I'm rather curious. I mentioned this to my bf a couple of times and I made it seem as a joke, he told me that this would be cheating and that he in general think that this is ... (86 words)

Have you ever experience in your life that no matter what you do nothing goes right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Did you ever experience,in your life,that no matter,what you do,nothing goes right? I feel ,Im trying to make good choices everyday, but from the smallest things to the biggest, almost everything turns out wrong or a nightmare. Like in a bad movie,the main character, always g... (200 words)

Does she have the same feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - does she feel the same way i feel ? this girl and me are staring at each other quite for a while,at first i was,not interested in her even after being attracted to her,i ignored her as she is much younger than me,but after few days she didn't show up for a week,and i misse... (277 words)

I Want to date my bestfriend, we are both girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So over the past week I have been hanging out a lot with my best friend. But not like friends. We have been having sex with each other. She and I have known each other for about 4 yrs and never did any of this til recently. I like it and don't wanna stop but does this ... (113 words)

I'm so frustrated because I can't insert a tampon!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I am getting so frustrated. I usually get my period at the end of every month. And its near the end of the month now and the first day of school is tomorrow. I want to wear tampons instead of pads because when I wear pads its so obvious and its just a mess. I used to be scared ... (274 words)

My friend stole a girl I like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont understand what's going on :( I liked a girl and as much as i knew she liked me too, i delayed asking her initially because my friends whom i consulted said i should wait and see how it goes. I then realised another of my friends began to get inbetween us abit so i told ... (424 words)

Online relationship, does she love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone ...im in online Relationship "8 months" with Girl "16 yrs and 9 months" , i love her sooo much even i didn't meet her in real life, but my problem is she doesn't want there friends to know about me, or when she goes to her friends house or camping or somewhere else ... (153 words)

My partner can not get an erection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i want to know why my partner cant get a erection can you tell me why please... (17 words)

Do women settle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm obsessed over the fact my girlfriends ex was very well hung and I'm average. She keeps telling me he hurt and there s such a thing as too big. They could not do every position because it often hurt, and he never reciprocated, gave her oral or anything, and he never made ... (172 words)

My partner keeps doing favours for his ex wife!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner over 2 years. He has got 2 kids already. They r lovely boys and we get on very well. It's his ex wife who I can't stand. She still works for my partner, she hardly do anything and still gets paid very good money. When she is shirt of money she will ... (185 words)

Have I spoiled our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my best friend have been really good friends for around three years now. We've helped each other through everything from bad breakups to illnesses and more recently through my grandmother's death. However a few weeks ago, we slept together. It was my first time. It d... (120 words)

How do I get rid of hair on my penis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, how come hair grow on penis ( not only the base) . How can i get rid off it. I dont mind if it only grow on the base of my penis.... (34 words)

Do men like when a woman takes charge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im looking for some advice, im seeing this great guy,hes 3yrs older,we avnt been able 2 see each much wit work n stuff,do men like if you take charge n just say im calling over,or does he like to be in control,i dont want 2 play it cool because he mite get fed up, i dont ... (58 words)

I love him, but is it worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 3 months now, and during this period he's already left me once saying he wasn't happy. But then he asked for another chance to work things out and so we got back together again. And recently he has started behaving weird, just like before he ... (303 words)

I need some tips on loosing weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very uncomfortable with my body, my bf however loves it. He says he loves the curves. But, I'd like to find a good medium...lose some weight and get fitter w/o losing some curves :) So I thought ok, let me lose 20 pounds. I've done research but honestly, some diet plans ... (103 words)

Is she interested in me? is there really another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there i have just started talking to a girl and she invited me out for lunch and we spent all day walking around the city together, afterwards i sent her a text saying i had a great time and she was great. She then replied to this text saying she is currently seeing someone ... (244 words)

He called me a liar because he does not like to say no to his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, please could you share your thoughts. . Do you think that this is fair: my boyfriend and i were tryin to plan a holiday we had agreed a week and he said yes bøok off with work. When he was told by ex when was having son over hols and rather than be honest he called ... (135 words)

I'm so in love with a teacher it hurts...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, When I was in year 8 at school a new English teacher joined (Mr T) That year my English left so we had a new one which was (Mr T) that's when I realised I was in love. Something clicked one day I didn't care it's just a teacher the next day I was so in love it Hurt. He... (208 words)

I don't want to ruin my marriage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupid,iv been in a relationship 4 a year now,before i joined this relationship my ex boyfriend had left me for another woman,i then found this man very attractive too so i fell in love with him too and we then get married.five months down the line my husband leaves for ... (181 words)

Can someone with a low sex drive change and want sex more over time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi people! I am curious to hear from people who are/have been in long term relationships with someone who has a vastly different sex drive to you. How have you made it work? I love my guy, but he is much less interested in sex than I am. I understand where he's coming from. He... (383 words)

Could she be lying about how many men she has slept with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help with a question that's been floating around in my mind. I'm very much in love with my girlfriend and we've been dating for about 1 1/2 years now. We recently got engaged. Here's the issue... My girlfriend/fiancé is from a very small home town. Her parents are very... (465 words)

What's the possibility if a cheater of the following traits reforming?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This might sound like a silly question to all of you here but I just couldn't help but ask. The man as describe below is after me and I am very very tempted. What's the possibility if a cheater of the following traits reforming? 1. 31 years old 2. Cheated on ex girlfriend... (106 words)

Do I really have something special here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for several years now. Things have always been fantastic with us. We both consider we have a special bond. We are the best of friends as well as being in love. This has been the hardest year of our lives. Last year, I was preoccupied with... (586 words)

I suffer from extremely bad anxiety...how can I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17. I have really bad anxiety problems for example: I'll keep myself awake for hours at night, just thinking about what I'm going to wear tomorrow. I'm indecisive - It will take me twenty minutes to figure out what kind of chocolate bar I want to buy from the store. I take ... (386 words)

Is it too early to start talking Marriage??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i have a dilemma when i was in the 5th grade i met my first love we broke up in sixth grade and started back talking in high school about 3years ago but he was very conceited and stuck up now we are both 20 and now he have a daughter and is more mature and i still ... (114 words)

Seeing 2 guys and want to tell one of them I just want to be friends, how do I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'am in such a stuck situation please help. Ive been single now for a while and ive been seeing these two guys. They both really attracted to me both are really sweet and seem like the really know how to treat a girl. The problem is out of the two guys im leaning more towards ... (92 words)

Is my penis size good?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, i am 15 and have a 6 inch penis with a 5 inch girth, is this good?... (18 words)

We seem to be having real communication issues....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im feeling a bit down today about things with my boyfriend.We have been dating for 6 months and at the moment i cant say things seem very serious between us, there quite casual, we are exclusive but id like things to get more serious as I really like him. We also dont seem t... (209 words)

How do I break it to my husband that I want to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age - I am moving towards leaving my husband of 23 years. Though he is a good guy, I don't want to hurt him. The dagger that he will feel will hurt more than the years of irritation I have felt, but at least it will be quick. My therapist explained that if I didn't tell him ... (219 words)

After my husband cheated and I moved out I slept with another man, it feels so good to get revenge for what my husband did to me! Was I wrong to do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After i realised that its not working out, we both agreed that i should move out and get a place of my own, i moved out and i was still angry at him for cheating and all the bad treatment i got from my mother in law.i have been staying alone for 3months now and we hardly see ... (161 words)

Am I weird at 22 to not want to go to nightclubs every night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

- Am I a weirdo/loser if I don't like going to nightclubs every week? I'm 22, going into my final year at uni. I went out last night for someones birthday and my friend had to go back because he was ill so i was the only guy left. I heard what music was on so I thought sod it a... (184 words)

What can I do so he doesn't just use me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, so my predicament is this...my boyfriend and I had been in a sexless relationship for about 6 months before I finally broke up with him. We are still friends and I'm really happy about the breakup, but anyway, one night a few weeks after, I was out at a bar, drunk, ... (208 words)

He abuses me and checks out other women, yet despite this I still cant leave him. How can I focus on the negatives in the relationship and finally leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man for almost a year. This man takes care of my bills and he says he wants to marry me. He has been physically abusive with me, to an extent where I should know he is not the one for me. I have been abused by my father;therefore, physical abuse does not ... (155 words)

Is he just playing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 5-ish months. his facebook relationship status is 'married to...' (i won't put the actual name) and her wall is public, so i've been on it, and he commented on her profile picture saying 'thass minessssss ;)' on a picture of ... (347 words)

Is it a good or bad idea to go from one long distance relationship straight into another one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What are your opinions on going from one long distance relationship, (lasted around 1 year and half) straight into another one? Of course I know this isn't ideal, but it just seems to be my luck when finding new people!... (43 words)

I found out my boyfriend is addicted to text chat sites where he sends pictures of himself to random women! What should I do?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi hope you can help me i have been with my boyfriend for a year and when we got on we get on really well we are going on holiday in a week , last night i found out that he has been on a flirting phone site when they send dirty texts to random women and pictures of himself i ... (133 words)

Does any of this mean he likes me?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been at my current job for almost a year. To sum things up there is a male coworker who I've become close to over the majority of this year, as just friends. We take the same route home when we close at night and sometimes he'll race me or purposely cut me off and ill ... (207 words)

What does it mean to sow your wild oats?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles..please 'tel' me what is to sow a wild oats.thanx... (13 words)

I want to remain a virgin until I am at least 17 but I cant help getting really horny around my boyfriend!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year.[[I'm 14]] I'm a virgin. When we talk on the phone, on MSN, and when we see each other I just get SO horny. I just want to jump on him. I know enough about sex...(I have tons of free time so I read everything I can :/ I know ... (302 words)

Is my FWB falling for me?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok long story. I have a good friend that is in a really bad place right now. He has been with his gf for about 9 months. He hasn't been happy for at least 6. She treats him horribly and he can't stand to be around her. He was about to leave her 6 months ago but they found ... (470 words)

Is this period schedule normal?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] I'm 13 years old and I have had my period for about 3 years. I got it very young. I'm a little worried because it a still very off schedule. Some months it will be the 13th or the 29th or the 5th. And the even weirder thing it that if I am off... (92 words)

I said my ex had a dream body when in bed with my girlfriend! How do I fix this stupid mistake?

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people, I think I screwed up hard and need help! I was talking in bed with my girlfriend (talking about sex), until the point came that she said "I'd like to see your ex, I want to know how she looks like". I am a such stupid person, sadly damn honest, that I said that... (179 words)

How do you catch STD's from oral sex?

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - as concerns oral sex, of which cases below does the infection occur; a) when act done by a infected person b) when uninfected person does it c) both. Am worried. An infected person did it to me yet am negative. it only took 5 minutes. thanks. worried boy ... (64 words)

How do I take my mind off my crush?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Infatuations...I really hate them. So I just met this guy through my friends and I've only seen him like three times but I'm kind of having a little crush on him now and I want to get over it, because this always makes me nervous around the guy and I hate that. I also ten... (151 words)

My boyfriend's family wont accept me because they cannot accept their son is gay, should I leave him alone even though we want to be together?

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is having trouble with his parents accpeting the fact that he likes guys.... i know that they dont like me for that reason and might attempt to get me into trouble about this should i leave him alone even thought we really want to be together?... (48 words)

What is worse: Cheating because you find someone attractive or cheating because you are in love with the other person?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - would you think it was worse if someone cheated on you just because they thought someone was good looking and there were no feelings involved, or if they were in love with someone else they knew well (a good friend) and got drunk and and cheated on you with them. i'm not saying ... (173 words)

I had a drunken kiss with another guy, and now my boyfriend has demanded I never see or speak to him again! And this would mean losing all my friends, what should I do?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if someone fell in love with you, and did everything to try and make you his, when he knew you were happy with another bloke "M" that he knew was a perfectly nice bloke; then you made some mistakes (getting drunk and letting "I" kiss you and then a few months later repeating ... (201 words)

Stuck between best friends... Help!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - September of last year I met this guy, Trevor, and we really hit it off and started hooking up. We hung out a lot and I went to a date night at his fraternity, and he came to my formal. Things never got official and our fling ended after thanksgiving. There was never a reason ... (568 words)

I still love her..am I bi?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i met this girl in 9th grade(im a junior now) and we instantly became good friends. She was always my shoulder to cry on. Not only that but we became physically close, she would always sit on my lap and always asked me to put my arms around her waist and hug her tight, she ... (202 words)

Am I becoming depressed from having no male in my life?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys :) do you think it makes sense that I want a boyfriend because I never see my dad??? Because even though I'm young, I still like having a boyfriend. I really only have one guy friend and that's it. My dad is always working and I never see him. I think I really want ... (102 words)

I don't want to break his heart so how do I leave him?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months. He is an amazing person with a few unique quirks that I don't mind at all. The problem is that even though we are very similar, able to communicate, find compromise and are willing to work at making our relationship last a l... (420 words)

Was I wrong for telling my cousin that the guy she likes is my FWB?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody!! Ok, so I was havin sex with this guy (let's call him Will) for 7 months (He was my second). It was just sex!! And yes I was starting to catch feelings for him but he was in college so when he leave they would fade away. I'm 18, i'll be 19 this friday. So he left ... (858 words)

Frustrated and boyfriendless!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I’m 14 and a half and have never had a boyfriend. Most of my friends have already dated or currently have a boyfriend. It seems like now they are to busy with them and I want that feeling of being loved... and don’t want to end up that girl in high school who can’t get a ... (74 words)

Am I expecting too much, too soon?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I expecting too much too soon?? I just met this guy less than a month ago....when he first got my number he texted me non stop....that night we hung out for a couple hours....the next morning he sent me a text saying good morning honey and asking if i slept good....th... (378 words)

I don't feel anything for the man I used to love.

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I've been dating a guy for about two years now, and we've been engaged for one year and a few months. We were very happy when we first met each other and continued to be happy for the first year; however, now that I'm in college for my second year, I really do not ... (375 words)

I'm 8 months pregnant with his child, but he has a girlfriend.

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating this man for 11 months and am 8 months pregnant with his child i know he have a girlfriend and they have a 5 year old daughter but i want him to live here and be with me and our child what can i do? ... (50 words)

Does my lesbian girlfriend like guys?

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24 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - [OP original title] My lesbian girlfriend cheated on me with a guy. She claims she doesn't like guys but in my heart I don't believe it. What should I do? We have been together almost 3years, this occured 2 years ago and I still feel the same way. It seems like she looks for ... (80 words)

When should I call my ex?

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - [OP original title] I have dated this girl for four months. Three weeks ago she blocked me from Facebook and said her reason was that she doesn't want to look at my page and see other girls commenting or liking my status and then missing me and wanting to see me. I was upse... (905 words)

I like this guy and we've been IMing, but how should I start dating him?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so i just turned a sophmore a this guy who went to the same drivers ed with me and goes to a school very near to ours has been IMing all summer. I really like him and im quite sure he likes me but he hasnt really made a big hint just little ones here and there. well ... (113 words)

We're sleeping together, but he'll never just talk on the phone!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been in a sexual relationship for some time with this one guy, what i don't understand about him is that after we have sex he never calls me for days at a time sometimes 6 or more days go by, yet he txts me twice a day everyday sometimes more, and always sends me xo's ... (112 words)

Should I stay with him despite being bi and sleeping with someone else?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My daughter's father and I have been sleeping together for over two years now. We met through one of my ex-boyfriends and a few months after we met we saw one another at a party. We both got pretty tipsy and went to his house and had sex. (Later he told me I took his virginity, ... (442 words)

He's coming back at all hours, do I have trust issues?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been in a 3 year relationship with this guy. while dating, we hung out, had fun, and would come in late or not at all. now, we reside with one another, have children together, and he continues to do the same thing minus not coming in. in a past relationship, i had a guy ... (118 words)

16 and wanting to be pregnant need advice!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - alright, so im 16 years old, alot of people around me are all having babies or just getting pregnant,plus the fact i looooove babies,i also have a really horrible family life, and sometimes just need to know someone cares about me i know i have all my life still ahead of me but ... (86 words)

How do you talk about sex in a flirty way?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you talk about having sex with a guy in a sexual flirty way?... (15 words)

Am I unable to have an orgasm?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so, im a 16 year old girl and sex nothing new to me i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have been intimate before and but i cant tell if ive had an orgasm, like ive read all the signs of having one i never have to pee, like the only thing that happens is it ... (114 words)

Stop looking and it will happen???

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Good evening, Dear Cupid Community: My problem is that I'm too "friendly". Or it seems this way. Girls always look at me as a friend. I ask you this: Who you rather date somebody you helps you with you problems or talks to you often, and cares about you. Or, have a guy only car... (222 words)

Are these signs that he could be gay?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is he gay? I have this friend I think is gay I'm not totally sure but my friends keep asking me and I don't know i would be a bit down because I really like him but the way he walks is slightley feminin and he smokes so he smokes a little bit gayish and he's loud hyper an... (87 words)

Would experimenting make me gay?

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a guy who has been completely straight all my life, but I have always had a fascination with well endowed men in porn. I have thought about trying out a "big" guy (just oral probably) to satisfy my curiosity. Would this make me gay, or is it normal for many men to just ... (133 words)

Pregnant and very itchy!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very glad to see there is a health section on here! Hopefully someone can give me some advice. I am currently 15 weeks pregnant, and I noticed that in my first trimester my stomach was a bit itchy. Now for maybe the past week (sorry if this is gross) the skin just above ... (235 words)

Was the advice good, did I do the right thing? Will I hear from him again?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I have had an on-again, off-again relationship with this guy. After dating and breaking up we tried being friends....I'm sure you can all figure out the complications that went along with that. We're good friends, when we both make the effort. It has just seemed ... (542 words)

It bothers me that my friend changed her name when she got married

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24 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend at work got married in private three months ago, and took her husband's name. It was a couple of weeks before we (her friends) found out. It was all so sudden. We all had to get used to her having a completely different last name, but I think I might be the onl... (136 words)

Older woman w/ a younger man

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is it wrong for me to have a relationship with a 17yr lad i am a 33yr woman with 2 children, i don't look 33 and he doesn't look 17, we both are very much in love so i wanted to know does age really matter if you're happy?... (49 words)

Why did he do this to me when I love him so much?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex had bad fight cause i know he was seeing his female friend ,and he was denied it! while we was together! now we broke up! now i found out he is involved now Wit his female friend ,what should i do? he knew i love him and want to make relationship work!what should i ... (68 words)

Should chance calling him?

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24 August 2010 (F) - my ex told me he had a girl visiting for a few months and she will be going home once the visa is up. We spoke about this June 11th or so and he said 2 and a half months she will be gone so its not a permanent thing. Has it been two and a half months? i want to call him but ... (246 words)

Blood pressure medication causing a problem?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 29 yrs old me an my boyfriend we have sex on an off for 9 yrs. now we r dating but have had for great sex for 9 yrs. the just put him on high blood prassure pills. he is 40 yrs old would the pill have anything to do with his ability to get an erection or is it me? 9yrs we ... (70 words)

Am I a lesbian or bisexual?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so confused if i'm a lesbian or bisexual or something like that , but the problem is i dont want to , i want to be straight . i always attracted by girls , i never have the intense feeling with boys ,as maximum i only feel just wow this guy so warm . i always brushed when i ... (257 words)

Help, I want to start having sex, but I'm not sure?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Well, I'm 15 And I'm turning 16 in two weeks. I've been masturbating since i was 13. I like the way it feels, And i love Orgasms. I'm still a virgin though. But lately all i can think about is how much i want to go ALL THE WAY with someone. Is this normal?... (86 words)

A black guy asked me to home coming but my stepfather is racist!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15, and this guy I really like just asked me out and suggested we go to homecoming together, there's only one problem...he's black. He's a really great guy, and I'd love to go with him. I don't think my Mom would mind, but it's my step-dad and some of my other family that ... (100 words)

Betrayal by sister and mom!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so here it goes. I have this Horribe problem. im 17, and I have this Amazing, most wonderful boyfriend in the world. Hi name is Greg, and His 19. And my name is liz : p I have this bratty lil sister, named clair. and well. ok here it goes. We dated for like 8... (501 words)

So much stress in my life what do I do?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do if you are so depressed because your boyfriend is in the military and your very behind in college and you have a job afterwards and then you have church every wednesdays and sundays and sometimes saturdays and thursdays and your also pregnant so your always ... (68 words)

I'm not bi but I think I like my friend!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - O.k first of all me and my best friend are like the closest ppl u will ever meet. She has a boyfriend and all and thats cool the only problem being is I think I'm attracted to her I don't know why I mean I am very straight believe me but when she puts her hand on my shoulder or ... (113 words)

Role play issues

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - When my partner and i 1st met we discussed role play. He then asked me to be his daughters school mate who called when he was alone. You can imagine then rest,i know he got the idea from a porn film but i find the whole thing find disturbing. ... (55 words)

Abdominal craps and bleeding, but it's not my period

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24 August 2010 (F)

- I had abdominal cramps and bled a little today. Its not my period, any idea what it could be? I know I should go to the doctors, and I will. Just wondering what you guys think it might be first though, thanks! ... (42 words)

Was it a date or just hanging out?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I reconnect with a friend from high school online…we went out for like month (purely innocent) during my first yr of high school. So I broke up with him, I don’t remember why, but we remained friends. We lost contact and recently exchange numbers, I said that we should catch ... (347 words)

Is it normal to want sex all the time?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know what a sex addicit is? the reason why im asking is because alot of my friends tease me saying im far too addicted to sex for a normal girl, im not in a relationship but have friends with benefits, and i see them very often, im not on here to brag or anything ... (87 words)

Is 30 years and 3000 miles such a problem?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok everyone when i was young i had a fake profile on a dating site i fell in love with a man on that site at the time but i could never tell him who i really was now i am 19 and i see he is still on the site i am so happy he is still single as i thought about him for years now ... (95 words)

Would this be considered the same kind of relationship?

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24 August 2010 (F)

age - a gf of mine asked me a question with regard to her current involvment with her lover. she asked me if this man that she has been sleeping with for several years has a live in gf would this be considered the same as a married man having a long term affair on his wife? i t... (166 words)

My friend is on birth control and I'm not sure she's using it correctly!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I both went to the public clinic about three months ago to start on Birth Control. I went on the Nuvaring, she's on the Evra patch. She's very sexually active with her boyfriend, and we are very open and honest about this kind of stuff. (I'm not having sex a... (204 words)

I talked bad about him, I feel bad! I want him back!

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24 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I need your help so desperately. My boyfriend and I were together for 14 years. We have two boys together. A month ago he broke up with me because I bad talk him with his sister and his ex. I know I was wrong to do that but I was hurt that he cheated on me so I said a ... (130 words)