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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex is ignoring me and I had a weird dream about him. Does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Argh - I dreamt about my ex last night (I seriously did not think of him yesterday) although a week before - I had sent him an email sayin i missed his company and was hopin we could talk soon - he read my E-card but didnt respond.I find it funny that he responded only to ... (393 words)

What do you say to a girl who thinks you only like her for her breasts? And how to ask her out if you can't breathe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If a girl thinks you only like them for their breasts what would you say to them? How do you ask out a girl when you can't breath around them? ... (30 words)

I can't lead this double life and need to chose between separated husband and man I am seeing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is very hard for me , but i need someone else opinion. I have been separated for about fourteen months. During this time, I met a guy who seem to be real nice and treats me real well ( may i add we work together. Anyway, My husband swear he has changed and never wanted to ... (159 words)

I don't think I want to be cooped up with my parents on vacation for a week!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i am 26 years old and decided to take my parents somewhere..a nice city..somewhere not too far but we still have to take a plane. I think my problem is the fact i feel more angry being with them knowing i don't have a b/f or even dating anyone and i miss my ex dearly...for ... (294 words)

I still love my husband but he went back to his ex. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I separated with my husband of 3 years while I was 5 mnths pregnant. We had problems before but it was just minor problems tht we managed to sort out. The reason we broke up was tht he suspected infidelity though he did not have concrete proof about it. We fought a lot and he ... (218 words)

I just got married and already there are problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just got married on saturday and it seems like my husband would much rather spend time with his friends than to be with me and his daughter . we are young , i am 20 and he is 19 . we have been together since we were 13 and have a two year old daughter together. i want to know ... (118 words)

What should I do?? wait till marriage or not? seriously need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so am 21... i loved my exes (3) i gave them everything..i loved them. but they all disappeared from my life without goodbye. ive been hurt soo much.. ive been single for 2years now.. the guys i meet just want sex and obviously i dont give in so they leave. i dont slee... (117 words)

I don't know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend!

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi hope you can help. i dont know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend. weve been together for seven months and we get on really well. he treats me realy nice , but lately the last month im getting worried when he goes out that he'll meet someone and even though we text ... (228 words)

Her ex is more fun than I am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf openly admits her ex is more fun than i am, she says thats why she remains friends with him, he likes to wind people up and she finds it funny some times. she also says that her silly side comes out when hes around...i think this translates to being flirty. she wont... (198 words)

I just want him to notice me more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! im 16 and i go out into town all the time and i do drink! but i know this groups of lads who are known very well were i live and i know all of them from just seeing them out.But i was invited to one of thems 21st birthday party and i went and i know there too old an... (210 words)

Thanks to my ex I feel extremely insecure about my small breasts

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - This is going to sound stupid, but I have a huge complex with my small boobs, thanks to my ex. We didn't break up because of that, we broke up because he was abusive and too controlling. But the thing is, in some occasions he bluntly told me to my face that some singers and... (392 words)

Girlfriend of 11 years pregnant but now I've found the girl of my dreams

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) age 41-50 - 11 years I've been with my girlfriend, didn't marry since I always suspected I'd find someone else, someone I knew the moment I lay eyes on her.. it came about 5 months ago, both the knowledge of a baby girl and love of my life started working where I work.. told my... (153 words)

My dream boy but I don't even know him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone!!! i was wondering if you could help me? there is a boy in my french class that i absolutely love..he's my dream boy. but the problems vary; first, im too shy to approach him. second, there are a lot of pretty girls in my class, and third, he's never met me before, ... (71 words)

She broke up with me and then throws herself at me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so a month ago a girl broke up with me and since then we've talked still but last night when i go to her house she starts throwing herself at me ( i still have feelings for her so i didn't fight back) now i thought this was strange cause she clearly stated she just wanted to ... (79 words)

Condom tore, the drug I've used in the past isn't good for me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - [I'm 19 not 26] I've got a serious problem :( Me and my bf had sex and just when he finished he took it out and saw that the condom did tear! This happened 3 times before and I took "escapelle" but this isn't good for my body, I have no idea what to do now. please help me ... (69 words)

How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel it will hurt me more than... (434 words)

I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I am someone can give me some advice. I am in a dilemma that I cannot goto anyone else in my life for advice. I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker. We instantlly clicked and he makes me feel things I have never felt before for anyone. The probl... (384 words)

I want him back, but he says "forget it"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in a relation ship with an older man, he was married and he just had a kid. they were not doing so good they were sort of broke up, but stupid me started a relationship with him. we fell in love she found out and instead of just being broke up she wanted a divorce. he was ... (252 words)

15 years ago we slept together but now he wont?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We spent two seperate nights together years ago, nothing happened just a fumble, I knew he fancied me then and the feeling was mutual. 15 years after the fumble I saw him again the first night we walked and talked he was sweet, but we slept alone. The second I shared his bed ... (156 words)

Is it wrong for me to fancy my cousin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 17 my cousin is 25 my whole family (all aunts uncles cousins etc.) went out 4 a meal and a few drinks in the hotel afterwards , my family and my cousins family were still there late in the night when i was going i said goodbye 2 my cousin and he said he loves me i said i ... (91 words)

Our open marriage has become a disaster

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is complicated; you've been warned! My husband and I have always idealized, even before we were together, a committed relationship that does not involve monogamy. While I always thought it sounded great, I had doubts about how many people were truly capable of livin... (1225 words)

My kids don't want me to date but to get back with their dad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex left me and the kids about a year and a half ago after i found out he cheated on me and i kicked him out.He has been with that girl ever since. I hate her. I miss him the kids miss him and we all want him home. I see a counselor but I cant shake my feelings for him? He is ... (120 words)

Boyfriend choosing friends over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - soo i used to be bestfriends with my bf's friend but that frienship ended when that friend made fun of the fact that i was molested as a kid and told me to go kill myself when my dad died. he also made fun of the fact that i self mutilated my self. even after knowing this my bf ... (131 words)

After our troubled relationship, why would he buy me such an extravagant gift?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need to know how this guy i work with feels about me. when he started i was there for him always and have helped him no end over the past year. i have liked him since day one. anyway the last few months hes grown distant and become very cocky. he had a personal crisis ... (148 words)

I'm struggling to love him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any more i have tried so hard to ... (92 words)

My husband's family hates me but he can't see it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) age - I have a very disturbing dilemma in my marriage.I feel,it might ruins it eventually. Hard to describe, but I try. My husbands family is giving me cold treatment. I mean,they dont swear at me or tell me what they think, but from all the comments, and the ways how they talk to ... (188 words)

Husband went to strip club 3X, hid it from me and I can't forgive him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out that my husband was drunk and went to strip clubs about 3 times. He did this behind my back. When i found out i was devastated. I feel such hurt, betrayal, anger. I can't get the images out of my mind. I am nervous and anxious all the time. I don't even bring it up ... (292 words)

My husband met up with his ex and now wants to split

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an 8 yr marriege... My husband met up with his ex 3 weeks ago.. We were already having problems.. but this made up his mind.. after 3 weeks he wants too sell house and completely split.. Whats going thru his head??... (43 words)

What can I do to toughen up or is it just that he needs to relax, or am I really that silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Hi, I have been in a loving relationship for the past year and a half and we are very happy! My boyfriend has an incredibly stressful job, and is currently at a part of his life where he feels as though his life has become stagnant with regards to work an... (444 words)

How do you regain confidence after a brush off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you regain confidence after a brush off? The guy I was seeing and I found ourselves at a work related event in which we didn't know anybody, it was only us from our company. So I sat with him (we had a friendly brake up, and were still speaking). We were chatting... (353 words)

He wants to let things go "day by day". Do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm single female w/no children. I have been dating this guy with 7 children for 4 months now. When we 1St started dating he stated he don't trust women and how his relationships never seem to last b/c of his job (bodyguard) and his children. I told him i will try to work ... (167 words)

Husband no longer watches porn and now goes too quickly. How do I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Trying to keep this short and to the point: my husband used to get so turned on just by looking at me. Then I got pregnant and he didn't want to have much sex (i can understand, there's a baby in there! lol) I just had my baby 3 months ago, and I can proudly say I am almost ... (341 words)

My ex husband is causing trouble for my entire family and no one can stop him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age - I was married for a short time 27 years ago. We got divorced,he disappeared, paid no child suppport and I did not look for him, it was done. Three years later I remarried, my husband adopted my daughter and things have been wonderful for years. Then my ex started harrassing ... (531 words)

He says he is young for a relationship, does this mean he has feelings? Should I try for an LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - More than just good friends? I have this really good friend and I have known him for 5 years. At the moment we are in different countries and we only stay in contact through facebook. I have had feelings for him for long. So on April fools day I said that I loved him. I told h... (195 words)

How do I get close to him physically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ll start this problem/question with a little background history! My best friend, let’s call her Beth, has a strange family. Strange, but amazing, and I love them all - and in turn they love me. I’ve had my own bed in their house before, before I moved to the city I was t... (550 words)

One day I want to be with him and the next day I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 2 years now. He is 9 years older then me. I in general tend to oscillate a lot. Well with our relationship is the same. One day I'm 100% sure I wanna be with him and the next I'm wondering rather or not I wanna be with him. We are planing to move in ... (120 words)

How to get him out of my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

- Cutting a long story short.... my now ex broke up with me out of nowhere in a pub in front of all his friends (nice) and didnt speak to me for 2 weeks. When he finally did he thought i would fall at his feet and get back with him, as much as i wanted to i stood my ground as i ... (386 words)

Am I allowed to love my ex husband again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay....I know I am being really really stupid and probably am acting silly, but I really do still love him. Here's my story, I have two kids , and once upon a time I married their dad, but, three years later, we divorced, and he moved to back to his European homeland for work... (176 words)

2nd time I have sex will there still be a burning sensation/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 19 and have been wondering, i jst had sex 4 da 1st in da lst month, it was very painful n i had dis intense burning sensation wen he trusted. So its been month since i had sex hw bad is it going 2 feel da second time and wil da burning sensation stil be there having sex ... (63 words)

Can't reach orgasm without my vibrator!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey peeps. Basically, I am finding it really hard to reach orgasm without using my vibrator! I love the sensation of it and feels so much different from sex. I use it a lot with my fiance but have reached the problem that i can't orgasm without it. It just doesn't feel the ... (112 words)

Husband has been hiding money..do I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age - I need a voice of reason. I was married to a man for 7 years and we have recently split up. During that time money has been very scarce due to the fact that initially he was in a very low paid job, then he bought his own business and has been working very hard to pay off his ... (398 words)

Disappointing family members who take you for granted...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's my story, my sister is a bit difficult. She's popular, pretty and very confident if a bit on the dim side (mean but true). My problem with her is increasingly over the years her looks have meant people are bending over backwards to do things for her, to the extent ... (287 words)

I had sex with my brother's 31 year old friend. My brother will kill us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this is gonna sound well bad but here goes i went to my brother's friend's wedding this sunday just gone, and my brothers other friend who i have just recently fancied was there, i got really drunk like really drunk and randomly he started coming onto me, n i came onto him... (141 words)

Does my boyfriend just want me to be pudgy? Why doesn't he support my weight loss and work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been with my fiancee for 3 years. Since we've been together I lost 40lbs. I was on a mission to lose weight even before I met him so I lost a total of 123lbs. In fact, when we met I was jogging with dumbbells. In any case, he hasn't said a thing about my... (377 words)

Do his greedy personal habits warrant me breaking up with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I started a relationship with a lovely man about 4 months ago and it quickly became quite intense. We have both said we love each other and I do think he is a lovely person. He has lots of good qualities, he is financially sound, has a good job and doesn't smoke. He is a social... (529 words)

I like boys so much, I want to be one too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi,I'm a girl and I like boys. I have no sexual interest in other girls, but I feel like I'm in the wrong gender. What is the technical term for that? I don't know what to tell people when they ask what my sexual orientation is. I don't know what to do or who to go to for help! ... (66 words)

Be kicked out or have a happy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i met my gf when I was 19 n she was 16, for the first year I wasn't aloud in the upstairs part of her house let alone in her room and i wasn't aloud to stay past midnight.. When we had been going out for a year her mum let me go upstairs but i still had to leave by ... (321 words)

I feel like I lost my good friends, to each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm an engineering student.About me: A sentimental, and always wanted to joy person.I kept my 5 school friends as my best friends,one of them is more closer to me!Even more than,my college friends,family; i trusted him,i love him. While, in college i had a new friend(g... (239 words)

Ever since I had the miscarriage our relationship has been troubled

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend has been together for a yr and 3 months, everything was perfect until recently about 2 or 3 months ago..around the time we had a miscarriage and i quit my job, we have been argueing alot about stupid things and havent been talking as much as we use to, ... (155 words)

Checked out a porn link in my b/f's history

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem with my boyfriend's porn watching habbit. We've talked about it, and despite saying he'd never watch again, he still watches it every time I'm not home like I knew he would. But that's not EXACTLY why I'm upset. I feel super disturbed right now. Since this ... (462 words)

Should I Get Back With Him?? So confused..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just want a little bit of help and advice please. i am still stupidly in love with my recent ex boyfriend, we have been broken up for a few months and during this time we have always kept close contact as 'friends' but still had the relationship aspect, i suppose friends ... (352 words)

Was she ever a friend to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is not a romantic relationship question but more a friendship one and I hope this is accepted and someone can shed some light on it for me as I can not think clearly and still hurt very much over it. My friend and I have known each other our whole lives, we grew up next ... (876 words)

Living with my husband and in his deceased wifes shadow.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I am in my late 30's and am married to a man in his early 40's. My husband lost his beloved wife from breast cancer in 2007 after 15 years of marriage. He has two young children from his first marriage who I adore and have formed a very strong bond with. I have spe... (1447 words)

How do I approach this situation delicately?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got into a relationship with one of my close friends. In about 3 weeks we will be going to school 7 hours away from each other. He's very tight financially because his parents are unemployed and he's paying for college on his own. I, on the other hands, have ... (98 words)

How do I ignore this awful temptation to call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A few month ago, my commitment phobe boyfriend ended up relationship suddenly after he started to mention about marriage. of course I am hurt how did he do. As usual as a commitment phobe, he couldn't end the relationship either couldn't stay with me. I think I did the... (222 words)

Anyone else have a seemingly perfect life and being unhappy inside?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there anyone out there who looks (from the outside) that their life is really working perfectly for them? Is there anyone out there that is successful, accomplished and in a so-called great relationship, but isn't truely happy? It seems that everyone I went to school w... (156 words)

Bad experiences in the past with controlling men; how to shut this guy down without being rude?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello readers. I would like some advice regarding what may seem as a trivial matter to some, however for me whether or not due to my past patterns of enabling men to control me etc I am aware that this is happening again, however I'm not sure how to stop it without appearin... (475 words)

She sees her guy friends more than she sees me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfreind is constantly putting me second best to her male and female freinds. she seems to think that i try and make her sit at home all day everyday whilst i work, but this isnt true. i dont mind her seeing her female freinds whenever she wants, but she spends more time ... (204 words)

Family won't accept b/f because of religion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My mum told me that she will never accept my boyfriend if he is non muslim an less he convert to islam because i am muslim as well as my family. my boyfriend has alwayz been there for me whenever i needed him and now he kept on asking me if i open the subject about him with m... (118 words)

Is it a problem if she's taller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So my question is, are guys put off if a girl is taller than them? I'm 5 10, and love being tall. My ex bf hated it if I wore heels, though, as I'd be maybe an inch taller than him. So now, I've been asked out by a guy who is maybe a little bit shorter than me. I'm ... (122 words)

Just getting over a bad break, now two guys seem to be interested

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma and would like your advice, please. Having been single for 9 months (I broke up with my ex bf of 9 years after finding out he was cheating on me for the second time) and thinking that I was no longer interested in relationships, I have suddenly found myself in ... (412 words)

He used me for sex and I can't get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so i said hell no next day i called him he started acting up. he told me ... (198 words)

Love triangle problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all, I am in love with a girl who has been going out with another guy for 5 years - since high school. she has told me that she loves me more than her current bf. we hold hands when we go out(almost everyday)and she kisses my hand and all. i have kissed her forehead and... (233 words)

He doesn't seem to want to plan for the future and pushes me away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Wow… there are so many “break” or give me “space” stories, I feel like I am in the right place. Thanks for the stories ladies. I hope someone can give me advice on mine. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years officially and I have known him for 6 years now. He was my f... (1349 words)

We're getting serious, but I have questions about her past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, I'd like to like to state that being as this is anonymous I want to be as honest as possible. Sorry if i sound like an ass or not.. and honest / constructive feedback is appreciated! I have a girlfriend I recently met about 6 months ago. We hit it off from the s... (409 words)

Is he not taking our wedding plans seriously?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We got engaged on March and decided the date of our wedding to be March 19, 2011. I heard it's best to start planning 1 yr ahead and so that's what i started to do with my mother's help. However, he always seemed to get upset about it saying I am going way too crazy, that i ... (200 words)

She won't divorce her husband to be with me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 21 years old, and my gf is 15 years older than me, and she is married from last 17 years, having 2 daughters staying with her husband, her husband is like not good not even bad, we are from different countries so we are million miles away, we met 1 and 1/2 years ago ... (295 words)

I feel like the nice guy who always finishes last...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ended a relationship last year that ran for eight years but we basically became roomates - hadn't had sex for three years. Felt ready to start dating again this summer and have been seeing someone who I thought was really nice. I have never been one to jump into bed with so... (474 words)

Afraid to tell him but so confused and fed up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I am 15 years old and I am a very emotional person who does make friends easily but doesn't connect extremely with them except of some rare cases. I had two friendships in the last 5-6 years that ended up really bad with me broken-hearted. I started to lose my trust in others ... (911 words)

Will my self esteem issues get in the way of a relationship I've built online?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey agony aunts and uncles! I have a question and I apologize for the novel I am writing. However, I feel the background information is necessary for my question. I have spent my years as an adolescent feeling like an old soul in a very young shell. Now, finally coming i... (1209 words)

Is there a good approach for my defensive girlfriend?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age - My girlfriend sometimes turns my words around and completely misses the message I am trying to convey to her, and quite often gets defensive and angry. She'll cool down later and we are able to have a rational discussion about the issue. I aways approach her gently, opening the ... (85 words)

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, but no he didnt, he asked ... (761 words)

I know I love him, even though we've never talked. Is this love?

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31 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I saw this guy four years ago..He was soo cute and he made me feel butterflies i remeber it so perfectly..The time passed by but i never talked to him;I use to see him in school everyday But i never talked to him He was just so different from me , I knew he was never going ... (288 words)

What to do when you are in love with two people?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I had an affair with my life long best friend. The two of us have been close since we were kids and grew up next door to each other. He has been the person that I have gone to for everything and I have been the same for him. I am also married to one of his best friends that ... (1220 words)

How do I get this cold and distant man out of my head, even while he's visiting our newborn?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dated this guy on and off for 2 years... i got pregnant and he left me. he said he was only with me for the sex and said he loved me because he felt pity... he always said he wanted to be there for the baby.. the thing is, i'm about to give birth in 2 weeks, he's in europe at ... (251 words)

I treat him this way not because I'm arrogant but because of my bad experience with him!

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a breakup 2 years ago after having chilhood love (6 years)with a boy who lives in my neighbourhood. The breakup was very sudden and very rude on the ground that he was not ready to wait for me to marry (I wanted him to build his and my career first as I was the person who ... (236 words)

Don't want the problems from my past relationship to follow me

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got out of an intense relationship that lasted off and on for almost two years. The man I was dating and later engaged to was ten years older than me and was sometimes verbally abusive. At the end of our relationship I found out he had a felony charge for domestic ... (204 words)

Jealous co-workers?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im an intern at an established business organization, so the employees must act pretty civil and educated right? not really so, I cant help but feel that ppl @ my dept are jealous so they leave me all by myself during lunchtime, when we used to before. they only talk amongst ... (400 words)

I don't want her to fall for some guy while she's away at school

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Holy F*ck im going nuts. long story i was planning on going to college with my girlfreind (who im facking nuts about. she means the world to me and id do anything for her)this september but my father got a buyout from general motors which he used to pay off his mortgages on the ... (513 words)

Why is he saying he doesn't deserve me?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years and recently he has been sayin that he doesn't deserve me. He keeps saying that I should break up with him and everything. I don't know if he doesn't love anymore or he wants to find some one new. ... (50 words)

My parents found out about my boyfriend!

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - He's been my secret boyfriend for a while now and I just tell my parents that he's my best friend. Today I wasn't so lucky because I was at the mall with him and so was my dad. He saw me and my boyfriend holding hands and kissing. My dad told my mom and now they're both ... (177 words)

Should she fight through the urge to pee during sex?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, so my question is when my GF and I have sex, she gets that sensation to wanna pee. So she'll stop and literally go pee(She actually pees) and comes back so we start again and she gets the same feeling again after a few minutes. I tell her to just fight through the urge and ... (101 words)

I have an uneasy feeling about her. Should I end this?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age - TO STAY OR LET GO I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 4 years. She has two children, daughter 19 and son 13. They live with their father, why, because they choose to as their mother left father for me and he is good to them. She had wanted to leave ... (311 words)

Tired of being dished the crap in relationships! How do I become a stronger woman?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i need some advise. i am 28 yrs old and all ive ever done is let men run all over me in my relationships. how do i become that strong woman and put my foot down. im tired of crap... (40 words)

How can he be so calm and want sex when I might be pregnant?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my bf today I'd been feeling strange and he looked worried, asked me if I thought I was pregnant. I said I didn't think so (though I was trembling) but he insisted I take a test soon because he thought there was a strong chance. On his lead, we had intercourse and that ... (192 words)

Does anyone think I'm guaranteed to be pregnant now?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and i've had a misscarriage before and it really hurt me as i'm a loving person i'm not a mad teenager who take's drug's or is out every night of the week drinking. I'm a quiet type of person i don't go out unless it's with my family. i like to stay in with my mummy and ... (352 words)

Why don't girls have sex as much as guys?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I would like to ask a question at a general/stereotypical level - Why don't girls have sex as much as guys? Eg. a single guy goes to a party/club/bar and hopes something will happen. A single girl goes to the same place and doesn't let anything happen. See what I mean? Mos... (142 words)

My daughter is feeling left out! What should I do?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Feeling Very Hurt and Left Out I helped someone out with her daughter lots of times, and I became friends with the mom. We went to our kids' activities together and we invited her daughter over as she was the same age as my daughter. My daughter is very shy in school. ... (277 words)

Matching shirts? With hearts on them?! Is this abnormal?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend made matching shirts with another guy. They are extremely lame and have hearts on them..but she wears the shirt to school quite often. Is this abnormal or is it just me?... (34 words)

My girlfriend just left me and I want her back. How should I proceed?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend just recently left me. She danced around a couple of reasons such as her issues, she pushed me away, etc... But in the end she said I was a really great guy, a really great boyfriend, but she wants to be single. We dated for almost 11 months, and the last two... (1074 words)

He doesn't make time for me anymore

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have always enjoyed reading this site as it seemed like people were always honest and nice, so im hoping someone can maybe help me. Ive been going out for my boyfriend for about 11 months and he's always been super sweet and nice, and always made me feel so loved... (223 words)

He doesn't say he loves me back anymore

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more when I tell him I love him all he says is me too! He always use to call me babe and baby and beautiful but all of that has stopped,When we talk its so quiet its like he doesn't care anymore or he's seing someone else on the side! ... (88 words)

I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept together all the time. We know ... (752 words)

He's my sun shine

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - He's the sun. He brightens my day, he keeps me warm and whenever I'm an arms length away from him, I melt. I've known him for 7 years now and I've liked him for 7 years. Back then I didn't know that he would become this important in my life. He's my special person, with... (179 words)

Is she insecure? Jealous ?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age - I received an e-mail from a friend that I had not seen for a couple years , she lives 3000 miles away is married and has a 17 year old daughter. She wrote and said she was visiting soon and wanted to get together to visit . we made arrangements to have dinner and did. He... (212 words)

Jealous of his past .. does he still love them?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - In the beginning, me and my boyfriend started off as friends so we discussed a lot of things with each other. He shared a lot of information during that time about his past relationships. He shared details about the sex they had, the parts of their body that he likes and als... (262 words)

Growing hair in abnormal areas

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31 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I have been growing lots of hair on my buttocks, my vaginal area and my nipples...is this normal? Will guys find it repulsive? I need to know.... (27 words)

What does everyone thinks about women choosing men who are similar to their fathers as husbands?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I am adopted but was raised in what I would consider a fairly dysfinctional family unit where my mother is dominant and my father is very submissive. I am, however, very traditional in my views and believe that in a marriage a woman should look after the hous... (230 words)

What do you think?

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31 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - guys, What do u think if a girl would tell u to go and visit her at night when her parents Are sleeping... But she has told you that there going to be outside just talking... and girls help plz..=]... (41 words)

One minute she acts as if she is interested the next not so much

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Kind agony aunts I call on you today for some guidance if I may, I’m in really in unfamiliar waters at the minute and kind of facing several challenges in my life at the minuet that I’d appreciate some guidance with. Ok, a little bit about me... I’m nearly 18, n... (847 words)

My little sister wants to have sex in the church! what can I do?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this question is for my little sister she is 16 and she really wants to have sex with her boyfriend she thinks she will be with him forever i dont know what to tell her his parents are total assholes and the only place they can have sex is church and to me thats disrespectful ... (64 words)

My boyfriend does not trust me and is rushing me into sex with him!

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 15 and I have a boyfriend who is 16. We have been togther for 5 months and he means the world to me and he always tells me that he cant even imagine living without me. We are pretty close and comfortable with each other; we have the kind of relationship where we can ... (310 words)

Yeast infection pain!

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 14 year old girl and I just recently got over a Yeast Infection about a week or two ago. About 5 days ago I started itching real bad in my vagina area and I do trim down there so I just figured it was from the hair maybe starting to grow back. Then, yesterday around the ... (179 words)

Is not trying to have sex with someone respectful?

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is not trying to have sex with somebody respectful? Somebody was telling me how they knew this guy in college who was really great, etc and wanted her to move away with him. She then told me that he was really respectful because he didn't try to have sex with her. Well how is ... (62 words)

It takes SO long for him in the bedroom

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been with each otehr over a year, and we're having trouble when it comes to sex. This isn't your usual... it only takes him three minutes! This is.. oh god, it takes him nearly three hours. We've tried to work each other up for sex, we have rules that ... (129 words)

No communication in a long distance relationship

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 21 years old and have been involved with the same person for almost about 2 years now. Its a long distant relationship, he lives in New York City and I live in Virginia. I met him when he was visiting Wash. DC for a concert his friend was performing in during the end of ... (1599 words)

Is he flirting or am I being unreasonable?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is wonderful to me and always does everything for me, however he just has one habit that really annoys me, he does seem to be too friendly with shop assistants and often engages in conversations with them while they are serving us. He will chat to them for ... (92 words)

If I do this does he have any rights as he is an unwed father?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i pregant 3 and half months now and the father of the baby said he be there but he's not he hasn't spoke to me since he said that. now i going to have to make one of the hardest choices in my life and my unborn childs one. on the 20th of september i have a scan and i will bring ... (235 words)

Is it me or is it ED?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months. He is 30 years old and we seem to be having sexual problems. Some time I can not make him get hard, other times we start to have sex and he goes soft or we go forever and he never cums. I have only had one other sexual partner so ... (104 words)

This whole situation is messing with my head!

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31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl at a big bon fire about a year and a half back. we started dating less then a week after we met. we dated for 5 months, she got drunk, cheated and we broke up. almost no contact for a couple of months. we started talking again and she was pretty tore up a... (610 words)

Pregnant and resentful of boyfriends other children

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant with my boyfriends 4th child and I'm becoming increasingly resentful of his other children. It's gotten so bad that I can't even bear to hear him mention their names and I dread them staying over on weekends. He doesn't seem to show as much interest in my ... (82 words)

What do guys like in girls?

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31 August 2010 (F) age 26-29 - What do guys like in girls? Do they like straight teeth, blonde hair, brown hair, certain color eyes, etc. Also, what personality do they want girls to have?... (30 words)

Should I fight for us? or let us go?

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my boyfriend has just broke up with me a few days ago, and i dont know how to feel about it! i felt like he put me second so i would moan and argue with him n he said he has had enough of me and doesnt want to be with me anymore! he doesnt seem to understand that i... (188 words)