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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I know his mind and heart?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Pls Any1 Help me to Know where my husband's mind and heart is?As he never give attention towards me not even touching me what will the cause be? Is he having other woman why dont he do sex with me now its almost 1 month or even more and he doesnt talk about sex as i know him he ... (169 words)

I want to be single but cant bear to leave him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (Title chosen by poster was taken) hi Ive been with my bofriend for 3 years now. Althought i love him very much i cheated on him a week ago. me and my boyfriend have a love hate relationship we can argue all the time but always end up laughing at eachother and it just blo... (302 words)

Should I buy a small Christmas gift for him just in case....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age - I'm leaving for London the week after next for six weeks, so won't be on the site very much.......looking forward to seeing family and friends (maybe even a couple of old school chums I haven't seen for years!) The friend I communicate with on Skype and who is active in the... (259 words)

She's my best friend but shes doing such dangerous things that I'm afraid I will start to hate her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm worried that eventually I may lose interest in one of my best friends. I see her all the time. At very least I see her every weekend. I stay the night with her at her grandmas all the time, but sometimes I just can't stand to be around her. Her cell phone is her life. One ... (181 words)

What to do...the ones that like me I don't like that way, and the ones I like, don't like me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm going through a bit of a problem and was hoping for some advice. I am gay and I love going out into the gay scene but where I stay theres only 1 bar/club in the city so everybody goes there. I never had any gay friends or anybody really until going into ... (352 words)

She kissed me and now I don't know if she likes me or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay first some background, around April I got out of a 5 month reletionship with I girl I completly fell in love with, to this day I'm still upset over losing her. And so I was pretty upset for awhile, and I hid it pretty well, but over time I started to like a girl thats in ... (552 words)

Heart broken and need some serious advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years we are both 29. This is the first serious relationship for both and he is also my first. he just broke up with me for the second time for the same reason there is a feeling missing and he cant explain it. we talked marriage before ... (496 words)

How can I make my penis larger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i am 23......my penis is small...how can i make it big....pls help me!!!!!... (14 words)

Got out of jail , have not heard from him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age - iwas or still am in a serious relationship as we were to be married. 12 years with this man. ups and downs in jail out of jail i was his only support system. i but once again just got out of jail 1 week ago and i have not heard one word from him. i think he is with someone ... (79 words)

Is it right for a girlfriend to NOT tell her male friends about you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it right for your girlfriend NOT to tell her MALE best friend about you? ... (15 words)

Why cant he see what hes got and doesn't value my friendship ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im in an awful predicament. my friend has used me badly. i thought he was nice when he started my job a year ago and he was very nervous so i done more than was asked to help him . as time went on i thought we were becoming good friends until i noticed he was doing things like ... (186 words)

I'm 16, I like a girl 3 years younger than me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What you are about to read was quite quickly written so please try to make sense of what i wrote lol. So here is my position, i recently moved to a new area and i started volunteering at a Vet Clinic and Humane Society because i love animals because i want to become a VET. So... (360 words)

Why does he freeze when it comes to having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy in his late 20's and still a virgin, not want to havesex? What does it mean when he only wants bjs?? He is a nice guy and touchy handsy but when it comes to the topic of sex and lets do it, he freezes? How to get him to relax? Thank you ... (58 words)

I want our marriage to work! am I just over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Need some advice! My husband and i have been together for five years and married for two. When we first went into our relationship i was a completely trusting person. But overtime i seem to have fallen very jealous. My past two boyfriends before him did cheat but they werent ... (220 words)

Should I get a tattoo in honor the baby I'm going to give up for adoption?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had asked for help from MANY of the aunts and uncles out here when I found out I was pregnant, and the good news is that things are going well. I have told my parents and they are being very supportive, and my fiance is right by my side through everything. My fiance and ... (257 words)

Told him I was a virgin now he is distant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there is this boy I have been talking too since april. We started hooking up (in april) but never had sex (though he tried). We hung out a few times, then summer came and we went home. All summer he texted me and would send me little picture messages of random stuff ... (343 words)

I'm pregnant, husband cheated, I took him back but I don't see things changing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I will have been married two years December 12 2010. I am pregnant will our first child and due November 21 2010. My husband works out of town a lot, sometimes a week to two weeks at a time. I don't really like that he is gone so much but I deal, and spend time ... (251 words)

it has been two months? should I call?

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22 August 2010 (F) - my ex told me he had a girl visitng for a few months and she will be gone once the visa is up. We spoke about this june 10, 11th and he said 2 and a half months she will be gone so its not a permanent thing. Has it been two and a half months? i want to call him but i was ho... (170 words)

The "exclusive" discussion caused a big rift. Should I wait it out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age - I went on holiday and then got into an argument by text with a guy I have been seeing for a month. He doesnt want to be exclusive and I was jealous of a girl he has been seeing ~(they are friends too, but occasionally get intimate). He texted me that 'our 'relatio... (203 words)

I want to leave but I'm scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to leave him but I am scared. When I tried to split up with him and ask him to move out, he said that he would chuck me out and take my son from me. I dont want to lose my son and I dont want to move out but he wont go. He has been emotionally blackmailing me about where ... (215 words)

Let me out of this pain...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am just tired of men and the whole dating sex game. I was with what I thought was a wonderful man for 4yrs and yeh he was using me and cheating and doing drugs and treated me terribly - I didnt let myself see it till near the end. Now I am mad at myself for wasting time ... (351 words)

I want to show him things can be better this time but how do I do that???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I broke up last week, because we were bickering too much. I wanted to work it out and he didnt so he said he was done, i have this feeling though that hes just taking what he thinks is the easy way out and he will realize it later on that he was wrong. hes very ... (285 words)

Is this a good enough reason to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now and plans for our wedding have been going much slower than I wud have wanted them to go. It has affected my attitude towards my boyfriend and he has noticed the change in me. I feel frustrated, tired and to make matters ... (100 words)

I have a girlfriend but miss the sex with my older woman...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I am a 32 year old male I have been with my partner for over 15 years, we have lived together for over 10 years and have 3 children. I had always considered our sex lives to be healthy until I met an older woman (11 years older) who is very sexual and demands are plenty and sex ... (139 words)

Loving a person and being IN love with that person... what is the difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What's the difference between Loving someone and being In love with someone? I think it's just the difference between like the love of a friend or family and the love of a partner. Am I right? ... (39 words)

How do I let go???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have a guy friend, well i say "friend" but i'm not really sure if he deserves to be one, really. We used to be FWB (i know bad idea) anyway he's a real womaniser, i knew this to begin with so i guess i shouldn't really be suprised. The thing is, at one point i really started ... (249 words)

How can I tell my friend to butt out???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fourteen and my bf and I have been going out for two months but somehow I find myself almost madly in love with him I've met him in person but we've never been alone..my friend that hooked us up always comes.. I know she us jealous but I don't want her to steal him... ... (141 words)

10 years together but now want to split from him... but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age - I have had a relationship with my partner for ten years and in that time we have had ups and downs, i don't want to be with him anymore, he will not marry me, he tells everyone that it embarrasses me, i've moved away from him hoping that will stop it but he think's i've got ... (116 words)

Why has she suddenly finished it completely??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, Hi guys. I'm new to this but really am out of ideas and have decided to ask people that dont know either me nor my partner and hope to get honest opinions. Background info really is i am 22 and she is 24, she has a 5 year old and lives by herself and child literally ... (827 words)

I'm not interested in being asked out but how do I tell them tactfully?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I would appreciate advice please from both men and women. I am 27 and single now, after my ex left me for someone else. We were together for nearly 7 years. This really shocked me and messed me up. I have realised that my social life is now zero! after years of loosing contact ... (380 words)

The man on the cruise...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age - is this True? I have just returned from a lovely cruise and on there was a member of the cruise staff/entertainment who does things like bingo/games etc in the day time and then sings and dances at night for the show-he was always looking at me - however innocent - but s... (124 words)

Husband left me a few months ago and can't seem to move on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been together for 9 years and married for 3 ,He moved out 3 months ago into a flat so i could move back in the house, he has suffered with depression in the past and has ups/down Since the beginning of this year have had quite a few arguments and he started to be abit ... (1527 words)

I just want him to be my son's daddy!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just given birth to my first baby son, but the father of my child is refusing to have anything to do with him. We broke up after a string of arguments then i found out i was pregnant, and kept it from him till i was 18 weeks, because i didnt know how he would react. A... (207 words)

I know he'll come back once the smoke clears but how do I handle it when he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age - recently i obtained information on my current lover that he kept hidden from me for quite some time. i placed an anonymous phone call to the woman he currently lived with that he has been cheating on me with probably for the entire time he has known me to tell her what wa... (171 words)

How can I tell him not to bite me so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, soo I have a problem. My boyfriend has this thing where when we're making out he'll bite my neck.. HARD! I don't mind neck biting but it's just that he hurts lol plus my mom almost saw a hickey that didn't go away for a few days. I just want to know how I could tell him ... (90 words)

Are we seeing each other too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, I'm in my twenties and he's a year younger than me(pretty much more mature than me) we have seen each other every day since we first started going out (we hang out from 2 in the afternoon till 9 in the night, monday-friday) ... (191 words)

I feel completely burned out. How can I get my motivation back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) age - I have a question regarding to none working wife syndrome. I have a uniquely, painful situation. Im in my late 40's and faced with a a big dilemma. I wish I could find some opinions here. So, I had many children, and I was stay-home mom, for many years. I was increasingly ... (356 words)

I need your opinions guys... Is he going off me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Am I being silly or should i be feeling like this? Do you think he's going off me? I want honest answers please! My boyfriend cheated on his last girlfriend and so i can sometimes be a bit worried about who he's with. He has this friend Emelie and they talk loads, meet... (350 words)

Guys... would you get annoyed if your girlfriend was ALWAYS in the mood for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm aaalways wanting sex from my bf. I can't believe it! He can go for a while, but I feel like I want/need two hours or something since I can't orgasm-But its the most amazing thing! Hes older and the attraction could not be stronger! Still, I'm scared that he'll think badly ... (138 words)

Feeling down about being single...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I just don't know why. I get down because I'm single. I'm a guy (24), and I shouldn't feel this way. My few relationships have sucked..... they didn't last too long. I go out to bars and clubs. The girls I thought were for me rejected me. I go out, and do talk/dance with ... (90 words)

My girlfriend is going out A LOT. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my situation is as follows... I am 21 years old and my girlfriend is 20. We have been dating for a little over 4 1/2 years! I just recently bought my first house about 5 weeks ago and we have been living with each other since. We have a great relationship, awsome ... (263 words)

Lying about watching porn...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been lying to my girlfriend for years about my porn use. She caught me lying to her a few times in the beginning of our relationship (about other things as well as porn use) and has never really trusted me again properly since then. However I have always been adamant that ... (448 words)

I recently found out that the person I live with has been communicating with prostitutes via craigslist!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I recently found out that the person I live with has been communicating with prostitutes via craigslist and several other sites. He had a prostitute call him which tipped me off so I went through his phone and saw numerous calls and even perverted text messages sent to... (415 words)

I had sex with my ex boyfriend and now I feel confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Please can I have some opinions about my situation... especially male opinions, but all are welcome! My ex and i broke up about two years ago now (I can't believe it's that long!), after being together for three. It was amicable and after a bit, we became friends a... (372 words)

Should I stick to my guns, be brave and ask her to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have no idea what to do. For about 3 months now, a girl with a girlfriend has been cheating with me. She didn't leave her girlfriend for me as her friends would completely cast her out. Also, we were both soon to leave home for university, and she'd agreed with her girlfriend ... (218 words)

Does anyone find dating and getting into a relationship easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

- Does anyone find dating and getting into a relationship easy? I'm 22 and although I've flirted with loads of women and made out with several in nightclubs. However I've only dated 5 women and had a relationship with 2. It does seem difficult for me to get a date with women ... (103 words)

How can I make her feel like a queen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About a year and a half ago, my best friend (who's a girl) finally left her complete jackass of a boyfriend behind. For a couple months now, she's been after one of my close friends (one of her friends too). At first, I was okay with helping her get with him but then I realized ... (255 words)

Is it my fault or is it his fault I feel worthless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my childs father on and off for 10years so I will just break this down. Ever since we had our daughter in 2002 I've been taking care of her alone basically. He always seems to be too busy hanging out with friends drinking and whatever else he does at strip cl... (773 words)

Can this cause an invalid child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Mod Note: Could not use Posters Chosen Title hello everyone! i have a question and i hope i'll get answers....as i heard if you have a sex with your boyfriend who is drunk you will have invalid child......can you tell me is it true or not? thanks............ (51 words)

I wish I knew a way to get him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im looking for advice on how to get my ex back. we were together nearly three years,never had a fight always on got on well, i thought id be with him forever.... we were having a long distance relationship for a while because i was studying abroad and one day i couldnt do ... (245 words)

How should I get rid of my feelings for him without having to exclude him from my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It started five months ago, I was in my senior year and in the very last months, I fell for one of my classmates. We started chatting and became friends. Unintentionally, I spoiled it all by asking him, whether he was at least a little bit into me, which he declined (this took ... (173 words)

I can't live without him... how do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend were together for 6 months. I loved him more than I had loved anyone in my whole life. He was my everything and I would have done anything for him. He's 18 and I'm 15. He told me the same. He told me he would never hurt me and only wanted me. A couple ... (202 words)

I don't paticularly want a relationship with him or anything... I guess I'm just intruiged. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i came back from overseas, where i met this man. to be honest, my first impression of him was that he'e a complete idiot/douchebag. but, as you get to know people, they dont seem so bad. we were in a military environment where he was my officer, but it didnt stop him from inv... (238 words)

How do I get past this and tell him size is not as important as he thinks it is and it also does not make a good lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with Husband for 14 years, 2 years ago we separated for a little over a year by his choice. During that time I began to see another man since my husband was certain he didn't want to continue our relationship. We (he) decided we wanted to stay together so I stopped ... (264 words)

We were fwb...now its changing. How do I make it lean the way I want it to go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have known this guy for 8 years, we have been having sex on and off for about 7 years now. we have had other relationships but always end up back with each other. but for the last couple of years he hasn't want a girlfriend and i haven't seen him date either and i was ok with ... (172 words)

Why am I jealous of my partner's son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why am i jealous of my partners son I have been with my partner for 3 years now and previously he was in a relationship where they had a child together ..he hates his ex for the cheating that went on when they were together and the child is now 8 years old. he sees him once... (335 words)

Why does it feel different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello i have notice wen i rub my pussy very hard it gets very sensitive as i cum which i cnt be able to touch. and when my bf make me cum it doesnt feel the same as i cum during intercourse. why do i experience different orgasm?... (51 words)

I love her, but she loves him...He's a jerk...and what is love anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my best friend was dating this girl on and off for two years. Most of those two years were a killer on this girl, because his parents would not let him see her and they would sneak around and he would always get in trouble. Several times he has broken up with her and ... (378 words)

I need help with this stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Original Title ok guys so im 18 and have a bfwe have tried to have sex, it didnt work he couldnt get it in we both dont know wat to do we are both ready for this i have alot of stress in my life but being with him is amazing i want to be with him for the rest of my life he i... (105 words)

I want my boyfriend of 2 months to kiss me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi umm ive got a boyfriend ive een with him for 2 months and he hasnt kissed me once hes only hugged me ut never kissed me i really want him to kiss me i just need some friendly advice to get him to kiss me i really really nead some right now ... (54 words)

Could my older cousin like me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an older cousin by a few years... i only ever see him once every 6 months because one, he is my dads side and i only ever visit my dad on weekends, and two he is usually really busy at work and business stuff... last year my dad wanted to go on holiday to his hometown... (956 words)

In an affair with a married woman, do I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age - Hi I am involved in a relationship with a married women and need advice. We have being having the affair for about two years. She's says that her does not love her anymore and they are only together for the sake of their child. She has already been divorced before and had a ... (86 words)

Did you ever end up with your perfect man or someone completely different?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 18. I'm just wondering who people have ended up with. I have an idea of what sort of person I can imagine myself being with but is this realistic? Has anyone ended up with someone completely different to what you expected? Or have you found the person you've always ... (74 words)

My ex dumped me becuase he was stressed, do I wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man seems really messed up and confused and dumps you cause he has had a lot of stress pile up on him at once is it best to give him his freedom and hope he still wants you when he gets his head together?... (46 words)

I need an outsider point of view

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This may take long to read, it took me time to decide if ask it or once again try to fix it on my own and hope it magically change back one day. I got engaged a month ago, to my officially 11 months boyfriend (really i consider we been together for 27 months now at least). ... (992 words)

Its killing me not to be able to tell him how I feel

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know you probably get a lot of questions like this on here, so I regret to tell you that this is another one of them. I apologize if this seems a little long winded, but I need to get this all off my chest and I've always thought that it's difficult to give out advice if you ... (918 words)

How can I get this guy to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How can i get this really amazing guy who is in love with my best freind. my bestifriend doesnt even feel attracted to him but hes in love with her still but i feel like he does to him and i really wanna be with him so please give me some aadvice on how to get him..thank you... (58 words)

I'm afraid of sex because I was sexually harassed and I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - hey: im 20 years old i have a boy friend and he love me alot and i love him so much the problem is that he said he wanna have sex with me well i want 2 have sex with him but i feel fear and horror of the sex even i love my boy friend and i wanna have sex with him i told him... (169 words)

My sister is telling people I am a racist...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so heres the thing, my older sis and i are 10 1/2 months apart. we used to b close when we were younger but for the past 3 yrs, we became so distant. its to the point where we cant even b n the same room for long periods of time. my sis likes to bully me around alot, n she ... (164 words)

I'm getting married but cant stop thinking of this other guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am around 30 years old and about to get maried to this guy I have been in a relationship for 5 years. The relation has not been very easy all the time but I can say it was very good lately although passion wasn't like beforem We had a great sexual match in the begi... (346 words)

Binge once a week on a 500 cal diet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i have had an eating disorder for the past 3 years and amn either starvng myself or binging. ive tried to eat normally, 2 years of trying, but it never works., i either get too fat or too skinny and theres nothing i can do about it, no matter how hard i try and be normal. ... (185 words)

"just give me time to think about things" Is he going to dump me?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I wonder if anyone can offer me a piece of advice, recently my boyfriend has been acting very strange, and today I recieved the text: "Just give me time to think about things. I've got a lot going on right now and just need to sort my life out." - I simply don't kno... (93 words)

Is it wrong for a 16 year old to go out with a 11 year old?

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - does a 5 year age gap matter between a boy and girl? i am 16 and this girls 11 years old really like each other and she said that she loves me and wants me to be her boyfriend i love her enough to be her boyfriend but is it wrong for a 16 year old to go out with an 11 year old? ... (64 words)

Had protected sex everytime with my BF, he going off to war in few weeks,Period late by 2 days...could it be due to stress?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i am 24 years old, have been seeing my boyfriend for the last few months. He is in the army and is going to horrid Afghan in a few weeks time. We have had protected sex everytime and a condom has never broke, as i have been told it is obvious. But my period is 2 days lat... (171 words)

Informing the new girlfriend about the ex's cheating ways

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do anyone of you feel guilty for not informing your ex's new girlfriend about his cheating past? My ex cheated on me to be with her. He also has a history of cheating on other ex girlfriends. It has been more than a year since we broke up and our common friends said the ... (132 words)

He cheated on me with 5 girls and no one ever said a thing to me!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What a bad day. I was dating this guy, Paolo. Since 2007. It was the first guy I ever loved, ever slept with, ever saw naked. To me, he was so important. We dated for 2 years before we tied the knot just last year. I was a missionary on another island so I was away from him for ... (444 words)

My little sister is so sad

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My little sister is 11 years old and i am 15. We are very close. Two years ago mum had an affair and she and our dad got a divorce so now we live with our dad, however, before the divorce we were a really close family and my sister just wants it to be like that again. ... (170 words)

If my parents find out I'm pregnant they'll kick me out of the house!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am 15 and pregant me and my boyfreind had sex but sadly wer not together no more im worried tht if my mam or dad finds out they would kick me out ov my own house the only perso who i have told is my cousin atm im staying at hers somebody give me advice on what to do help !!!... (62 words)

I hate the things my girlfriend has done in the past

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello i know this girl online and we ve been friends for like 5 years and we know like almost everything about eachother. 2 years ago we confessed to eachother that we had feelings and we got together but we still havent met ( we re plannin to meet in october since we live in ... (249 words)

Being sexual harrassed by my moms boyfriend

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, this is going to be long but please read and answer i need help! im 17 now but my mom started dating her current bf when i was 12. for about the first year, all was well and we got along fine. in summer my moms bf (lets call him john) would pick me up and take us to swim at ... (372 words)

He wouldn't let me touch him, I think he's been with someone else!

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22 August 2010 (?) age 51-59 - dear cupied.my husband went on vaction for tree weeks,when he came back i thought we would have great sex,he has ahigh sex drive.but when we got in bed,we strated to make love,he did not have a erection,and he was facking,he would not let me touch his penis.i jus feel he slept ... (63 words)

How do you know when you are in love with someone?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - just want to know How do you know when your in love with someone ? because i think i might be but i`m not quite sure... (29 words)

I've been feeling sick and my tummy is getting bigger...help

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need some help i`ve been feeling really sick lately and my tummy is getting rounder and bigger and it feels like i`m pregnant but i know i can`t be because i`m a virgin mum thinks its because i don`t eat enough i should weigh 8 stone but i`m only 7 stone something. i thin... (74 words)

What do you think I should do? Cut contact? Also, why is he acting this way? Attention?

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22 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My ex has a new girlfriend and told me he wanted to remain friends, so i agreed. Anyway, i was starting to move on and a few months later he starts sending me texts, i think he may have been drunk as it was late a night, saying how he misses us having sex and other things like ... (144 words)

When I masturbate I have the urge to pee

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I got a problem, every single time I masturbate, I have the urge to pee. It starts when I rub my clit and when I finally enter a finger in I have to stop to run to the toilet and pee. It's not just a feeling, I really do need to pee. So i was wondering how I could make ... (85 words)

Why does my ex mistreat me so much?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why does my ex and father of my baby mistreat me so much. my ex broke up with me in the last months of my pregnancy, and ever since then we've grown farther apart. now that our daughter is here i try to get along with him for the sake of my baby but he rejects every attempt i ... (232 words)

26 years of marriage and not even a card on my birthday?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 26 years, and today was my 50th birthday. My husband did not even buy me a card. No presents, no party, nothing. We are in a bit of a financial crunch, but not matter what has been happening throughout our marriage I have always managed to get him a ... (106 words)

Engaged to be married but have feelings for someone else too!

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22 August 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I am engaged to be married. I care and love my current girlfriend but I also may have feeling for someone else. Sometimes I think it may be infatuation but then sometimes I think it is more than that. I haven't cheated on my fiance and I don't want to but I also don't want to ... (126 words)

What does it take to be happy and successful in life?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am back here after a few years, those years had helped me open my eyes wide open, and understand that you cant force somebody to love you, or respect you if they don't want to, either make then change their actions... I am very happy now my son is 2 1/2 years, i don't miss my ... (255 words)

How do you know if he is still really into you or just wanting you in his life?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I could really use some advice and am pretty much alone so I hope to hear from some of you. I was in a 13 year relationship with someone I had known for 23 years total when I ended the relationship for various reasons. By the time I got to the place he was at and realized ... (1083 words)

She is still hanging on to her ex but wants a relationship with me

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently got back into the dating game. Met this girl, we saw each other for about 3 months or so. She had told me through conversation that she is still in touch with her ex bf who happens to live in a different part of the world. They dated for 4 years and almost got ... (199 words)

I know she was in a bad mood, but was she taking her anger out on me in a way or am I just being sensitive?

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22 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I met up with my friend Lisa tonight for dinner. (She had to go to a family event and was meeting up with me.) While on my way over there, she called and asked where I was. When I told her, she asked if I was with a mutual friend, Jackie. I said no and she was like, "Oh I was ... (238 words)

Should I ask her out again and if so, when?

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Went on a date tonight and it went really well. We just got some dinner and talked for a bit. Nothing too serious. She was talkative and seemed interested. We actually laughed quite a bit. She is quite the flirter with others so i kind of take that with a grain of salt. I paid ... (100 words)

My party boy b/f is off to college!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently just gone to college. He is rushing for a fraternity, and is a party boy. We really care about each other, and he tells me every day how perfect we are for each other. Any tips on how handling the separation will be helpful!... (49 words)

By your standards, how many sexual partners is too many by age 19?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was younger, I could not get laid--could not even get a date--to save my life. I never went to any dances, never went to proms, nothing. This year, however, I lived in Africa for 3 months and when I came back to college, somehow, things changed big time. First phone ... (275 words)

Is there any chance my straight best friend will fall for me, a teen gay?

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this question has been asked by many a gay guy, but i was hoping for a more specific answer. My friendship with this guy started rather oddly (he is the same age as me and we have actually been at school together for the past 5 years). He was the first guy I ever had a ... (711 words)

Short affair with my doctor has left me broken hearted

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22 August 2010 (F)

age - I am so heart broken. I have been seeing a plastic surgeon for over 12 years, a man that, from the moment I met I fell in love with. He is married and his children that are grown now. I have no children, however, I to am married. Our relationship was strictly profess... (695 words)

How Do I Tell My Boyfriend I Have No Friends? Pls Help

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is very sweet and a good guy and he has introduced me to his friends but I have not. We had a discussion recently where he was pouring out his mind, saying he puts in more effort, that I have never even introduced or taken him along with my friends I claim I go out ... (129 words)

I can't ever express myself without getting into a fight with her

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, my gf and I have been in a relationship for about 9 months and it is long distance. The problem is whenever I'm sad about anything now she gets worked up and always tells me "grow a fucking pair!" "man up!" "quit being a pussy" so I can never seem to tell her how I ... (66 words)

What do I do at this point in our relationship?

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I've been in a LDR with my gf but the problem is that her parents won't let her date for a number of reasons because of this we never get to be together and spend every waking moment texting. Recetly her parents have even began limiting that time as well. Her parents ... (162 words)

What he and I consider cheating does not seem to be the same thing!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 5 months..but we were best friends before that..and we have known eachother for like..3 or 4 years. and he is bisexual...lol i know.but i love him sooooo much, and i know that he loves me as well. i am straight. and he does ... (393 words)

Thought I had a yeast infection but maybe its something else?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need help, i have a doctors appt. on monday but im really scared and maybe someone will help me..i think i have a yeast infection because i have all the symptoms of a yeast but today when i went to the bathroom to apply my cream i realized that on the entrance of my vagina ... (71 words)

Are these signs he may like me?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this guy im not sure if he likes me because he is kind of a flirt and he always sends mixed signals. he calls me babe sometimes he texts me alot. he gives me hugs. he lets me wear his jacket sometimes we talk alot in class... (51 words)

He finished off on his own!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so today i gave my boyfriend a handjob and a blowjob and he didn't cum, he finished it off on his own..i feel like he wasn't turned on by me.. why didn't he cum? and what are good ways to make him? or turn him on?... (47 words)

I feel more like we are best friends not lovers

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but phone/internet sex) but this was ove... (328 words)

I love my mother but I can't breathe around her!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my mother but things have to change. When I was younger, she kept me in the house all the time. I wasn't allowed to go over friend's houses, birthday parties, sleepovers etc. I became withdrawn, shy-an outcast at school. When I tried rebelling to get away from the ... (195 words)

Is it over? Because I'm afraid its not!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - abusive ex boyfriend that abused me verbally, emotionally and physically ,i got restraint order against him and he been warned not to contact me again after being stalking and begging/pleading for 3 months after i broke up with him now it has been month he didn't try to conta... (67 words)

Virgin, so scared, please help!

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Guys i dont know what to do...my girlfriend and I soon will be starting to have sex...but Im virgin and never had or made oral sex...well she told me she has received and made oral sex to guys, altough she has never been penetrated, BUT i feel scar... (92 words)

Hubby is turned off by me

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22 August 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Mod Note: Titled by Original Poster I have been married for 24 yrs. We have always been able to laugh at the same things but we don't see eye to eye on a lot of the important things. I'm a saver, he's a spender. I like to plan and make lists, he just does whatever. He has ... (505 words)

What now?

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so like this girl and told her so and she said she only liked me as a friend so i guess the question is what now? i mean i've "come to terms" with her decision i can't help so again, what now?... (43 words)

My fiance will not help me clean!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Mod note: Titled by poster okay, ever since i started dating my fiance he has always been VERY messy.. i knew that getting into it but i never thought he could be as bad as i know now i make little notes for him on the fridge of a little list of "duties" i would like... (413 words)

I don't know what the next step should be...anyone have any ideas?

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22 August 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I have been talking for months ... (1567 words)

Why do guys want to watch girls masterbate?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys like to watch girls masterbate? I mean I don't really mind it,but it's a bit awkward to me. I'd rather you finger me then me finger myself. I wouldn't ask a guy to jerk off or something while I'm there when I know he'd rather me do it myself. I find it wierd. My ex ... (79 words)

Scared of guys?? is that possible?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i'll explain a lil about how i feel... so first of all, im 21 female. I have this thing with guys that i dont feel comfortable to see one naked, I dont like hairy guys either(under arm, chest...)and am totaly attracted to dark colored guys more than white, but im totally ... (150 words)

Is it normal for men to masturbate to other woman in relationships?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for men to masturbate to girls that they know and are attracted to while in a relationship? Do women also fantasize about other men that they know while they are in a relationship?... (40 words)

He had moved on how do i?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i move on from someone i was so inlove with? all guys seem like they only want sex these days. he was different. but now i dont know how to move on because he has. someone help please!... (40 words)

Annoyed with best friend squealing

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22 August 2010 (M) age 36-40 - hi guys, i am pissed off with my best friend, who i used to consider the brother i never had. i thought i could safely bitch about my gf to him while me and my gf are in a bit of turmoil over money and trust, and other issues. he was happy to agree with me on the subject to m... (252 words)

Had sex for the first time I need advice to make it better!

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ! Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and we're both virgins. He really enjoyed it and i did aswell but it was kinda painful! is this normal? i didnt bleed and i heard thats what usually happens? , also i want to know ideas how to make the sex more romant... (86 words)

Advice on removing hair from my legs

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, should i use the hair remove product to get rid off the hair on my leg, thigh? Cause summer is coming up. It doesnt look great when u are wearing the short pants with the hairy legs. Just wana mention that my hair is black. It looks very obvious in sun. How come my cousins ... (67 words)

Meeting people online

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice about meeting people online. I am in my late twenties and have never been in a real relationship. I have suffered with social anxiety disorder as well as bipolar disorder for all of my adult life. Once diagnosed, I began treatment and I am now feeling ... (123 words)

I'm hesitent on telling her how I feel

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22 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend that I recently started spending time with, I didn't really see her for close to a year. I have feelings for her, and I feel inside that I have had some kind of feelings for her for a while. We always have a great time together whenever we hang out and it has ... (128 words)

How can I meet mr right?

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im so fed up latley i just cant meet the right boy. i know everyone says there is someone out there for them but how come i cant find mr right ?? every boy i go for just wants sex. im fed up of it and latley when i go out im stoping myself giving boy a chance, how can i ... (69 words)

Infatuated with my driving instructor...

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22 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. I want to say thanks in advance for reading this. Anyway, onto my problem. I've been taking driving lessons for about a month now, and I'm seventeen. Recently, I've started to have feelings for my driving instructor. At first I thought he was going to be real... (536 words)