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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do next? should I ask him out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much else because I had only gotten ... (557 words)

Operation: Get BFF back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend seems to not like me anymore. I mean, she doesn't completely ignore me, like she responds if I ask her something, but she doesn't really hang out with me. We use to be really close and talk all the time and stuff, but now there is this other girl that she ... (100 words)

What do guys think of girls with short hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want my hair cut shorter and wanted to ask guys what they think of short hair on girls? I'm 17 and hang around with people who are into festivals and indie stuff but I'd like views from a wider group of guys (and girls I guesss) who aren't just from my social ... (62 words)

Should I just take my birth control pill whenever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys i need help. I have really irregular periods and it kills me i get moody have really painful cramps but i dont get my period until a month or 2 later. My doctor gave me birth control and told me to take it the sunday i get my period how ever its been a month and i ... (149 words)

Difficult relationship with plenty of love and lack of trust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend some time now and 99.9 of the time we are perfect. Were both young but very much in love. I'd do anything for him and he'd do the same for me but the crowd he hangs around with are not very reliable. A few of them have cheated on there partners and ... (217 words)

What do guys my age think of young ladies like me???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I live with my dad, grandma, and my dog. I currently do not have a job ... (221 words)

Is she joking or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 16 and a little confused. I've had this on and off relationship with a 15 year old girl. It's a long distance relationship and i only get to see her on weekends and holidays. When i do see her we usually end up going back out but when i go home it usually ends and... (119 words)

It's been three weeks since the "date" what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently found a guy I had dated 20years ago again and we started talking and texting each other every day for a week then went out on a date and all the feelings I had for him back then were still there. The date was great and he asked me out on a second date but its now ... (104 words)

I should not get back with him right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm getting confused over my ex boyfriend. We broke up back in April, and got back together for like 3 days in May. Ever since, we've been broken up. During our almost 4 year relationship, we had many problems, because he was jealous of my past. Due to his jealousy, I lied to ... (581 words)

I act like one of the guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiiiiiiiii :) I'm 15 and a bit of a goth. A lot of guys avoid me because of that and my friends say i act like ' one of the guys '. Is there anyway i can stop being one of the guys?... (46 words)

Sex with an ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm curious about something, and getting different perspectives on it, this is a hypothetical,primarily girls, cause I already know how men think seeing I am one, but can someones sexual ability's be overlooked at the expense of your love for them? like say you're ex was really ... (139 words)

Should I wait longer to ask her out again or do it now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently been thinking about asking my ex girlfriend who broke up with me saying she needed space and time to think about 2 1/2 weeks ago, if she would want to, i guess for lack of a better word, go on a date with me. We had a day about a week ago that we were going to ... (184 words)

How can I find out if he is falling for me like I am for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know if anyone can reall help me, as I know that I have no choice but to hang in and see, but any feedback would be appreciated... I met a lovely guy online last April and started dating him in May. He is in the RAF and lives on base an hour away so its not possible... (473 words)

Why did I put up with this for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. For the first 2 years my partner's ex-wife and son lived abroad but have been living in the same county for the last 4. Just before they returned we moved to a different part of the country for better jobs but the downside is my family ... (636 words)

My boyfriend won't tell his female friend that he is dating someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for over 6 months, we've said that we love each other and spend most days/nights together. He has a lot of younger single female friends. He goes for coffee with them from time to time without me. Last night he went to a female friends house who he h... (127 words)

Was it what I did, or does he just not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I've signed up and paid for a couple of dating sites. I've spent £60 in subscription and i was really annoyed to find that a lot of guys aren't even paying subscribers and can't read or respond to messages. Anyway, I saw one guy online and he used his real name in his... (541 words)

I am afraid I may lose my friends if I brake up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with the same guy for a little over 5 years, we used to have sex all of the time but over the last two years I have lost interest in having sex with him. I'm not sure what to do about it, I know it's causing a lot of strain in our re... (501 words)

How can I let go of this' office' attraction when it's going nowhere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Mod note:OP's own title I have a situation with a guy at work, we are both married and there has been a very strong attraction beween us for 14 months . We are at the point where we are wanting to touch each other whenever possible although nothing sexual. We are cons... (445 words)

If he doesn't love me why wouldn't he let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod note:OP's own title I've been with a guy for almost a year now i do love him but he said it once and never said it again i used to say it all the time but stopped because i never got the response i wanted it is impossible to stay together, he's younger than i am... (229 words)

Is our relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all. Im 21 and after a year and a half of a long distance relationship I ended it with my boyfriend (whose 24). Why? His friend spilt out everything to me, He told me how my boyfriend has repetitively cheated on me whilst we're apart. So I ended it via email straight ... (253 words)

Question about dating my third cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm dating my third cousin. Now I look things up and found out by time it your third cousin it like if you had it with anyone else now here my problem her grandpa and grandma were cousin and since my mom was the 9th child of my grandma her bro is my third cousin grandpa but ... (106 words)

I slept with my bestfriends boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i blacked out and ended up sleeping with my good friends boyfriend, at the same time his best friend and i were seeing each other, i screwed up, now what should i do? ... (33 words)

How to give a really good lap dance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have done like joke ones like to friends but that's it. And i really want to learn and be really good for my boyfriend to surprise him. My thing is I don't seem to learn anything by reading ..... does anyone know like a video site were they teach you some moves? I'd really ... (60 words)

I want to be with him , but be able to do things with other people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend lives way down in the country about 30mins. from my home. I leave usually every Fri. and go down and spend the weekend with him, but sometimes things come up like me having to be a church the next day early, which is located closer to my home or if I want to make ... (188 words)

A love that's wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age - I wanted to share my story with somebody as I'm in a situation that is eating away at me, causing me sleepless nights and affecting me in a way I never thought anything would. The cause of my problem is that I am deeply in love with my wife's sister and have been for more th... (1178 words)

I'm ending all contact with my ex. Is there still a chance he will come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me last February, because he wasn't ready for a commitment, and he didn't know what he wanted. The whole, "It's not you it's me" deal. I was heartbroken because I was happy. Since then we would hang out every now and then, the last ... (292 words)

Is he really interested or only being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have history with a guy I really like. He also expressed an interest in me and his attraction to me. But we didn't act on it out of respect for the fact I was married. We kept in touch via the email and online chatting occasionally but it was strictly friendly. I ... (293 words)

He came on strong, then backed off -- am I being played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need opinions. I’ve been “seeing” this guy for 8 months now. We are not officially dating, but in many ways its like we are. In the beginning, we started out all passionate and intense. He pursued me like crazy and then it was like once he realized he had me, he backed o... (351 words)

Super Affectionate in Private, Cold in public

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29-year-old woman who has been dating a 40-year-old guy for over a year and a half. When we met and started dating, he had been divorced for a few months. When we first started dating, we kept it quiet because we know a lot of the same people, and with the age differen... (413 words)

Why is his communication so lousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The first time my ex and I broke up, I called, text, emailed him regularly with no responses! By the time I had finally just gave up, he showed up at my house apologizing and telling me he missed me and still loves me. We get back together for about a month and then we break up ... (150 words)

Should I be upset? And how do I get him out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, to start off, I used to like this one guy, who I'm now attending college with. Long story short: I had strong feelings for him, but never told him. I'm pretty sure that he'd gotten the hint though, but just didn't feel the same. Anyway, back to the problem. Three g... (208 words)

I know there's something special because otherwise why would we have made out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i dunno whats going on in my life but if you could help me i,d be grateful. For the past three weeks i,ve been meeting up with a guy and making out , giving head , fingered and other tings we never went the whole way. He 's starting collage soon and we wont see each other ... (159 words)

Freaked out BF in bed and he left!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok -- this is going to take a second so I will do a TL;DR. first, this is a throwaway account b/c... so, here's the deal: tonight I totally freaked out my boyfriend. I had hidden a piece of a hot dog (about 2 inches) which I had broken off before getting in bed. without him ... (256 words)

Would an amusment park be a good first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i just need ur opinions about something, is it a good idea to take a girl to an amusement park in your first date ? i mean some games might be scary and the girls might not like getting that feeling in a first date lol but im just wondering ..would it be a good idea? ... (62 words)

Leaving my wife for someone prettier?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I grew up with a childhood fantasy of marrying a blond blue eyed girl, and instead I married a beautiful dark hair and eyed woman. We've been married for several years, and we have just one tween daughter... but now I want to pursue this idea of marrying the girl of my dream... (225 words)

How can I tell my dad I want to play football

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Am 13 years old boy and am ganna be 14 in 4 months, my name is Anderson and i want to become a footballer, how can tell my dad and how can i do it when i finish school thanks for your help.... (43 words)

Is it too soon to start joining baby clubs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 7 weeks pregnant and really excited!! Do you think it's too soon to start ordering all the freebies and joining baby clubs? I don't want to start buying things for baby until I'm in the second trimester, but is it too soon to start joining all the clubs for the informat... (58 words)

I keep finding things from his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I snooped in my boyfriend flat, wrong I know but I do not trust him. I found an big folder, the biggest one in the pile. His ex g/f was polish and it had all these polish to English translation. Also There were love letters...One said this "You have husband and I have Sally... (204 words)

Living with somebody's bad karma

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel Like I'm in this incredibly complicated situation.. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and there always has been a presence of a women from his past. I'm in my mid 30's and my BF is in his early 50s. We both been divorced with kids. I met him at ... (425 words)

Did she lie to boost my ego?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I told my wife the other night that she's the best lover I have ever had. She smilied, waited a bit and then said, "me too baby." I don't know what the pause entailed though. Just taking in the moment or deciding whether or not to tell me a little white lie to boost my ... (306 words)

Ideas to help my orgasms!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanted to know if there were women out there that can't seem to reach orgasm at all or most of the time. And if there was anything they did to be able to. I can probably count the number of times I've orgasmed on 1 hand. And I've been in long term relationships for most ... (275 words)

I cheated and now I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am actually not the "victim" here, I am the one who did the cheating. I am 17 years old and have been dating this girl for the past month, and I really truly care about her. However, I was drunk and made out with another girl while on vacation in Florida this past week and ... (250 words)

Can I live in a non intimate relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) age - My husband never wants sex. Why is that? I have a neighbor,and they are having wild sex,I can hear them every few days. I think ,it is rude, to leave the windows open, but it is like a reminder,what is missing here. Am I guilty to feel deprived and let down/ ? I don't know ... (81 words)

How can I move past this anger and lack of justice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm having issues in moving forward with my life after an abusive ex boyfriend. hi, im 18 now, he's a year older than me. about 18 months ago i ended a 17 month long relationship with a boy who for the last 14 months of the relationship turned the verbal abuse he had give... (608 words)

Can I take my contraceptive pill early?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, This is a question about the contaceptive pill.. i was jsut wondering if, on the 7 day break that you have after your 21 days taking the pill, if i have to wait the whole 7 days, or can i take my pill earlier. I took my last pill on wednesday, and so in that case i have ... (124 words)

How can I get people to accept I am with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a 19 year old female and around 5 months ago at a work function i ended up hooking up with my 36 year old manager. we both decided against going home together and it happened under the influence of a serious amount of alcohol. but after that it seemed we couldnt stay ... (423 words)

Am I doing something wrong? should I not be annoyed by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it me or him?? So last night, I was busy doing household chores, when my boyfriend said it was too late to do things and he wanted to spend some time with him. So I stopped what I was doing and went upstairs with him. We both showered but when I got out a couple minutes ... (606 words)

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each others company. It was mutu... (520 words)

I love a married man, could he do to me what he did to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im writing this so my head doesn't explode and so i feel sumone is listening, im madly in love with a marrid man, we live together and yet i doubt our reltionship, i that maybe i wont eva stop doubting it as how can you with the cicumstances we met in, im forever questioning if ... (121 words)

How can I show him we are still good for eachother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age - I am 53yrs old and just got back into the dating scene about 5 Mths ago. I reacquainted myself with someone I knew in my teenage years. We have been dating for about 5 Mths and now he says we have no chemistry, which somewhat he is right, but I do love him and he love me and ... (94 words)

Is this love or am I just obsessed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A few months ago I met a guy and am now in a wonderful relationship with him. The problem I'm having is I feel majorly depressed if I don't get to see him for a day or two. I wasn't even looking for or particularly wanting a relationship. I've had one long term relationshi... (141 words)

I want him to notice me more! how do I do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i am 16 years old i go clubbing drinking and basically living my life to the full! but my mum doesnt know that i drink or go out in town like every week becasue she hust woudnt let me go so i just thought hang on its my life my chioce! anyway i have liked this boy f... (174 words)

Could this be my soulmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I came in contact with a gentleman at a mutual gathering place about 3 years ago. After seeing him there a few times I started to feel this powerful energy from him. He has since moved out of state but every time he returns I get the same energy from him and I still continue... (218 words)

How can he think his behavior is acceptable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im fuming! Me and bf were meant to be doing something today.... i text him this morning saying what did he want to do later on and that was 5 hours ago, its now 3pm and ive not heard from him. I have also called him once and no answer. He seems to think this type of behaviour ... (100 words)

I need help on planning a romantic night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm planning a romantic night in a hotel for me and my boyfriend this weekend, but the thing is, i am no good with these things, how can i make it romantic? should i buy lingerie, rose petals, things like that?..Please help me! ... (43 words)

I don't want to depend on porn to keep me horny

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I am having a problem with maintaining the right thoughts during sex. Sometimes, I get so preoccupied with other thoughts, I actually lose my erection or dont orgasm. I look at porn online often, and find that it stimulates me mentally and helps me in bed, but I don't like to ... (276 words)

I'm worried that there are few people to date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

- Are there many people who are single and in their late 20s/early 30s? I'm 29, I've come out of a 5 year relationship 6 months ago and I feel ready to start dating again. However I'm a bit concerned that since all my close group of friends are in relationships, I worry that the... (105 words)

I'm trying to think of date ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl that Im into, and Im under a very strong impression shes into me. Im trying to think of any date ideas. Shes said herself she doesnt like charmers, and prefers spontaneity and unpredictability. Which I actually would prefer myself too. I dont want to be to... (73 words)

I just want to stop being in love with someone who can't just be honest with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for 2 years with this guy that I was head over heels for. Then earlier this year I met someone else. We were just friends, and we met up, ate at each other's houses, watched films. We spoke to each other about our problems and after a while I realised he ... (471 words)

Why does he push me away when all I want to do is help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 26 years old and have 2 sons off 2 different dads but not though any fault of my own, the first treated me bad and the second left me. Since then i promised myself not to get into a relationship again or fall in love as its just too painful. Im a very loving and caring ... (320 words)

I love both the boyfriend and my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my bestfriend and my boyfriend... I want my relationship with my boyfriend to last for eternity but we barely communicate because he's busy all the time with the university, but at the same time I want me and my bestfriend to happen so damn bad it's killing me ... (77 words)

What's it with the guys who go so crazy for you and then drop you with some bs excuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What's it with the guys who go so crazy for you and then drop you with some bs excuse?? I met a guy online, we went out and he seemed to be head over heels for me. Even said he was 'hook, line and sinker' for me. He then went away on business but called and texted me consta... (132 words)

Bf overreacting or is it ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf are in a committed long distance relationship since one year and two months.. my bf lives in a house with two of his friends. 5months back my bf introduced me to one of his good friends who stayes with him in the house.lets say his name is rohan(name chang... (281 words)

Boyfriend doesn't see sex as important, says its just sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age - hi Again Having already written to you in October 2009 about my realtionship with my partner as being very nice but no sex/love making, playing; fondling and the rest. Although I have tried to get to the bottom of it all through talking and moaning! he still avoids the discu... (245 words)

How do I get my husband to tell his ex to show respect to me n himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys! To all those who have an extended family... My husband n I don't really have an issues between us except for his ex! The situation is this; my husband has a child with another woman with whom he hasn't have much of a relationship much to his hearts discontent! The ... (219 words)

Can our relationship become stronger if I just do what he wants me 2 do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - (It would be nice to have guys and girls opinion) Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now..and like yesterday and Saturday he was acting all weird with me. I asked him what was up? he said nothing at 1st..but he eventually told me that he didn't l... (256 words)

He said that he hadn't been happy for 5 years and doesn't love me anymore.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm about give up. My husband of 11 years( been together 18) with 3 kids,9,7 and 5 left me 3 months ago. He said that he hadn't been happy for 5 years and doesn't love me anymore. He is living in a house of a friend rent free. He has said that he doesn't know what he wants an... (351 words)

Is the DEPO shot making her less interested in sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my fiance use to have sex 2-3 times a weeks. (a lot of times she started it) but now shes on the DEPO pregnancy shot and we now we have sex maybe once every 2-3 weeks, and i have to kinda work to get her in the mood, and i feel guilty, cause i feel like I'm throwing ... (102 words)

Does my husband loves me?i just don't know who he is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - we've got married for 5 years.i can say he is a good husband,he takes care of me and works so hard.but the problem is when we go out every time,he keeps looking at other women and really interested in them.he enjoys looking at them and talk to them(one day,he winked a beautiful ... (173 words)

Will I ever get over this feeling of bitterness towards my cheating ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi 4 years ago a woman started work where I work, she had recently become single , we dated for a few months loads of people said we were the perfect couple , I got carried away with it all and fell for her, eventually I heard she was seeing her ex boyfriend, she went back to ... (592 words)

Is this the behavior of a man in love?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have chatted with him for 7 months. We had an argument about some matter and decided to stop our chatting. We had decided to stop before too ( twice). But he would always text me though i would ignore him. Now, it's a month that he does not text me. No attention. ONLY ... (102 words)

Should I be the sneaky boyfriend or trust her?

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem! Here is the story. I have known this girl for 6 months and became an official couple in early July and we're currently still together. When I met her she said she was seeing someone and was trying to get over this person, this person was someone who she ... (619 words)

My girlfriend slept with 2 friends before me.

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I moved into a shared house with 3 girls F, D and S, and I started dating F, whilst I was with her the other girl D slept with my best friend. D was in a relationship with a guy she had been friends with a while Z, however whilst they were together she slept with that friend... (360 words)

My story with my girlfriend's past is not heading to any an end!!

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello , my story with my girlfriend's past is not heading to any an end!! im so jealous over her but i dont know how to get over that. i knew she used to do stuff with her exs and got intimate with them ( no sex just kissing and touching ) but yesterday i just found out t... (182 words)

What does he mean by a break?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have dated this guy for close to two years in which we broke up for about 3 months. We got back together and he apologised for it saying it was his fault. He claimed to love me so much and that he needed a fresh start. We got back together and i left the country for 7 months. ... (195 words)

Ugh my boyfriend wants a break and I wanted it to work...Help!!!!

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been reading other answers about how boyfriends want a "break" or "space" and felt compelled to write about my story... i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years (we just had our 2nd anniversary 2 weeks ago. bummer) and just recently he wanted to take a break. this is h... (731 words)

My boyfriend slapped me and told me I deserved it

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for 6 months now, one night we were drinking and we got into an argument, and he slapped me, and told me i deserved it, i said you shouldnt of hit me, he said no, i havnt hit you, ive only slapped you cos you deserved ... (110 words)

I have just seen my girl kissing another man, and it hurts, what should I do???

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just seen the woman of my dreams with another man, we had being messing with each others heads for a while now, but seeing this happen has really made it hit home for me, she is the one i want to be with, and seeing another man with her is eating me up. I dont know if it ... (233 words)

Interested in step brother but want to get over him too!

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My stepbrother's home for a few days. We see each other every now and then but not often. He's going to start college and I'm in high school. We're a few years apart in age and not related related; since our parents are married, but had us before they got together. I really ... (105 words)

He refuses to touch me down there but I don't want to have shame and limitations in my sex life!

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, This is the first time I am asking for help with the sex problem. I would really appreciate your help guys and girls. My boyfriend and I have been together for about couple of month but we have been friends for a year before that. We are great in bed except one ... (335 words)

I don't know if he is a passing fancy, or something more?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused about what to do. I like this guy. He sits behind me in one of my classes and he seems interested in me, though it's hard to tell since we've only know each other for a few days. But there's a guy I'm not with but am attached to anyways. We are in a relationship ... (120 words)

Why do people hide that they've moved on? Why not just be honest in life?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For instance, why do men who were once interested in you suddenly don't want you to know that they are interested in someone new. Wouldn't that just make it easier? It's been six monthes and I feel like my excrush is "hiding" his love life from me. I rather he just act like its ... (212 words)

Am I infertile or is it my boyfriend?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. Here goes. Im 19 and my bf is 18... We have been goin out 4 thre years now. I lost my virginity to him in the second year of relationship. I have been on the pill for about six months during that second year. nOW i am off da pill for so long, from the begining of da ye... (127 words)

How to start a conversation and keep it going?

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Can someone plz tell me how to start a conversation and keep it going i already have some freinds that are girls and i really like one of them i can talk to them but for like 5minutes then everything goes quit and it feels awkward so can someone tell me how to get the ... (57 words)

Do women really have oral sex after having regular sex?

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Do women really do this? I know I watch too much porn. But, do women really go down on a man after having their penis inside them? I see it all the time on some "reality" porn sites and it makes me believe them even less.... (49 words)

He only talks about us after he's drank

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've noticed my boyfriend only really ever starts talking about us or his feelings when he's had a few drinks. I can understand feeling nervous about those conversations or wanting something to loosen him up first, but is there anything I can do or say to help him get talking ... (62 words)

My mom doesn't like my boyfriend

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help - my mum doesn't like my boyfriend. I love my mum, but she's been hurt badly by men throughout her life and on top of that, she's now overly protective of me after I was stuck in an abusive relationship a couple of years ago. She also thinks that at my age (I'll be ... (268 words)

I'd like to have an open marriage!

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am married and have been for years but i would like to have a open marriage with our friends that we have know for years how do i go about ask my husband and my friend about this... (39 words)

Why won't my wife do sexual things with me that she did with men she claims to hate?

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So my wife has a promiscuous past and I don't hold it against her. When she asked me about my past lovers, I was an open book. No problem. She, however, doesn't convey much. She is defensive about what she did. I'm ok with that. However, I know she has had sex with her past ... (109 words)

Will my friend ever end her bad relationship?

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She is in a rocky relationship. In a relationship with her bf for 5 years. Broke up but patched countless times. She had cried, being emotionally hurt in this relationship A month back, she cried because of this relationship. She tells me he is very possessive. He slapped her ... (161 words)

I just don't trust her, I hate her past, I am miserble all day long and cant stop thinking about it.

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (im sorry im not the best story teller) My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 years now. Im having trouble trust her and also cant stop thinking about her past! Its in my head all day long it drives me nuts. We are both 20 we have a 3 month old boy together. We fight ... (1143 words)

Don't know if its the right time to be with her

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys I recently got back in touch with my ex girlfriend and she keeps calling me babe and sweet and puts kisses at the end of everything she sends to me like she used to when we were going out. She did have a boyfriend but he left her literally the day after I asked he... (136 words)

I want to get over him but can't seem to do it!

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I really like this boy and I've always been there for him. All summer I listened to him talk about how annoying his girlfriend was and how much he missed his other girlfriend when she went home to another country. We have so much in common its crazy and all my frien... (115 words)

I want to get over this unrequited love!

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30 August 2010 (F)

Sometimes I think I love him and other times I hate him or don't even care about him?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex and I broke up in October of last year, we had an on and off thing going on since May. I lost my virginity to him which was a huge deal to me but I can't figure out if I'm attached to him b/c I lost it to him or if I would be as attached if I didn't. When we were ... (272 words)

My friend doesn't take me seriously

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've come to a conclusion that my friend doesn't take me seriously. we've been friends since we were 6, we are both 22 now. right now in my life I'm in college at an art school, doing p90x (an extreme workout video) and haven't been sleeping around for the past 6 m... (385 words)

Does not sleeping at the same place while on vacation mean that he is sneaking out and about?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I visit our parents once in a couple of months.. The thing is that every time we come down to visit our parents we go apart. Right now we came for 10 days and I am staying at my parents and he is staying at his parents. My bf says that it is not respectful to sleep ... (221 words)

My Boyfriend wont change his facebook status to "in a relationship"

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Living in this era everyone who is in a relationship would like to put their relationship status as in the relationship with your partner right? I have been with my boyfriend for 6months now and whenever I ask him to declare as "in a relationship with me" he doesn't want to ... (134 words)

Pregnant and afraid of what everyone is going to think

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heyyah im 15 and im pregnant but the father or my parents dont know anything about it and im scared of what they all might say...im scared of the father leaving me on my own to raise the baby and im scared that my parents might not want anythin to do wiv me anymore...i just ... (60 words)

I have fallen in love with my ex wife's cousin

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am a divorced man 38 yrs old with 2 great kids. I have been divorced for 10 yrs. I have recently fallin in love with my xwifes cousin. I feel My xwife has turned my kids against me. We stopped seeing each other for the kids. But I ... (85 words)

Ladies what do you think of male virgins?

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a prespective question for women. Ladies, what do you think of male virgins over the age of 20? We can break this up into differnent cateogories too. What's your opinion on these scenarios, and what can they do? The guy whose waiting for a significant o... (92 words)

Boyfriend's anger issues are getting in the way!

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months and he asked me about my past with guys which wasnt so bad and he told me about his past girls which was really bad..the thing is that i dont resent him for his past but he resents me for mine which was nothing..so one night ... (216 words)

I don't want my husband's sister at our house 24/7!

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my husband seens i was 16 now im 22. we have a great wounderful 3 year old boy that we love so mush. everything for me was geating good. we are renting an apartment with some one else also there is a lot of poeple in the house hold right now. resently my ... (652 words)

I need advice about what to do right now in regards to seeing my b/f

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend is 2 years older than me and is a bout to start thinking about college. hes still got senior year but hes working on stuff. i support him in everything he does including his band which is practically his life. We had this talk about how hes not going to be able to ... (168 words)

Do I trust her? She cheated on me 4 times in the past!

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, got a bit of a dilemma. Basically, me and my finacee have been together for about 2 years. We split up for a while about 3 months ago and the we reconciled. However, during this time she was involved with someone else. We have spoke about this and I have moved on... (156 words)

I broke up with her because she said she was pregnant but she wasn't!

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Over a year ago I ended a relationship with a woman I was deeply in love with. Now I kinda regret splitting up with her as I still love her. The reason we split up was because she told me she was pregnant which I was so happy about, But later it came to light that she had lied... (109 words)

What I want to know is why a man cheats but still wants to come back to you?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age - I have been going out with a guy for almost 2 years now and I had a suspision he was cheating (we don't live together) and it was pretty much confirmed yesterday. What I want to know is why a man cheats but still wants to come back to you? I mean if a guy lives with his ... (105 words)

I still can't stop obsessing over the past girls he's slept with

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been official for 5 months, but have been "involved" for over a year. Before we were together, we had a fair amount of issues regarding other women and him lying. Ever since then, and even after we've become official, I still can't stop obsessing over ... (239 words)

How do I prove to him that this situation can be worked out too!?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We recently broke up just 2 weeks ago because we decided we were bickering too much. It wasn't a bad break up, it went well although I wanted to work it out and he felt it wouldnt be able to be fixed. But at the end of the break up ... (335 words)

I liked these new friends and then found out they were just playing with me!

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30 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a gay man and always have been, when I was in high school I got so badly bullied because of it and got no friends from high school at all. I started working for a company and met this girl, I go out a lot with this girl and she introduced me to the gay scene and I go out ... (231 words)

When your dream turns into a nightmare

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30 August 2010 (F)

- A while back I posted a message stating that I was looking forward to immigrate with my son to start a new life in the caribbean where my mother now lives. I had intended to pursue a business but I can tell you it has certainly turned out to be a nightmare all being down... (317 words)

What did he mean by "kind of" married?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I work at a hospital. There is a doctor there that has caught my attention. He is so handsome that i dont care what he does- - i just want him. Today, i was cleaning the sleeping area for doctors when he came out the room and started adjusting his scrubs. He caught me staring ... (117 words)

I want to hurt my boyfriend I just feel so mat at him!!!

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30 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend drives me insane! weve been together for four months now and i really do love him , before we got together officially we were good friends for a year. i have sleeping problems , i was a doctor holton patient i took 11 tablets a day which i didn't need and ... (522 words)

He is 23, and I am nearly 16, how do I tell my dad?

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 23 (24 at the end of october) and i will be 16 in less than a month. I just recently told my mom about the slightly large age gap and she was not really impressed. I have no idea how im going to tell my dad cause i know he will freak out. Is there a good w... (120 words)

My current boyfriend would be the wiser choice but I am being pulled at by my ex

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30 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with a guy for just over three months now, after having a messy breakup with an ex who I was with for seven months, and only ended the beginning of this year. I thought i had moved on and that i could be happy with my new bf but now my ex is wanting me back, and i've ... (496 words)