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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi aunts and uncles. my ex boyfriend is sending me notes through mail all the time because he has no other way to contact me. we broke up 2 years and a half ago. obviously i am in a relationship now with a wonderful guy so there is so damn way i would go back with him. i am not even considering it.that ex cheated, lead a double life, had a wife with kids, is an alcoholic, etc etc etc.how can i stop the son of a gun from contacting me? i cant move from this house now. i've never talked to him since we broke up. i really would like to give him a lesson. he gave me hell in that relationship. it's time for him to pay for all he did.suggestions are welcome. thank you.
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reader, Georgiee  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 Ok so here's a few suggestions:
*Write him back and say you moved, giving him the address of a pizza hut.
*Meet up with his wife and tell her the story
*Discuss it with your boyfriend
*Pull out a restraining order on him
Hope all goes well :)
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reader, spiderweb  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 The best revenge is being happy, which you are and which he clearly isn't. So he's the one who is suffering and you don't need to do anything more. He sounds like a real jerk and its good news that you've met someone decent. The ex is also clearly obsessed with you and the best thing to do is to ignore the notes and any other contact he has with you. If you reply, even a rude reply, he will continue as you will have given him the reaction he so desperately wants. Refuse his phone calls, tear up his notes, delete emails or messages and eventually he'll give up.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (23 August 2010):
 Just ignore the letters when they arrive.... toss them in the bin or if it makes you feel better tear them up then burn them.
Dont be tempted to open the letters and read what he has to say - be strong and get rid of them.
Eventually he will give up - just treat this as junk mail!
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