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writes:ok hi everyone im just so confused at the moment i feel in love with an american man over the internet he is sweet funny and kind and has always said the right thing he offered to take me and my baby which i am expecting at moment he has told me a number of times that he will raise my baby for me and it brings buterflies to my stomach but i keep turning him down for the fact he is 49 and i am 19 i really feel for him but is age the age difference of 30 years bad help me please !!!!
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (13 September 2010):
 I would not enourage any young woman to hook up with a man based on anything he's told her from an internet connection. Men in prisons often pose as viable dating partners, when in fact they're not. You have to be extremely careful. You would be much better off to simply meet a cute guy in your hometown, go out have coffee, take in a movie and get to know each other face-to-face. There's less chance of deception and slightly less danger if he's someone in your social cicle. Please be safe. You don't want to end up being just another beautiful young woman who went missing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow you guys are all so great hehehe but he is from the internet do you think he is safe????
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): i really do think u should go for it.i mean age doesnt count in love the most important things are hapiness and understanding .As long as u guys are happy together,plus he wants to raise ur child wat a wonderfull thing..Old men are more experienced so u will learn a lot from him since u r only 19..
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reader, Sugarbuns +, writes (24 August 2010):
I think you'd be better off to find a guy closer to your own age. The age difference of 30 years is going to get in the way at some point. He's made you a nice offer, but you can always remain friends and not take it further.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Don't do it. I was taken advantage of by a man 20 years older when I was your age. Don't do it.
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reader, big ben  +, writes (24 August 2010):
i am 21 years older than my wife she had 2 children when we got together we now have 4 the age differance is just numbers that only fools count. there is no reason you should think age is something to worry about , but the fact its over the net you have been talkin take care meet up and evaluate the situation in a few months as to letting anyone into your life take into consideration what will be best for baby as well talk it over with friends and family ....
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