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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Confused about what to do about the situation with my boyfriend and my best friend!

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, you've probably heard this a million times over, but i'm really stuck. i have a boyfriend who i get along with pretty well and also have a best friend who's a guy. he knows me so much better than my boyfriend and we just seem to be able to talk so much easier and spend ... (256 words)

I was thinking I would call my ex more and see if the situation can change. There IS a complication, however.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I have been talking for months ... (1632 words)

He refuses to go public with our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 18 and this guy and I have been off and on for about a year now, and things just started to get really good about a month ago. We hung out more, we talked all the time, and we're good friends and we like each other a lot. However, he refuses to go public with our ... (118 words)

How can I get our sex life back on track? I'm not ready to give up sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a problem and want to remanin anon. My wife and I have been married 9 yrs, and dated for 8 before that. We met in HS. We used to be open and discuss sex and try new things. Recently she has decided she will not perform oral, but wants me to still do it for her. In bed ... (178 words)

Recently I fell in love with my best friend's wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am jon, i love my wife vary much but recently i fall in love with my best frind wife, i dont know she love me or not, but she like me, we talk many hours everyday over phone, she never disclose her fleeing about me but i indirectly infromed her many time about my fleeing ... (165 words)

Do I tell her I've loved her for so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try and make this short! Basically I have been in love with a very close friend of mine for around 4/5 years (another girl). She knows I'm gay and she says she's straight. We went to the same school together and we have been best friends for a long time. Unfortunately ... (163 words)

I walked in on a co-worker and now it's all awkward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - the other day @ work, i walked in on a girl i work with while she was having a pee outside... it was quite awkward as i saw her v**ina area, she gave me a dirty kinda look, then i walked away gobsmaked... its awkward between us now, what shall i do???... (52 words)

G/f has gained weight, complains about it, but doesn't do anything about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Before I begin I want to say that I absolutely love my girlfriend. I also know that she is the girl I am going to one day marry, and she knows this too. Deep down she is a great person and apparently I am the greatest boyfriend ever; I treat her like a queen and try to make ... (356 words)

Is it okay to cheat when you're not getting any sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [OP's original title] I'm a healthy 26 year old male with 2 great sons, ages 3 and 6 months. I've been in a relationship with their mother for almost 8 years (not married). Now we've fallen on somewhat rougher times with me losing my job (the construction company I worked for ... (269 words)

I hate being the single one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13 and idk i think there is something rong with me. Like i see all my friends getting boyfriends and im jus hear watching them haavin fun. ihatee being the single one sometimes. Well truely ireally like this guy and idk if he likes me baac. One of my friends waasz tlkin to ... (141 words)

Should I just give up the LDR and chalk it up as "not meant to be"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, 3 of those years were at university where we lived in the same house for 2 years. This last year we have had a long distance relationship as I returned to London whilst he was still studying a law conversion course in Nottingham. The ... (576 words)

I got into a big argument with my boss at work .. how do I act around him now???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a huge argument with my boss at work today and now i dont know how to behave around him tommorrow. We work in an office and we work on the same desk. He has been my boss for a few months and we had become good friends. Always laughing, playing practical jokes ... (643 words)

I got involved with the wrong guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not confused i jus need to hear the situation from someone elses point of view...I know i got caught up with the wrong guy. he cheated on his last girlfriend and when i didnt do anything with him last year he called me boring cause i would not talk to him. We are attracted ... (376 words)

Why does she get to decide when we make love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What could cause my girlfriend to make me feel really bad and guilty, almost like she hates me, when I ask her to make love but she doesn't want to? I've never even came close to forcing her. The only thing I will do is ask her why she doesn't want to. Other times, when she ... (242 words)

Headache after Sex... Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently, after having sex, when i'm having an orgasm,i get this shooting pain in my head followed by a headache that last for at least thirty minutes sometimes longer. Is this something i should be worried about?... (37 words)

Can I tell him I love him yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so in love with my...guy. We're away from each other for a few days and it like feels ages, unbearable. He drove 8hrs once just to see me. My friends don't think he's attractive, (he's older by 16) but I think he's beautiful, we look at each other sometimes and can't ... (178 words)

Fun experiment with my girlfriend and my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, and I have a subject that I don't know how to approach. My best friend recently joked that he wouldn't mind "a hand" from my girlfriend. She passed it off with a laugh, but later that day she asked me what my thoughts were on ... (152 words)

I'm in love with a famous guy and wonder what this means about my long distance relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a famous guy, he is not really a celebrity. I have a boyfriend in wich we have been in a long distance relationship for 5 years, and I am afraid that I might lose interest in him. This famous guy tht I am having feelings for, I never felt this way before, I ... (88 words)

Should I get a boyfriend so I can fit in with my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 16-year old girl who is in the 11th grade when I look around in my hallway at my school i feel upset cause all of my friends that i've known for a long have a boyfriend and im get sad cause i get called a tomboy by my friends and even guys i dont want to be called that ... (82 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant when your not ovulating??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and a friend were fooling around two days ago and i gave him a blow job and then he went and wiped his penis and then a while after that he fingered me, but not untill after did he realise that he didnt wash his hands so i started to panic, then he said he only held the base ... (132 words)

Is it true that a man's heart is through his stomach?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles, i have been secretly crushing on a friend for a year now. I know he" loves" me like a buddy, but that's not what i want. We have always been close and i think he suspects i have feelings for him. But he is still hung up on an ex. He is a flirt but very ... (162 words)

I want to do my cousin so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im highly attracted to my older girl cousin shes older than me by a couple of years.shes once asked me if i jerk off in the morning and she asked me if i ever had sex n stuff like that.i also have dreams of m n her kissing.im not sure if she wans me or not and i dnt wnna freak ... (85 words)

Boyfriend can't decide if he wants to be with me or be single

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have never done this before but am in so much pain and just don't know what honestly to do. My boyfriend, Ty and I, have been together for a year and a half. He is 19 and I am 18, I know we are young. I have had past experience before him, but have never been in love ... (540 words)

Boyfriend has let me down again. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think im at the end of my fuse! my boyfriend has let me down again tonight.... hes off to v festival tomorrow and when i last saw him on monday he said he would call round even if it was just brief to say hi before he went. well i had to text him about meeting up today and ... (154 words)

Does she just want attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, one of my best friends has changed a lot lately. She's a little over weight and she always complains and makes comments about it, even though she does nothing to change it. She also puts down the way she looks and tells me how depressed she is, and I've done the best i c... (216 words)

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, So exactly one week ago i had sex for the first time, it was August 12, 2010. My partner had a condom and i dont think it had a hole on it, he ejaculated inside of me and pulled out right after. I was suppost to get my period a few days after but i didn't, i've bee... (147 words)

How to talk dirty with a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How to talk dirty with a man? I love and respect him; I just need sth different. I need some erotic expressions ( not silly but serious and sensual to drive him crazy and wild). Something unusual and interesting! By the way to say that online,,, I expect them to be really ... (60 words)

He is keeping his plans secret -- I'm afraid he's cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im worried my partner may be cheating. His told me tht he wants some space from everyone around him this weekend and that he has no plans. I tried making plans with him and well i just get, 'i need time to myself' tho just the other day he was telling me he misses me. An... (182 words)

I'm afraid she's going to break up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months now. We are both 17 and entering our senior year of high school. She recently has gotten a job so I do not get to see her as much but ever since then I've noticed a small change in her. She doesn't text me as often as ... (216 words)

He wants my virginity as a bootycall

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 he is 29, lately he has been wanting to take it to the next level (intimacy), the thing is im still a virgin and not sure if he his the right one ... After being friends for the past few years, I asked where he sees our "relationship" going, he said," I do not know wha... (128 words)

Afraid that my ex-lover will become a stalker

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

- I am panicking now and i dont know what to do? I had an affair 3 years ago...it lasted 4 years..i finished it because i felt guilty and i realised that i loved my husband.Anyway my husband and i took our on holiday and we bumped into my ex lover...he made conversation with me ... (174 words)

I want him back...but I broke up with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Broke up with my bf at the beginning of the summer ...then i realized how much i still love him and want to be with him, but i dont want 2 run into the same issues we were having when we broke up. I think we were on the verge of some significant change, but I subconsciously got ... (89 words)

I am suffocating in my arranged marriage!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Its funny i didnt even think i will be ever coming to these site. i am asian i just turned 24 i have been married for 7 years now. i never approved with me marriage because it was forced by my parents. i just turned 17 when i got married because i did a stupid mist... (680 words)

How do I tell my friend she has smelly armpits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has smelly umpits and I don't know how to confront her..please tell me the best way and what she can use for her to be allright..cause I've seen her using all kinds of spray but no help..please help me help her... (43 words)

I need cheating boyfriend advice! Long post!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and although I've suspected for quite a while now, I just found out that he has been cheating on me. We moved to a new city about a 2 years ago, and he immediately struck up a friendship with a girl he worked with, but ... (849 words)

I wanted him, then I didn't, now I want him back! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im a 16 year old girl and just about 6 months ago i lost my two best friends over a boy.. one of those friends had talked to this boy and liked him before so thats why we arent friends. this boy was my best friend until we started dating in febuary.. we were good the whole ... (341 words)

How do I tell my ex I'm pregnant? Is it okay to write a letter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up from my ex in February. It has taken 4 months for our solicitors to try to resolve our seperation and as yet it is not complete. Since February I have met an amazing new guy, unexpectedly I have become pregnant. We were obvioulsy shocked to start with but are now ... (177 words)

Too wet! How do I make it not that wet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My vagina gets really wet, even when i think about sex. My 2 ex's have pointed it out, and frankly its embarrassing. I know its normal, but its really embarrassing. Is there anything i can do to not make it that wet? Thanks for your comments! ... (46 words)

My dad is splitting up with my mum, this has destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, im 22 me and my family have had a rough time the past few years with health and other things. i thought all the bad times had made us stronger as a family. i love my mum and dad to pieces because weve been through so much. then out of no were my dad has told me,and only me, ... (138 words)

I've worked hard to change to get him back, how do I show him things will be different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my ex fiance for 4 years, engaged for 3 and living together for 18 months. we were really happy before we moved in but after things went wrong. i started treating him badly unintentionally. i drifted from my friends and felt very down about it so when he went out ... (316 words)

My husband doesn't want our third baby!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 24 years old and have been married for four years.I recently found out that I am pregnant for the third time and was scared but excited.My husband does not want me to have the baby and says he will leave if I do.I can't understand how he can say that looking at the ... (117 words)

Will he ever come back? I'm devastated and any advice would help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex had an awesome relationship although we moved into it too fast, im 18 he just turned 23. We dated for 3 months and were together everyday and i slept at his house almost every night he would come over and hang out with my parents and he loved them. Things were so ... (765 words)

Need advice on getting over him or getting him to like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, well I apologise for the length of this. I have really liked/fancied one guy for years, my close friend's older brother Ben. There has been a period whilst I was with someone else and I didn't think about Ben much at all. After my relationship I became friendlier with ... (356 words)

Is there a chance or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She's in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. She admits her relationship is very rocky, her bf is very possessive, she's being emotionally hurt many times by him. Broke up many times with him but then patched back. She knows I really care for her and loves her. She has ... (155 words)

How exactly do wedcams work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend a couple of years, but our relationship has recently become long distance. I'm thinking of getting webcams to keep in touch, and also, ahem, for sexual purposes ... So my question is, how do webcams work? We both have skype, so would probab... (108 words)

I think my boyfriend is using me for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my bf is using me for sex...wen I never gave my bf sex we whre all lovey dovey until the day we had sex...it al changed ..now evrytime I see hm he wants us to have sex anywhere or anytym we've did it inda car ,under the tree even at the back of the library n I wnt us to ... (84 words)

Just can't say goodbye, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - what is wrong with me? I keep insisting that I remain in my ex-fiance's life. we broke up about a month ago. she just stopped all communication with me with no reason or anything. she has a disorder called ptsd and through everything, I still love her very much. I just cannot ... (63 words)

My boyfriend is unemployed and I don't know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. all this year he has been unemployed. this has put a huge strain on our relationship because i have to buy all the food and we cant go out anywhere or do anything unless i pay, and i dont earn much either. we argue about it ... (174 words)

How do I get confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really want a boyfiend but i don't think i will get one because i don't have any confident. How do i get confidence ? ... (25 words)

Is he going to leave? what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my boyfriend is the kind of person who gets hired to help people with their problems, he's sort of a counsellor but he says he isn't because he leaves every six months he starts off somewhere new and he doesn't exactly leave them upset because he's helped them and then ... (188 words)

Middle child syndrome

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im a middle child, and i think i get infected by middle child syndrome... i have 1 big sis and 1 lil sis, since kids im always feel alone and dont have any sense of belonging, and always feel lonely and no one love me.. even till now.. im almost 23 and still feel lonely.. what ... (103 words)

We broke up and I want to tell her how I feel.. just one last time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey people.Ive posted a few quetions on this and yes ive used allot of peoples advice(so helpfull).I started posting quetions to help me get over my ex.I was in a really dark place and somedays i still am(today).The girl was amazing looking and intelligent but god she was a ... (261 words)

How can I make our sex life better? I don't want it to feel forced and unnatural.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've bee going out with my girlfriend for almost two years now. We live together and enjoy many activities and hobbies together. I'd say that in general, our relationship is doing well. The only issue would be the sex part. I'm a male and do like to have sex more than her. ... (340 words)

Is 13 too young for sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like sex but i am only 13 years old am i too young?... (14 words)

Should I go after my dream job which means moving away from my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I'm currently bored to death with my job. It pays relatively well, but it's a dead-end street - no room for progression and no chance of a payrise in the next few years - they've literally spelled that out to me. I've been with my boyfriend for a looong t... (397 words)

I feel trapped and unloved, and I have no-one to turn to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 8months now and it doesnt seem like he cares or loves me anymore and i dont no what to do. he starts an argument with me he doesnt no how to talk in our arguments, he says im the one that doesnt care anymore when he knows that i do i ... (242 words)

Should I visit a prostitute to lose my virginity?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a male virgin. I've never kissed a girl, I've never been on a date and I've never had a girlfriend. I've been told by numerous women that I'm not handsome or as some put it, ugly, even though I thought I was average looking. Guess I can appreicate their honesty. Anyw... (173 words)

Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones who turn heads, you know? An... (121 words)

Music to turn him on?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What music would you advice to turn a man on? or maybe for strip tease,,, ??? Something so erotic...... (19 words)

Am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone!I really need all your opinion about my problem now,i missed my period this month got my last period last july 8 then after one week me and my bf had unprotected sex im really worried now because i feel sick and tired and hve headache..what do you think am i ... (53 words)

Am I being paranoid or is this really happening all over again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I just on here for moral support really, 3 years ago just before I became forty I found out my husband had been cheating with someone he new had tried to befriend me. For months I knew he was having an affair but just didnt know who with. Anyway to cut along story short after ... (168 words)

Before she met me she sent a picture of herself to another guy, should I be mad at her for this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Should i be mad at my girlfriend for something she did in the past? Me and her were not together at this time but she did something that really bothers me. She sent a pic(nothing dirty) to a guy because he kept asking and asking, he kept bugging her for a pic so she just sent ... (125 words)

What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another. I ask because my partner got into a lot of debt for his ex but he doesn't really spend much on me. What gives? Also, I'm not being biased but I'm a better gf because I'm more chilled out, we have more in ... (127 words)

Contraception Question - I want to put my periods on hold

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on the Cilest pill for over a year now. So far it has been effective, has made my periods lighter and more comfortable and has improved my complexion. However, I'm going to uni to study dance in september. I'll be moving about a lot, and getting changed in front... (201 words)

Was this the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - we both really like each other, been something between us for over 2 years. he's moving away for school though. i just ended a long distance relationship a few months ago and wouldn't do LD again. I told him to not put his life on hold for me and that it's not fair for me to ... (76 words)

Is she planning on taking a vacation without me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i saw on my gf's computer last night that she was looking at vacationing in st. thomas. the date she was looking at is sept 22-27. now, she hasn't mentioned it to me, so am i to assume she's thinking of taking someone else, or could it be a surprise for both of us? ... (61 words)

Birth control is ruining my relationship once a month!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are very careful about sex so we use both condoms and birth control. She has been taking them around 9 months and I'm not sure what pills they are but we are both starting to see some negative effects. Before both control she had a period about every two ... (217 words)

Should I suggest we spend some time apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age - My fiancee tells me repeatedly that she loves me and can't wait to marry me, in both spoken and written word, yet her actions indicate she may be drifting away. Perhaps she is getting too comfortable in the relationship or she is getting bored with it. I thought seriously about ... (70 words)

Seven year relationship... now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for close to 7 years. I know we both care for each other a lot. We've had our share of ups and downs, but for some reason, this time of "down" doesn't seem like it's going away... There's been times throughout our 7 year run that I didn't feel attr... (247 words)

I can be with any girl I like but I cant move on while I am still thinking of this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, everyone, am in a very complicated situation and seriously need to open up, i was in a kind of long distance relationship with a girl for almost 3 yrs, we had come close after a school reunion, after the intial fire burnt out i kind of lost interest, we never had sex, i ... (121 words)

I'm pretty sure she was hitting on me, but I was so drunk I cant be sure! Should I tell my girlfriend?

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Bear with me I feel you need to know all the details to make a judgement. 5 weeks into my relationship I went out to a club/pub without my girlfriend, and this girl with a bf approached me to initiate conversation, I bluntly told her to f*** off as I was not interested m... (532 words)

Will my girlfriend agree to have sex with me?

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am thinking to ask my girlfriend whether should we have sex, do you think she would say sex cuz our relationship is one year old... (27 words)

Does this make us a couple?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyway I met this guy, we have great chemistry and I like him a lot. Honestly I'm not sure if we're dating but I think we are. Tuesday morning we we're talking and I'm not sure how this came about, but I had asked him if we were offical, he said do I want us to be, I told him ... (401 words)

Will my parents know I'm on the pill?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17,and yes sexually active. Not too long ago I entered a program at a hospital that my friend mentioned to me that would help. It's basically for teens and you get regualar check ups for those who are sexually active. Since then I've been using contraception because I want ... (264 words)

I've taken 7 pregnancy tests and all were positive, but did I take them too early?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex like 3 to 5 weeks ago with no protection and im realy scared because 4 days ago i took only one pregnancy test and it came out positive so the next day like at 9 or 10 in the morning i took 6 more and they all came out positive but someone told me that the pregnancy ... (75 words)

I'm not her verbal punching bag so should I confront her?

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19 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Whenever I talk to my friend, she always has to make comments that belittle me or put me down a notch. Tonight we were talking on the phone and she was talking about a guy she met. She then said, "He was cute, but he was more around YOUR age." Now, we are only 1 year apart in ... (195 words)

Wide hips: good or bad?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an average body type, I'm 5'6, I'm athletic and try to keep in shape and I'm content with my body ..... Recently while getting dressed, my friend (a male) said to me that my "hips are wide" ... should I take that as a compliment or as insult?!... (52 words)

How do I fix this relationship?

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. So The other day I made a big mistake. I broke up with my girlfriend when there was no reason to at all... We had gotten into a fight and my inability to handle my temper led me to grab my things from her house and storm off. It was a rough day with a lot of tension. I ... (250 words)

Drama over liking the same guy. Advice?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so me and my friend like the same guy. this guy is nice and pretty hot. and me and him flirt alot but its bothers my friend and we had fights about it so i stopped. this guy told me he likes me and i told him i like him. we text and talk alot. but the problem is that my ... (120 words)

Break off the engagement?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been engaged for about 9 months now n decided to postpone the wedding for another year. Now I am not sure if I even want to marry him, here's why: I had a long term relationship of 5 yrs that I ended bc it was somewhat emotionally abusive. He was my first love and my ... (476 words)

Is it wise to continue this relationship with the knowledge of her lack of faith?

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently got back with my ex, whom I've had strong feelings for (call it love) for 5 years now. We've been on, and off. We spoke about love, and she stated that she doesn't believe in it, and has never told a guy that she is in love with them. My worry is that she, and I kn... (117 words)

Church drama...

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so there's a guy we'll call him 'darrel'. now 'darrel' is 5 years older than me. he is smart and funny and loving. we've flirted for a while. i know him from church. in june he told me that he loved me when we were alone. he's been told to stay away from me. he's kissed ... (201 words)

Should I be worried about him trying to find his ex?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my boyfriend is trying to find his ex and also find were she lives. I know he talks to his ex's mom on face book. Not sure if I should be worried or not.... (36 words)

Is she confused, playing head games, or just not interested?

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have female co worker whom I have known for about 7 months, we have got on really well since the beginning. Anyway I asked her out on a date 5 weeks ago and the response was yes but she was unable to decide on when to go out saying that she was busy being single mother. ... (290 words)

Why can't he give me a second chance?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with my ex but he has a new girlfriend and says that he is with her now and cant just leave her now and hurt her. and i asked if he loved me still and would give me a second chance because i was so deeply sorry about what i did....and he said it doesn't matter i... (86 words)

How do I help my kids though there father leaving?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age - My kids are really having a hard time dealing with Daddy moving out. The hard part on finding advice is up until the day he moved out we were clueless that there was a problem. We were not fighting. Every morning he said I love you. I thought and therefore my children. We were ... (170 words)

Help! I can't physically have sex!

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help/tips with this recent problem that I just discovered. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and ready to have sex and we tried a couple of times already but he just can't enter me. It has nothing to do with me not being wet enough or him not being hard. ... (70 words)

Am I a rebound or does he actually like me?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like my friends brother.. He is two years older than me. I think he likes me too but I'm not sure. He always calls me hun , he holds my hand ( he says he enjoys to hold hands ) , we text all day and all night. When I spend the night at my friends house he is always with ... (175 words)

Why didn't he keep in touch? Was he lying to me?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an old friend. I've known him for years but we live in different countries - both of us travel a lot with work so this is part and parcel of the job. There has always been a lot of chemistry between us but we have got on so great for the short periods we see each other ... (417 words)

How do I make my body smaller and my boobs bigger?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 and i have small boobs (38A). i am about 5'6'' and i weigh almost 200 lbs. people always make fun of my weight. and my friends talk about how my boobs are smaller than theirs. most of my friends are C's and DD's. i was wondering how i can make my boobs bigger and the ... (71 words)

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who say its ok, its not a ... (914 words)

How can I make my girl feel comfortable with sex?

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have had sex like 5 times but we havent in a while cus shes afraid its ganna hurt...we both lost our verginiy to eachother so we are both new to sex but i cant get her to relax...what do i do?... (45 words)

Help with anal

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am wanting to do anal with my boyfriend! We have tried before but it was so painfull I could not take it. Any tips of how to make it hurt less or even enjoyable?... (38 words)

can I do to make our relationship work while he is in college?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend just left for college. It's only been a week but I'm already encountering some issues. However, these are problems I'm creating for myself and I really really don't want the things in my head to ruin what we have. First off, I'm worried that if we both stay ... (235 words)

In love with another man what should I do?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am inlove with to guy what should i do? i am 26y/o already engaged to my boyfriend,this guy i meet him through chatting and we are now 8 months and i love this guy,but 2 months ago my doctor told me that he felt inlove with me,and i didnt expected that he will fall inlove ... (184 words)

How do I find out if my father "touched me" when I was little or not?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I oftend think i was touched by my father when i was little. Im always really worried somthing's going to happen to my 1yr old. I have flash backs of times that he may have done somthing to me. Around other people hes always been touchy, plays with my hair hugs me really ... (95 words)

Implanon birth control

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone :) I am getting the Implanon birth control this Friday, I was wondering if anyone has it and has any storys or could tell me their side effects .I'm also wondering how long it takes to be affective from the time you get it put in Thank you!... (52 words)

Is this man interested or should I back off?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with a guy who flirts with me all the time. He teases me and is constantly trying to talk to me. He knows I'm interested but told a mutual friend he doesn't feel comfortable dating coworkers. However he did make plans to hang out with me one day And said he was looking ... (154 words)

Why does sex hurt? And why can't I forgive him? Why do I love AND hate him?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why havent i been able to forgive my husband of 7yrs for cheating on me and why do i love him so much but hate him as well? why is it that when my husband and i have sex it is painful rather than pleasurable?... (47 words)

Should I confront my girlfriend about knowing she took nude pics to pay off a debt?

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over a year now. She used to be quite the player and party animal, but since we started going out, she has taken different measures to prove that she is loyal to only me. She no longer goes to parties, always lets me ... (618 words)

How to deal with a stalkish type ex girlfriend? It's annoying me!

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19 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you get rid of a psycho/demented ex-girl-friend that was and is still stalking me on internet (facebook, myspace,etc...)? I had a monogomous friendship with her off and on for 1-3 months, when I was single and dating/seeing other women at the same time. I told her things ... (171 words)

I hurt for my ex, is it wise to fight for his love again?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago. We were together for 2 years, and we broke up once about a year ago. We got back together after about a month and were fine ever since. Ya, we bicker, and I guess sometimes it got to be too much but I know that we can fix it! I want him ... (273 words)

How can I get over these invasive visions of him reconciling with her?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been dating this wonderful man for about four months now...and we are planning on getting married and spending the rest of our lives together...he is a soldier and is currently in korea...he is divorced and has been for a couple of years prior to meeting me...he has ... (203 words)

Not sure I want to go on another date but should I play it out?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was somewhat interested in this guy, just enough to go on a second date. It's just most of the stuff he says over the phone or through text makes me uncomfortable. He seems real sweet, but he's already using pet names and getting clingy. I agreed to go on a second date beca... (139 words)

I really want to sleep with him, but I'm really scared too, what should I do?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been going out with this guy for almost a month now and i feel like i have known him all my life i love him to bits and hes says he loves me to ( were both 14 ) hes told me hes wants to marry me ( of course this is not serious talk but a nice thing to say and stuff ) and he ... (199 words)

What can I do when my boyfriends penis is too small and cant feel him inside me?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: hi everyone. i am a 20 year old female and i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now. i am starting to get very close to him and i love our conversation, i love all our time together, and i feel that we can go a long way. just last night we hung... (338 words)

How can I break up with my unborn childs daddy?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help on breaking up with someone that i love but am not in love with anymore. We were together for a year, then broke up for a year, and have been together again for another year lol. Let me also add that i am 4 months pregnant. I love him with all my heart, but i have ... (184 words)

Should I call my ex or wait?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I haven't spoken in 3 months...I still kind of miss him...should I call him or should I wait for him to call me? We live 18 hours away now b/c he moved..... (35 words)

He doesn't have the time or motivation to be committed?

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19 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday. It just doesn't feel right. I am 19 and he is 20. He is in school for pre-medicine 2 hours away. We had been going out for 14 months and had already conquered the first year of school away from each other. He's always been a bit ... (532 words)

Would it be a mistake to go out with him?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a party at the beginning of this year - he didn't hide that he fancied me but I wasn't really interested so I just left it. I hadn't seen him in a few months but a few weeks ago I went to another party that he was at. We started chatting again and after the ... (223 words)

Can my parents stop me moving at 15?

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19 August 2010 (M) age 30-35 - if my girlfriend is pregnant and moving can my parents stop me from moving with her?... (16 words)

Am I wrong for wanting her to be more ambitious?

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19 August 2010 (?) - Hi, I am 28 and have been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now and I do love her to bits. However, I find her general lack of ambition in life to be a little bit off putting and this has been playing on my mind for quite some time now. I'll explain. She works as a ... (525 words)

How do I stop worrying about the girls my boyfriend texts?

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19 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am insecure. And always have been. I worry when my boyfriend texts any girl. Because he's naturally quite flirty and just a nice person so he'd not ignore them or anything. And I know it's stupid but I worry he's going to fall for one of them. How do I stop myself feeling ... (57 words)