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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After 4 and a half years... do I stay or do I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for 4 1/2 years. He is my fist and only serious bf and ever since i fell in love with him i had my future planned out. He loves me so much and is very good to me and talks about getting married all the time. I have been sure that he is the one for years. ... (498 words)

He's not texting as much since we've met... help me with my insecurities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we have just spent our first week together and everything went brilliantly. i was afraid we would argue and so was he but after we talked and agreed that it went really great. and now he keeps ... (160 words)

Was he just leading me on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new job a couple of months ago and hit it off with this amazing girl. We got talking and we have so much in common it's unreal, she georgous and she's amazing, I started to crush on her really bad. :o( I'd flirt a lot and she would too, I'd push her with my ... (599 words)

Communication methods needed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk to her mother. She doesnt care wha... (487 words)

Do I save space for him in my life or just let go of these feelings and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a guy who has been in my life for a long time. 2 years ago we became really close and started to somewhat see eachother but things didn't work out in the end just for various reasons. i was hurt a lot but picked up and moved on. we have become very close over the ... (191 words)

What if he turns me down...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i am in love. absolutely 100% in love. i'm 15. now before you start furiously typing telling me that i'm to young to be in love, know that i have raised myself. my dad walked out and my mom works when i'm home. i raised not only me but my baby brother. anyway, the ... (257 words)

Feelings for my ex are ruining my life. Why can't I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this boy, (let's call him Ben) who was in my year, last March. We were perfect for each other- into all the same stuff, liked each other and we got along so well. I've never found any boy as easy to talk to. We went out for about 6 months which is the longest ... (809 words)

Tampon trouble!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys so i am a soon to be swimming instructor and seeing as i am a 15 year old girl , once a month i get my period , but the problem is i havent yet learned how to use a tampon and i cant be getting in and out of the water with no protection and i cant just take the week... (114 words)

He goes out spending money on other girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my husband 3 years before we got married, he loved me so much, everybody knows that, now that i have a baby he doesn't care whether I'm happy or not, we lost our intimacy, he dosn't spend time with me, he hardly takes me out the way he use to, i do every thing i could, ... (95 words)

How I can show her I can change and that I can be a different and better person for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm admittedly a "recovering habitual cheater". Since I began dating I'm high school, I can not think of a single relationship I've had where I did not betray my partner's trust. About a year and a half ago, I fell in love with someone. Unfortunately, I hadn't taken the steps, ... (156 words)

He needs time apart... I'm scared it will ruin us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - SO boyfriend broke up with me we have been togethe for 3 years, i am going to throw it out there bc i have been askign my friends for advise i need a strangers help. thing is that i got pretty annoying and desperate bc i realized i can lose him! i initially got with him bc he ... (396 words)

How would you react if your girlfriend told you she was molested when she was younger by a couple of family members?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i have a question mostly for guys but girls can answer too. How would you react if your girlfriend told you she was molested when she was younger by a couple of family members? Would you rather have her not ever tell you or would you be glad shes close enough to you to ... (82 words)

Would it still be okay for us to date but NOT have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay im a guy that is 19 years old and i know a girl that is 15 that really likes me. Im really starting to like her back but don't know about our age difference. The age of concent here is 17 but we wouldn't have a sexual relationship. We both believe in no sex until marriage ... (92 words)

Help me detach from my wife.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my wife with everything that I got. The reason why I'm asking for detachment help, is because I think that it'll help more than hurt. We are currently working on our marriage and at the moment I am waaay too attached to her. She says that I am "smothering" her... (179 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to kiss me and want me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf loves me very much an me too.... i'm 100% sure he loves me and cares for me... he doesn't hide things with me.... it has been for 4 months we are still together. We have never fought, never argued, we both are emo... if he's sad,i'll be SAD. I was the first 2 kiss him... (306 words)

Is it a relationship or just sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met up with a guy after contacting him via an 'Adult' dating website, whilst I wasn't looking for a relationship from this website (I'm on traditional dating site, looking for the LTR) this one was just about the sex. During our swapping of e-mails, we had shared with each... (1309 words)

Worried about my mum's debt problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. My mum is in debt - 4 thousand pounds worth of debt. And despite paying £140 off a month, with interest and this payment covery thingy, the debt is only going down £15 per month. Thats gonna take over 20 years at this rate to pay off. She's already been ... (266 words)

Will I ever be able to heal the past from the abuse I have suffered?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Will i ever be able to heal past the abuse i have suffered? i have a history full of sexual abuse, from the age of 6 to 9, and then again from age 12 until about 4 months ago. will this ever go away and leave me free to live my life? will i one day be able to hear the word ... (81 words)

My married man doesn't want to go on holiday together now!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been together with a married man for over 4yrs.We have bad and good times.People have told his wife and always problems but then it sorts out.I love him very very very much.We were to go on holidays but people have again made problems for us and now he says he not ... (57 words)

I just don't want to be with my boyfriend anymore!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I leave my boyfriend? I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now, and despite him being what alot of people would describe as the 'perfect boyfirend' all i can think about is how much i don't want to be with him anymore. He is kind, does anything i ... (563 words)

Will I look too eager if I text him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy on a night out and we really hit it off. we exchanged numbers and we were texting for a while and he was asking to meet up, but we were both going on holiday. Ive been home 2 weeks and we havent spoke.. he knows im home etc. Does it look too eager if i all of a... (73 words)

Dating a man who can't have sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Do you think that there are very many women who would be willing to date a man that is not physically capable of having sex?... (25 words)

I can't take the stress of making my husband happy anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused and not sure what to do anymore. My husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for two tomorrow. I believe that I have put all of myself into my marriage. Everything is about him, he is on a trip for his job and has already spent over 500 ... (301 words)

Should I tell b/f I looked at his messages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I looked at my bfs texts when he was out of the room and I found one that upset me a bit. Nothing drastic, just a not so nice comment about me. But shall I just get over it or shall I tell him I did it? ... (47 words)

Girls, how often do you think about sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I was talking to a male friend the other day. We were talking about sex and he mentioned to me how men think about sex practically all day. He asked me whether women think about sex and I said yes. He asked me how often. I told him I didn't know, since I hadn't really noticed ... (144 words)

What makes a woman come across as insane?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently heard from a friend that my ex used to call me insane to his friends when we were together. I am a little odd in the way i do things but i wouldnt say i'm insane? And i used to argue with him over things that didnt matter to him but mattered to me. But i don't th... (81 words)

Emergency net for an ex-girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I would like to thank you for the time you will spend reading this and I look forward to reading your responses. My ex girlfriend and I have been on and off for about 3 years now. Unfortunately, I would always be the one to set off the off portion of the r... (598 words)

Sometimes she seems off limits to me others it seems she really likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I really care for a girl at work but she confuses me. We have been working together for nearly 7 years and have become really close. She shows all the classic signs of liking me but then sometimes when I stop by her desk she will lean back with her arms crossed kind of ... (219 words)

What should do if my girlfriend says she needs time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over three months. About a week ago I commented on her facebook and said "hope you are having a good day and looking forward to seeing you again". A couple days later she blocked me. I said it was because she didn't want some ... (424 words)

She wants marriage and I don't!

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15 August 2010 (M)

age - Hello! I'm 55 and she's 35 with 3 kids, we love each other and have been in this relationship for 14 months but she wants marriage and I don't. She'd become very upset when ever she asks me about getting married which she has done several times and I keep telling her that I ... (131 words)

Why did she pick on me all night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for a short while and we seem to like each other. However, the other day we were hanging out with her friends and they found it necessary to tease me and pick on me all night. When I got offended apparently I was being a bad person. When I tried to talk ... (168 words)

How can I keep my sanity and go in the right direction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) age - What can you do ,if you can't find the cause of your painful problems in life? How can you fix anything,if dont know why is it broken? I have too many pain,and I dont seem to find a solution for any of them and not even the cause. I;m doing my best, but it is not enough, not ... (127 words)

What are the qualities that attract and keep men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know what a man looks for in a female. What are the qualities that attract and keep men. I have the physical side down, thanks to genetics and healthy eating. Although, I am disadvantaged due to the fact that I am not caucasian and have blonde hair. ( I am darker with ... (173 words)

Are we moving too quickly to divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Yesterday I met my husband to sign our divorce papers. We've been separated for 3 months. I left our marriage because of verbal/emotional abuse and it had gotten physical with him grabbing me. It's been a terrible time for me but I've stayed strong to my decision to leave. ... (318 words)

Why does he always promise things and then lets me down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im feeling pretty upset today, there seems to be this pattern with my bf that when we makes plans/ say we will do something they never happen. Its not all the time but it does happen quite a bit. Like this weekend we said we would either see each sat or sun... well i tx... (220 words)

20 minutes of sex was all he wanted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Opinions needed. I am a little disturbed the last week because of what happened. Just a little about myself before i tell you the story. I got married very young, it was a short lived marriage that ended up w/a child who i had to bring up basically by myself, w/a little help ... (857 words)

Does Facebook work this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, and I never found out his last name, but I finally found him on Facebook, and I was pretty much freaking out to my friend, because earlier, I didn't know who he was, and I am just so excited now. Anyways, I still haven't added him on Facebook, becaus... (172 words)

Why am I always the friend not the GIRLfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Okay, here it is. I always give guys (unintentionaly and i have no idea how) hints that i only want to be friends. And, obviously, at the end I always end up helping the guy with some other girl or just hanging there as a close friend. Today like 90% of my friend... (238 words)

Why would he want to get back with his old circle of friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with his ex late 2007, they had been going out for 6 years (who he says they are both completely over each other. his ex moved to the u.s also). he was close with his ex's group of friends at the time and they'd all go out in groups every ... (181 words)

I'm really upset at my husband's confusion over whether he loves me or not.. please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - we have been married for 15 years, together for 17 and have a 12 year old daughter. my husband is in the army and works and lives 1hr and 30 mins away. he normally comes home Fri-Sun or Mon am. 3 weeks ago he told me that he does not know what he wants anymore and that he is ... (255 words)

5 months pregnant and still having sex daily??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I had my last mc on 4th march 2010. I'm pregnant by more than 5 months. My husband and me were enjoying sex daily. When I became pregnant, I asked him not to have sex daily. But he wont stop. Till now we are having sex daily. But I am nervous. Coz I cant say no to my hubby. ... (93 words)

"You're mine!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the last few nights that i've been sleeping with my boyfriend, and while im half asleep he'll say to me "youre mine". is it normal for guys to say that? he can be quite insecure and needy at times and today we were out and there were a lot of guys around, and he started to hold ... (72 words)

I want kids and had a dream where I can't have them!

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15 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hello guys i had a strange dream last night which it was abut me, my older sister, my boyfriend, and other people, been chased by a gang of men and then i was separated from my my sister, and my boyfriend so the gang caught me and shot me on my lower stomach however i survived ... (96 words)

21 and single yet again...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Failed relationship after failed relationship. That's what it seems like to me. 21 and single yet again. I know having a boyfriend isn't the only thing that matters in life but it's really getting me down. I keep thinking 'he's a keeper' and it never turns out that way. My ... (125 words)

Out of love? Sick of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend doesn't show much affection now compared before. we've been together for years.he doesn't cuddle or kiss me. he's like staying away from me. he prefer to have more time with his friends than to me. is he out of love? or he is just sick of me? what will i do?... (53 words)

I seriously like this guy... what do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, so I would say that I am in a tough pickle, and I am pretty depressed about this certain guy. So, I work at this day camp, and these wall climbing guys came for the campers. And when it was my group's turn to go to the climbing wall activity I saw this guy w... (653 words)

Trimming or shaving down there? What is the best thing for a man to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, do u guys shave or trim ur penis hair? If u guys do, then which way do u guys prefer to do? Do girl like a clean or hairy penis? Is that ok for men to buy the hair remove products? Is that too gay if men use them?... (53 words)

Boyfriend has controlling tendencies and they are bothering me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I'm half in love with my bf but something nags me in the back of my mind...he has these little tendencies of being controlling. We've been together almost six months and I'm noticing it more and more. If I'm upset with him he just snaps at me to stop "acting weird" and ... (195 words)

I want my friend back but he doesn't trust me because I've lied!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a good friend and he meant a lot to me, i lied to him a couple of times and he went bollistic :/. we argued for 7 months all because i couldnt let go, i just wanted my friend back, to prove myself to him i could be a better friend. but he kept saying no and calling me ... (188 words)

He broke up because he is not ready for a relation. But I want him back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He broke up with me. I posted a question earlier: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-advice-guys-i-dont-know-what.html But now he broke up. And I really want him back. He doesn't feel mature enough for a relation. He wants his freedom back. He feels like he didn't h... (180 words)

Guys don't like me so whats wrong with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have no self asteam and i'm very shy is that why guys at my school don't pay any attention to me? HELP don't know whats wrong with me... (32 words)

I felt sooo low when I saw my ex and his new girlfriend today!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to begin exactly... My Ex... well he was an abusive, liar and a cheater and he took my virginity. I loved him, and I do know that I loved him because I never felt so alive while with him. I know your thinking lucky escape, he's your ex. But today... I saw him ... (200 words)

Advice on dealing with jealousy towards ex fiance of boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am in a relationship with a wonderful man but the problem is he is friends with an ex fiance of his and am having a big problem with this,I am very much in love with him, I just feel horribly jealous because they were together for a long time and I am jealous of their... (85 words)

Boyfriend's ex causing trouble and I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i recently posted a question on here how do i know if my boyfriend slept with his baby mama... So again today she texts me that thursday and friday she had fun with him... But i know for sure that its b.s well almost for sure... I knew what he was doing n where he was an etc.. ... (220 words)

After rejecting me 2years ago, do you think he's showing signs that he is interested in me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I split up from my long-term partner about 2 1/2 years ago at around the same time an old flame from school split from his partner. Coincidentally we met up a couple of months later and began seeing each other. At the time it seemed like the perfect fairy tale ending to me but ... (321 words)

Why am I still nervous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and i have a crush on this guy that is super nice i've talk to him a couple of times why do i still feel nevous around him ? ... (32 words)

My boyfriend said he'll leave me if I get pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My younger sister is pregnant and lately I've been getting broody. I'm 21 and not ready for kids yet but in the next 10 years I would like to have a kid. I asked my boyfriend of 3 years, rhetorically speaking, what would we do if I got pregnant. He said that if I kept the ba... (368 words)

Should I reunite with my one true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one I have been aware for 15 years that my first and only real love has been trying to find me. The only link he knew to me was my mother and she would tell me he contacted her, but she would not give him my info because she thought it would ju... (394 words)

Why do men lie about small things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today is my boyfriend's mom birthday. I didn't know until now, even if we've been going out for a year. He invited me to his place to celebrate his mom, but I couldn't be there, since I'm out of town, so I asked him to tell her "happy birthday for me" and I told him I'm gonna ... (352 words)

My Girlfriend hides me from her parents

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and 7 months, were both on our second year of college but the problem is that she still hides me from her parents, we live together and everything but as soon as her parents call, i have to even stop breathing. One time she was ... (155 words)

My Ex's Attitude towards me has absolutely got me puzzled?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay boys and girls, it's me, Ive been split since Dec from my babys mom, you know the one who got infatuated with her boss, then cut my throat! but after a rebound, and a girl I really liked, who I got nervous and broke up with, I find myself not angry at my ex, all of the ... (468 words)

I need my ex's help but don't want to appear needy

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im going to a three daY festival and the girl who was meant to come bailed on me now i haven't any other friends who are going so i was going to ask my ex boyfriend who lives in that area to help me put up my tent problem is we are barely taking and i don't know how to ask him ... (78 words)

I've been told he likes me but out in public he ignores me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do?!? So it started a year ago when I started my new job. It's a small team of 5 people, 1 being a 19 year old boy (I'm 20). Of course everyone immediately started teasing us both saying we should get married, etc. On a night out I discovered that this boy ac... (274 words)

I was more compatible with my ex. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a bit of an emotional jam. I left my long time ex in part because we stopped being intimate, although we were very sexually compatible when we did have sex. The passion and energy just seemed to leave the relationship. But I had and still have deep love for her ... (374 words)

How long does a girl have to wait for a proposal?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My b/f and i have been together for over 2 years now, how long doesa girl have to wait for a proposal? i'm worried if I ask it will hurt his ego.... i dont want to give any ultamatiums but have dropped hints left right and center and the best response i have gotten of him was ... (98 words)

He's 17, I'm 13, he wants sex but I think I'm too young!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm gay and in my first relationship he's kind and he's everything I want in a man but since he's 17 and I'm 13 it's quite strange but it's both of our first relationship he wants to have sexual relations but I think I might be too young but I would like to bu... (63 words)

Am I just blinded by love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age - A few months ago, an old boyfriend came back into my life. I have known this man for 22 years. We've dated off and on, but not seriously. Before I had other relationships while dating him. I never had sex with him until recently. Now, I'm feeling emotionally involved, ... (429 words)

Child pornography on boyfriend's computer

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. he likes to watch porn hes nearly 25 and a couple of months ago i confronted him on how much porn he was looking at only to find disgusting child pornogrphy on our laptop. he swore it wasnt his and it must have came through a ... (108 words)

2 years later still thinking of ex girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old !! I broke up with my girlfrnd 2years ago! We used to have sex regularly! Now, im single and i think about sex all da time! I cant stop thinking about sex! Most of da time i musterbate thinking her in my fantacy... I still love her!! I've never gone to a ... (78 words)

Should I confront him after a month of him ignoring me at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't want to write an essay but basically I've being dating this guy for 2 months. It's like when things are really good the week after the relationship goes bad. He tells me that his not using me and that his not dating no one else and that it takes him a very long time to ... (307 words)

He broke up with me after only two months

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I just recently got dumped. It was a relationship that was rushed and very full in just a short 2 months. He told me a lot of things and I let him in. After it was over it was hard to handle and very painful. It hit me in my chest. He was my first boyfriend, and I felt like ... (277 words)

He said he only wanted friendship yet he also wants sex

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15 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - hi, ok this is kind of complicated but i hope you bear with me. last year i met up with a guy i hadn't seen for a long time, i knew him from school. well we met up and one thing led to another and we started sleeping together, at first it was just "fun" but as these things ... (295 words)

How can I improve my boyfriend's libido?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, and my boyfriend is 21. We are both young, as you can see, but it seems like he is rarely in the mood for sex. I thought for his age his libido would be higher, but it so much lower than mine. I'm almost always in the mood and waiting for him. It's usually me who h... (321 words)

She gave him a hand job but said it wasn't cheating

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15 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for eight years now, recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was staying at a motel, she went ove... (234 words)

Is my doctor flirting with me or is it just wishful thinking?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my mid 20's and I'm not sure how old my doctor is... I want to say mid 30's. The age gap is not an issue but I don't have a clue if he's with someone, married, has kids, or single. It's impossible to fish out anything because his staff is pretty quiet. I didn't notice o... (176 words)

Is 'I'm not ready for a relationship' a polite way of saying 'I'm just not that into you'?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy says that the time is not right for him to be in a relationship and that it wouldn't be fair to me to start a relationship, is there EVER a time that this is a true statement? I feel like he's just letting me down easy and that he is just not interested, but ... (78 words)

How can I get my friends to remember to include me in things?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - To anyone that cares :) I'm starting to feel like my friends dont care or feel im important. It was my birthday a week ago and only my best friend (who ive been friends with for years) got me a present even though i must have brought around 10 different people presents ... (230 words)

I get the feeling he doesn't love me

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok..this guy say s that he loves me..like really crazy about me..but i dont understand..he never does nething to make me feel tht he likes me other than saying so... He goes on calling me on the phone non-stop..with out really being concerned that i may not be feeling well.or ... (139 words)

Desperate to get him back

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15 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Many of my friends and family has told me to try and look at my breakup as a death. Which helped for a while. I am plagued by a lot of guilt and shame. My partner/boyfriend (we are at the beginning stage of our relationship and had asked him to marry me) had begun to live with ... (820 words)

Should I give him my virgnity?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I'm still a virgin because I would like to lose it to someone who really matters to me, but with my current boyfriend (who I just started dating), well, he's not a virgin, and he's able to find soo many of my "turn-on" spots. He's also able to tell just how turned on I ... (264 words)

17 and pregnant with triplets

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and pregnant with triples. When I first found out I was pregnant, I was really excited. I know teenage motherhood is nothing to applaud, but I had graduated earlier, just became a Respiratory Therapist in my home-town while taking College Courses and High-school courses ... (312 words)

How wet do women get when aroused?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question, this guy and I have been sexting (sending sexual text messages) a little bit. And he does oral, and he talks about what he'll do to me in details and so on. It turns me on and everything. But he says the same thing every guy I sext with says. That he'll make me ... (144 words)

My boyfriend says its normal for men to cheat

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I always caught my boyfriend of 7 years cheating on me. I think he cheated on me 6 times or more. We already have a baby and I thought that he would change. Every time he is caught cheating he always says sorry and promises that he won't do it again. I always forgive him but it ... (249 words)

My boyfriend joked with his mate about my trust issues

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend once broke my trust and met his ex behind my back. It's made me insecure which he says he realises is his fault. But I heard he made a joke about my insecurity to a mate. Now what am I supposed to think?... (47 words)

We don't have sex as much as we use to. Why?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, So I don't know what to think if I'm being stupid by worrying too much, or if i have a reason to worry and think so negative about my bf sometimes but... Lately i have noticed our sex life has been decreasing. We don't have as much sex as we use to and that worries me.... (259 words)

Still a virgin after partial penetration?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i were..messing around i guess.. and after awhile we were naked and he was putting his dick near me. I said ok just a little bit, Im not sure if he really went it,so i asked him how far he went in he said about half way and so..guessing this means im not a ... (115 words)

I'll wait as long as she needs to have sex, but is there anything I can do for myself in the meantime?

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15 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Background: =========== I've been with this girl for 2 months now. She is not willing to have sex. We escalated from occasional makeout to frequent makeout sessions. Then, she reduced it all completely. I discussed it with her. She said she is not in the mood these days a... (352 words)

Some tips for entertaining a married older man

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, and have been seeing a 42 year old man. He is married with kids. It all started when I spent the whole night working with him on his truck that broke down. He's a mechanic witch is what I would like to be when I'm finnished highschool. After that one night I was incr... (273 words)

13 year old FTM Transgender how to come out?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [OP original title] Hi. I am a 13 year old FTM transgender. I am not out. And I watch Degrassi, which has a FTM on it. And if I tell my mom I am then I am afraid she will tell me that its because of that show. Which its really not. So, how do I tell her? Me and my sister we... (197 words)

Really embarrassed about the after affects of anal sex... is it normal?

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15 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a gay male, and I recently started having anal sex (receiving), and it feels great! He is very gentle, since he knows I'm inexperienced and, well, tight! But I noticed a bit of feces on the condom a couple times. Another time, I was on top, and when we finished and ... (132 words)

If he cums in my mouth I feel sick the next day.

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and boyfriend sometimes have oral sex. when he cums in my mouth the next day my body always hurts or my stomache hurts. why is that? ... (27 words)

I'm unsure of this Navy guy's real commitment to me..

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a Navy man for a year now. We get along great most of the time and have a lot in common. Here's the problem...he's from FL and I'm from the N.W. He has a new baby in FL who was born earlier this year, to a woman who was just his "friend" (as he initially ... (160 words)

She can't be pregnant, right?

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15 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - alright ppl, here is a story: had unprotected sex, but i am sure that i didnt cum inside, and went to the shower after. Long time ago the chick was pregnant but without her own will. what are the per cent to get her pregnant? if the girl got her period she is not pregnant?r... (79 words)

He's a great supportive guy...but he has a pot smoking problem...

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My current boyfriend right now is 46. He smokes weed at most 2 days out of the week. It really bothers me, but he doesnt become a bad violent person or anything like that. I think weed is a bad example for our kids, we live together, but he doesnt do it in front of them. He ... (162 words)

His ex has appeared and is ruining our relationship!

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 my boyfriend is 19. Our relationship is perfect until recently when his ex girlfriend started txting him while me and him was together and now she is txting me and telling me that my bf hates me and he loves her and nerver wants anything to do with me again. What ... (63 words)

Ex wants me really bad, but I'm thinking of dating this new, super nice guy..? Help!

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have been on and off with this guy for almost a year, alot of the time he walks out then comes back in.. i mind when he leaves but when he comes back im ecstatic.recently he left, but he left to be with another girl. So i started talking to another boy, the guy i have ... (218 words)

Does it take men longer to miss a partner?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age - This is a love poll. I am having a break from my 3 year boyfriend. I don't know why but they say men take longer to miss their woman then the other way around. Is this true? And when do you think the amount you miss someone peaks? today is day 15 and it is my worst so far.... (63 words)

I need some opinions about doctor prescribed anti-anxiety medication

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a question regarding anti-anxiety medication. I suffer from Agoraphobia, and can barely leave my home without having panic attacks. I've tried to push myself to go a little bit further out of my comfort zone and try to go further from home every single d... (288 words)

No idea what these dreams mean.

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I keep on having these strange dreams about last year at my school concert. It's my turn for the solo. I look around the room and I see one of my friends and his friend making faces at me to mess me up. I got nervous and ran into the band room and my old crush follwed me. He ... (155 words)

Should I believe him that he misses me?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with this guy, And we stopped being friends and talking a little over 2 months ago. We text very very Little. And if we do text i always start it and it's not a long conversation. He text me yesterday and i text him back of course, And today he said he was in my ne... (133 words)

Realised my bf has lost interest in me after our holiday together

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] I've just returned from my second holiday with my bf of 4 yrs. this might not seem as important to u guys but it kinda started bothering me that we weren't having sex all the time. The thing is, at home before we went, he would be the one to initiate when... (378 words)

I can't last long when I masturbate to porn!

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15 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so i'm 19 and i've always suffered from premature ejaculation right back when i started having sex at 16 I recently bought a Stamina Training Fleshlight that says it can improve your sexual stamina The thing is, without and pictures of videos i can last a good 10 to 1... (114 words)

Have I met my Prince Charming?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age - I met a man at my old work place that tried to be very helpful when I was experiencing some really hard times at work. It resulted in me leaving without a job to go too. During the time that I was there I noticed the way he stared at me but thought nothing off it as I was in ... (304 words)

My wife is very abusive towards me - please help.

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15 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] Someone please give me some advice... I have been living in an abusive relationship for nearly 15 months. I am not sure where to start because so much has happened during this time. But at the same time I am not sure how to stop all this. My wife is ... (671 words)

I agreed to help her financially, but she'll leave me if I stop.

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15 August 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Hi I have met a girl online and we chat for about 3 weeks and she came to find me in my country. We met up and hit it quite well and she asked me to be her boyfriend which I agreed that we should try out. During this period of time, she told me she have finacial di... (314 words)

I've been with 40 sexual partners, how can we get past this?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner 25 and i 23 have been together for a year, i have been with 40 sexual partners and he has only been with me we have always stuggled with this and seems to be getting worse the closer we get has anyone got some advice on how we can get though this problem?... (55 words)

Is my teacher really flirting?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] My AP US History teacher is very friendly with everyone, but he seems to be a little extra friendly with certain girls, including me. He's extremely attractive, and I wouldn't mind going for it, but I don't want to make things awkward. He's 24, I'm 16. ... (164 words)

I've said I love you, but he won't say it back!

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been going out since June 11th I love him very very much but he has never said to me that he loves me!! Everyone says we are cute together even before we started going out, he is great we have never had an arguement...this is why i dont wan... (141 words)

How can I talk to him when I get no response or effort in return?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] I feel so alone right now. nothing in lifes going right and to make it worse im being treated like crap by one of my friends. Im a quiet person in general and so is he, depending on who he is around, mostly hes fine. I dont always know what to say but once... (440 words)

I feel he's not attracted to me and he says as much when he is drunk!

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My man is 59 and ime 27. He cant get a proper erection and says its because of the drink. Ive had a c section and feel hes not attracted to me. When hes drunk his attitude changes and he once sayd 'your not that good looking and thats why I dont bother with you' all of this has ... (65 words)

Why does my body love him when he makes me sick?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've just recently realised a guy I've liked for ages is using me. So I've only just learnt that he isnt the guy for me, and that I should ignore him for the best.But why do I feel completely different around him, when he is near me? Its like my brain knows its wrong to... (110 words)

Love with a touch of family?

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15 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] When I first saw him we were in middle school. We started going out freshman year of high school. We really thought we were both in love and one night we snuck out and we ended up having sex but we used protection. His dad found out and went and told my pare... (110 words)