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writes:Hello i need some advice. After a night out last week i wasnt feeling to well, self inflicted i admit. I was walking down with two friends, one of which i usually walk part way home anyway. I wasnt feeling to good at all and walking home i was just leaning on him(which i do like). we went to get food and whilst waiting i started feeling really sick. I was abit all over the place and panicing because i felt ill. He started being really caring towards me, but abit more than i ever expected. He put his arm round me and started cuddling me at first when i really wasnt feeling very well but then he held my hand. This first time it was just for afew seconds but then he did it properly, and continued to just sit there and hug me and kept putting his head on mine. He got up but when he sat back down i wasnt to bad and i was just talking to the other guy and he came up and held my from behind and held both my hands. Which was really nice but i found it strange since i thought he was just doing it because i was panicing. Walking home he had hold of me to hold me up and then we sat down and again i started feeling ill. He was just hugging me from behind really tightly telling me i'd be ok. After that we continued to walk and i was hugging him, we were just walking and talking to the other guy but everytime i took my arm from round him he put it back there and also slightly held my hand, this happened afew times during the treck home. At one point the other guy wandered off to look at something, i said i wasnt going cuz it was dark and he just grabbed me and hugged me. Once we were all back together i walked down the alley way and said im going home and he ran after me, gave me a quick hug from behind tihgtly and then made sure i was walking with him again with my arm round him. We got home and i hugged him to say bye. It was a very long one for us two, i started it but afew times i just went to let go and he hugged me again, we were like that for ages but at the end i noticed he had his hand near enough on my bum. We let go but he kept his hand on my waist and walked through the room with me but i said i'd be ok and he left.Im quite confused, sorry for the whole story/essay, i know he was looking after me but personally i feel he did abit to much unless he feels something for me? whyat do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 He was looking after you. His motivations could have been purely friendly or more so. It sounds a little more so, but keep in mind, both of you were drunk, and often with being drunk comes being horny. He might have been helping you in hopes of getting some action, and was likely sad when you didn't invite him back to your room. Good job though. If he really likes you, he'll be back. I'll add that seeing how you can interact while sober will tell you a lot more about what his intentions are.
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (23 August 2010):
 erm personally i think he was just being nice, ive had guy friends look after me when i was drunk, even how yuve explained it aswell and i dont think nothing of it, i think he mite have just been worried about you cus he cares about you as a friend, is there been any other time when you've felt abit more than friends? do you like him more than a friend? xxx
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