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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Husband so protective of our daughter that its really affecting our marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have been married for 3yrs and have a 1yr old girl my husband overprotects her give her anything to eat and is always playing her now my problem is that i feel like we are just parents we forgot our relationship i feel so lonely all i do is cook and clean and i cant play ... (217 words)

Falling for my best friend's boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about three mi=onths now, at first it was amazing, beautiful, perfect. My boyfriend has a best friend who might as well be his boyfriend. His best friend is unusual, mysterious, and he was falling for an older girl in our ... (325 words)

Is it common for men to become spiteful toward their SO after listening to women bashing from friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A year ago i went with SO to his brother's home and a long time friend, that I'd never met, of theirs joined us. Bro was going through divorce, friend recently divorced, i was the only female and therefore took vicious jabs for all wicked women everywhere. Listening to friend ... (458 words)

I'm scared I'm turning into a slut.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

- It's been forever since i've been on this site, it helped me alot when I was 18 so hopely it can help me again now i'm 21. Basically in the last 4 years i changed dramatic as a person, i've had my heart broken twice. And my standards in men as dropped as a result. I still ... (158 words)

I get jealous when people talk to my friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I deal with jealousy of people talking to my friends or change this? I get jealous when other people talk to my friends as they have their attention. I was never like this when I was at high school because I only had a few friends and we all stayed together. It's onl... (239 words)

From freaky to enjoying it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Has your partner ever asked you to do something nasty or freaky, and the first time he asked you were shocked or found it weird, but eventually came to really enjoy it? What was it he asked for. I have been in a committed relationship for many years, and I just seem to des... (208 words)

Circumcision the best answer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm uncircumcised, I have a bit of a problem with pulling my foreskin back when erect/hard. I can pull the skin all the way back when soft/not erect but when I'm erect it's like I don't have enough skin and it's going to rip. I can pull it halfway over the head but it's like ... (138 words)

How do you guys keep confidence and not slip up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you guys keep confidence and not slip up? It's so aggravating, because I can be a confident guy, but I'm almost ALWAYS shy when I first meet a girl. It annoys the hell out of me. My heart pumps a little faster, I say rather plain things, and my voice is shaky (someti... (190 words)

I can't seem to get involved with guys anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [OP original title] Me and my ex broke up round about five months ago (he dumped me). I really, honestly thought I was over him. That was until I started getting very close to another guy who helped me during the break up and we really liked each other. Everything was fine unti... (355 words)

After a miscarriage now ex went out with his ex. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am fifteen, and got pregnant at fourteen. I just recently misscarried. The guy was super supportive, me and him had taken responsibility and made plans. Then I miscarried, His parents made him break up with me because they thought i had lied. We were still dating and having ... (148 words)

What does his text message mean exactly???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for about ten months. We aren't dating because I'm leaving the state for graduate school for a couple years and he's not a fan of long distance relationships. We've talked about this and are doing what we can. We have always been really comfortab... (196 words)

Why do I feel so alone when his daughter comes to visit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm 25 with a 3-year-old son and my boyfriend of almost a year is 30 with a 4-year-old daughter. Chemistry between the two of us was great right from the beginning; as well as chemistry between both of our children. They play like they are brother and sister. For the first few ... (444 words)

I want to love her without being disgusted at her past and where she has been.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now however we have known each other and been close for 3 years. She has had 4 claimed sexual partners including me, I have had 3. Were both 23. She had sexual relations with her much older boss who was married at the time ... (392 words)

Is he getting too close for comfort... just for a viza???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and i went on holiday to turkey and met a nice man over there.He liked my family and my family liked him. On the last day of the holiday he wanted to take me to the beach but parents wouldnt let me for obvious reasons such as we had only known him 10 days. ... (177 words)

I just wanna get out of this place...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey.. I am a 17 year old boy.. I live in syria.. I am gay and I am struggling here in my country.. I really wanna go out and I am applying for my visa to the usa now.. and wanna apply for an asylum.. but please help me to know how to get my request of asylum to success.. you ... (77 words)

I've broken up with him but now my friend keeps talking about him all the time and it's hurting me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 2 weeks ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. Though, he wasn't just my boyfriend, we've been best friends for the past year. We only dated about 2 months and I've loved him for quite some time before that. He said he loved our other best friend and me, just he loved her more... (139 words)

Caught up between two guys... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do want nothing to do with anyone ... (357 words)

Do you think I offended him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 15 and am in a relationship with a boy I trust completely. No, I'm not going to ask if sex is okay because it's only been a month! And I am saving myself for a more apropriate age. *My question is; have I hurt his feelings?/would this hurt your f... (366 words)

How does it feels having sex for the first time in your life as a teenager?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How does it feels having sex for the first time in your life as a teenager?... (16 words)

Help!!! I love my friend's boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend (we arent that close to be honest) who has a really gorgeous boyfriend. We arent close anymore due to her stirring trouble in an argument I had with a mutual friend. This will sound mean but she really is one of the ugliest girls I have ever seen. She also is a ... (258 words)

Met her by chance but I'm in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i met this girl by chance.. doesnt matter how or where.. but after meeting up properly for the first time i think im in love with her. ive asked her out exclusively but she hasnt given a proper answer. she doesnt reply sooner to my texts... what can i do to get an answer out of ... (64 words)

We wants to bring another man into the bedroom! I don't know what to think of this!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been Married for 12 years and with my husband for 14 years. we have 4 wonderful children together. Friday night in the midst of our sexcapade in the bedroom out of the blue he asked if i would be ok with him bringing his male friend into the bedroom? He said it would ... (218 words)

Think I caught an STI during a threesome

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll be very upfront, I had a threesome with a couple and we used various dildos.. I had sex with the man unprotected also, since then, I've been having a powdery looking substance come from my vagina, i can take a shower and it'll still smell after a while, sometimes I feel ... (103 words)

I'm clueless on the ethics of sex

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and any other sexual activity.... (182 words)

My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped at a barn and she grabbed me ... (170 words)

I like them both! Do I risk a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I am bi and I love this girl I am with. But this guy who is younger keeps flirting with me. I was wondering if I should invite him to a threesome or just live to seperate lives. Please help!!... (42 words)

I feel like a bad wife and mother, I'm seeing an ex because I just want some affection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so down about my home life. I got pregnant after being with my partner for a year. My little boy is now 2 and I love him to peices, but if I am honest I wasnt ready to be a mum and I felt a bit forced into the situation. My partner was very broody and I have always ... (337 words)

I've forgiven him so many times, I still love him but is it time to walk away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - well.. i have a very hard time right now deciding what i want... long story but i need some type of advice and i have no where to go to.. My husband and i met in high school back in 2000.he was my first boyfriend and my first love,, my first EVERYTHING!! everything was really s... (1094 words)

He's avoiding me because he doesn't want to take my virginity before I'm ready

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Well, I've been friends with my friend, Mark 4 about 3 mon. He liked me from the start but I didn't really like him til about a mon. after I met him. Our families went camping 2gether and we talked a lot and pretty, I think deep. But we didn't have sex or kiss or ... (215 words)

I remarried, but have fallen back in love with my ex wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age - Hi, I hope someone else on this site has been in my shoes and understands my situation, and perhaps as even been on any of the three side or three possible outcomes. Let me first explain what's going on, and I can only do that from my point of view. I am currently marri... (820 words)

Boyfriend cheating online with girls half his age!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone.. its been AGES since ive been on, i guess that means life was going ok. Well now im stuck again. 2 years ago, i met a wonderful man on the internet We now live together. I love this man. Hes divorced and his a son, who i treat as my own. I picked up his phone to... (331 words)

I want to masturbate but need help getting started!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please give me sm tips on female masturbation whch I can perform during bath or at the nite time only as ours is a joint family n always crowded with people, I am nt married... (35 words)

ADHD and need relationship advice

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old, and am in a relationship for the first time. I recently was diagnosed with ADHD, and am currently on medication for this condition. Largely because I have ADHD, and have no previous relationship experience, I am very, very naive. This has caused me to make ... (140 words)

Cheating ex is lying about our break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I caught my long term girlfriend in the act of cheating. This is the second time with a different guy then before. Last time she begged,cried and had me believing it was a mistake. I have cut all ties. She is now lying to everyone about our break up. Most think i have left her ... (104 words)

Straight BF seeks M2M

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 3 yrs who is 6 years younger than me recently posted an ad on Craigs List seeking for a m2m encounter. He claims he was curious to see what the difference if any was between receiving head from a man than a women. I believe this is the first time he has done this and ... (234 words)

Male friend's activities are making me jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (?) age 51-59 - a male friend of mine just moved out before he left i was dreaming of him with someone else then walking with someone else and in my dream hes always leaving when he was here he was very disrespectful like in sending videos of him jacking off to women on the com well he thinks ... (77 words)

Do I respond to an email from a 14 year old when I'm 30?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I got to work this morning to find an email that I don't know what to do with, so I'm looking for some help here. It's from a girl who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. I'll give you a little backstory. I work for a local bank. I used to manage a branch that is now clos... (333 words)

Boyfriend is cheating and making up excuses not to have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive recently discovered that my boyfriend of 2 years is cheating. We meet through a dating site, and everything was great for a year. The past year, however, hasnt been wonderful - we get along grand, but hes put on weight and said he doesnt feel like sex any more, because he ... (100 words)

Younger husband has an eating disorder and cheated online, and now I am alone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age - Hi to all my dear friends out there, some of whome I've helped many times myself. Now its me that needs a bit of help and support, and I'd so appreciate to know that yous are there as I feel so lonely and distraught at the moment. So whats the story? I've parted from my husband ... (447 words)

Married, fell for someone else and haven't heard from him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a married woman and I fell in love with someone else. I haven't heard from him in awhile but i know he cared for me too... Im confused as should i presue him or not??? I miss him so much it hurts i cant think straight,,... (48 words)

Everybody is letting me down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just feel little depressed , it seems almost all the closest people let me down!and i dont find that happiness in my life like how it was in the past.. and i cant focus on my studying things .. short time for finals and am not prepared i cant study! i tried and tried but ... (71 words)

Lazy guy is coming on too strong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started conversating with a nice guy 2 weeks ago . The only problems I have with him is he just got out of a 7yr marriage like a month ago. So his back living at home with his mom no job really just sit at home and babysit his two kids ! Kind of sad . His trying to ... (214 words)

I used to go for hours in the bedroom, now just 15 minutes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend of two and a half years have recently split up, before we split up we rarely had sex so i lasted for a few hours a time, it was exactly the same when i started seeing other women, now we are back together and i seem to be lasting more 15 minuetes comp... (94 words)

How can I make my ex regret dumping me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I cut all the contacts with my ex when he told me about his new gf and said he was very happy together . But he wanted to stay with me as a friend.I denied saying that it may spoil his present relationship.But He insisted me to keep in touch with him. Then I took a step.I d... (219 words)

I found a message on her cell phone from a guy getting straight to the point...cheating!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a father of a one year old, and I think my girlfriend, the mother of my child, is cheating on me. Why? Because I found a text message on her phone, from some guy I've never met, that went as follows: "Do you want to f*ck?". Seems pretty straightforward, huh? Now I don't kn... (119 words)

I want to tell him about my hopes for future plans but I'm sort of afraid to do so

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, i really thank alot if u would mind to read my question below n send me an idea. Im 24y.o n my bf is 12years older than me. I've had LDR with him for 1,5years. I love him so much. I'll finish my study this year n i hope i'll get a good job after that. We have differen... (226 words)

I don't feel I should have to prove myself to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 27 years old and my boyfriend has been in prison since june 8 2007 and every single day i wait on him in every way. When i dont talk to him i feel so sick and my life feels empty.Here lately he has been thinking there is someone else in the picture and i truely have no idea ... (145 words)

Do you think he's flirting with me? Or is it just work-buddy bonding?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this gorgeous older man at work who I share a few common interests with and enjoy talking to. I've noticed often he will touch my shoulder once he's done talking to me or when he has to cut the conversation short. Sometimes he'll give me a playful tap on the arm if I ... (222 words)

Sex is nonexistent with my husband, so I have an affair. Should I leave my marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age - I am going to try to make this long story as short as possible. I've been married for over 36 years and have 2 grown children. My husband and I have been together since high school. He was my first real love. I built everything around him. We have a lovely home, lovely ... (633 words)

Why do I get so mad when he wants to hang with the guys instead of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I spend tine together all the time and we always have fun. We know that we cant be around each other 24/7 because we tend to get annoyed with each other and argue. Last week we spend time Sunday- Thursday after work going out to dinner watching movies. Just ... (171 words)

I get TOO wet during sex, what do you advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I get TOO wet during sex which really reduces the amount of pleasure for me. Is there anything I can do? ... (21 words)

Why do men have to think about other girls when they masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I need some other thoughts on this matter. It is causing both myself and my boyfriend a lot of stress and arguments. I would be so grateful for your help: I have an issue with my boyfriend masturbating. This is because of the things he thinks about. He recen... (232 words)

I don't know how to have fun around the man I love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I’m in the situation that I don’t know how to have fun to the man I like or I love. I never had someone that I can get along since before I’m shy and I don’t have confidence. I’m 25 years old now but I still confuse my feelings. I had a chat mate before t... (418 words)

I have a crush on my teacher but now he is leaving, I want to get him a thank you card but don't know what to say in it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This new teacher came to my school about 2 years ago..He has been my tutor for 2 years and he was my english teacher last year. I didnt start liking him till about 6 months of him teaching me,but it got worse and i eventually stopped talking to him.Recently i have started ... (148 words)

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with me modelling clothes for my ebay shop, now I am confused what to do.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I found this site and thought it might be a good place to ask for advice. I had an issue come up recently with my boyfriend of 5 years. We are very close and respectful of each other and try our best to communicate and sort out issues. In the last year I ha... (1039 words)

Why have I gone off sex? What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to ask what is up with me, latly i have just lost interest in sex altogether, I mean, i just dont enjoy it, When me and my bf first started having sex it was more or less an everyday thing, we both enjoyed it, i must admit him more than me, but none the less i still ... (394 words)

If your partner has a child does that mean you can't have any plans to yourself anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like to make plans, my career is an event manager so naturally i am an organized person who likes to plan things. This has been hard for me because my boyfriend has a 2 yo daughter. I would love to make a plan for a romantic weekend away or even a day trip somewhere but we ... (179 words)

My girlfriend and I are planning on having sex, but she says each time we talk about it all she can remember are her regrets about her first time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl are in a long distance relationship, and we have decided that we are going to have sex the next time we see each other, but whenever either of us start talking about sex her regrets come up and constantly bug her, she has regrets about how she lost her virginit... (168 words)

My boyfriend says I have to plan every minute of our time together otherwise he has the right to play World Of Warcraft all day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some outside perspective here.. My boyfriend plays world of warcraft and he is obsessed. he plays every day for hours. The only time we see each other is the weekend and when i get there he will constantly play. He told me last time i was over that i have to come up ... (165 words)

How do I tell if what I'm feeling is a crush or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. How do I tell if what I'm feeling is a crush or something more? Since about two years I've grown closer to someone who was at school with me. I really like him but I don't understand what I'm feeling. I've never felt remotely attracted to anyone before and when I first me... (176 words)

Is it normal to vomit a lot after a loved one left you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am deeply in love with someone I can never have. That special person left and I am very broken hearted. I start to do stuff, like, loose apetite and sometimes eat like I don't care at all. Everything reminds me of that person. I also vomit a lot. It's been 3 months and I ... (77 words)

Can a player really change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half. Previous to me, he had 3 'semi-serious' relationships which each lasted no more than a year. Whilst he was each girl, he text/emailed and flirted with every girl that passed his eye. Whilst with his ex before me, he even ... (243 words)

Is my fetish normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old boy and I have a fetish. I love dressing up in girls underwear and making my partner (female) dress up in mine. We then switch roles in the bedroom. My gf thinks ita hot but she is bi and wants to invite another bi girl for a MFF threesome. I li... (112 words)

I feel unloved and useless ever since we have moved in together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years, we have always argued due to my insecurites, his ex, work mates and the amount of time he spends with his family rather than with me but since we have moved in i feel that i have become more secure and have eased up ... (157 words)

Is the age difference between me and my future wife too big?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 28 years an i will marry a girl younger than me by 7 years she is 21 ,is the age difference large or it is a normal age difference? ... (33 words)

How do I get out of this situation? I am married and have fallen for my online lover, and neither man knows the truth about me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 years old marrried with 2 children. I am in a stressful job and living with my family and mother. My husband never proposed to me and we were basically led into marriage. Lately, I have been regretting my current life and wishing for something more. I went online and ... (219 words)

Did he really lie about this other woman with my best intentions in mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an awful marriage two years ago to a porn addict who told me nothing but lies. He destroyed my faith in, not only myself, but other men too. Since then I have only had two relationships, both have been short term and both have been a complete disaster. Recently I met... (744 words)

I'm alright for sex but nothing else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im close friends with this guy i met about a month an a half ago. We go clubbing together most thursdays and some saturdays. I realised i like him after a couple of weeks of knowing him. I got really drunk one saturday and was really flirty with him (this was before i actau... (469 words)

G/f ended things saying she's "tired of trying"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Recently my fiancee, girlfriend of over 3 years and best friend of god knows how long, told me it's over. Says she doesn't love me like she used to and she's 'tired of trying'. It's never been a simple relationship, when it started we were in seperate countries, she m... (544 words)

Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year-old girl. A guy liked me for a year and showed it but I was quite shy, and ever since the start of the school year (February) he's ignored me. Eyes just glued straight ahead. Avoids talking to me/looking at me in every way. So now it's August and I know I wait... (310 words)

I think he's just using me for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All I think my boyfriend of over a year is using me for sex but I can't bring myself to dump him. He never has time to come see me unless he cames pick me up and we go to his place for sex. after that he wont see me for about a week till he wants me to come over again,... (311 words)

How do I not get too caught up in love?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in my first serious relationship in a while and have had to acknowledge to myself that I am completely addicted to it. Time spent away due to holidays etc. is completely torture and I find myself sobbing at the thought of my boyfriend and I being parted for the ... (167 words)

Why does my ex contact me and say he wants to be friends but then hurts me?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf dumped me 9 months ego.i tried to convince him a lot.but failed.After that I went for no contact period.At that time I got to know he was in new relationship.But I did not break NC.Then after one month he started messaging me.I did not replyed.then he tried a various ... (422 words)

I'm still living with my ex!

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there ive recently gone through a relationship break where i find myself still in the same house as my girlfriend or ex... we have been living together for 3 years now and it got to the point where we got frustrated and irritated with eachother due to her been insecure about ... (366 words)

Am I pushing too hard for marriage??

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am just asking how I can control my neediness. I am in love with my boyfriend of 1 year. He is 31 and I am 26. We have been discussing marriage from early in our relationship but there are lots of cultural and religious issues that we need to tackle first. The most ... (339 words)

I'm too shallow to overcome her sexual past

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 9 months has slept with lots of partners and i am finding it hard getting over it. I am 20 and she is 18. She has slept with 9 people before me. Her first was when she was 14, she's slept with someone who was 21 when she was 15, and apparently thoug... (238 words)

How do you kick an mastibation habit?

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I m 19 yrs guy..i started masturbating since 15 yrs of age..at tht time it was jst a fun for me,but now it had become my habit..now i masturbate once in 2 days..i have become lean and skinny..i cant control this habit..i want to get rid of this habit..what should i do?... (52 words)

My best friend is moving on short notice. How do I deal with it?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: Partially OP's own title] My best friend is moving really soon and I just found out. I don't know what to do without her? I didn't cry when she told me but it just hit me that I won't get to see her everyday anymore. We have been friends for so long, we are really ... (78 words)

3 times I've asked him to go out but he always cancels!

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on my birthday at the resort we were staying at (he works there) well that night we kinda hit it off and we talked for hours well then he went home but we stayed up til 3 a.m. texting. The next day we hung out and had a lot of fun! But, when i see him he gets ... (144 words)

Do I leave my family and my life to go be with my cousin?

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always felt attracted to my cousin she's 18 now and I'm 20 but ever science we were little we've always hung out together and I always had to fight the urge to reach out and kiss get. But that changed when she was 16 and we where at a party when my best friend graver her ... (205 words)

My friends are prettier than me and I have no self confidence

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I never have confidence because most of my friends are prettier then me. I love all my friends but sometimes they accidentally hint to me that I'm not the prettiest out of us. So I never have confidence which makes me a little hard to communicate with people. I do communicate ... (151 words)

Feel sick day after giving BJ?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met up with one of my old guy friends who i havent seen inn aa longg whilee andd ii endedd upp giving him head.... And the next day i felt like i had to throw up... Is it normal.... Butt iff ii memberr rightt... The head of his penis hit the thing in my throught do you think ... (74 words)

What to do. I'm in a two and a half year relationship and I'm falling out of love.

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a two and a half year relation ship. I care about her so much but i'm falling out of love. I just haven't been happy the past few month. the fights over the littlest things. comments always in a nasty tone. talking about what we could do better but we both don'... (160 words)

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I got out of a 3 year on and off relationship with an abusive man 2 months ago. Since then I started to see a few guys, but didn't like any of them very much, and that was no problem for them either because they all stopped showing interest in me when they realized I didn't ... (533 words)

Addicted to masturbation and exhibitionist. Am I normal? What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm a 18 year old guy and I've been wanking about 3x daily since I was 14. It used to be just when I was bored or in my room, but lately I have been feeling horney all the time. I've tried wanking more often (in school even) but that did nothing. I've started going on... (144 words)

His 'reputation' broke us up!

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been dating this guy for 3 wks.. everything ws perfect we got along great, i was really falling for him, we had plans to go away this weeknd. problem is he hs a bad reputation is known for doing drugs and drinking and gettin nasty nd crazy!! but i have never seen this side ... (221 words)

He has played me and I am only allowing it because without him I would be homeless! What should I do?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Iam in a situation so complicated. I met someone who is a multi slave owner BDSM and has been for over 22 years. Hes has multiple partners. and is fascinated with the lifesyle. Eats lives worships. I was homeless and came here in return had to sleep with him until income came ... (249 words)

Is he gay or bi? I want to ask him out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I like my manager at work who is a male cancer, i'm a female leo. I'm in my twenties, he's in his thirties. I can't tell if he is gay or bi, but he is very flirty and touchy with me. He singles me out at work and tells everyone that he makes me nervous, and that he makes me... (343 words)

Boyfriend needs a 'break' to find himself but what about me?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years decided today that he is moving out and that he needs time and space for himself. He said that he thinks he needs a break to find himself again and he thinks it would be best if we go on a break and he moves out. Obviously, this made me very upset. I... (298 words)

Fancy my best friend's older brother, but can I tell if he likes me too?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my bestfriend that I've known since like 3rd grade has an older brother that I "fancy". He is only one year older than me and we stay up all night texting eachother and I've never thought of him this way but now that I'm older we've both changed a lot. So I've been ... (110 words)

Is sex really ALL men think about? Does it ever stop?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in high school and everyone always goes on about how guys my age only think about sex. The other day in our summer class, a couple of my guy friends and I were talking and one mentioned that he recently realized how every time he sees a female who is a teenager or older at ... (123 words)

In a fading relationship - growing feelings for a friend. Where do I stand?

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my girlfriend for a little over three years. We have our ups and downs like any relationship. Some days are very blissful, with many good memories to remember for the rest of my life. Other days, not so much, just painful scars in a rough time in our ... (346 words)

Dry-humped. Now am I pregnant?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm a teenager and me and my boyfriend are not sexually active, but we have dry humped before a few times. We were both wearing shorts at the time. I didn't think anything of it, or wasn't worried any about getting pregnant or anything like that. But, he's never had s... (210 words)

Zero experience with guys

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and going to college and generally excited to be on my own. The only thing I'm worried about is that I have practically zero experience with guys. I've only had one boyfriend and that was a year ago, but I only went out with him because I was desperate. I'm still a ... (86 words)

Got clingy and drove him off

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i need a little help, my co-worker and i used to be the best of friends we were very close and at the time i was with my boyfriend who is long distance. me and my co-worker got really close and one day at a co-workers house we had a little too much to drink and we ... (179 words)

Stick with current b/f or ....

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for the last six months with lets say a guy named k .. the first few months were great but everyhting slowly became "not so perfect'. My image of him was completely different. Anywho for the past three years i have had an on again off again kind of ... (535 words)

My boyfriend isn't interested in sex anymore!

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 29 years old been with my boyfriend for the past 2 years we have an awesome relationship until recently he’s not interested in having sex anymore. Everything else in our relationship is fine but when it comes to being intimate he’s always too tired or he just doesn’t want ... (208 words)

Best friend's boyfriend won't stop staring at me!

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend's boyfriend, whom i dated for over 8 months, won't stop staring at me, I don't know what to do?? any help or advice is appreciatd :/... (33 words)

Am I Being Selfish?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, so I just want to know if this is considered being selfish or not. I am in my early 20s, been working for a year, and living at home with the fam since i graduated college in 08. The fam includes 3 younger siblings, mom, and 2 extended fam members. Mom is out of a job ... (117 words)

Married for 13 years and needy

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 13+ years and like many our relationship started off with us having sex multiple times a day 7 days a week for about 2 years. However after a while sex has dwindled down to once a week, twice at most. She is treated like a queen and has been spoiled our ... (169 words)

The Shy Guy & The Freshie

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshman this year, and am dating this really sweet senior guy I met about a week ago. He's our band's field commander. Well, he's extremely shy and doesn't really show his affection for me at all. It kind of has me wondering if he even cares about me. We went to the lake ... (123 words)

Should we get together?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP! Ok, so this is an awkward topic for me but I have to tell someone and I'm not very good at sharing my feelings. So, I know this guy, but when I say know him, what I actually mean is he was my form tutor at school for about a year. But now he's left and I think I love him. ... (361 words)

He says he loves me, but ...

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for like a year now he says he loves me but I don't know. He can last a week maybe more without talking to me, he never seems to want to talk on the phone, and every time he's with me he always leaves like an hr earlier then he told me he's going to ... (65 words)

He dumped me and now wants to talk

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend dumped me through a txt mssg and i never contacted him or asked for us to sort things out,due to the fact i had enough of his behaviour and attitude towards the relationship,now a month later he has contacted me to have a go at me,but i have been strong and not ... (120 words)

Any suggestions as to how we rekindle our love??

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My girlfriend and I are at a point in our 3 year relationship where it is make or break. Things have been going slowly down hill for a while and the situation has come to a head. She is not sure of the extent of her feelings for me and wether she wants to continue. Sh... (240 words)

What is your opinion of this guy??

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think this guy might be obsessed with me. He told me he wanted to marry me and take me away on holidays when he first met me, and recently, i pretended that this other guy was my boyfriend, just to get this guy off my back , and the guy who i think is obsessed with me said " ... (241 words)

What can I do to try to solve this problem between my wife and my daughter??

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Caught in-between my daughter and my wife Hi. I'm seeking some kind of answer to a predicament which is driving my crazy. I'm the father of a 17 year old girl (my only child), and married on my fourth year with a lovely lady. The problem is that my wife and my daughter can'... (571 words)

Need some advice on relationships, flirting and such, please help?

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, advice on flirting/dating appreciated! I'm finally getting back on the dating scene 1 year after breaking up with my ex-bf of 9 years after he cheated on me. I've done my crying, my feeling bad about myself, and have at last found the confidence to meet new people. ... (237 words)

Implant, problems with long periods, mood swings, anyone else have this situation??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is more a question my girlfriend should ask but since she doesn't post on forums I'll ask for her. She had a contraceptive implant put into her arm about 3 months ago, and the doctors told her at the time that either her periods would become longer, shorten, or go a... (266 words)

Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody. My period went of 7/23/2010 (friday) and I had sex on that Sunday. And while me and my boyfriend were having sex my boyfriend came in me and he also did that thrusday. According to an ovulation calander I should have ovulated that friday the day after he came in ... (75 words)

Help! I am befriending my lover's wife, should I stop??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am befriending my lovers WIFE....opinions? comments? ... (7 words)

I stay overnight all the time, but he does not want me moving in, why not??

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2 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a guy exclusively for over two years. I've been staying at his house every day and night since Christmas 2009. When I say I'm going to stay at my place, he always talks me into staying with him instead. My lease will be up in a few months, and I have brought up ... (195 words)

How do I deal with these feelings of jealousy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am with my boyfriend for the last year and a half and am madly in love with him, he feels the same way. The problem is he is still friends with one of his ex girlfriends, she doesnt get in touch very often but I always feel a bit freaked outwhen she does (he doesnt c... (123 words)

Is love at first sight possible??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Do you beleve in love at first sight?... (8 words)

Need a little clarification & help with giving my girl an orgasm??

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2 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months and I still haven't made her orgasm. Fortunately it's not an indictment on me as she has never orgasmed before, although prior to the relationship I had not given a girl and orgasm so I'm not really sure how it all works. I know due ... (282 words)

Will we be able to make this work in spite of it all??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really sorry for the length of this but I have to get this off my chest. I met my boyfriend online almost 2 years ago. He lives in the USA and is in the Navy and I live in the UK, working in a bank. We really hit it off and after 3 months i flew there. It was amazing ... (450 words)

Please try to explain her text message to me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

2 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What did my girlfriend mean by this? let me explain, so I was kind of clingy before, I have done really well since we had a discussion about it, I said I would not text no where near enough as I used to!, its been 3 days (we dont live together) tonight before she goes to bed ... (210 words)