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writes:Hi, I'm wondering what you think about my question... Basically, I had great sexual chemistry with my first proper boyfriend, when I was 16. We were together 3 years, and the spark never died, but we grew apart. The spark with my next bf was even more amazing. We were together for 8 years, and I never stopped getting butterflies in my stomach when he was near me. We split up 1 year ago, sadly because I found out he was cheating on me. Since then, I've been happy being single. I've been on a few dates, but have not felt any chemistry at all with anyone I've dated or any other guy. I'm wondering if that spark is something that you only get when you're young. Or is it something you only get once or twice in your life? Have I had my share? Am I destined never to feel that spark again? Thanks. x
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 When your young it's infatuation, that giddy, twisted stomach feeling..when your with someone your really into. As you get older and get a few more relationships under your belt I do think that spark is less and less, because your looking for something specific now, your future husband. So no you haven't used up all your sparks, the next spark will be with your husband!
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