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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I pursue the religious guy or the demanding one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m 18 and i like 2 older guys one 24 other 28. One i,ve not seen in 2 years and one i see near everyweek. I know for definate guy number 2 likes me. ya see Guy number one we,ll call James(28) is a sweet and caring guy who is a strong believer in god. And Guy number 2 Dave(24) ... (270 words)

What do you do when you have to do something that you dread doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Words of comfort...what do you do when you dread doing something but have to? I sound like a baby getting worked up over this but I'm freaking out about a phone call I have to make this week. This is really not a big deal compared to some problems but I don't know how to expl... (645 words)

Our first kiss was not anything like I imagined it would be!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) age 30-35 - me and my long distance boyfriend kissed for the first time today,it is the first kiss ever for both of us. i didnt feel anything although i love him so much,actually the kiss was terrible,it is nothing like i imagined ..he was so nervous and just sucked at it. my question is... (104 words)

I didn't text her back for 6-7 hours and suddenly I feel like I crossed some kind of line by her reaction

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts/Uncles, Heres the situation. I usually text my girl every other day. We swap text message back and forth. We dont see each other much but when we do get together its on the weekends 1-2 a month. Just depends on the month and each others schedule. Well one day I d... (483 words)

British women...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why are britsh women nearly always subtle... not like foreign women who dont beat around the bush (no pun intended) and get straight to the point.... would certainly make life a lot easier!!... (33 words)

Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life? ... (13 words)

He's too young to have ED!!!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Okay so, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a couple months. Things started off a little rocky, but we came through it and we're very much in love. We've had fights, but we were able to work through them. The only issue I'm really having is sex. Like, we both los... (260 words)

I'm the cheated wife!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm the cheated Wife. My Ex found his true love at work and they both conspired to Divorce their spouses. She has a kid and I've a little boy as well. My ex was not sure in the beginning but she pressured him to get the divorce first and she would file as well once his was ... (327 words)

What does this non-serious ex keep contacting me a year and a half later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, about a year and a half ago I dated a guy I was crazy about. We only dated for four months and only saw each other maybe ten times. We broke up on good terms, but basically because I wanted something more serious than him. He started contacting me about four month... (197 words)

What's your opinion on anniversaries in a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is more out of curiosity than anything. I've been with my boyfriend a little over five months, however it's always been long distance so we haven't seen each other much. That said, what's your opinion on anniversaries in a long distance relationship? I feel like ... (106 words)

I need advice to help Tina!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh goodness, where should I start? Alright well in the summer of 2009. Mine and Meg's best-friend Tina got pregnant. Tina was in a horrible relationship, abusive emotionally and verbally. Her boyfriend has issues with drugs and his mother had issues with alcohol. Nobody ... (424 words)

Lesbian sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am a lesbian and i have a girlfriend. she seems to love giving me sex and i love taking it. but when it comes to giving it to her i dont seem to enjoy it. do you think this could mean i am no longer gay or dont find her attractive because i am in love with her. please ... (62 words)

How can I let her know that the fact that I love her is NOT a joke?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm close friends with a girl, and for quite a while now, I've been telling her that I love her. At first, it started as a joke between us, along with the many compliments I was giving her. In the end, we were both at it, telling each other that we loved them. But the problem ... (123 words)

I don't get aroused just from looking at women I need them to touch me, am I gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am just looking for some feedback to see if I'm normal or if I should be concerned. Looking at a woman doesn't get me hard, if we kiss or if she gives me a massage or something, then I get hard. Just looking at them walking down the street though, doesn't really arouse m... (188 words)

His dad owns him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend now for 3 years. He was 19 when we started dating, I was 18. He lived with his dad and after he lost his job and started working for him, his dad started to get very controlling of him. He gave him a curfew and set time limits to us hanging ... (380 words)

I don't feel loved or appreciated any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 14 years. We had a good sex life until i had a hysterectomy 3 years ago. I take no hormones and most time i dont want sex, but my husband takes no inititive. He barely even cuddles to me anymore. I have caught him masturbating in the ... (103 words)

How much do you communicate when your not together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, if you were in a long distance relationship (about 2 hours away from eachother) how much communication would you expect from the other person? Would you expect to talk everyday?Phone, texts, emails etc...or would you expect communication throughout the day? Thanks... (54 words)

Testicular trauma

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't like sex as much as I want to because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality that even affects my physical appearance to the world. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life ... (62 words)

He turned his back and went to sleep right after we had sex and I'm so upset about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well im 19 and im married, i have 1 daughter and she's 9 months. My husband is 22 and doesn't go out clubbing by himself, he's always at home with me or if i go out we go together unless i get out of work than head to the store. He's a farmworker so when i get home i have ... (439 words)

Did I fail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm back with another dating-related problem. Let me see if I can keep this short and sweet... Alright, I just got back from a camp I volunteered for. The camp was for kids who have kidney related diseases or transplants. I'm a transplant patient myself. Anyway, I was a... (300 words)

Only one way to orgasm...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why can't I orgasm with a vibrator? I've tried many times but the omnly way I can reach orgasm is by rubbing my clit with my legs together, making orgasm during sex impossible for me. Help :(... (37 words)

Why is he playing both of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so my ex and i have 3 kids together and a 6 year history. we split a year ago and ever since i dated two guys and he has dated two girls but in the mean time we have still been sleeping together... its crazy but now i know i actually want him back and our "family" but he ... (160 words)

Is my boyfriend a cheater or am I just paranoid??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've begun to be suspicious of my boyfriend of 2 years. We haven't had any problems in the past although I have been cheated on by a previous partner. Our sex life has slowed right down, we only really have sex after a couple of glasses of wine now! He doesn't text or ring me ... (130 words)

Do I let him go because I am not ready for sex or make him wait and see how genuine he is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been interested in my current boyfriend for a long while. Things have occurred so we couldn't have courted earlier, but now I am having doubts and confusion about whether things are moving too quickly between us. We have been dating for a month now, and have shared ... (281 words)

Do I break it off with my fiance and try to get back with my high school sweetheart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here is my Issue. I just got engaged to a guy I have been dating for 7 months. He is a wonderful guy. He takes care of me and puts me first in everything. The problem is every sunday I see my first love. He and i dated for 3 years off and on, and every time i see him all my ... (128 words)

It's important to me that he accepts my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I have been dating an older man than myself now for over a year. We both have the greatest time when we're together and both have committed ourselves to one another. We haven't told my parents yet, because my parents are extremely conservative and... (445 words)

What can I do to stop this burning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have used nair hair cream on ma vaginal area I did know you shouldn't put cream on that area now have used there and now when I urine or put hot or cold water der itz burns. Would that effect my vaginal area in future and what should I do now to stop burning when I u... (68 words)

What more can I do to make it up to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I am feeling very down about things and how my relationship has turned out. Things with my girlfreind are not good and I feel things can only continue this way for so long. Six months ago I broke my girlfreinds trust and revealed a very personal secret (about her sexu... (248 words)

What can I do to make new friends in a new city?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've recently moved to London.... a place hundreds of miles from family and anyone I know. I am shy and unsure how to meet new people. I'm quite scared that I'll find it difficult to make new friends when I'm down there. Can anyone on here give me some tips? Thank you x... (55 words)

How often should I mention 'our future' or should I leave it up to him to bring it up each time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is almost 32. We have been together for just over a year and discussed marriage from early on. I have acted totally crazy at times by being mistrusting and possessive but seem to be much improved on this front now. I'm also quite grumpy at times ... (175 words)

Girls... how do you know when you've cum???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, i am 15 and im in a relationship with an amazing guy, we have been together 3 months today! we have preformed sexual acts on each other but every time we do his aim is to make me cum but to be honest im a really dumb girl, don't know much about anything sexual.... (126 words)

Should I try and talk to her and sort things out or just leave her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This girl i know used to be really close to me. She was in an argument that she started with one of my other friends and i was stuck in the middle not knowing what to do. She said that i had to choose who's side to be on, her's or the other girl and i said i didn't want to ... (164 words)

I am afraid my abusive ex will try to punish me for having a new boyfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am separated from the father of my child, mainly because he was addicted to cocaine and abusive. I barely knew him when I got pregnant, he told me got me pregnant on purpose (he was 10 yrs older). Anyway we are apart and still going through court for visitation and w... (160 words)

I need tips on how to fix my trust issues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years in the first year she cheated and lied to me alot i caught her in all the lies and cheating she has done. its been almost a year now sense all that happened as far as i know she hasnt cheated on me but my mind ... (226 words)

19 months and I cant deal with it much longer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I've been with my girlfriend for 19 months now, and lately i have been going off her. she is aggresive at times and she goes crazy at the slightest thing e.g sniffing, coughing. i do love her but i think im going off her, i dont know what to do. she is the first real ... (78 words)

Are they MORE than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm not really sure why I'm doing this because nothing seems to bring me peace of mind but I don't want to lose my boyfriend. He liked this girl who has been on and off with his best friend for years and then met me and started a relationship with me. I found out that he ... (366 words)

Unbalanced lifestyle, all or nothing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, and recently we've been running into a lot of problems. To begin with, we have been spending time with each other mostly every day for the past several months. While I do love spending time with her, doing so... (617 words)

He can't stay away from girls, why can't I stay away from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been together for almost 4 years, but lately things have gone downhill. Among other things, he has been going out with his friends (which includes trashy girls) a lot. He would lie about who he is with and where he is going. During one of those "boys only" night out, I ... (386 words)

My boyfriend has just confessed to me that he's gay!!!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys. I'm in need of serious help over here. I am 18 years old, and my boyfriend of 3 years has just confessed to me that he is gay. He had come out as bi sexual a few weeks ago, and I was completely accepting and supportive. He actually said my open-ness helped him ... (161 words)

Meds killing her sex drive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and am dating a girl my same age for three months. We hit it off great and see each other many times a week and we both want a long term relationship. My issue is with her sex drive. The first month we had sex many times and it was great. Then it was almost a whole ... (146 words)

BJ by a stranger in a bar. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - PleAse help me wrap my head around this. I was at a bar. Girl keeps staring at me. I approach. We get to talkin. I can tell she wants me to kiss her, so I do. We start making out. She says, " I have to go to the bathroom, wanna follow me?". Nor sure what this means, but I say ... (212 words)

I have so many things going wrong in my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) age 51-59 - I have so many things going wrong in my life at the last 10 years, that I can hardly wake up, and trust the day. What can you do, if I can't understand why everything is going wrong in my life? How can I learn from the mistake, and do it better next time, when seemingl... (112 words)

Confused about genital warts, a couple questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been doing some reading and I can't seem to get a definitive answer. Can genital warts be completely cured or is it like herpes (you can control the symptoms but you'll always have the virus)?? If a guy once had it and always practices safe sex when it comes to interco... (105 words)

Would you kiss someone back that you weren't attracted to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i made the first move and kissed a guy that i like a lot. i think this wasn't a good idea i'm sure it seemed like i was coming on too fast. and also he is acting weird around me. he did kiss me back though and i ended the kiss... but i'm worried he only kissed back to be ... (96 words)

Boyfriend seemed to have a lot more fun before he met me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a wonderful guy almost a year that is funny, caring and a lot of fun. We live together, and he has helped me deal with the stress of losing most of my friends when starting university and get past many insecurities. I have an extremely strict mother so before ... (408 words)

Help! I think my partner is cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just recently moved in with my partner, we have been together for two and a half years and I am now pregnant. we have had our ups and downs and been through a lot even him not wanting this baby... anyway I think he is seeing someone behind my back as he said he went to the ... (143 words)

Pregnant... but it might not be my husband's!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK.. here goes.. me and my husband split up for 3 months, and during those 3 months we both slept with other people (we honestly didn't think we were getting back together).. we have 3 kids together.. a set of twins who are 2 and an 11 month old.. and i just found out about a ... (507 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I was abused only months before we met to explain my behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologize for the wordiness, I'll try my best to stick to the point. I've been dating an amazing guy for the last 11 months- the first guy I have ever dated in fact that actually respects me as a person, appreciates me and gives a damn about how I feel. Up until about 2-3 ... (605 words)

My fetus is at high risk for Down Syndrome and I don't know what to do.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im just writing because i need some 1 to talk to im 19 years old and 20 weeks pregnant with my first child yesterday i found out that my baby is at high risk of having down syndrome i dont know what to do .. dont know if i can handle a child with downs .. im just scar... (192 words)

I'm 18 and I cannot pull back my foreskin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] hi, im 18 and living in the uk. I cannot pull back my foreskin i think i know why but it all seems a bit wierd.... when i try to pull it back there is a wierd red thing attached to the head and foreskin can sombody help? i dont want to get circumsised (not... (74 words)

Does he have the wrong idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Hello everyone! I'm 21 years old and I think I've gotten myself into quite a mess. This guy and I met at our school a few months ago. We didnt get a chance to talk that much because it was the end of the semester but he added me on facebook and we star... (212 words)

Boyfriend does crack and swears he doesn't cheat on me. Is that even possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend that is a crack cocaine binger. I am very naive about what goes on when my boyfriend is in this lifestyle. I heard that every time a man smokes this drug that they are promiscuous and can not be alone. My boyfriend told me that when he went on ... (86 words)

Porn for women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] Hi there. With all these porn questions flying around... I just had to ask: where can I find the porn for women? Guys have their places for porn, and it is quite easy to come by. But as we women know, they don't really work for us. We're not impressed ... (138 words)

I'm disgusted by her nipples! How can I get past this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a new girl I really like in every way. Sex has been great. My problem? I am a boob man, and I really love nipples. In particular, I just go crazy over a girl with petite pink nipples that get really erect. Now, they don't have to be exactly one size or shade of color, ... (120 words)

Is it wrong to be jelous of an ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to be jealous of an ex? When my gf was jealous of my ex i broke off all ties with her. But now that i'm getting jealous of her ex she says i have no choice in the matter and i have to put up with it. She constantly tells me that i have to prove that i love her but ... (247 words)

My boyfriend has a son.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] I need help? Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and love him to bits im 19 and hes 3 years older then me. When i first started seeing him there were rumours about him and his ex girlfriend having a child together. I asked him upfront about this... (299 words)

Every time he has sex it causes him pain

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 7 years and i have a big problem,for the past 3 years my husband has erection problems and feel pains in his testicle and we have been trying to get pregnant for 7 years but no luck,is it bcoz he has one testicle?everytime we have sex he feels pain.... (54 words)

I love my husband but can't take his drunked shenanigans anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age - I have been married or over 20 years I love my husband very much. He also says he loves me. But anytime we go out with friends or just go out. He thinks he has to find another women to hang onto and follow around. He gets drunk and hugs on them. He says stuff like I think I ... (162 words)

B/f took money and still hasn't given it back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has taken my money. He knew I saved all of my money as he asked for a loan of it and he promised I would get it back. I'm going to london tomorrow and he hasn't got it. Weve been together 4 months and he owes me £570 should I finish it if I ever get it back?... (60 words)

How do we get out of this impossible situation???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Five years ago after my relationship with my child's father ended I met a wonderful, wonderful man who was just what I needed; he took care of my (then) very young child and I in every way imaginable. However, after 10 months together I ended the relationship because I felt I ... (540 words)

I like an older bad boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 years old and i really really like this boy, he's 17. He tells me he likes me to but i dont know weather to believe him or not, im sure he's lied to me before but he says he hasnt. All my friends say to give him a chance but im still at school and doing my gcse's and he... (92 words)

An ex with benefits

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex- boyfriend broke up about 3 months ago and right afterwards he got a new girlfriend, that only lasted 2 weeks and now he has another girlfriend and this has been about a month now, but the thing is he wants to be "friends" but everytime we go out to a party or ... (222 words)

Going through divorce wife using our son as a pawn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I need advice on my failing marriage as it relates to my son, who's 12. My wife and I are in the process of divorcing. THere is some resent on her part toward me, and she tends to not want to be around me (we live apart). I see my son at least every other weekend, and am ... (426 words)

I think I have ovarian cancer and I'm scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is probably the wrong site but I'm so scared and need advice. I'm 27 and think I have ovarian cancer. Before you say see a doctor- I made an appointment and the soonest they can see me is 3 weeks so of course I'm on the websites Reading about it and the more I ... (203 words)

How do I return the blow job favor to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend recently decided after 5 months of dating that she wanted to go a step farther and give me a blow job. I tried to lick her and she said it was more of a turn off than feeling good. What can I do to repay her physically? ... (49 words)

I can't remember my childhood!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Don't know where to start but ill start with I don't remember anything about my childhood.. and when I try to remember I get this bad feeling type of deal.. I know I had my far share of bad things my best friend got tooken away and my great grandma died but when I ask everyone ... (118 words)

I desperately need to help myself and my friend but am not sure how to start!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im called jade and it might be relevant to know im 18.. i know this is nothing to do with a relationship, but im lost, and im really really desperate for some advice! ive recently finished college and im now on the look out for work, but ive got that much stress at home its... (750 words)

I kissed another guy! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - recentally i had a campout with some friends, earlier in the day my boyfriends cusion told me that he had feelings for me, then later that night we kissed. my boyfriend found out and we had a massive argument and broke up but then he took me back but now he hasnt spoken t... (102 words)

I love her and she loves me but she's dating my friend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sooo Ive known this girl for 11 years now and ive always had a thing for her. Time went by and eventually she started dating my best friend. he treats her like crap and all i can do is watch. He recently cheated and i told her what happened. i also told her that i was in ... (127 words)

No one wants to have sex with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have to vent right now as I am SO angry and upset! I want to have sex but my partner keeps coming up with lame excuses. I am a virgin and he is much older than me and not a virgin and yet somehow its ME that has to pester him for sex. It started off because I did no... (443 words)

Addicted to masturbation and it's hurting my girlfriend. What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello fellow peers, my alias is dimario, and I am a 20 year old well to do male with a beautiful girl friend whom I have been with since I was 16. But! There is a problem, since I was a teenager ofcourse I masturbated, and that seemed quite okay at the moment. But when me and ... (520 words)

I'm in a relationship but I think I'm falling for someone else!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note: OP's Title] I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years, we've been through sooo much together and stayed together through it all, i have had my doubts before but i've never been interested in anyone else before. we both went out with friends and i met this gir... (145 words)

I want him to ask me out!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a crush on my best friends brother for some time now and he calls me honey n sweetie n his poppet wich means love or darling and I think he knows I like him but idk...my cousin tells me he is a loser and I don't beleive her and he says he's been on drugs and been ... (142 words)

Has anyone ever vomited whilst giving a blow job?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note: OPs own title] I give my boyfriend oral sex almost every day and I love doing it it turns me on a lot, but last night I got carried away with it I went wild and then out of no where I gagged and suddenly vomited all over him. I was mortified and beyond embaress... (87 words)

Am I doing the right thing?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i met a guy online. we were talking on the phone.. he used to flirt a lot.. and we used to talk about wat we want to do etc.. i want to be in a r/ship so i was second guessing his moves by then.. then i saw him comment on some girl's fb page.. and it was like you're hot, ... (184 words)

I don't want to be remembered as shy! Help!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help freshman year i've moved to a new house new school and a new location.when school began i didnt know much people so i was always with the closest friend that i met.i met a friend that was a grade higher then me and the whole school years i've been with her and her... (220 words)

My bad back and her sex drive make it hard for me to walk!

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I usually date females that are older then me, but just recently I found a girl that I have a lot in common with and she is amazing. Well the problem part is that I have a terrible back for my age and it is hard to have sex most days. I mean at the end of sex i either can't ... (199 words)

Should I helped my depressed ex?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex gf has been in contact on and off in the past few months. after we broke up, we didn't communicate for around 6 months. Anyway, recently I believe she is suffering from depression or something similar. She told me online that she feels demotivated, can't do even ba... (228 words)

Please help with my wifes sex drive!

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [MOD NOTE: Op's Original Title] I am now 4 months into marriage and I feel lost and depressed over my wife’s lack of sex drive. We have been together for 6 years and we have been battling her dwindling sex drive for the last two years. She started off by seeing a therapis... (264 words)

Do guys mention girls they like a lot?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think if a guy mentions a girl a lot, he likes her? I know in high school this is the case, but do you think that this could be true even when we're older? I am wondering because the guy I am dating right now mentions this one friend, who happens to be a girl... (112 words)

Help! I can't say no to sex!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm 19 years old. I've had a many boyfriends in the past and I lost my virginity about a year ago. Before i lost it I thought sex should be a very intimate, highly valued, and important part of my life. However now that I've been having sex, I realized I dont value it as ... (226 words)

How do I stop being jealous about her ex?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I guess I've come to a point where i need advice. My gf and i have been dating for awhile now. We fell for each other quickly and are very in love with each other. It seems like everything is perfect except i cant stop being jealous of her ex bf and i don't know who is wrong ... (501 words)

How do I ask her out?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid i want to ask you a question, i really like this woman i see every day but she is very shy like me how do i approach this woman do i buy her a bunch of flowers then ask her out and where do i take her any suggestion as i'm new to this. as i would love to go out with ... (65 words)

We like each other but he won't ask me out!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy and he has gone to school with me since kindergarten and we have been kinda best friends for a year. He knows I like him and he says he likes me too but he won't do anything about it. We know everything about eachother already and I just want him to ask ... (87 words)

How did you meet your partner?

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11 August 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I am only 13, and never has had a boyfriend. But I would like to ask everyone, how did you meet your significent other? Where were you? How old were you? Was it love at 1st sight? Any answers are greatly appreciated. Thank you. :]... (45 words)

How do I get over my abusive relationship?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend was very emotionally abusive and after seven years together I left him. It took me leaving him to realize how bad it really was. I was so low on myself I wouldn't even look in the mirror. It's been awhile since we broke up and I've moved on and married an ... (98 words)

My husband is cheating and I'm falling in love with someone else!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Please help me! I'm a married woman with 3 kids. All my married life was not as happy as i expected because my husband until now is fooling around with somebody else. I met a guy 2 years ago his kind and thoughtful to me he has a son but he is already separate... (94 words)

How do I please my boyfriend in bed?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in desperate need of help. Don't take this the wrong way. My boyfriend and I are in love and happy and hoping to start a life together. The only thing we really seem to have a problem with (or rather he has a problem with) is in bed. More specifically what I do in bed. I ... (236 words)

Did my boyfriend have sex with his kid's mom?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - a couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend had an argument about some girls on his myspace well he decided to ignore me for the rest of that night. We talked and made good the next day, but two days later his daughters mom came by just to let me know that she had spent the night ... (214 words)

Is my penis too big? WIll it ever stop growing?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Why is my penis so big? so i am only 14 years old and my penis is already 7 inches when erect i wanted to know if it has stopped growing because it can be really embarrasing sometimes i dont think i could cope with anything bigger and because im going through pubirty I get lots ... (166 words)

Does he love his wife or me?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I became involved with a man who is married. Of course he claimed unhappiness, etc. I tried to break it off several times, but nevertheless, we are still together. He always had excuses about timing and leaving but the wife found out and subsequently threw him out. Now, ... (188 words)

Is this considered incest?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [Mod Note - OP's own title] I recently visited my cousin during my vacation in LA. She's my first cousin and she's a very attractive girl. We're both also 29 years old. While we were hanging out I asked her about the night clubs in LA. She said we could do something more fun... (248 words)

Found out things about my wife's past and need to learn how to love her all over again.

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for 14 years and have 2 kids ages 6 and 8.Two years ago I stumbled upon some old correspondence from my wife's ex boyfriend. When confronted with it she made light of the issue. I did some digging and found out that she has lied to me about the number of ... (148 words)

Pregnant -- Ex is seeing someone else . . . I'm looking for another chance

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - [Mod Note - OP's own title] I was with my ex for a year and during that time he had a lot of issues that I stood by him for one of which was an alcohol addiction. He went to treatment and has been sober for over five months; shortly after he was out of treatment I was overwhel... (302 words)

Involved with married man whose wife says he's cheating both of us.

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was involved with a Married man who had been seperated from his wife for 14 months when I had meet him. We were together for 8 months up until last night.He told me he loved me and I was the first woman he had fallen in love with on his own terms, He had hid our relationship ... (369 words)

Scared of sex but wanting a child, can I become pregnant by injecting my husband's semen?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am scared of proper sex and in my house everyone want baby, So my husband fill his sperm in a dropper and put it in my vagina..........is it possible that in this way i can become pregnant?... (38 words)

How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16?... (22 words)

I'm in love with my best friend what do I do?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a bit of a dilemma,I'm in love with my best friend. Her and I have been friends for about 3 yrs now and also work together for the past approximately 6-7 months. Over those months we have gotten to be best friends. We know just about everything there is to know about ... (219 words)

Too self conscious of my body to really enjoy sex!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy :).. i been with my boyfriend for a long time, and our sex life isnt bad, i just want to make it more exciting, but im too scared becos of my body. i know my boyfriend loves my body and doesnt care, where as i do, and i dont like trying new things as i get self concious... (127 words)

Is it wrong to believe that sex outside of marriage is immoral?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still a virgin at 34 due to mostly my own religious convictions. I believe it is immoral to have sex outside of marriage. I feel like a freak due to this fact. I hope that nobody knows since only the ones closest to me know about it. Am I wrong to feel this way?I have ... (69 words)

Our sex life has slowed to nothing after the birth of our child!

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Married my wife for 5 years now, at the begining sex life was great .After our child was born sex life with my wife starting to slow down and now my child is 3year old ,my wife is not horny anymore i done all sort of way to make her keen to make love to me ,sometime it only ... (109 words)

What are the signs that you are having an orgasm?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and my boyfriends trying to get me to reach orgasm . I've got the peeing sensation , apperently i need to let go as if im going to pee , but what if i actually do ? and what are the signs of an orgasim ,can people pee while having sex ? people say its really hard for a ... (72 words)

Is my baby's father my husband or my boyfriend?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married but I had sex with my boyfriend on march 27,2010 and on april 26,2010 i found out i was 5 weeks pregnant is my baby for my boyfriend? I didnt have sex with my husband until the april 30,2010. Can you please help me.... (47 words)

I love my husband but I am tired of being alone!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm married 2 years. Been with my husband for 5 years. Problem is I'm lonely and don't know what to do. My husband has a child from a previous marriage. His child lives with my husband's mother everyday even though he pays his ex child support. My husband's mother is fine with ... (166 words)

Should we just put our fun in the past?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ah. ok how important is kissing?... me and this guy that i really like well (we have liked) each other on and off since 2008. Had a little fling before he went away to school. the week before he left he came over to my house friday he took me grocery shopping for my mom and ... (511 words)

5 years of dating and he still won't divorce

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Been dating this great guy on and off for five years. He had been separated for six months when we met and I asked him if he left his ex and son pre-maturely. He was very depressed and always seemed like he was somewhere else when we were together. I offered him the chance to ... (1720 words)

My boyfriend's mum wont give me a chance because of my age, but I am only a year and a half younger than my boyfriend!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend's mother thinks I am too young for him. I am 15 and he's 16 (turning 17 next month). She doesn't know me at all aside from my age and feels as if my relationship with him will be unsuccessful because of me. I don't really blame her; 15 year olds aren't necessarily ... (249 words)

Random queefs, never even had sex before?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This is really embarrassing but I have to ask. I'm 13 and I know queefing is normal if you've had sex before, but I'm a virgin. I've never even fingered myself before, at all. The only thing that's ever been down there are tampons. Every time I do a sit up, I queef. It's real... (143 words)

Does this guy like me?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I think this guy likes me, let call him M, so M and I went out like 2 years ago. So we were walking home one day and this kid kept bugging me about why this other kid broke up with me, so M told him to shut the f**k up about it and he was really protective and stuff. Then ... (131 words)

I'm having second thoughts about this relationship, should I move on?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I did a google search and read something on this site which was really close to my situation. I am 20 years old and I have been in a serious relationship with a 40 year old man for 8 months now.We actually have a long distance relationship and just recently we have been ha... (407 words)

My negativity and jealousy might ruin my relationship

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been with my boyfriend on and off for a little over 2 years. And in between those 2 years when we broke up for about a month he dated a girl for a week, he broke her heart to be with me. The girl is absolutely not his type cause she is just a party animal but she is ... (196 words)

Is this too much to ask from a boyfriend?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I get along excellent. We are really starting to care for each other, a lot. now, maybe I'm the one who's wrong here, but.. Every time we set a date, I always tell my friends I can't spend time with them. And I am always free to see him. We see each other ... (203 words)

Does this relationship sound right to you?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a 6 month relationship with a girl who i'm crazy about... however the way our relationship runs i don't like a single bit. See she has school in the mornings on weekdays and for some reason don't want to work in seeing me after school, and the weekends are hit and miss ... (198 words)

I slept with my ex's brother!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A month ago I was at a music festival with some of my ex boyfriend's family. He was not there but I ended up sleeping with his brother. I have been attracted to him even when I was with my ex. He even was attracted to me. Well now, my ex's brother won't talk to me. Was ... (99 words)

I know I have to face what I have done but I feel so bad for him and I feel like I have ruined his life!

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Big problem! See my other questions to get the full story! I am so miserable right now and it is all my fault! After seeing this guy I talked about 3 times, the guilt has hit me hard. I cannot live with what I have done and decided it was best to break it off with my partner. I ... (317 words)

What's a male virgin to do?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a male virgin, and I'm not attractive at all. I've been told numerous times by woman that I'm not good looking. I did'nt have the nerve to ask any girl out high school. I've asked out 50 women in college so far. 48 of them turned me down. One gave me the rejection hotlin... (314 words)

How would I know if she considers me as a friend?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who has a personality that is very different from what I am used to. If I go over and sit with her at some event or activity, the majority of the time she does not like it. If she comes over and sits with me, that is supposed to be fine, and it is fine with ... (375 words)

Do I say anything? Dump her?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a committed relationship with a woman who is a bit more "experienced" than me, although neither of us is very experienced. Early on in our relationship, when the subject of past sexual expereinces came up, she seemed honest. She had had relationships that were mainly ... (413 words)

How can I choose between these 3 girls?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I need help! I'm in love with 3 girls and I cant choose between them and they all want me! The first, is my ex she dated my for 1 year till she had to break up with me. The second, is the girl of my dreams she has this amazing smile and her breasts are Huge!!! But she has the ... (131 words)

Did I do something really bad? Should I be feeling this guilty because I felt something for another man?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was 20 yrs old when I got married and have been with this man since I was 17.Really he is the only guy I've ever been involved with physically but lately I feel sometimes i desire another man another touch although I'm in a perfect marriage and sex is great everytime.My ... (554 words)

How do you think this guy sees me?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. How do you think this guy sees me? Our friends think he fancies me and I was starting to think that too. He texts me or msn's me every day without fail. He adds a lot of xxx's at the end of texts and when he signs out of msn. He constantly teases me. He remember... (175 words)

Should I tell my girlfriend that I had cybersex with a stranger whilst she was away?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend now for four years we have a very close bond and get on really well together and want I wish to spend the rest of my life with her. We meet over the internet and since have moved in together and are now looking to set up a family unit,... (176 words)

How to do I cope with this unrequited love?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a classic hopeless romantic. And it's the classic case of unrequited love. And to make a long story short, I was rejected by a girl who I thought was the world. I've tried moving on with my life, like any sensible person. There's a girl that I am interested in rig... (166 words)

Is this a common fetish and should I be worried?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old wife and mother of 3 and my husband has just told me that he has a fetish for shemale's. We have been together for six years and married for 5 and since the begining of our relationship I have always known that my husband was attracted to men but was not ... (161 words)

How can I stop pushing my boyfriend away and make our relationship healthier?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and sometimes I feel like i'm not good enough for him. I talked to him the other day because I wasn't feeling as loved as he usually makes me feel. He said that nothing is wrong and he still feels the same about me. I feel like ... (199 words)

Can you get pregnant if you use a condom but not the pill?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey peoples ! , Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex and we're both virgins. I was wondering could i get pregnant if i dont go on the pill and we just use a condom? He said he'll pull out before he ''come's'' but i just really want to be safe! Advice is greatly ... (73 words)

Is it normal to squirt or is this actually pee?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were experimenting in the bedroom and suddenly I came everywhere and my boyfriend said that I 'squirted' it felt amazing and I hve done it a few times since then.. Bit I'm confused it kind of feels lol I'm peeing and there is a lot of fluid that comes out ... (72 words)

Do women care what a man looks like? Or do they just get turned on by the attention from men?

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11 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - This is kind of a subtle question, and I am not sure if I can even articulate it right. But do you women, especially married ladies, care at all what men look like? It seems you get turned on by mens attention. In other words, you get turned on when YOU feel hot, cause of ... (146 words)

Why are guy scared to just say they like you?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering why guys never approach me. Instead they get their friends to drop hints. For example a guy had his friends yell out to me "[His name] likes you." And another guy today had his friends yell out "Hey [His name] wants to say hello to you especially" and another guy ... (72 words)

Is there a possibility he is falling for me too?

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11 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so there is this guy that i really like... somedays he flirts, LOTS. other days he just kinda treats me like a friend (only paying a little more attention to me than he would any other girl). the other night was girls night for me and a friend, but we invited him and ... (315 words)