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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Guys, how do you like to be turned on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys, how do you like to be turned on? My boyfriend and I don't have sex very often. He gets tired and because of his job and has a lower sex drive than myself. I don't exactly want sex every day, but I'd like to know some good ways to get the ball rolling and make it grea... (66 words)

Too much on and off, he thinks I'm unfaithful, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am with guy A for two years on and off. I broke up with Guy A and went out with Guy B. we all work together. Then I broke up with Guy B and told Guy A that i still have feelings for him. We are together again and planning on spending the rest of our lives together. But Guy A ... (149 words)

Do we keep this relationship going or stop it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for almost 11 years. He is 17 years my senior. We have been married 2 years. About 7 years ago, he had a stroke. Our joint sex life stopped. Since then, he wants me to perform on him, with no regard to me. It all has to do with the stroke and I know ... (320 words)

What do his words mean??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i was talking to this guy for a while. And we both have a big difference (age) that is going to be keeping us apart for a while. While discussing this issue he told me "You seem too sweet to be led on, but I can't ever figure out how. " What does this mean? ... (56 words)

If I am pregnant I want to keep the child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i am 14 years old and i may be pregnant, i want to keep this baby and so does my boyfriend; he says he'll be by my side. But saying all this i dont even know if i am pregnant (im taking the test tommorrow.) Well the thing is my mum knows about me having sex and she did ... (141 words)

How early can you get results from a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 21 and he is 24 me and my 2 year boyfriend have had sex a lot lately and my period was suppose to come in the ending of July but its late and its august 1 and i still haven't got it...me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex and he has come into me all that time..could ... (74 words)

Husband says I let myself go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i been married for 17 years i love my husband to bits we used tohave a brilliant sex life now its non existant we make plans to spend time for just us but it never happens he is a hard worker he gives me and the children anything we want and more but the only things i want from ... (169 words)

Is there potential here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age - I recently met a guy who clearly found me attractive. It took a while for me to notice but he started growing on me too. The complicated thing about it all is that we are both is relationships with children. I have three and he has 2. The chemistry between us over the last... (255 words)

My younger boyfriend is more experienced

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i know this is going to sound stupied but im only 14 and my bf is 13 i know it wrong well he more expriance like in the kissing way he wants me to do tounges wiff him but im scared to because i dont know how and what to do could some one help me please x ... (59 words)

Is it worth reconciling with the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was in college, a guy that I was friends with suddenly started showing interest in me and finally asked me out… all in a span of one month. We had a summer break then and were in different cities. He called me up to ask me out and I said yes because I was mildly ... (644 words)

31 and never had an orgasm...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 31 year old that has never had an orgasm. After a period of time of rubbing on my clitorus I have an awesome feeling that comes over my body but I'm never able 2 cum. (excuse my language.) Is there anyone that can give me any answers to this?... (54 words)

Why does she not like me? What does it take for someone to fall for you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have fallen for a woman (co-worker) and I have no idea if it is mutual or not. I don't understand why she would not have an interest in me. A big reason I fell for her in the first place is because I felt she did have an interest in me/cared about me/genuine... (404 words)

If I'm not pregnant what else could be wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have sex every day, with no contraception. My last period was June 25, 2010, and it's now August 1, 2010. I've been having nausea, vomiting, no bladder control, acne, and i went to the doctor and they took a pee test and said wasn't pregnant. what else ... (56 words)

I was the one who broke things off, he's accepted it but now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently split with my boyfriend of 4 years, i was having doubts about the relationship and mentioned it to him but also said i needed more time to think about it. then when we spoke again he decided we should split and i didn't want to lose him, i feel like i should not have ... (123 words)

Why can't I make up my mind about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi well i have been best friends with this boy for a few years now and he asked me if he could be my boyfriend. I've said no a couple of times before then i said yes. When i said i just wanted us to be friends he said he understands. But now that im not with him i feel tha... (127 words)

Huge crush on my female teacher and she seems to be getting close back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i think i might have a crush on my female english teacher am so confused because i have never really had any feelings for girls before. she is so nice too me and treats me totally different to the other people in my class she always looks at me while the other teacher is ... (143 words)

What can I do to make the relationship with my boyfriend better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I having problems with my relationship with my boyfriend. me and my boyfriend have been togather for 4 years. Our relationship started randomly when he asked me out and i had nothing to say but yes. we lived very close by and our parents were family friends so we saw each other ... (366 words)

Is my mum trying to control me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem regarding my mum, and travelling to London. I was supposed to be going there alone, for a concert, but also to spend a few days to sight see there, and i planned on meeting some of the fans of the band i am going to see there. Some of them are people i have met ... (308 words)

Help!!! How can I get him back without pushing him further away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend because I was unhappy with the relationship. He didn't seem to want to be with me. We didn't hang out very much and when we did, it didn't seem like he was having fun. It was actually a really bad breakup and I really hurt him. Anyway, I found ... (193 words)

Guilt and regret...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I had a fling with a guy that went on for a few months, and now I'm dealing with some guilt. He's a guy from work that was super flirty with me, and really nice. I was quite attracted to him, and started to develop feelings for him pretty quickly. ... (250 words)

Girlfriend of 6 years has just left me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, my girlfriend of 6 years has left me. we have two beautiful daughters, one aged 4 and the other has her 1st birthday in around a weeks time. we have had a fairly turbulent but very enjoyable relationship, with a few break ups along the way which we always managed to sort ... (322 words)

Will I regret not acting on my bi sexual side if I choose to be with him forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. However, I'm bi-sexual and have never had the chance to experiment with women before. I want to marry this guy; I really, honestly, deeply love him and can't ... (88 words)

Should the man have to do everything when lovemaking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello to anyone reading this and anyone willing to post some help lately my girlfriend and i have wanted to have sex also she's a virgin. but theres always been a problem. either she's on her period, i dont have a condom or she's just not mentally prepared. This past friday... (175 words)

I'm afraid of love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, and as long as I have lived I have never seen a good marriage. My parents divorced when I was 4, and all of my aunts and uncles have been married more than once. Seeing this has made me terrified. I don't understand how love could be so beautifully portrayed ... (204 words)

Why doesn't my fiance kiss me like he used to any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my finance and i been together for years, we have kids together, i did notice when i first met him he wasnt a kisser but he gradually got in the kissing mood finally!! I've noticed a big change in my finance we would kiss constanly but over the yrs ive notice. we would only ... (264 words)

Do you tell your husband when you have cheated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an affair 3 years ago with a man I thought I loved. I was so messed up from it I slept with another man just to get over the man I was in love with. I have been married to my husband for over 20 years and have not slept with anyone else! It has been over three years and ... (105 words)

I am longing for my ex but she is recently married! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Man, I don't know what to do. There was a girl I had feelings for, for a long time. About 5 years. All through high school. To be honest she's the only girl I've really been interested in. It's not to say I haven't seen other girls but none of them could take my attention awa... (278 words)

Why is the man I had an affair with so moody with me? Did he ever love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I worked with a guy for over 6 years. Our families became good friends birthday parties etc. I love his family very much he has such a great wife! After working 9 hours a day 5 sometimes 6 days a week, he and I developed our own strong friendship. A year into it the feel... (853 words)

Does he feel offended/rejected because I didn't let him kiss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 15 and am in a relationship with a boy I trust completely. No, I'm not going to ask if sex is okay because it's only been a month! And I am saving myself for a more apropriate age. *My question is; have I hurt his feelings?/would this hurt your f... (362 words)

Is it possible to fancy two girls at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid..is it possible to like your gf and this other girl a lot at the same time ?? I know a guy who is in that situation and he thinks it is possible to like his gf and this other girl at the same time but i want to prove to him that it's not possible..so is it ?? thanks... (61 words)

I can't "cape" doing this!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need a little bit of help. I was about to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time the other day, and before we started she told me she had something to tell me. Apparently we can only have sex if we both have capes on, with pictures of each others face on. She went ... (107 words)

I feel my boyfriend and I are just worlds apart. Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid Hi im 15 years old I have met the perfect guy who's seventeen, who is literally prince charming but he's megga rich and im not, so its really awkward because he expects me to just drop everything and just come and see him. Also i feel really embarressed when... (162 words)

This guilt is eating away at me. How can I get rid of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 19 (I am 24 now) I knowingly had an emotional affair with a married man. He told me upfront he was married (we met online) and that he didn't love his wife. I told him I didn't care that he had a wife and that I just wanted the company. So there started a four month ... (254 words)

He enjoys anal... but I hate it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right okay so im 18 seeing a guy for 6 months who's 27. We've recently began getting serious and he said he loves me the other day which felt nice and natural so i replied. That isnt the problem.. theres certain things within our relationship that make me unhappy. For example ... (185 words)

I want him back! What can I do?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How to get my ex back? He is in new relationship and said he is very happy. but still he wants to keep friendship with me. and one day he talked to me about sex. when i denied he said he was kidding. i went for NC rule again. (i broke my 1st NC when he said he was missing ... (121 words)

Is she just concerned or is she feeling something for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A few weeks back I was visiting my very close friend for the day before she left to go abroad for a year. (we are friends in uni). At one point I was very attracted to her, but she didn't reciprocate, or I blew my chances on what may or may not have been our first date... ... (239 words)

I keep a fall back guy because I don't know what the guy I'm dating really wants from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My guy ("Connor") never asked me to be his girlfriend so I thought it was ok for me to see other people if I wanted. So I kept seeing him and four other men (though I never slept with any of them). They all knew I was a virgin and accepted it. But then, Connor took my virginity ... (197 words)

My boyfriend is a terrible kisser!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a month now, but have been interested in each other way before then. He's everything I expected and more, his family are amazing, he's amazing, everything is amazing! ... other than his kissing. Yes, he's amazing in every way... (238 words)

My wife had miscarriage, I blame myself and now can't bring myself to have sex with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is a sad story so please read it carefully and answer me.. this is Rajesh from India. I loved a girl who is very beautiful from my school times(back 8 th grade) and ultimately god made her my wife. We got married with our parent's happy because my wife is very ... (663 words)

We got drunk wound up together and now he won't talk to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: Poster 14, not 24. Hi, i'm a 14 year old boy and i'm having trouble because recently at a party, me and my best guy mate got drunk and i confessed to him that i loved him. we ended up having sex. but when we woke up the next morning, in bed, cuddling each other...... (116 words)

When I hug my new girl I close my eyes and think of my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I got dumped for what i believe is not enough of a reason, my relationship lasted 3 years. I have been single for 4 months now. I tried everything to get my ex back, we even hung out for a few times, to only prove each other how much fun we can have, it was great, we pop kiss ... (540 words)

Getting dry easily while having sex. How can I have a normal sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi am koko.got a boy friend whom i love very much. I Enjoy foreplays very much and get wet but when it comes to having sex i feel pains in the lower part of my belly and i get dry easily during sex.am not happy about this.i need to have a normal sex life.please what do i do?... (60 words)

He told me he doesn't love me and yet its important to him for us to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I think I seriously need help. Its been 3 months since we broke up and I asked for it. There's a quote from "Friends" when Monica said, "Don't do that guy thing where you go all distant and mean, just so that WE'LL break up with you." Cause that what I actually did. ... (597 words)

My bf isnt a virgin but I am...and it bothers me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so im 15 and my bf is 17.i do love him with all of my heart and normally we talk about anything, but this topic is just too embarrassing for me to bring up (though im sure hed have no problem talking about it). so hes not a virgin, and i am.and it bothers me to know i wont ... (158 words)

How do I keep my future husband from finding out I'm not a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i am a female of 25, i have done masters and was a brilliant student throughout besides this i was an innocent, loving and coward girl, simply had no idea of what goes on in outer world and how corrupt people deceive and abuse girls. Someone deceived me due to my innocence ... (174 words)

Cheated on my now fiancee...what do I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please no insults...I'm trying to do my very best, under tough circumstances. I'm engaged. And I cheated on my fiance last year. She doesn't know. It happened before we were engaged, but we had already been together for 4 years. I don't want to lose her and love her with all my ... (116 words)

How long does it take for a relationship to develop a committed one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing a this man for three years, he lives in another state. the first we pretty much talked and emailed one another. the second and third pretty much his vacations were at my home and my vacations and all of my summer were at his home. i have met his family ... (185 words)

Why won't a nice guy fall for me? I feel ugly and depressed.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and have never been in love (not one that was reciprocated anyway). I believe this could be because I am not nice to look at (bordering on downright repulsive), slightly overweight and very very shy and also sarcastic. I do have a very sensitive side but it takes some ... (294 words)

My girlfriend went out with a male companion. What attitude should I take?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My fiancee is overseas and mentioned she had been feeling a bit down because i am not there therefore she opted to go out with a male companion. i told her feeling the gap with someoneelse isn't the way...replacing me? is just not on the menu...she knows this is not the time ... (73 words)

I worry about who the father of my baby is. Please give me your thoughts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been trying to conceive for over a year and were unsuccessful, however we split up for a couple days due to stress. In the break i found comfort in another man. I only had sex with the other guy once and we usedd a condom, I am now pregnant however i ... (104 words)

Should I dump my bf of 2 years... for the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with the same guy for a long time, almost 2 years. When we first got together, the sparks were amazing, but now there gone. It's more like a friendship then a relationship. In fact, we were friends before we were together, so we have been close for more then 4 ... (129 words)

I no longer get any sex because she wants us to work on our spiritual bond! Help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am engaged and me and my fiance have had sex many times before but she doesnt want to anymore because she wants to try and get back on the right spiritual path. I know that i should respect that and i do but i just hate it. i mean im sorry but i want to have sex again so bad. ... (87 words)

What can I do to make him want me and find me sexier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - been with my boyfriend for a year, we love eachother very much, always cuddling. our sex life use to me so good, we had sex up to 4-5 times a week, sometimes 7 days a week (everyday) i know that in relationships sex will become less, but these past few weeks its only twice a ... (158 words)

Boyfriend's job is ruining our sex life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of days ago I posted this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-doesnt-know-how-much-our-sex-life.html After reading it through, reading the answers, and talking to my boyfriend, I have come to the conclusion that his job is what is getting in the way of... (453 words)

Need help and advice regarding my life...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need advice here. whats wrong with me. at work i work extremely hard, have never been ill yet am constantly berated and despised by colleagues. its got so bad ive had to change teams twice now because it was getting to me so badly. i am a nice person and am very giving ... (322 words)

Homesick...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel a bit stupid for writing this but would like some advice. Over the past few months I keep getting homesick. I live at home and am used to always having people around. Whencwork sends me away for 1/2 nights or on a course for the day I get really upset and actua... (112 words)

The ex... can't get over her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex contacted me last week looking to see me again, then called me a few times afterwards, thats tues past and ive texed her a couple of times and she hasnt replied and i havent heard from her again. She told me about 2 weeks ago never to contact her again, and i did this, ... (185 words)

High school crush lives nearby... fate???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently moved to a new place with some friends. Today, I found out that my high shcool crush lives 3 houses down. I would like to say Hi again but I don't know what approach to use. She knows I had feelings for her in high school and I still think about her 3 years after ... (135 words)

I can't move on from my abusive ex-boyfriend of 2 years...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my first ever relationship was to say the least... dramatic. I was 16 and he was 21. We started for the first 4 months well, but he was always controlling, he then moved to Canada as his mother there got a brain tumour. We were together for 2 years in which he was possessive, ... (453 words)

Is he just too shy or insecure to make his move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been acquainted with this guy for almost five years now (we have the same circle of friends but never really got to know each other) about six months ago, we were at a mutual friend's party and started talking, one thing lead to another and we ended up sleeping together ... (312 words)

Should I watch the old videos of my boyfriend and his ex together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ladies and gents, Im interested in my bf's ex, i wanna have a better idea of what she looks like and what involvement she had with my bf before i came along. I know he has made some movies with her and taken naked photos. Why do i feel the need to watch these? I suspe... (193 words)

Why can't some guys just be honest? Is it so difficult?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was seeing a guy as FWB (friend with benefits) for 2 years and it was all going well, i had my suspicions he was not single but never really pulled him up on it as i was too busy living and looking for a long term relationship of my own, anyway we fell out over something else ... (358 words)

The girl next door...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I’ve been crushing on the guy down the hall at work for a couple of weeks now. We’ve never spoken, just bumped into each other now and again - never speaking nor smiling. Recently I met a lady from his office and asked who he was. She was lovely and told me that he was a... (473 words)

Why is this married man even speaking to me??

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Married man in his 40s likes me? I'm a 15 year old girl and this married man has been chatting with me since last month. It all started with giving him pics of me in my bra and undie. Further more, I've showed myself on cam, but never nude. He always tells me how sexy... (169 words)

How can I change the way I feel about relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and in my 2nd relationship. My first partner was abusive and this affected me badly. My new partner is different however he is far from perfect. When I'm seeing someone I find that they occupy my thoughts for most of the day. I've always struggled with handling ... (155 words)

Help! Is there any chance of getting him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have deleted my profile from facebook when my ex told me that he was in new relationship and he was very happy. I told him be happy with her. He then said he wants to keep contact with me but as a friend. I dont know why did he say that. But I told him that it was not ... (323 words)

Did something happen to his phone or is he just ignoring me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this dude about a week ago. Normally I don't just rush into things. I normally stay calm and collect. But I really like this guy, and he could tell. It was him that asked me for my number. And him that started texting me. Then all of a sudden during a conversation he just ... (96 words)

I want to wait to have sex but I have urges!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - What's the average age to lose your virginity? I mean, i'm 14 and a half and have been thinking about this for a while. My two best friends are probably the biggest players in my town, and i know people lie about how many times they've had sex but trust me i'm friends with mos... (161 words)

What are some good girl-on-top positions for women with big men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My BF likes me to go on top, which I do not mind at all. My only problem, however, is the fact that he's a big boy. When I'm on top of him, my knees barely reach the bed, and on those occasions he slips out, I practically have to squat back onto him, which honestly isn't easy. ... (139 words)

Help! I need to know if I made the right decision by rejecting him

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! I think I made a mistake in not dating him! I am 15 now, but when I was 14 a guy asked me out. I liked him a lot. He was smart, funny, and very handsome :) but he was 17. So when he asked me out I said no. I was scared my parents would be mad if I dated him. Now, it's bee... (143 words)

Boyfriend says "I'm more into my friends than you"! Should I dump him?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been dating this guy for almost 1 year. We started having safe sex then unprotected , since Im putting myself at risk for std etc... I decided to play a trick on him by telling him I'm pregnant just to see how he wud react. His words were " if u get pregnant fir me, ... (179 words)

Is this dermatitis?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has bright red spots on the head of his penis but they don't hur or itch and I feel like it's raw down there is very painful. It seems like it's irratated. Idk what this could be caused from? People told us his sounds like dermatitis.. Could mine be the same?... (55 words)

G/f pregnant and her father isn't taking it well!

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1 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well im 20 and my girlfriend is 20 and we just recently found out that she is six weeks pregnant, but that's not the issue. one of the issues is that my fathers a minister and is not taking this very well. another is that we both don't have jobs and i go to college full time ... (118 words)

Sparks flying, should I drop the current boyfriend for the new guy?

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1 August 2010 (F)

He mistreats me to get back at me for hurting him in the past

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - should i give up? im going to try to make the story short i know i've asked this question in several ways but my situation changes from day to night. i have a mth old baby, my ex doesnt love me anymore he holds alot of resentment towards me bcuz he believes i didnt give him... (243 words)

I'm 34, he's 25 can we work?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, a few weeks ago, I interviewed for a volunteer position within my company and another employee entered the room to tell me about the opportunity since he just finished his year on the project. We maintained strong eye contact throughout but I didn't think anything about our ... (371 words)

The celebrity I'm dating constantly bugs me for money!

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - (OP's suggested title) I'm a model who is dating a celebrity (I'll call him Tyrone), most people call him a hasbeen or say his career is over... why? Because he hasn't been a star of a movie in nearly 17years. We met on Facebook and we clicked completely. I couldn't understa... (353 words)

We like each other but he won't ask me out!

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a guy friend whom I am interested in and who I believe is interested in me. We get along great and we flirt with each other alot of the time. I'm wondering why he hasn't asked me out on a date. Now I know one reason could be that maybe he is not interested. But could it ... (109 words)

The guy I really like wants me to date his friend! What should I do?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've randomly ended up in this love triangle kind of situation. A good friend of mine (let's call him John) tells me his best mate (call him James) wants to ask me out. But I kind of have a crush on John and am not really interested in James. Everyone in my friendsh... (206 words)

My dad molests me in my sleep. What should I do?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - It started when i was 12 (atleast i think). I am now 14 and going into highschool. I moved in with my dad and step-mom when i was 7. And we moved to another house when i was 8. It started after my grandfather killed himself after my cousin now 16, told my grandmother that he ... (492 words)

Is his female client interested in him or am I over-reacting?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out for breakfast with a guy friend of mine. He and I were having fun and conversation was great. He saw a client of his from work and excused himself to go talk to her. After a short stint of time he returned to our table and we continued talking. His female client then ... (149 words)

Need ideas on what I can do to drive him crazy?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and myself have alot of sex - we even joke and say that we are nymphos because no matter where we are we can't keep our hands off of each other. At a BBQ we went into the bathroom for a good (and loud) ten minutes much to the annoyance of everyone else!! We've ... (160 words)

She's a wonderful person...so how can I help her?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey peoples i have a friend who wants to be extremely different from everyone else, but when i met her she was extremely fun to be around even though she was sensitive to what people said about her and to her. I think shes acting so weird to block off her feelings about what ... (124 words)

Love Weirdness

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (OP's suggested title) Why would a guy say "I love you," and then say a few months later that he could "never" love you?....and deny that he ever said it in the first place...When he said it several times! ... (42 words)

Is there a 'best' time around my cycle to lose my virginity?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - first time doing sex. i'm just curious and when is the best time to have sex before or after my period?... (21 words)

Bipolar boyfriend, should I stay or should I go?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bipolar bf went manic 6 months ago. Before that, he and I were so happy. We had planned a future together. Now he's a total stranger and he's so mean! He's like the worst parts of himself. When this episode began, he said he wanted help and wanted to get better. It just ... (174 words)

After we made out, he started ignoring me! Should I just give up on this guy?

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1 August 2010 (F) - Well i have been at this company for a few years.. i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well.. he is pretty popular in the office..does get attention and i am very quiet. I have been kind of down lately at work, not looking good mor... (719 words)

Why is he being like this with me?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i hang out with a group of people, not to many but its a nice little group, 2 of them are a couple but theres me and this guys thats known each other a while. I used to invite him out. But i dont even feel like he respects me as a friend. Its just we'll go out and he;ll si... (576 words)

He's breaking my heart with his neglecting ways, why would he say he loves me??

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man on and off for the past 10 years. I really love him and the biggest problem is that he dosen't seem to make time for me. He use to call every day some times 3 times a day. Until three weeks ago I just got tired of waiting for him to ask me over. I ... (416 words)

How do I get him to overcome his commitment issues?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he holds my hand, kissing me , we make out... (191 words)

Fiance is overseas and wanted to hang out with a male, am I missing something?

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1 August 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My Fiancee is overseas, we have been together for a year and a half, she has been feeling a bit down because I am not at her side but knows she can be OK. Just today she mentioned she had gone out with someone because she needed the presence fo a male...nothing serious she ... (65 words)

I don't desire daily sex, is there something wrong with me??

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone:) I need some help; i love my hunny and everything and want to be with him, but i find myself not wanting to have sex everyday or everyother day for that matter. I enjoy like the quality time we spend together doing silly stuff but as for the sex part i am just not... (118 words)

Fighting over our kids!

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are constantly fighting over the kids. I have a 14 year old from a previous relationship and he has a daughter, 6 1/2, from a previous relationship. His daughter gets away with everything and my son gets pushed aside. What do I do?... (50 words)

He doesn't seem to understand, that I don't need to know about his ex!

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for 6 months, things have been up and down anyways yestrerday i saw him for a bit we're talking and he mentions that he took his car to get serviced at Lexus where his ex girlfriend works with whom he was with for 2 years and also lived with. He told ... (159 words)

I'm not sure I trust her and I don't need the drama

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1 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Where to begin, I've been seeing this girl since feb. of the year and she was fairly recently out of a long relationship(just over 3 years) We started out as just friends with benefits, and I slowly came to realize I wasn't the only one she was fooling around with. Which is... (493 words)

Tiny bright red spots on his penis?

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend realized he has tiny bright red spots on his penis head. They don't hurt or itch. He said it actually intensified the sex. But I'm curious if anyone would know what caused it? ... (36 words)

No matter what we try, I just can't have an orgasm

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1 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i who have been together for over a year and regularly have protected sex. but ever since we have been together, he has never given me an orgasm! i usually have to fake it because it makes him feel bad when he asks and i tell him, "no," but then i end up ... (161 words)