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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Where do we stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well there is this guy and we known eachother for some time. we went out just to chill one day. and we ending up kissing loads.... he said to me after nothing further like meaning us liking eachother and stuff im like yeahh but he says things like i miss you all the t... (117 words)

He's still very friendly with his ex wife and it upsets me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been friends for a year and start a really good relationship. My boyfriend confides me about his ex wife whom they shared almost 16 yrs. Its been 6 yrs since they got divorced, the ex wife left him without any reasons and anytime he wants him back he always go back to ... (342 words)

Why does he get so creeped out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been dating my current bf for a year and 8 months.. He's had more of a past with girls than I have (I was a virgin), he's done it with 6 girls. I ask him questions about his past experiences but he doesn't like to answer them and gets really uncomfortable. I ask him ... (185 words)

The older I get the less I want a partner and kids - is there something wrong with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old, with a good steady job and a small close network of friends. I have been single for well over a 3 years now - I have tried online dating since this and Ive meet up with a few people but just lately im just not impressed with what i am seeing/reading online - ... (245 words)

He hugs me and every other girl too, is he just a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well there is this guy who i have been seeing for the past 5 months, i am a sophmore and he is graduated. i see him everyday and he comes up to me smiles says hi ad gives me an insanly big hug, but he also hugs every other girl. does he really like me or is he just a player?... (61 words)

I wan't her back, I miss her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. In I gave here my phone number in she called me up. After that we started to talk for a long time. Like for 2 yrs stright. When I meet her she had a boyfriend but she broke up with him after a 8yr relationship with him. Then she got ... (509 words)

Why doesn't she understand we were both wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years.. We both brought children into the relationship. Things transpired and we both ended up cheating on eachother. Her's was physical, and mine was disrespectful also. She cheated on me with two of her exes and a ... (326 words)

What could have caused this fear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'm here today to ask about something. it might not be about relationships, but it is about emotions. today at work my boss was teaching the kids for a summer school thing. and he was teaching them 'stranger danger'. well as he was teaching this to the kids i just beca... (243 words)

Is this appropriate in a business situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age - i found an email on my partners phone from a female business acquaintance that he had met at a seminar the previous evening he told her that she was a nice person and they would catch up soon is this an appropriate in a business situation... (47 words)

Do I sit and hope? or accept and forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I sure need some help here guys. My boyfriend of 4 years has broken up with me. i did something a bit underhand and sneaky and i used his 16 year old daughter to get some info out of her. i onlt did it cos hes not very talkative and im extreamly insecure and in my poor head i ... (180 words)

How can I support my husband working over night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay here I go my husband got a job grave yard... and im so used to him being home with me and our son.. I try abd try to get used to him being gone five nights a week.. but some how I cant ... he thinks I assume he is cheating I don't cause I know he won't risk losing my son ... (79 words)

Am I the reason he does this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need someone to talk to. My 46 year old boyfriend is a pothead. This was hidden from me when we met and he knew I was against it. I moved in with him and soon he was smoking pot with his friend. It was of course for pain from an old ingury. Next thing we move to another ... (315 words)

How do I get him back? he is with someone else now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I was going out with this boy and then I dumped him, and he said to me thats alright I likee someone else and then I was going to say I madee I big mistakee then I found out that he was already going out with the girl he likeed; how do I geet him bacck?... (57 words)

Is this wrong doing this? and I'm worried how my parents will act

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i need help m boyfriend is comeing over from the uk tomorrow and i am worried as my perants dont know a lot about him i want them to meet him and fall in love with him as much as i do as hes comeing from the uk to the us the only one who knows him really well is my sister as ... (176 words)

How should I act? I wan't her to give me another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly three and a half years and she decided she wanted a break from the relationship. It's been going downhill with arguments started by me being a complete jerk 99.9% of the time (not being self-blaming, just being truthful). I want ... (374 words)

Open relationship? break? long distance? what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy this summer and we ended up going out for a bit. We didn't make a big deal about it (no change in relationship statuses on facebook etc.) but he lives far away. He left a few days ago and i am puzzled about what is going to happen now. He has called and texted me ... (196 words)

A twisted relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i do not know what to do so i thought i would come here for some help. I am 18 years old and in a very confused state of mind. It is really a long story but i will shorten it and please any feedback to this is great because i need some advice. I knew a guy ... (807 words)

Should I come out to her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been giving advice on this website for a while now but eventually figured I need some help myself. To start off, I am an 18-year-old bisexual guy and my sexuality is not really the problem in this case. I've been bisexual my whole life, started realizing it when I was 15... (283 words)

I want to wait for her, but I can't wait forever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend more than anything. We broke up a couple weeks ago, with her saying she needs time. I have no problem giving her time, but she doesnt know how much time she needs. I want to wait for her, but i cant wait forever. We still talk almost everyday, we've even ... (141 words)

Do I still love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't think I love my girlfriend anymore. I'm 21 and she is 20, we have been together nearly 2 years and its been good.. but lately i have been feeling like i'm missing out. She is my first serious relationship, I only just started really exploring girls when i was 16 ( bit... (249 words)

Are there any signs to tell if someone is being honest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i kicked my ex out last december cause i thought he was cheating. we started sleeping with each otha agian in january. i want him back and he is not sure bacause he afraid i will kick him out again. my question is he says im the only one he sleeping with? is there signs or how ... (64 words)

I caught my boyfriend dressing up like a girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 3 years. This all started a year ago when he started to like putting nail polish on and wear heels and nylons. I learnt he had transvestic fetishism which I accepted and moved on... Well last night he forgot to delete the ... (136 words)

He is married and I want him, not just as an affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - TO START IT OFF .I MEET HIM AT MY OLD HIGH SCHOOL... I KNEW HE WAS MARRIED.HE IS MARRIED AND I HAVE A WE AND THE FATHER OF MY CHILD BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5 YR.AND HE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 YEAR.ME AND (BILLY) MARRIED MAN HAS MADE AGREEMENT TO HAVE NO FEELING AND NO STRINGS ATTACH ... (135 words)

It took me a while to orgasm? what can I do to make it faster?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just gave me an orgasm last night! Initially i had given up that maybe its only me who can give myself an orgasm but he did it last night.It was through oral sex.We've been having sex for 6months now and he's been going down on me since then,and he fingers me too ... (116 words)

How to do a breast orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are dating for years and recently I want to play with her breasts little bit, like breast orgasm or such. However I just don't know how and I afraid she might not enjoy it. How to do breast orgasm sexually and successfully?... (46 words)

Is a relationship with a high doom factor worth pursuing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Just wanted to know your thoughts. If a relationship has a high doom factor, is it worth pursuing? Would you pursue it? I met someone recently but he lives very far, not to mention he's at a very different stage of his life to me. Is it worth going for it, if you... (70 words)

He cannot say, "I love you"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been living together for four years and he can not say I love you... (16 words)

Blood after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I haven't had sex in over five months nor have I penetrated myself during that time. I just had sex with my new boyfriend and after the second time there was some bleeding. Not just a little blood, it kinda kept coming for awhile, like my period was starting or ... (132 words)

Started without a condom -- could she be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a question....my and my girl (LDS) where going to have sex, but she wanted to take my virginity....bareback if you will. No protection for the immediate start. Well we did and then I put a condom on and we had sex. Now I am worried.....can pre-cum get a girl pregnant... (71 words)

Would you have sympathy for someone who can't have sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?... (44 words)

Still waiting for my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, my question is: after 3 years of love, we broke up for a year and a half, now we are communicating (MSN) again as friends i guess.. i'm still in love with her, how likely this kind of relations works after a broke up if we want to come back to each other again... (339 words)

How can I feel more secure in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old and do not have much experience with men and dating. I fell in love as a teenager, but the relationship did not work out. He always made me feel like I was never good enough for him. He would pull me in and push me away. After we broke up, I did not date ... (440 words)

What do I do about my long distance, stressed out bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I've been with my guy for almost three years and we are long distance right now while I'm finishing up school (just three more months!) and hes trying to find work near home. We had a lil bump in the road a few months ago where he went into his "shell" for two months ... (336 words)

Concern about my foreskin...advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a bit awkard but, here goes... I noticed that when i was getting an erection my foreskin wasnt retracting to reveal the bell end. So, over the past few days, I've been gently pulling it back until it hurts and can now pull it back to behind the head of the penis. H... (83 words)

She wants to date again, but she's a cheater! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, so i have a problem, i started dating this girl in 9th grade, and we were great together, advancing well, but then three days later we broke up. She said that it just didnt feel right, that i felt like more of a friend to her. Then a couple weeks later, she wanted to date ... (199 words)

Resolving my erection issues with my gf! Help me out here.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have been seeing this wonderful lady for about 2 months. I have a bit of erection (ED) issue and is currently getting helps from professional. The lady is very understanding. We haven't had actual sex yet. We discussed this issue tonight and she asked how does s... (171 words)

She won't swallow!! Help!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How after 5 years of great sex do I get my girlfriend to swallow? I return the faver to her in every way..oral sex, anal licking, she dose not like oral sex on her but she lets me preform it on her every so often and enjoys it most of the time. She is into a lot of things like ... (109 words)

I think I am attracted to my GF's younger sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

- hi i need help i think i am finding that i am attracted sexualy to my Gf's younger sister. is this normal. it is worrying me thanx... (38 words)

I want to leave this guy but I've invested so much into a house with him! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 10 yrs with this guy. We have been living together for 7 of those 10 yrs. We bought a house together 4 yrs ago. Somehow when the 10th yr came, I became dissatisfied with this relationship. I have been unhappy for a while but this year I have ... (218 words)

Should I approach her with my true feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old guy and I have a crush on my female friend who is 20. People who have seen us together have told me that we would make a cute couple. I was hanging out with her and a 3 other close mutual friends when her best friend said it to our faces. She replied by ... (155 words)

His gf dumped him...how do I let him know am interested in dating him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy friend of mine, we worked together until his contract was canceled. When we worked together he liked to flirt with me and stuff, but we never get into anything b/c he had a GF and we were just joking. Now, his GF dumped him, so he's trying to look new places and p... (177 words)

How do I leave my husband without hurting the kids? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - basically, i have problems with my husband, they are: 1) he is emotionally abousive to our children and sometimes slaps them. (he whines at them, impersonates them when they whine, calls them stupid etc) 2)he is very defensive with me for example if he cooks dinner and the f... (1157 words)

Why did my ex drag out our breakup and hurt me so much in the process?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Dear Cupids, Please bear in mind this is going to be a long email but I will be very grateful for constructed advice. 4 months ago my partner broke up with me, had been together almost two years but had been good friends for four years prior to that. This was a LDR a... (877 words)

Tired of my girlfriend's constant angry behavior!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 1 and a half year. We are at the same age (~20). It’s our first real relationship and it was really strong. We are comfortable with each other, since we spend a lot of time together (we live together). Before i continue, i have... (468 words)

Is it a problem to not like French kissing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal i dont really like french kissing? i mean i like snogging, and would do anything "sexwise", i just dont really like tongue kissing. is anyone else like that? does that make me strange and will stop me from having sexual partners?... (44 words)

He does not want a relationship but still wants to see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend online 3 months everything was going great and we still get on well. I realised he recentley was acting weird and asked him what was wrong, he then told me that he did not want to be in a relationship at the moment but still wants to see me. He wont talk a... (147 words)

How to practice kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I have never kissed anyone in my life and I am very nervous for my first one. Is there anything I can practice on for when it comes?... (28 words)

I let my ex back into my life but he acts like a total jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I dated for 9 months. Well towards the 9th month he starts to act odd like he doesn’t want to talk to me so he chooses to ignore me. So I stopped contact with him because I didn’t want to waste my time. Then two months fly by, he texts me and harasses me and tells ... (1049 words)

Dancing dilemma!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people!!! Ok so i asked my boyfriend to my school dance, i am excited but also nervous becuase i suck at dancing, I really dont want to embarrass myself... what should i do???? :(... (36 words)

Will she ever be able to end her abusive relationship for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She is 19, studying and her bf is 22 and is working. She's in a unhealthy relationship with him for almost 5 years. She told me she broke up but patched back with him countless times, he's very possessive, she has cried and emotionally hurt so many times in this relationship. ... (128 words)

I can't figure out what direction our friendship may be taking

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28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl who kinda blew me away the first time I saw her. I didnt really think much of it at first, but over the last months Ive come to realize I really like her. But she happens to be 2 years older than me (Im 20). Anyway, we always seem to be playful around e... (324 words)

My family and friends don't think I should have got back with him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are back together after a 3 month break, the prolem is my friends and family aren't pleased for me because its a long distance relationshop they think im stupid for it but they dont understand how i feel. Also, I have my friends and some family on facebook ... (67 words)

Am I lost in this heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About 5 years ago I fell in love with this girl. We had the most amazing conversations. We had great chemistry. We were pratically the same despite being opposite. ( She's latin, preppy, and a dancer. I'm jewish, a metal head and a artist.) And after working up so much c... (266 words)

Is it possible to not have to play games in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Is it possible to not have to play games in a relationship? I am in a long distance relationship. I have been in contact with this guy for just over a year. When we were just friends, things were great. But since we decided to be "in a relationship" about 7 months ago, things ... (431 words)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually with me, as long as it does ... (287 words)

Is "the effort" ever worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old guy. I'm a college student, I'm an aspiring writer and I'm not ashamed to say that I am a geek (comics/movies/video games.) I wouldn't have it any other way. I can talk to women and hold a decent conversation with them but they only view me as a friend. Whi... (341 words)

I feel as if he just used me... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Hi there i am so glad i found this site as i need advice regarding my stupid affair... we met 3 months ago after a row with my partner (we have two children) i was feeling unappreciated and not been shown much affection for a while, i just kinda ended up kissing this man in a ... (703 words)

How can I cheer him up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21, and my guy is in a deep depression, he's like sad all day, he's really hardworking though, but always sad, he isn't speak much, isn't his regular joker self, and is barely smiling. He's 30 by the way, and I met him online, I'm not actually from the states, I'm from... (308 words)

Is it normal to only spend 1-2 nights per week with your partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to only spend 1-2 nights per week with your partner? My partner and I have been living together for over two years, and I have always shared his time with his daughter (to a previous relationship) and his work. He spends 3 nights per fortnight with his daughter... (143 words)

I feel as if my foreskin is glued together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't know how to explain it, but my foreskin is like "glued" together so there is only a small hole. I cannot pull my foreskin back and i don't know what happened. I am 15 and i don't want to tell my parents because that would just be awkward. Help?... (51 words)

Help me get out of this relationship!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my gf, she is working as a prostitute against my will. Nothing i do or say will stop her, i think it empowers her in some way. On top of this, she is acting insecure, hyper-jealous, irrational, temperamental, and like a possessive contro... (422 words)

Afraid of being alone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i should leave the guy im dating... but i have a huge fear of being alone, i never really thought i was a great girl but all the guys i date tell me i am, yet i feel like if i leave this guy ill never find a guy to love me unconditionally again... i dont really know how ... (94 words)

Have I been had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out my ex for 7 years, we had 2 beautiful kids together and yes we did a lot of things to hurt each other that was unforgivable. We broke up 3 years ago but continued to sleep together and spend a lot of time together. we last slept together about 5 weeks ago. he tells ... (335 words)

Bad boyfriend? How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So im dating a guy... its been about 6 months now and we have been through a lot of drama, breaking up and him making mistakes and hurting me A LOT, breaking promises. And yet i cant seem to let him and the feelings i have for him go.. sadly i almost think its karma. i was ... (112 words)

How can I stop this girl from hating me and start to like me, or just make her want to talk to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm currently in 9th grade and I've been having a crush on a girl since mid-6th grade, and currently, she knows this and I think she tries to be evident that she doesn't like me. She doesn't talk to me, she tries to move to the opposite side of the corridor when I am ... (483 words)

I want to know more about my boyfriend's past hook ups!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

My boyfriend or this other guy? Three is a crowd...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my bf have been together for a while! When we're good we're good but when we're bad we're bad! We have separated many times, well this last time I dated a guy whom has been nothing but a close friend, he listened to all my problems, he was my shoulder to cry on for real! ... (104 words)

Internet girlfriend not making any sense and I don't understand what is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok well i met this girl a year ago on youtube and we would talk everyday sending messages through utube well after about 4 or 5 months of knowing this person i found another sight she was on where she would wright a diary mostly everyday or a few times a week, so then i started ... (744 words)

Two ex's and don't know what to do with them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I neeed help.. I started talking to my x once more.. And I also talk to my other x Alejandro let's say.. I like Alejandro a lot for a long time know.. The only reason we don't go back is because he is in another state. How ever my other x is wanting to go back with me and... (69 words)

Whyy is she acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll try to keep this short. I was seeing a woman from work for about 8 or 9 months. Initially she was with someone else and we were just friends. Her relationship with this other person was pretty unhealthy (sexual assault and aggression towards her kids). We were together... (326 words)

Help this relationship please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this sounds bad but i have a boyfriend who's shy. He wont say anything sexual. I told him today that im a little horny sometimes...and now im afraid im losing him. He didnt reply back ( it was over Facebook ). What should i do? What can i say to make things back to ... (57 words)

I've been hurt so badly and don't want to get hurt again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm 16 almost 17 years old. I'm breaking down more than ever right now. I've been in two past relationships that were both ended horribly. When I was 13 my first ex decided to treat me like crap and never want to do anything and then have sex with a random guy from ... (551 words)

I want to CHANGE for her - how?

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28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with a girl for about five months now and she's very special to me. We dated for one month in school, 3 months during the summer and one month while SHE'S in college. I've always had issues and I've been clingy but I've been trying to get through them. But recently t... (276 words)

How can I control my emotions with my boyfriend?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 16 and I just turned 18, we have been dating almost a year and a half and both are definitely in love. We both get emotional and fight a lot but in the end we always want to stay together...but my boyfriend doesn't feel respected and he says I take him for gran... (187 words)

Do I have commitment issues? I actually want a steady relationship!

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay look, none of my relationships work i can talk to a person for a while and then if we start dating its like things change and i don't feel the same way about him or i just loose interest in the relationship. Why does this happen? is it commitment issues or something? help! ... (60 words)

In love with my aunt..

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28 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single since. it happen one night when we drank and kissed. we both realise it might not be acceptable by somebody, but i dont feel any guilt out of it. instead, i feel that i want ... (209 words)

Why does the male get mad when you won't let him ejaculate in your mouth?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does the male get mad when u wont let him ejaculate in your mouth??... (15 words)

It seems as though he may like me...but then he ignores me!

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I like this guy, and sometimes it seems like he likes me. for instance: 1-we were supposed to go to a fair w/a group, but it rained, so (over texting) he said he might go see a movie instead, and I said that sounds like a good idea, and he organized a new group so we could... (470 words)

I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex. I really need help

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi... im 16 years old and im having a realy hard time guetting over my ex... we went out for 3 years and i honestly loved him but he left me because i wouldint have sex with him...he said'' its been three years and you wont do anything with me i dont think you realy ... (133 words)

Husband's actions lead me to believe he is cheating on me

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like my husband is cheating on me. He lies and when i question him he gets mad at me. He does not spend time with me or is interested in me. He calls me names when he dosent know where I am. He says he will be back in 2 hours but he wont be for 6 hours. He only wants ... (94 words)

Is he just shy? Should I make a move? So confused!

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I reconnect with a friend from high school online…we went out for like month (purely innocent) during my first yr of high school. So I broke up with him, I don’t remember why, but we remained friends. We lost contact and recently exchange numbers, I said that we should catch ... (383 words)

How can I make our relationship stronger?

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28 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old boy and I have been dating this girl for a month now and I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make our relationship stronger.... (33 words)

Is he using both women?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age - A guy has a live in Girlfriend that he calls his"girl" but also has a long term lover on the outside that the live in Girlfriend may or may not know about. Would you say that this guy is committed or would you say he's playing games and using both woman and basically wants ... (63 words)

How do I forgive her and trust her again?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My lesbian girlfriend of three years cheated on me with my male friend who was staying with us. I will never talk to him again, but i'm still with her. I understand why she did it and i want to forgive her and trust her again but I'm really struggling. I'm also having trouble ... (84 words)

We had a fight and he told me he has feelings for someone else...I am so confused

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost two years and i got into a fight, during this fight he told me he had feelings for someone else, but that he wasnt going to leave me for her, or cheat on me with her, so then why bother telling me? i feel like he is hiding something but when i ask him he ... (66 words)

I find myself always trying to please him, but no matter what I do he's never happy. What shld I do?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship going on two years now. we have lived with each other since within the first few months of dating. as time has gone by the relationship has gotten very rocky. I find myself always trying to please him, but no matter what I do he's never happy. he ... (175 words)

Involved with a married man who cheats with others but I won't leave him

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a married man who also sees other people. I knew this going into the relationship. I did not care, because I am obsessed. I will not leave under any circumstances, as I am that codependent. I love him, and that's that--but I get so jealous that i ... (184 words)

How can I stop worrying about my boyfriend's "big night out"?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is going on a massive lad's night out tomorrow. I'm really nervous about it and how he might meet some new girls etc. How can I stop worrying?... (30 words)

My boyfriend wants a year off from the relationship. How do I move on without him?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm getting divorced. The man I've been seeing for 3 years said he wanted to be with me, and I want to be with him, but then said we needed time and might date someone else. 2 months ago he said he wanted to be with me forever. 1 month ago he said we should not communic... (98 words)

I'm afraid I'm going to lose my kids again

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just praying someone will be able to give me some advice.. This is very complicated so please bear with me. First off I'm a 22yr old mother of 3, my two sons 6yrs and 3months live with me while my daughter who is 3yrs lives with her father. She has been living with him ... (984 words)

He treats me so bad, but I can't get over him. What's wrong with me?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (MOD NOTE: Two questions from the OP have been posted together.) 1)-Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so... (341 words)

Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex?

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28 August 2010 (M)

I want to get our own place and move forward... but my boyfriend says to be patient!

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend when I was sixteen and he was eighteen, we went to different schools. We lived only about thirty minutes away from each other and have lots of things we can relate to, we have had our differences and our issues and our faults. We currently stay together, ... (616 words)

I seriously feel I have lost a special person or maybe a best friend in life

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28 August 2010 (M)

age - I met this exceptionally beautiful girl about 3 years ago through a friend of mine. At that time we both got attracted to each other instantly. But she wasn't from US so she went back home after three days. She contacted me from there and soon after I told her that I really ... (736 words)

How do you get over being the crazy ex-girlfriend?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 10 months and I split up about a month ago. I'm ashamed to say I was the crazy ex-girlfriend. I sent him about 8 messages a week for like 5 weeks. I couldn't get over it. Some of them were really unfair. Some were saying how much I had loved him and I ... (167 words)

I made him wait too long so he broke up with me

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - am in the middle of weired situation since 3 or more month now! he loved me for 5 years,but he always wanted us to get marry but i wasnt sure and our relation were like going month then back .we left once but i asked him to come bakc hardly then he did now he is gone ! ! now ... (564 words)

If he loves me, why does he want to change me?

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28 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend of about a year has been for the past few months, i think, trying to change me. He makes me feel so guilty about wearing too short of shorts, make up, and talking to my guy friends. Yet he can talk to his lady friends all he wants. He even tries to guilt me into ... (89 words)